As a Christian (lol considering this article's title), I've always hated the use of that phrase. I do believe in God's will, but it shouldn't be used as a replacement for loving and serving a person, and definitely not as an excuse that a person "got what they deserved". God's will could be many things but it will always involve loving and caring for other human beings (and yourself)

Those words almost always precede the most ignorant/racist/ugliest comments ever ... ( it's similar to "no offense , but....." )

Alpha and beta humans do not exist. It's simply an excuse for some to engage in and justify their toxic behaviors.

This. It's a foolproof way to find out a lot about a person.

I hate this one with a burning passion. Same with 'Boys don't cry'

The red hat IS the red flag

"people don't like me because I am tacky and have no decorum"

Translation: It's toxic AF here...

I hope somebody teaches those people about burden of proof fallacy

Projection, like calling people snowflakes while you’re banning books.

Yeah the whole.... Sending prayers.... Comment on Facebook.

Animal hating is a big red flag. And cats are little gods.

No truer words were ever said....

“Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent. Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent. Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil? Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God?” - Epicurus

I'm an influencer. I left a review on Yelp once.

I find grinning widely while maintaining intense eye contact and tilting my head sideways generally makes them retract that statement.

Where did they take it?

Anyone who refers to an entire group of people as an "it".

I'm bipolar and hate this trend. Having a mental illness isn't fun, cute, quirky, or an excuse for bad behavior. You don't want to know what it's really like being bipolar.

"Hi, its me im the problem its me" common denominator

Because there's already 11.5 white history months.

“I don't wanna talk to you no more, you empty headed animal food trough wiper! I fart in your general direction! Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries!”

I just assume they're trying to summon an ancient Eldritch species of sheep-people to usher in the Apocalypse. This ends up being more interesting than what they were actually trying to say, and generally more coherent as well.

I’m a cancer, we’re supposed to be sensitive (which I am) so it really hurts my feelings when people say that!

No, you're just brutal.

This one makes me cringe and shudder

R.U.N...

This one gets so annoying to see. And it's always used by freaking bigots

Nope. And don’t much care

I can't even handle me at my worst.

Thing is, people who say this s**t never ever show us their best. Because they don’t have a best, just a worst.

How bad is your worst? Then I'll decide whether I even want your best.

“If your worst is truly and epically awful, we don’t want you at your so-called best.”

The people who say this don't have a "best."

What's especially annoying is when they misattribute the quote to Marilyn Monroe.

Why give them your worst?

I think this one depends on the context really and what the person is talking about. I have chronic illnesses that i count as my worst, which my husband can handle, because he helps me through my pain. But that is just me personally. But, like a lot of the other comments, when people use it just to be an a*****e, then yea I fully agree.

"If you can't deal with me abusing you, you don't deserve my being nice to you."

...as seen in many online dating profiles. Good disclaimer.

If you can't handle me at my worst, please avoid sudden movements and point me in the direction of the nearest bakery/vending machine. I probably have low blood sugar.

Maybe. I have been married over 30 years now and it works because we accept the best and the of each other. But neither of us uses it as excuse for bad behavior.

This is me, handling you: “Biyatch, bye!”

My husband agrees with my statement: "I'm usually low-maintenance except for those occasional high-maintenance moments." Interpretation: I'm glad he's there when I'm down, and I'll do my best to make the good times well worth my occasional problems. There's a learning curve there, too, so my learning patience and clear communication is essential. Hell, we pretty much all have our moments, but we don't have to be a******s about it.

If you make no effort not to be at your worst, do you really deserve them?

A relative comes to mind who I've seen use this phrase. But when their partners move on the problem was always the other person. Perhaps some day they will come to recognize the pattern.

Depends on context: if I say Andrew Tate is an insecure b***h that tries to hide it behind his aLPhA mAlE image is exactly what everyone is thinking. Btw, is he's still in jail? Has he spread his alphaism among his fellow inmates?

On a positive note, there was a new story about a young Autistic boy, named Brandon, who was nervous about his vacation in Texas. Until he saw all the "Let's go Brandon" signs which cheered him on. https://www.fox2detroit.com/news/8-year-old-boy-with-autism-puts-new-spin-on-lets-go-brandon-chants

Worse. I thought i was a typo the first time, but then it was repeated.

Thank you for the acknowlegment in the last line.

Well you can't plan a murder out loud.

No. This is Patrick.

"I'm a little OCD" is so annoying!

But you can almost always end the sentence with "... it would be worse."

I got my shirt off the 99 cent rack and my shoes for under $2. Envy me! /s

Dunning Kruger effect?

I'm a Cantaloupe and my ex was an Asparagus so clearly we were not compatible.

Or anyone whose worldview distills every situation into 'them and us'.

if men said all women are trash they do be acting like they're abt to start a war on twitter. i dont like it when people say something bad about the opposite gender,with "all"

Everyone has a perspective but not everyone has a truth.

Just reply, “Well, as a Klingon…”