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Generally speaking, fantasizing about taking an eye for an eye—getting revenge on someone who was being a jerk—is human nature. But often acting vengefully remains just that, a scenario in our mind. Our moral compass combined with the fear of further escalation keeps most of us in check. Most, but not all.
Revenge is a powerful emotional trigger that can actually mobilize some people into action. So we at Bored Panda decided to take a look at the ways it manifests in our everyday lives. Digging around the internet, we found many petty acts that people resort to in an attempt to restore justice. Like pouring water in front of the dishwasher to make your husband try to fix it even though the thing is perfectly fine. Continue scrolling to check out what we've gathered and fire up our older publications on the topic here and here. Enjoy!
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For those who aren’t yet familiar with the term, the Oxford Dictionary defines pettiness as “undue concern with trivial matters, especially of a small-minded or spiteful nature.”
Additionally, pettiness can be more subtle than classic revenge. A 2009 social experiment conducted at Harvard and the University of Virginia gathered groups of people to play a financial game.
In each group, one experimenter was placed specifically to cheat so that the other people playing would notice. The scientists discovered that when given the opportunity for a no-fault chance at revenge, everyone playing who was cheated took a chance at it.
Meaning everybody was angry over what happened to them, and everyone given the opportunity for revenge took it.
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Danny Greeves, a UK-based physiotherapist and behavioral change coach specializing in resolving resentment, said that revenge and pettiness are common aspects in our interpersonal relationships because they both trigger the law of obligation.
This is also known as reciprocity, which is the practice of exchanging things for mutual benefit. "Reciprocity is one of the universal principles which creates automatic, unconscious responses. It is the principle of mutual exchange," he explained, adding that in our evolutionary past, reciprocity was a vital principle because we relied on other people to assist us through fair exchange in order to do tasks and get basic human needs met.
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Speaking plainly, when someone does something for us, we feel an obligation to return the favor.
"The pull of returning the action performed towards us is so strong because it has been crucial to our evolutionary progress," Greeves said.
This part of our nature is actually the reason why we feel rude when we don't say thank you, mean when we don't offer something we could share, or guilty when we don't do something we’re supposed to.
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Madam Puddyfoot 2 years ago
And if you want to get even more petty, when they blast their horn in anger, wave to them like you think you know them and are saying hi ... THAT really ticks them off.
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Bluebrains 2 years ago
I hope the only thing he can find to cover it up is a really ugly painting. :)
However, a paper published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology showed that petty behaviors made people seem less likable, even when the actions clearly benefitted others.
"Being precise isn't always a good thing for the quality of relationships," said study co-author Tami Kim, an assistant professor of marketing at the University of Virginia’s Darden School of Business. “Sometimes, leaving a little room for error might be a good idea.”
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This applies to all sorts of relationships and has been proven numerous times under different circumstances. It even applies to people in romantic relationships — when they were asked questions about their partner's pettiness and their relationship satisfaction, researchers found a correlation between reported partner pettiness and unhappiness in a relationship.
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So I guess a part of us wants to know there's still forgiveness in the world, after all.
"The downfall of pettiness can happen across many types of relationships, even amongst people who have been together for a long time,” Kim said. “Pay attention to the ways even the simplest behavior can be interpreted.”
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Joshua David 2 years ago
I'd do it the same way. The child is being influenced by the mother and if she continually gets away with it, he will pick up the behaviors too. It's not like he pushed him over or something. Be polite = get what you want. Be a d**k, get treated as such. Good lesson, really.
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My Mate Told The Driver Of The Black Corsa Not To Park In The Company's Parking Space. He Gave My Mate Attitude And Ignorance. So My Mate Put Scaffold Up Around His Car
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My Two Older Children Were Trying To Lay Out All Of Their Pokémon Cards, But The Youngest Kept Intervening, So They Duct-Taped Him To A Chair
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Paul C. 2 years ago
I was a carpet fitter many years ago and I was at a large job working with a rather cocky bloke who always belittled everyone. He fitted some gripper into the concrete floor a few feet away from a radiator. When he left the room I tipped a small amount of water around one of the nails and on the floor. Cue twenty minutes of ripping up gripper searching for the leak. Sorry not sorry.
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TheAquarius1978 2 years ago
Good thing it wasn't me then lmao, my profile picture is a naked fat dude with tiny fairy wings, a halo, and work boots shoving Snow from his front door.
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Littlemiss 2 years ago
I have an entitled, narsacist of an aunt who always has to be a b***h. I was making drinks for everyone, asked if she wanted one, she replied no. I got myself a drink, one for other family members. As I got to sit down, she stole my drink and said oh thanks for that, I didn't know how thirsty I was until I saw your drink! After the first gulp I looked her in the eye and dryly replied, I spat in that. She gagged and choked on it.
Thanatos Charles 2 years ago
Had a friend that had exactly the same type of uncle, so at a bbq we were all at the uncle did exacty the same thing, Friend waited for him to get about half way with his stolen drink and then my friend very excitedly started tell everyone about this new urine diet he doing where everything he consumes has to have some of his own urine in it, there's been a couple of bbqs since and said uncle has not attended..
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E. Hamilton 2 years ago
I once lived in a duplex and the neighbors dog constantly would poop in our yard. They had 4 Chihuahuas that would sneek under the fence in my backyard. One day my very young son, now walking, was playing with the neighbors young children when he decided he would poop where they were playing, in his backyard... Neighbor came to me and asked me to clean it up and I asked him to clean up after his dogs.... He never did and I didn't clean up after my kid. Few months later, neighbors were fined and arrested for operating a puppy mill.
Metalhead Turtle 🇺🇦 2 years ago
Oh my gosh. Puppy mills are evil. I don't know if I'm exaggerating, but I'd say that they're animal abusers.
Load More Replies... Octavia Hansen 2 years ago
Two different acts of revenge. 1.) When I went on job interviews, women were not kind to me. I would ask for their business card (if I didn’t find them on the desk so I could take a handful) and they would always give me one. Later, at a bar, or bus, or someplace that mean or homeless men would talk to me -- I’d give them her card, and tell them to come by the office, ask for me by name and we’ll do lunch. Evidently no one ever realized what was going on. . . . . . 2.) My brother was very mean to me, more so after high school. At the State Fair of Texas is always a tent/hall/display area where companies sell fencing, hot tubs, mowers, encyclopedias, everything that used to be door-to-door sales or maddening phone calls. So I signed him up FOR EVERYTHING, checking the box for information, call any time. Nothing that cost him anything, just constant interruptions. He mentioned it to mom, who immediately knew it must be me but never said a word. I LOVE REVENGE!
Deborah Rubin 1 year ago
Octavia you are brilliant! I'll have to keep this in mind. My county fair also has such a hall. Due to health constraints my days of going to the fair are long gone, but this brought back some memories.
Load More Replies... Littlemiss 2 years ago
I have an entitled, narsacist of an aunt who always has to be a b***h. I was making drinks for everyone, asked if she wanted one, she replied no. I got myself a drink, one for other family members. As I got to sit down, she stole my drink and said oh thanks for that, I didn't know how thirsty I was until I saw your drink! After the first gulp I looked her in the eye and dryly replied, I spat in that. She gagged and choked on it.
Thanatos Charles 2 years ago
Had a friend that had exactly the same type of uncle, so at a bbq we were all at the uncle did exacty the same thing, Friend waited for him to get about half way with his stolen drink and then my friend very excitedly started tell everyone about this new urine diet he doing where everything he consumes has to have some of his own urine in it, there's been a couple of bbqs since and said uncle has not attended..
Load More Replies... E. Hamilton 2 years ago
I once lived in a duplex and the neighbors dog constantly would poop in our yard. They had 4 Chihuahuas that would sneek under the fence in my backyard. One day my very young son, now walking, was playing with the neighbors young children when he decided he would poop where they were playing, in his backyard... Neighbor came to me and asked me to clean it up and I asked him to clean up after his dogs.... He never did and I didn't clean up after my kid. Few months later, neighbors were fined and arrested for operating a puppy mill.
Metalhead Turtle 🇺🇦 2 years ago
Oh my gosh. Puppy mills are evil. I don't know if I'm exaggerating, but I'd say that they're animal abusers.
Load More Replies... Octavia Hansen 2 years ago
Two different acts of revenge. 1.) When I went on job interviews, women were not kind to me. I would ask for their business card (if I didn’t find them on the desk so I could take a handful) and they would always give me one. Later, at a bar, or bus, or someplace that mean or homeless men would talk to me -- I’d give them her card, and tell them to come by the office, ask for me by name and we’ll do lunch. Evidently no one ever realized what was going on. . . . . . 2.) My brother was very mean to me, more so after high school. At the State Fair of Texas is always a tent/hall/display area where companies sell fencing, hot tubs, mowers, encyclopedias, everything that used to be door-to-door sales or maddening phone calls. So I signed him up FOR EVERYTHING, checking the box for information, call any time. Nothing that cost him anything, just constant interruptions. He mentioned it to mom, who immediately knew it must be me but never said a word. I LOVE REVENGE!
Deborah Rubin 1 year ago
Octavia you are brilliant! I'll have to keep this in mind. My county fair also has such a hall. Due to health constraints my days of going to the fair are long gone, but this brought back some memories.
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