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Snuggling up with your beloved floofs for a well-deserved nap on the couch is one of the coziest things you can ever do. The only thing that could make the experience better would be if it were gently raining outside the window. But do you extend the same cuddly courtesy to your cats and dogs when it’s actually time for bed?
The animal-loving members of the r/AskReddit community discussed whether they’re for or against letting their pets sleep in bed with them, and it’s an eye-opener. We’ve collected some of their most informative, witty, and wholesome responses to share with you. Scroll down to read all about people’s relationships with their pets.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I remember a quote, " You have your job, your hobbies, your tv, phone, whatever... All they have is you." I'm already depriving them of 8 hours when I'm working, why would I deprive them of another 8 when I'm home.

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Bored Panda reached out to the PDSA, the UK's leading veterinary charity, for some insights about sleeping with our dogs and cats.

PDSA Vet Nurse Gemma Renwick was kind enough to shed some light on everything!

"Since ancient times dogs and their ancestors have been drawn close to humans for both warmth and companionship. Not a lot has changed today with many of us choosing to snuggle up at bedtime with our favourite pet pal," she explained to us.

"And it’s safe to say that lots of pets think it’s pretty awesome sleeping with us, too. Lots of pets grow up sleeping next to their parents or siblings, so it’s no surprise that our pets want to share a sleeping space with their human families too!"
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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why My cat has nothing against me sleeping in his bed.

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According to Renwick, there are many potential benefits from allowing your pet to share your bed. That being said, there are some hidden risks to consider, too.

"For both you and your pet, sleeping in your bed may bring mutual benefits such as reduced anxiety, increased security and reduced stress," she told Bored Panda.

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"Whether you’re for pets in bed or against them, it’s really a matter of personal preference. Some people find they feel more protected and comfortable with their dog sleeping in bed, while others may find them distracting. Plus there are plenty of other considerations such as allergies, germs and territorial behaviors, as well as considering whether there are children present. It’s whatever best suits your lifestyle and your individual pet’s needs," she said.

"If you lay down at night worrying about each sound, anxious that you may not hear an intruder, or that there could be a fire or other potential threats, being able to rely on your pet’s keen sense of smell and hearing may just help you sleep better. They will often become restless or bark if they sense, hear or smell anything unusual. A sense of feeling safe can be comforting to people who live alone, are older or more vulnerable. For those battling loneliness, grief or mental health problems, having the companionship of a pet both day and night can provide comfort and warmth for a better night’s sleep."

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I have trouble falling asleep if my cat isn't in his usual spot on my legs. He considers this part of his job and stays there until he knows I'm asleep, then goes to his cat tree to keep watch. Sometimes if I wake up in the night he'll come back over and cuddle me back to sleep.

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On the flip side, there are a few risks to consider both for the owner and their pets.

"Although sleeping with pets brings many people joy, sleeping with an animal may come with some drawbacks. Some pets, especially larger ones, are prone to sprawling out and taking up more than their fair share of bed space. The opposite of a good night's sleep, sleep disturbances when sharing a bed may vary depending on the type of pet," PDSA Vet Nurse Gemma Renwick told us.

"The feeling may not be mutual, PDSA’s Animal Wellbeing report 2024 showed that over 5 million dogs in the UK aren’t getting enough sleep. Our furry friends need a minimum of 14-16 hours sleep in a 24-hour period. If your pet prefers to take themselves to the end of the bed, or to their own bed or another room altogether, you should allow them to sleep where they are most comfortable."

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There are other important factors to consider, too. For example when it comes to kids and their pets. "We know our children can form wonderful bonds growing up with pets, but we would never advise that your pet sleeps in bed with your child, or in an adult bed that a child may sleep in. Sudden movements, strange noises can all startle a pet causing them to act out. Pets can also become very possessive over their human family members which could result in bite injuries," the PDSA representative told Bored Panda.

"Pets can carry harmful bacteria, viruses, and parasites, putting the families they live with at risk. This can also include muddy paws! For this reason, people who are more prone to infection, those who are immunocompromised, and those who have an open wound might want to avoid sleeping with pets," she said.

Meanwhile, some medications, including regular preventive parasite treatments are not safe to use if your pet sleeps on your bed. "Always check with your Vet Team that any medication is suitable for use," Renwick said.

"People with pet allergies may want to consider keeping pets out of the bedroom, even during the day, to avoid exposure to pet hair and dander during sleep."

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why My cats sleep wherever the hell they want. They spend more time on my bed than I do.

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According to the AARP, sleeping with your pets can make you feel safer and more secure. Especially if you're anxious or worried about potential threats.

Interacting with pets also reduces stress and can be good for your mental health. This benefit extends to sleeping alongside your animals, too.

"Humans who suffer from depression or PTSD do very well mentally when sleeping with their pets. The pet provides comfort, safety and stability for a better night’s sleep," holistic veterinarian Ambika Vaid told the AARP.

"Some people are in a place in their life where they really don’t have anyone else; they’re either at the end of their life or have lost a companion. Animals can become that companion, and sleeping with them reduces the feeling of loneliness that plagues people struggling with grief," she explained.
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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I don’t let my pets sleep in bed with me.

But that’s only because I currently only have fish as pets, and for some reason I don’t think they’d have a good night outside of their tank.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why For. My cat always beats me upstairs and stands in the middle of the bed staring at the door waiting for me. When I lay down he spoons me and stays that way all night. I couldn't sleep without him.

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On the other hand, animals can sometimes bring dirt, germs, and even parasites into your bed. Meanwhile, if you suffer from asthma or allergies, you might not want to cuddle up with your beloved floofs in bed, even if you'd otherwise love to.

If your pet is an anxious sleeper, they might affect the quality of your rest, too. Furthermore, if you and your partner want some romantic time alone, it can be very awkward to do anything with your pets expecting to sleep in your bed.

Remember that no matter if you sleep with your pets or if they have their own beds elsewhere, you shouldn’t feel guilty or pressured either way. You don’t love your cats and dogs any less if you don’t welcome them into your bed. Enforcing some boundaries with your pets doesn’t mean that you don’t care for them.

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With that being said, it’s also hard to argue against the absolute coziness of having your pet by your side as you enter dreamland. We all need contact to stay physically and mentally healthy, so it really does matter if you have someone next to you.
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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I’d let my dog borrow the car if he had a license.

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I'd let my dog borrow the car even without a license.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have two kittens. One could work the pedals and the other could steer.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I am against, my wife is for so we have pets in the bed. We have a large bed so it is fine and we wash the sheets every 3 days. Sexy time is weird because they get kicked off and then watch us like a live action National Geographic.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I was against it until my childhood dog was nearing the end and all I wanted was for her to cuddle with me as much as possible but she wouldn’t stay on the bed. Now I just feel like we have so little time with them and I want them as close as possible, for as long as possible.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My cat just passed away last week (18years) and he was spending his last days on my pillow (had his own right next to mine) resting his head on mine as if preparing to go. Am glad i spoiled him rotten they deserve it and have such a small lifespan 😿

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From our perspective, we know lots of people in both camps. Some can’t stand the thought of pushing their cattos or doggos out of bed. However, others feel that there’s a need to have some stricter rules at home. Both groups love their pets very much.

Proponents of stricter boundaries might argue that cats and dogs—even though they’re a respected part of the family—aren’t the same as human beings. And so, they might get their own separate sleeping corner and a food bowl instead of being welcomed in bed or right at the dinner table.

Of course, not everyone thinks this way. Others might say that it’s exactly because you view your pets as family members that you should treat them accordingly. If they want to snuggle up at night, you don’t push them away. If they want a place at the table, you let them sit on a chair next to you. Again, there are no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ answers here, only what feels natural at home, given your family dynamics.
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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why There's nothing more special to me than when my cats choose to sleep in my bed with me, especially my orange boy who sleeps on top of my butt and doesn't move no matter how much I toss and turn.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why It depends on which one of my pets it is, one of my cats is an angel sent from above - she is so quiet and sleeps at my feet.. my other one likes to crawl up and meow loudly at any given moment in the night - he is so needy and proceeds to lay down as close to my face as he can and make biscuits with my skin.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I don't let my dog sleep in my bed: my dog lets me sleep in his bed.

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my dog has his own pillow.
like, no s**t. he gets upset if i don’t get it just right for him.

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We’d love to hear your thoughts on the topic, dear Pandas! Do you let your pets sleep with you in bed or not? Why (not)? How does sleeping with all of your cats and dogs impact the quality of your sleep? Do you feel that you’re better or worse rested?

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Share your opinions and experiences in the comments. Oh, and tell your pets we said ‘hi!’
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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why Generally, for.

But when you have a 90lb pit bull that gives you a Dutch oven with gas so noxious that she herself gags on and runs from the room, there are times that it's better if she stays on the couch.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why For because they are part of the family.

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I want them in bed with me. Most of time they do but I still get offended on rare occasions they sleep elsewhere.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was offended when I finally purchased a king sized bed and still had no more room than I had on the couch because I had 2 Shih Tzus who would each snuggle close to me, but one rested her head on my right side near my arms and the other would lie on my left with my thigh as his pillow. If you have dogs in bed, it just doesn't matter how big the bed is

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I don't think you have a choice if you have cats.

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Well there's an animal in my bed as we speak, getting her black fur all over the place. She's a larger rabbit.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why “Glances down at the 60 pound husky whose spine is pressed against my legs while I scratch his ears”.

Against it? Nah. I have an extra blanket on the bed that gets washed more often, and he saint allowed in my sheets but, I legitimately get worried if my 6 year old dog isn’t in the bed part of the night with me. I need to feel his breathing and heartbeat so I know he’s ok. Also so if he has nightmares I can kiss him awake so he knows he’s safe.

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#19

I do say no, but

The dog tells me I am wrong

And dog gets in bed.

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Absolutely for it. It's the most love that I feel on the average day.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why My tiny cat? Sure.

My brother's 120 pound German Shepherd? No.

I love Copper, (the German Shepherd) but he is huge and produces a LOT of smelly dog oil that gets into anything he lays in too long. He has designated dog beds for that reason.

Cats are small, and don't have the same oily coat many dogs do.

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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately it’s like this with my cat. She’s old so her saliva doesn’t dry off anymore (no underlying issues). Even if we wash her, she ends up licking herself and it stays wet on her fur. Also she drools a lot when asleep. She ends up leaving behind wet patches of saliva and dirt wherever she sleeps. My mom has a no pets on furniture rule but I do sometimes let my cat sneak into my bed. It’s just that it’s a lot of work when she leaves behind dirty patches (they don’t even wash off sometimes), especially near where my head would be (cause that’s where she likes to snuggle). Therefore, I try to limit her sneaking on to my bed. She has plenty of places to sleep around the house that aren’t beds or couches. Also she farts a lot! A LOT!

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Talk to your vet about a good shampoo. When my girls fur gets gross, she just needs a bath and her fur is back to being soft and fluffy. She doesn’t like it much and I’m amazed the neighbours don’t think I’m torturing her, but it makes her feel better after she dries

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4 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My german Shepard had a futon next to our bed. If husband got up in the night, he lost his spot.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cats all sleep on the bed. But, my husky mix is just too big. I do call her up for cuddles though and she has her own couch.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww, I let my niece shepherd sleep with me when I babysit, because my cat likes to sleep directly under me under the bed. I just wash the bedding after she goes home.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why Depends on the animal. My cat is welcome to sleep where he chooses but I wouldn’t share with a horse.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, maybe if he's unwell. He's only a little hoarse....

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why We just upgraded from a queen to a king so we could all be comfy.

She's 35 lbs. But she can sprawl out to the size of a damn great Dane.

If she isn't touching some part of me or my husband she isn't sleeping. Usually it's 3-4 spins and a plop right behind the crook of my legs with her head on my ankle.

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I was 100% aginst it. We always had Family dogs and the thought of them sleeping in my bad was repellent. Then as an adult I got my own dog and suddenly nothing regarding him is disgusting. He sleeps in his own bed, but in the morning he wakes me up and he sleeps in bed until we get up. I love it.

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I have 3 cats on my bed right now so I guess I'm definitely for.

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*Currently two cats grooming each other in the crook between my belly and thigh* I'd probably be cool with it.

I love having my animals share my bed. I worry cuz I'm a fairly wild sleeper, but they fight back. The amount of times I've woken up cold, dangling off my bed, and crunched up is quite high. I have a king sized bed.

But they make me feel secure, and its still bonding.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why For. My feet are never cold at night and I don't have to do the awful thing of wearing socks to bed. My pets are my foot warmers.

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Premium 1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Google "three dog night". The meaning, not the rock group... Also the rock group.

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I’m for it, extra warmth and a furry cuddle buddy are worth it.

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Every night since he was a baby. He (pug) climbs under the blankets and curls up against me every night.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tried, I put a doggy bed with a comfy blanket with my 1st pug pup next to my bed. She cried until I picked her up to snuggle and spoon with me. 3 pugs later, we all go to bed together. It would appear this queen size bed is not big enough for all of us!! Finally, my Mastiff had enough and sleeps under the bed, all you can see are the back legs sticking out next to the night stand.. I have photo proof!! Funn6 stuff!

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For, but I’ll kick them out if they stinky.

Honestly, it depends where and how they fart and if you think the farts are stinky or endearing in a gross way.

Animals not sleeping in bed isn’t dependent upon a specific rule so much as it is based on an innate understanding of boundaries and who or who does not appreciate a heated sulfuric eggy stink at 1:33 AM 283/365 days of the year.

If you can laugh at all that, you are also For.

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For… because my cat is over 20lbs and his meow is loud. It’s not worth the battle and he just gets cozy and sleeps. It’s a king bed.

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My pets sleep with me if they want. We are bonded. I would die for them.

My previous cat Hiro, an obnoxious male siamese, slept on the back of my neck. When he passed I struggled to sleep for a long time. At one point I found a hot water bottle with a furry covering and that helped a bit.

Max, my current kitty, wasn't interested in sleeping in my bed for the longest time. She'd climb up into the closet and watch me sleep night after night.

Eventually she started sleeping on top of my headboard. When it's cold, she climbs down into bed with me but almost always likes to keep her distance, usually sleeping on a pillow beside me.

However, if I fall asleep on the couch I will wake up 100% of the time to Max going cuddle crazy, lying on my chest.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish my cat would sleep with me more. I usually have to kick her out of the bed for attacking my feet and her claws draw blood! Purrs are the best sound in the world.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I'm for it; if anything I have trouble sleeping if I'm away from home or my dog's in boarding and I don't have her with me. She sleeps under the covers, too, which is nice in winter because she has short fur and gives off a lot of heat.

It's also a good way, when the dog is young, to know where your animal is and that they're not getting into something in the middle of the night.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I type in my bed with dogs at my side, yes. It helps them feel happy and loved let's me spend extra time with them on days I spend alot of time away from home.

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For. I want cuddles.

Unfortunately my dog is against.

Fortunately my new kitten is for.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

40+ year dog person, but am 70% disabled and could no longer dog. The cat distribution system kicked in and a tiny feral fuzzball adopted me. It was early evening, I had no cat food, no litter box, no kitty bowls. I did have tuna! Cut down a plastic cold cuts container, put in a few forkfulls of tuna. He sat and ate until it was gone. Then repeated the process for almost the entire can! Same dish for water. Emergency litter box, cut the top off old laptop box, lined with garbage bag, filled with sand. Bed time. Took a clean spare blanket, waste of time. At bed time the little mite hopped in the sack, curled up on my chest, and proceeded to purr like mad! Trip to pet store next day, laid in all necessary supplies, made a vet appt. Vet tells me he's in fair shape. Stays in the bed when I'm there, not on chest anymore. Lays at the top of my head now. Follows me around like a puppy. Now about 6 months. Healthy. Very happy to have bed kitty.

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I honestly get offended when my none of my pets want to sleep in bed with me or fall asleep elsewhere before I’m ready for bed.

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Strongly against it, my dogs laying beside me right now would agree also.

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For. I can’t go to sleep unless at least one cat is next to me.

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For.I have always let my cats sleep on and in bed with me. I sleep much better with them.

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I knew when I signed up for pets I was going to have fur as a result so for.

My pets didn’t pick me as their person I scooped them up. They had no choice in their world and can’t go anywhere else so I always strive to make sure they have what they love so long as it isn’t a risk to their health or mine. So no countertops but enjoy that bed.

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I lost the battle early on with my animals. I always wash my sheets once a week so it's not so bad.

I always feel smooshed and over heated. My old sweet dog slept between my knees and it was initially uncomfortable. When she died, I couldn't sleep properly because I missed her so badly and I was used to having her take up all my space in bed. My dog now has to be nudged up right against my hip and he's like a fricken oven. He's a leaner , so I also feel like he's shoving me over and half his body lays on mine. It gets awfully uncomfortable in the summer when it's too hot but I've learned that I will someday wish he was there to get on my nerves when I'm trying to sleep so I haven't made the attempt to change it.

All that to say I'm technically FOR it, but I started out a naysayer and lost.

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Both for and against. Cats will walk through their litter box after using it then climb directly on your pillow. Dogs shed and drool like there is no tomorrow. But goddamn it the cuddles are so good.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, carrying the litter box stink onto your bed, or sometimes even treading the contents in, is the very worst case scenario. Except maybe if they spit up a hairball or vom on the bed....

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why Im against anything sleeping in the same bed. I literally cannot fall asleep cause I move around way too much and would be hyper-aware of them the entire time and not be able to fully sleep. Plus with an animal, i'd be so afraid of accidentally hurting them as well. 100% ok with them being in the bed if I'm not trying to sleep though. Snuggles are the best.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't know how tough animals are then. I stepped on, kicked in the head, dropped stuff on, put my feet on while in bed, etc. our dogs and cats. If they would deem Your moving around annoying or uncomfortable enough, they just go away. Otherwise they are therapeutic:)

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Ostensibly I'm for it, but at the present it's rarely allowed. The little buggers know how to open our sliding closet door and I've already had a shoe box get chewed up. Since there's not enough shelf space to move everything off the floor of the closet, the kitties must be banned. Maybe someday we'll get around to building some shelving in the basement that we can transfer that stuff onto.

Because honestly, the few times we left the door open for them to come in at night before the shoe box incident, I kind of loved falling asleep with a purring ball of fur pressed against my head.

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My house is as much theirs as it is mine. They can lay and sleep wherever.

I have three big dogs (50-60lbs each). They are allowed on furniture and in the bed. However, I do cover the couch and bed and have special waterproof fabrics that I keep on. I clean them regularly. And I remove them when other people are over so they sit on the clean and untarnished furniture and my dogs aren't allowed on the furniture when other people are over because it would be rude and uncomfortable to let them in everyone's faces....

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I’m against it but we upgraded to a king size bed because our 20 lb dog will only sleep on the people bed and sprawls out. He has 3 dog beds around the house that he will nap in during the day, but only the people bed during the night.

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Cats: for, because there's no real way to prevent it. Dogs: against, because establishing boundaries is a huge part of dog training. I've found over the years that my dogs are better behaved in general if I maintain the separation between their sleeping spaces and mine.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why One time my dog rolled in human s**t.

That's a hard no for dogs in the bed for me.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Happened to us also, a few times over the years. Shampooed bath instantly. Then they're fluffy and smell good. No problem getting on the bed after.

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I’m all for it. My 55lb dog and I share a bed and I love all of the snuggles. We have a king size bed and fit into the foot print of a twin bed.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I wouldn't say I'm "against" it, but our cats have their own bedroom. We put them in there at night and close the door. They have beds, a tower, some toys, other nice places to lay, scratching posts, food, water, and a litter box in there. They're happy and safe until morning, and we get uninterrupted sleep. It works well for everybody.

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For cat, against dog. I have a chill as f**k cat that sleeps well by me. My dogs on the other hand are both 60lbs+ and would take up far too much space. Not to mention my bigger dog of the 2 sheds more than any other dog I've ever met(Yes this includes yours comment readers. Hes half GSD and half Chow. I've had more than one groomer tell me they've never seen so much loose fur come off a dog for so long) and therefore I want my bedroom, and bed to have as little fur as possible in it.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why Against. I LOVE dogs but they are happy being dogs, getting dirty, rolling around, romping and playing, and then they’re happy on their bed on the floor. And, not on any furniture either.

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If your doggo has an itchy b hole, they may have intestinal worms/tapeworms/pinworms. In that case, if they sleep in your bed & some of
them creep out it can infest you too. (Be careful if YOUR hole itches, you may need to go to the Dr).

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I love my cat but I don’t let her sleep on the bed with me or anywhere in the bedroom. She’s shut out at night because otherwise she’ll wake me up by stomping on my head at 5am. Also, I just get grossed out when I see little bits of cat litter all over the pillow where it’s come off her feet. I don’t really want where cat litter where my head goes.

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The second time you roll over into cat vomit on your pillow, you'll be firmly in the "against" column. Ask me how I know.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why Don't get me wrong I love my dog and I give him hugs and cuddles daily... But he doesn't bathe everyday, nor cleans his a*s unless I do it for him.

A dog is gonna dog, and everytime we walk him ( my family walks it 5 times a day) he goes for the muddiest patch it can find lol.

I may be more sensible, but how can you stand getting your bed dirty ASAP? Or the idea of my dog innocently brushing his a*****e against my pillow? (Where I rest my face for 8 hours a day).

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Your dog is just giving you Hershey's kisses. The brown streaks are a blessing. 😏

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why So I'm generally anti, because they do not respect personal space they they're heavy. The bed is GIANT. Why do you need to sleep on my actual rib cage??

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AGAINST. I just find it terribly disgusting to wake up w/dog hair in my mouth from our Jack Russell. We love her very much, but after trying to put up w/her in the bed for roughly 6 months, I just had to finally put a stop to it. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I even felt kind of guilty, cuz she's incredibly needy at times, but 🤢 it just grosses me out too much.

The compromise was buying her a little miniature loveseat! It's adorable, came w/throw pillows, has easily washable covers & it's right at the end of our bed, so she can still be close to us. My bf would 💯 still allow her in the bed, but neither of us are interested in having to change our sheets every single day anymore, so he agrees that this is the sane option! LoL.

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I don't want my dog on my sleep pillow (the one I actually put my head on) but he loves sleeping on it because its soft. I gave him his own pillow. Even though his is next to mine, he no longer uses my pillow. His pillow has also become his safe place

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why I’ll start off by saying I’m against it. It is the exact equivalent as standing on your bed sheets with your shoes on that you just walked outside all day in.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why Against because it's f*****g gross. I don't want to have to change my sheets every single day and I'm not rolling around in animal hair/dander/slobber/various cooties for seven hours. Hard pass.

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I used to sleep with my dog and then dogs. Then I kicked them out when my daughter was born and didn’t want them waking her up when she was in our room. Can’t go back. They have their own bed now in a separate room. Sleep is too important.

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Against. I can not hurt them, and they can not hurt me while sleeping. They are crate trained, and in an emergency, I know exactly where they are and would not need to search for them. Better sleep for them and me.

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Bed, no. Furniture, yes. That’s how I was raised.

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Against. I already have to tolerate my husband in the bed and he stains the sheets and pillow cases AND mattress protector yellow with his greasy husband grease.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Greasy husband grease." OP might be better off with a sweet kitty or two instead.

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30 Internet Users Share Whether They Let Their Pets Sleep In Their Beds And Why Nope. My bed is my clean safe haven. Neither me nor my husband get in at night without first taking a shower. No way I’d let our doggie sleep with us-he has his own comfy bed and we’re all happy.

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Against. They have their beds, and my room is strictly off limits for all cats and dogs. I have white sheets and comforters and they are staying that way.

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I can't sleep with any pets in my room, let alone in my bed. For other people, I don't really care what they do, but it doesn't work for me.

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It’s a once in a while thing. They can sometimes lay at the foot of the bed on their own blanket. But they do NOT sleep with us. We used to let them and our room would always smell bad. 🤮 so glad we stopped.

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Unless you bathe your dog everyday, it's very unhygienic and not good for your sleep (depending on the dog). Also can lead to behavior issues. I used to allow my dogs to but as I have gotten older I have changed my mind.

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Neither. Good habits are learned. If you want your pet to be able to sleep in the bed, then do not tolerate poor behaviour. A few years ago, we had two cats. My wife favoured one and I favoured the other. Whenever my cat did something disruptive, I kicked her out. My wife's cat fought her feet at night and was allowed to stay. I slept and she didn't. Teach your pets, and barring any allergies, you'll be fine. Don't teach your pets, and you'll be left with chaos.

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If the animal doesn't have a noticable odor, I'm fine with it. People who sleep with dogs stink. Minus maybe a chihuahua. They smell like little Fritos. 😂 Everyone who sleeps with a dog says they're clean and don't smell, but you can smell it. Same way smokers say their clothes don't smell like cigarettes. Yes, they do.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd rather smell like a dog than any perfume other people wear. 😒

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Against. They wake you up by running all over the bed or licking their parts, and they take all the room. They are allowed on the bed for the evening cuddles, but they know that once we turn the light off they have to get off.

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I moved to a large city from a farm and apparently people here have no concept of an “outside dog” so I’ve been finding out this week that apparently most people let their dogs inside, which to be fair in a city makes sense and I don’t think you should have an outside dog in a city. So not on the bed because he’s outside, watching the chickens.

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Against. I don’t want to hear my dog licking her butt in my face at 3am. I don’t want to fight my dog for the blankets. Sleep is more important than a dog on the bed. So No pets on the bed.

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100% opposed. We have a dog and she's allowed on the floor and her bed. Despite what people seem to think, dogs are not clean animals. It blows my mind that people allow dogs on the same fabric or linen they sleep or sit on. Disgusting.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The number of humans who can't even wipe themselves properly is horrendous. In those households the pets are probably safer not being in that human stank.

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Against. I like cats and certain dogs but I find it to be disgusting that people let them sleep on the bed or be on furniture. Especially the people who let their cats be walking around the kitchen countertops and table. It’s gross. The people who treat them like children and say “it’s their house you’re a guest” are the ones I stay away from.

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I'm against pets inside the house in general. Nothing against people who like it but it's just something I can't personslly deal with.

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Against. No matter what. An animal is an animal. Can't risk it.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Last I checked humans are animals, too. Some of them barely make that threshold.

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Against, they are not sanitary. This is where you sleep and place your head. Your face. Dogs lick their a*s and soil your bed. Cats s**t in a box then track all over your house.

Cats don't belong inside, and dogs belong on the ground.

People will down vote until their pet is the reason they have parasites. You'll love that tape worm in your body.

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