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“What’s Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers)

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When someone or something gives off good vibes, you can immediately tell: a field full of vibrant sunflowers, a home cooked meal with your closest friends, an album that makes you want to move and groove. On the other hand, when a person is radiating bad vibes, it can be easy to tell as well.

Below, you’ll find some of the subtle traits that are immediate signs of bad vibes that Reddit users have recently been sharing online. Take note of any of these behaviors to look out for, and be sure to upvote the ones that make you wary of certain people too.

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#1

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) How they treat/view animals.

Character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you!

360_Bagel_360 , Benjamin Wedemeyer Report

Final score:

359points

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#2

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they try to push God on me and say that things happen because it's the plan from God and I am being strong for God and they will pray for me.

Just.... no. Don't f*****g do that s**t to me. Keep your religion to yourself.

SAMixedUp311 , Fa Barboza Report

Final score:

321points

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#3

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) How they treat someone in a service position, wait staff, etc.

greenbear1 , Dan Burton Report

Final score:

300points

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#4

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) If you're blasting music in public, I instantly hate you

Godhelpmeplease12 , Budgeron Bach Report

Final score:

264points

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#5

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they don’t like cats. And I don’t mean like “oh I’m just a dog person” I mean like “a cat is just a moving speed bump” kind of person. It gives me “I don’t like relationships I can’t control” and “I don’t respect living things that exist beyond my control” vibes.

Bottletop85 , Tony Wang Report

Final score:

261points

InsertAnyNameHere (They/Them) 1 year ago

I'm a dog person, but I love cats so much. But my love of dogs is immesurable. But I love cats so much that nobody here can comprehend how much. It's just that dogs are... well dogs are just YES YES YES YES YES. And cats are also YES YES YES YES YES but dogs are like, one YES more.

99points

InsertAnyNameHere (They/Them) 1 year ago

I'm gonna be downvoted for how confusing I made this

27points

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Jinx (she/her) 1 year ago

an "I run over cats for fun," person is so far beyond an "I like other animals," person that I can hardly express it with words

13points

Saint_Zipcodus 1 year ago

Has anybody ever noticed how it seems to be perfectly socially acceptable to loudly state: 'I hate cats', but if anybody said 'I hate dogs' they move very close to being crucified (especially on the internet)? (Both are extremely s****y things to say btw., statements just for clarification). Case in point: Movies. Killing or hurting cats is played as an acceptable plot point, even for comedy - throwing them out of a window (Grand Budapest Hotel), using them as a hackysack (Zohan)... no car accident off-camera without a cat's scream of pain. On the other hand, there are even full websites dedicated to the question 'Does the dog die?' and a verrrry successful movie franchise about someone taking revenge on basically the whole world for killing their dog (John Wick). Double standard much?

12points

Chris Jones 1 year ago

Well, there are a couple of movies crossed off my list. I don't like ANY animal being killed just for some stupid plot device. Thank you. My dogs should actually be very grateful to the John Wick franchise!! The virtually constant shooting helps to cover up the fireworks that are overused come November in the UK which they both dislike.

6points

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Charlie the Cat 1 year ago

I love cats more than dogs. But then I think that's obvious.

9points

Blackstone 1 year ago

I love them both about equally. We're a multi species family. My cats are my best boys and my dog is my best girl. 🐈🐈‍⬛🐕🥰

3points

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Marion Vambre 1 year ago

I'm a dog person ( I love them sooo much ❤️), but anybody who hurts animals ( dogs or cats who cares !?) deserves to rot in hell.

6points

Alex Luiz 1 year ago

When I was sn ignorant young person I hated cats because I had been brought up around dogs and just could not conceive of a cat being loving or affectionate.as a level 7 crazy cat person,now, I cringe so hard remembering things I used to say.in conclusion, some cat-haters are just ignorant.it doesn't excuse nasty comments but they are not necessarily lost causes.

6points

Blackstone 1 year ago

I get that. Pressure to fit into a box of some kind (dog person, cat person, political party, sports team) often makes a person pick up on phrases often repeated by the group. "Cats are just speed bumps" is definitely a die-hard dog person rhetoric, whether it's actually something they'd do or not. It's always cringe to remember sentiments we've blindly regurgitated without actually believing, and we've all done it.

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Niki A 1 year ago

My cats have requested me to upvote this one, and I have consented as their food administration representative.

5points

Stary_cat 1 year ago

I am a cat person but I love dogs! I just personally think cats are a little easier to take care of at the moment

5points

Blackstone 1 year ago (edited)

That is so true! As a new mom to both a puppy and kitten, the initial cat proofing is a bit harder because it's not just from the chair rail down, but litter boxes are so much easier than puppy training. Cats are way easier, because in a lot of ways, they are better at being self sufficient. Obviously they still need food, water, love, and play, but it's like the difference between having a toddler (dog) and an eight year old (cat). At least that's been my experience.

3points

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Partycat 1 year ago

Killing or hurting anyone for fun AND approving it is a very bad sign for someone considered themselves human.

3points

Blackstone 1 year ago

I mean, cruelty to animals is actually a clinical diagnostic criteria for Conduct Disorder (essentially the childhood version of Antisocial Personality Disorder). It's okay to have an opinion on a favorite or least favorite animal, but wishing them harm is a yellow flag for potentially something more. So yes, if someone brags about disliking an animal that much, I'm definitely instantly suspicious.

3points

noraa 1 year ago

Yo amo a ambos, casa uno es diferente y especial por si mismo ❤️

3points

Kathryn Baylis 1 year ago

I love all animals, even the dangerous and the icky ones. I may not want to pet them all, and the vast majority of the dangerous/icky ones I can actually peacefully coexist with as long as we leave each other strictly alone. I wish everyone could have respect for animals, whether domesticated or wild. They have purpose, they have feelings, they develop strong relationships, they may not be very demonstrative about it, but they have enough self-awareness to have a structure to their societies.

3points

Violet Bunny 1 year ago

Well I don't care for them but I am extremely allergic!

2points

Michelle K 1 year ago

I'd give this 1,000,000+ upvotes if I could

2points

L. Murphy 1 year ago

Agreed. Rotten, controlling people with evil in their hearts.

2points

Kerri 1 year ago

I would probably consider myself a dog person, but I had my cat Hannibal for 18 1/2 years (half my life when I lost him) and I miss him every day :(

2points

Oh Ri-ri... She/they set User! 1 year ago

But like what is you had trauma.. like a cat with claws almost gauged your eyes out when you were. A kid. I might get downvoted, but it's okay.

1point

Riley Quinn 1 year ago

It's an immediate red flag for me. Once I learn this about a person, I find ways to avoid them.

1point

Daniel C. 1 year ago

This is so hypocritical. You keep your cats locked up their whole lives yet criticize others for trying to control something? Open a door and see how long your cat wants to hang out with you.

1point

El Howard 1 year ago

I love cats. Strange cats will come up to me and jump in my lap without being asked. The only problem is, I'm allergic to cats!

1point

Paul Navarrete 1 year ago

I don't like cats and there are plenty of living things that I do respect which exist beyond my control. I can go out for a hike and happily spot deer, birds, squirrels, lizards, etc. I can do that while acknowledging the fact that cats are a******s.

1point

LaediGrenayd_05 1 year ago

FACTS

1point

CHRIS DOMRES 1 year ago

People, if you really love cats, please keep them indoors. I love birds and stray outside cats are the top killer of birds.

1point

Ryan H 1 year ago

I don't hate cats per say...I'm just severely allergic to them and can't be around them more than a couple minutes. Outside of that they don't bother me.

1point

Rick Seiden 1 year ago

I used to be like that. I hated cats. Only good cat was a dead cat. Turns out I just had bad experiences with cats, and being involved with a cat lover showed me the truth. I'm still a dog person, but that I married that cat lover, and we've got two rescues now that are wonderful cats that I love. I'm not their human, but they will come sit on my lap and purr when I pet them. I regret the way I felt about cats now.

1point

Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl) 1 year ago

I'm not a cat person... but I have a 20 year old void. I'm still not a cat person.

0points

mars gemini 1 year ago

I see kitty, I upvote.

0points

Michele Monfrecola 1 year ago

My father sometimes try to reach for cats but instantly hate them when he sees how Independent they are, he's exactly the kind of a55hole that want to control others even if he's an underdog.

0points

Moosy Girl 1 year ago

One of my colleagues at work casually told me she kicks cats that come too close to her, I thought she was nice up 'til then. :(

0points

Seabeast 1 year ago

A wise woman once told me "Beware of men who hate cats because they pretty much always hate women or view them as inferior." She was right.

0points

Colleen Glim 1 year ago

My cat is basically a moving speed bump. But I love her anyway

0points

roger gurrola 1 year ago

Dogs are awesome

0points

Mary Beheler 1 year ago

I am old, wear bifocals and am beginning to get cataracts. Cat we have now is much less of an obstacle than ones we have had in the past, but I am still of the opinion that I will die of tripping over a cat.

0points

Nay Wilson 1 year ago

I have 10 cats of my own. It baffles me how some people don’t like them. How can you not love the tiny fluffy creatures that have their own personal engine?

0points

Zena Marsh 1 year ago

I like both cats and dogs, though prefer cats as a pet.

0points

Busybee 1 year ago

Honestly I'm terrified of cats

0points

roger gurrola 1 year ago

I hate cats I don't care if that makes me evil I hate cats.

-1point

Phillip Neely 1 year ago

I hate cats! Get over it, let it rain down votes. 🙄

-2points

Silre 1 year ago

Why?

0points

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#6

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) they dont return the cart after loading up the car

Sarcasmqueen444 , David Clarke Report

Final score:

247points

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#7

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Littering

FinnBullWinter , Claudio Schwarz Report

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214points

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#8

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) The way they view pets.

If they pick up a pet who'll live 60+ years (like some parrots) and then randomly say "lol I'll give it away/abandon/release in the wild" after the poor thing is attached? Big red flag.

Pets can't live properly on the streets/in the wild after domestication. For birds, they would need readaptation to wild settings. And pets can die from heartbreak/depression.

Illusioneery , Alexander Grey Report

Final score:

197points

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#9

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They can never be wrong.

psycharious , Paul Hanaoka Report

Final score:

192points

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#10

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They make jokes at other people's expense, but can't stand it when someone jokes about them.

parangolecomuna , Toa Heftiba Report

Final score:

187points

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#11

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Treating garbage collectors like they're trash. Mate their job is to literally pick up trash after you.

Yamamahah , zibik Report

Final score:

184points

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#12

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) People who incessantly refer to you by name in a conversation. It comes across like some weird sales / cult strategy to engineer fake rapport.

risbia , Yuvraj Singh Report

Final score:

176points

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#13

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) If they quickly bring their religion into s conversation

E_man123 , Pablo Rebolledo Report

Final score:

161points

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#14

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) S**t talking their significant other.

SoVerySleepy81 , Priscilla Du Preez Report

Final score:

136points

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#15

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they’re far too pushy with questions and don’t leave you alone despite you making it super obvious that you don’t want to answer their questions.

ocarinagirl93 , Jessica Da Rosa Report

Final score:

136points

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#16

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Someone who knocks on my bedroom door and opens it immediately instead of waiting for me to answer it

Manmade791 , Milo Bauman Report

Final score:

133points

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#17

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they don’t acknowledge that you held the door open for them. Not even a small smile or head nod.

Chatterbxer , Darya Sannikova Report

Final score:

127points

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#18

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Small lies. It can be anything. What they ate the night before, when they came home, their favorite color. The smaller the lie is, the more suspicious the person becomes to me.

BuckyBarnes_0310 , Andrea Tummons Report

Final score:

125points

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#19

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They ask you something and start talking over you before you are done or before you even have a chance to start.

I know this can happen for someone who is ADHD or ASD, but those cases it's usually pretty easy to tell that they are just distracted or overexcited and not intentionally dismissive of you. The red flag is for someone who just genuinely does not give a s**t what your answer was going to be in the first place.

Not_a_werecat , Tanya Pro Report

Final score:

123points

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#20

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) That whole compliment but it’s an insult thing and then they laugh it off as a joke

Like wtf is your problem

ROOK2KING1 , Bewakoof.com Official Report

Final score:

120points

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#21

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) If they don't treat people under their authority with respect.

SuvenPan , Kenny Eliason Report

Final score:

115points

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#22

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) In a conversation, never ask you a single thing about you or your opinion

SNAAAAART , Trung Thanh Report

Final score:

114points

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#23

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Hyper political

Local_Vegetable8139 , Priscilla Du Preez Report

Final score:

108points

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#24

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Talking c**p or making fun of/nitpicking everyone that walks by.

KileyCW , HIVAN ARVIZU Report

Final score:

107points

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#25

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) I just met you. Don't call me honey, baby, darling, or anything like that.

biomech36 , No Revisions Report

Final score:

107points

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#26

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) If they're always the "good guy" when they tell stories about bad situations.

miseenplastique , Shane Rounce Report

Final score:

103points

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#27

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Head to toe screaming designer brands for some reason rub me the wrong way.

talluleeh , https://www.pexels.com/photo/person-holding-door-lever-1636365/ Report

Final score:

102points

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#28

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Using their phone too much during group meals

Jacket-Downtown , Ryan Plomp Report

Final score:

99points

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#29

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) “You can Trust me”
Nope, if you gotta TELL me that with words, nope.

Bambino00 , NONRESIDENT Report

Final score:

97points

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#30

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Gossip about other people.

If they do it about others, they’ll do it about you.

Perseus73 , Hưng Nguyễn Report

Final score:

96points

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#31

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Sense of Entitlement .

StakkAttakk , Eliott Reyna Report

Final score:

89points

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#32

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Standing too close. The definition of personal space varies by culture, but even so so, most people quickly pick up the correct distance for social interaction. Someone who does not either is not paying attention or is pervy.

Bakkie , Emma Dau Report

Final score:

89points

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#33

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Obsessing about how other people eat their food. Particularly getting annoyed at plain eaters. Like, eat your own food and mind your own damn business. How someone else eats isn't going to affect your food. I've never met someone who does that who didn't turn out to be a d**k

dauntless91 , Acton Crawford Report

Final score:

87points

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#34

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they don’t rerack their weights or wipe down the equipment at the gym.

technofever89 , Victor Freitas Report

Final score:

83points

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#35

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) People who obviously know you are next to be served at the bar but order anyway. It can happen by accident, but sometimes you just think d**k.

jimmykicking , William Topa Report

Final score:

82points

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#36

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) The way they treat, or talk about, pets or animals is a good way to judge character.

And another is how they treat their belongings.
Example: Knew a guy who wouldn’t hang up his jacket. Just drop it on the floor or some furniture.
Same with his phone and stuff, he’d have a new phone every week because he kept dropping it or casually throwing it onto tables.

The disregard for the value of things just bugged me.
If you don’t value your own stuff, how can you value other people’s belongings. Ya know?

Derai-Leaf , kemal alkan Report

Final score:

80points

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#37

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They call me "friend" right off. Pal, or buddy is almost as bad.

hyteck9 , serge vorobets Report

Final score:

79points

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#38

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They introduce themselves as a Christian.

Expat111 , Hester Qiang Report

Final score:

77points

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#39

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They're stood naked in my kitchen by the open fridge drinking my coconut milk straight from the carton.

MechaniclAnimal , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

62points

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#40

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) I have a friend who's a psychiatrist, he says it's psychiatrist lore to always beware of men with yellow tinted glasses lenses.

poseyslipper , Ethan Haddox Report

Final score:

49points

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#41

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they take but never give. Personally I believe friendship should be as equal and balanced as possible but if a friend can't even meet you a quarter of the way? They ain't your friend.

Flicksterea , kevin laminto Report

Final score:

32points

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#42

How they drive especially on the highway.

Can’t stand people who weave in and out of lanes going 20 over thinking the interstate is their personal Indy 500

ProverbsC3H8 Report

Final score:

30points

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#43

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they park in the fire lane to run into the grocery store or dry cleaners or whatever, especially if it's in a parking lot where only one car can get around them at a time.

DarkPumpernickel , Rachael Ren Report

Final score:

28points

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#44

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When you share meaningless info about you or someone and they make it your or their defining quality. Basically they put you and other people in a box.

Another one is when they start “playfully” roasting you too early on in a connection. That’s for close people and we aren’t anywhere near that.

Minute-Shoulder-1782 , Kate Bezzubets Report

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25points

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#45

Guilt tripping.

Competently_ignorant Report

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25points

#46

When you only know them for a minute and they already start getting super personal

okbuddy9970 Report

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25points

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#47

If they talk bad about homeless people

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24points

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#48

if the puppers dislike them I listen

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24points

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#49

How they react to a line or a restaurant wait. Huffing, eye-rolling--they don't go full Karen, but you can tell they're REALLY annoyed that Their Specialness has to wait their turn like everyone else.

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24points

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#50

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Asking the race of the people in your story when you are talking about something that has absolutely nothing to do with race. Also saying things are racist when they aren’t and using racial slurs.

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23points

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#51

When someone doesn’t listen to you. As in actually HEAR what you’re saying. It’s one thing if they don’t understand how you’re feeling and you need to clarify. It’s another when they’re blatantly ignoring you because they’re being selfish or defensive.

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21points

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#52

Cut into the middle of a conversation, not even acknowledging you were talking or there.

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21points

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#53

when they have a weird hatred for kids, and im not talking about not wanting any. i mean straight up despising and in some cases threatening to harm children cause of their dislike for them.

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#54

Can’t give anyone a compliment without immediately s**t talking under their breath

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20points

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#55

Whenever I've met someone and we go out to eat or just eat snacks at home, and they don't clean up after themselves. Like I mean, just leaving trash on the table and going to bed without thinking about it. Those people are usually the last people to take responsibility for their actions.

Edit: I don't mean being forgetful, I mean like refusing to clean stuff up, sorry for the vague explanation.

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Final score:

20points

#56

Elevator eyes.

That's when someone looks you up and down. Like a woman looking at another woman's outfit/appearance from head to toe. Super judgmental.

And if it's a man, super creepy and gross.

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Final score:

19points

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#57

Acting like only one half of a couple exists

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Final score:

18points

#58

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They enjoy making you feel uncomfortable or smile when asking awkward questions.

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#59

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) "Here we are like family!"

RelentlessIVS , Yura Timoshenko Report

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#60

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Not being a reliable narrator and believing your assumptions as facts.

Small exaggerations or telling stories from your perspective once in a while are fine but seemingly being unable to frame your perspective and feelings separate from the rest of the world is concerning. My sister will often state other people's thoughts or feelings she believes as if they are fact. Needless to say she can't be relied on for a trust worthy depiction of events, even in the most low stake scenerios

tristanjones , Yuya Hata Report

Final score:

16points

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#61

45 minutes until I'm scheduled to quit work, and you're stressing me about working faster.

thank you for the f**k ups I made from the stress, today I know better than yesterday.

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Final score:

16points

#62

A married male coworker who knows you are also married and yet keeps making random sexual comments towards you.

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16points

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#63

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They interrupt multiple times when it's your turn to tell a story, or explain something.

edit: I have aspergers and ADD. I'm quite aware of how difficult it may be to tame these urges to do so. My comment is more directed towards those who are narcissistic, fake, or micro-controlling as a behavior. Thank you for all the further comments, I hope I didn't offend anyone from any misunderstanding.

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15points

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#64

Anyone that knocks on my door with a clipboard or wearing a suit holding a book.

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15points

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#65

When they have a habit of telling other people what to do, usually disguised as a request, but it's framed in a way that makes it seem unreasonable to say no.

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15points

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#66

Their eyes, and before you say there's no possible way you can tell someone's character by just their eyes.

It hasn't failed me yet.

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13points

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#67

That resentful glance/stare you catch them giving you when you unexpectedly look up

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Final score:

13points

#68

“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They covered in blood but they don't seem to be hurt.

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12points

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#69

If they are too sweet at first. Can't be trusted.

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11points

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#70

Lack of personal space or maintaining direct eye contact too long.

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11points

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#71

Honestly, some people are way too into themselves. Confidence is great, but at some point you gotta remember you're around other people. Gross.

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11points

#72

The sociopath stare.

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11points

#73

No platonic friends of the opposite sex

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11points

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#74

Opening up too quickly. Like you see someone for a 2nd time in your life and they start sharing way too personal stuff out of the blue.

Final score:

10points

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#75

I can usually read people quite well, so it always freaks me out when I meet a person and there is... nothing. Just a blank slate with a smile painted on.
Sometimes they turn out to be great people, other times they end up being total pricks.
But it's strange and slightly worrying when they don't project anything.

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9points

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College Student Does Exactly As Told After Roommates Demand They Keep Their Stuff In Their Room

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#76

When they talk about how people spoil their kids and they are strict.

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9points

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#77

Ignoring their kids because they are having fun. Not to the point of calling CPS.....just more like, they'll go running if the kid screams but won't be aware enough to stop it in the first place.

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9points

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#78

Boasting about themselves. Shows low self esteem.

RelationIll9965 Report

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8points

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#79

The word "hun".

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7points

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#80

Trying to stand in your blind spot

Even_Jeweler324 Report

Final score:

6points

#81

they’re “too nice”, apparently something people don’t really pick up on (hence the subtle) but i always have and i always end up being right about them in the end

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6points

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#82

Dirty hands/fingernails if they are not in a trade where that would be normal.

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4points

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#83

If they drive a Kia Soul. I’m not joking. I’ve been burned 3 times now by people who drive them.

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4points

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#84

Everyone loves them.

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4points

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#85

Sounds cliche but their energy, and facial expressions, Ik facial expressions are not that great to go off but it's just something I've observed rolling eyes attitude face that's beneath Me face ugh I'm too good for this world face I've just seen this alot with other women in particular.

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2points

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#86

Never share anything or are very hesitant to share, stingey

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#87

If they say their ex “is a f*****g psycho”
I don’t need to know, & you probably drove her *to that!
My ex is a psycho but I don’t rant about him, or mention it to others asides from my gf’s

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1point

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#88

Someone who smile and bubbly all the frigging time.

It’s always been a front and facade hiding the real true self behind, which is just a normal human being with flaws.

But the facade itself is also a sign that the person have a mental problem dealing with some form of negativity. Something like either wanting to please or have a false believe that no one likes a sad individual…etc.

542Archiya124 Report

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-14points

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Adelaide Ross

Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about two years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about two years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

Gabija Saveiskyte

Hi there! I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. My job is to ensure that all the articles are aesthetically pleasing. I get to work with a variety of topics ranging from all the relationship drama to lots and lots of memes and, my personal favorites, funny cute cats. When I am not perfecting the images, you can find me reading with a cup of matcha latte and a cat in my lap, taking photos (of my cat), getting lost in the forest, or simply cuddling with my cat... Did I mention that I love cats?

Hi there! I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. My job is to ensure that all the articles are aesthetically pleasing. I get to work with a variety of topics ranging from all the relationship drama to lots and lots of memes and, my personal favorites, funny cute cats. When I am not perfecting the images, you can find me reading with a cup of matcha latte and a cat in my lap, taking photos (of my cat), getting lost in the forest, or simply cuddling with my cat... Did I mention that I love cats?

What do you think ?

Jeremy James 1 year ago

I don't have anything that will add to this post. I just wanted to share a story. Yesterday, I noticed that a toad had dug himself a hole in a basket of wildflower seeds I had planted, underneath a bleached turtle shell that I found by the creek in the woods. I took some pictures and sent them to my Mom. This morning, I thought he had vacated, but then I saw the soil twitch. I saw him in his hole again this evening. It's after midnight and he's out now, but I hope he comes back.

37points

Nice Beast Ludo 1 year ago

Thank you!! I would like to see BP post 50 of these stories instead.

10points

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Unproductive Pigeon 1 year ago

What a fun story, I enjoyed it

6points

Ren Karlej 1 year ago

Nice - could we see any of the photos? 😃

2points

Rumbl3 1 year ago

Update please!

1point

C Pryce 1 year ago

My instant response to this question is: How they talk about their Mother Beware men who disrespect their mother, but equally be wary of men who are besotted with their Mam.

4points

️️Upvote faery️ 1 year ago (edited)

If they proudly announce they support individuals known to be misogynistic/racist/divisive twatwaffles, I'm out.

3points

Jerusalem Cat Syndrome 1 year ago

I think we just saw this post in at least a couple of other lists, very recently.

2points

Michael Fuhry 1 year ago

Men who use a crushing grip when shaking hands. My dad never really imparted too much by way of practical advice before he died when I was 14, but on a strangely specific occasion, he taught how to deploy a firm, not crushing, handshake. He also noted that it was rude to use more force than absolutely necessary. I have found in my journey through life that men who employ a crushing grip are, generally speaking, not to be trusted.

2points

DBear 1 year ago

A few of mine: Getting angry and belligerent with you because they don't like your favorite sports team. Waiting impatiently for the store to open then buying something minor like a quart of oil or an air freshener. Coming into the store 30 seconds before closing and saying "I made it". One more store one. Coming into the store on a holiday and asking how come I don't have the day off. Worse when you're buying something minor like a quart of oil or an air freshener.

2points

Leoninus Fate 1 year ago

im wondering if anyone that posted these has anyone significant/a partner in their life or friends or anything, cause literally they want to live in a bubble and have someone that is the most vanilla sim-like person to talk to, I feel like they would beat a lil old granny type lady to death for smiling and saying "morning sweetie, have a good day!"

1point

Jeff (He/They) 1 year ago

For me, anyone who ends something with "tard" like wtf

1point

Sharon Ammons 1 year ago

OMG. I had the employee who had to comment on every single thing I ate, like #33. It drove me insane. I'm a Celiac so I have to eat a gluten free diet and his wife just happened to eat gluten free for other medical reasons, so he was constantly bringing that up. But even beyond that, he had to comment every single day on what I ate for lunch. It was to the point where I wanted to scream, "Donnie, why the f- do you care that I'm having tamales for lunch today? How does this affect your life? Why do you even notice? Leave me alone." Ugh, he was so incredibly annoying.

0points

Landithy 1 year ago (edited)

People who are to nice or warm up to me too quickly. I'm a decent enough person, but if you're convinced that I'm the bestest person you've ever met and we're going to be best friends after talking to me for a few minutes, either you're playing me, you have boundary issues, or both. Not to be confused with outgoing, extroverted people who just want to hang out with everyone, but still keep a healthy emotional distance from strangers.

0points

Andy Frobig 1 year ago

This makes me think of an exchange from the movie "Barfly:" Wanda: "I hate people. Do you hate people?" Henry: "No...but I seem to feel better when they're not around."

0points

Animelover 1 year ago

This was a waste of time

0points

Brobro McDuderson 1 year ago

Haven’t we seen this reposted before?

-1point

Rostit . 1 year ago

bruh, every BP thread is a repost. The internet is done, everything has already been said,. we're just reposting content until the world ends in a few months.

1point

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Allen Packard 1 year ago

When someone makes their sexuality their main "thing". I don't want to know what you do with other consenting adults.

-2points

Jeremy James 1 year ago

I don't have anything that will add to this post. I just wanted to share a story. Yesterday, I noticed that a toad had dug himself a hole in a basket of wildflower seeds I had planted, underneath a bleached turtle shell that I found by the creek in the woods. I took some pictures and sent them to my Mom. This morning, I thought he had vacated, but then I saw the soil twitch. I saw him in his hole again this evening. It's after midnight and he's out now, but I hope he comes back.

37points

Nice Beast Ludo 1 year ago

Thank you!! I would like to see BP post 50 of these stories instead.

10points

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Unproductive Pigeon 1 year ago

What a fun story, I enjoyed it

6points

Ren Karlej 1 year ago

Nice - could we see any of the photos? 😃

2points

Rumbl3 1 year ago

Update please!

1point

C Pryce 1 year ago

My instant response to this question is: How they talk about their Mother Beware men who disrespect their mother, but equally be wary of men who are besotted with their Mam.

4points

️️Upvote faery️ 1 year ago (edited)

If they proudly announce they support individuals known to be misogynistic/racist/divisive twatwaffles, I'm out.

3points

Jerusalem Cat Syndrome 1 year ago

I think we just saw this post in at least a couple of other lists, very recently.

2points

Michael Fuhry 1 year ago

Men who use a crushing grip when shaking hands. My dad never really imparted too much by way of practical advice before he died when I was 14, but on a strangely specific occasion, he taught how to deploy a firm, not crushing, handshake. He also noted that it was rude to use more force than absolutely necessary. I have found in my journey through life that men who employ a crushing grip are, generally speaking, not to be trusted.

2points

DBear 1 year ago

A few of mine: Getting angry and belligerent with you because they don't like your favorite sports team. Waiting impatiently for the store to open then buying something minor like a quart of oil or an air freshener. Coming into the store 30 seconds before closing and saying "I made it". One more store one. Coming into the store on a holiday and asking how come I don't have the day off. Worse when you're buying something minor like a quart of oil or an air freshener.

2points

Leoninus Fate 1 year ago

im wondering if anyone that posted these has anyone significant/a partner in their life or friends or anything, cause literally they want to live in a bubble and have someone that is the most vanilla sim-like person to talk to, I feel like they would beat a lil old granny type lady to death for smiling and saying "morning sweetie, have a good day!"

1point

Jeff (He/They) 1 year ago

For me, anyone who ends something with "tard" like wtf

1point

Sharon Ammons 1 year ago

OMG. I had the employee who had to comment on every single thing I ate, like #33. It drove me insane. I'm a Celiac so I have to eat a gluten free diet and his wife just happened to eat gluten free for other medical reasons, so he was constantly bringing that up. But even beyond that, he had to comment every single day on what I ate for lunch. It was to the point where I wanted to scream, "Donnie, why the f- do you care that I'm having tamales for lunch today? How does this affect your life? Why do you even notice? Leave me alone." Ugh, he was so incredibly annoying.

0points

Landithy 1 year ago (edited)

People who are to nice or warm up to me too quickly. I'm a decent enough person, but if you're convinced that I'm the bestest person you've ever met and we're going to be best friends after talking to me for a few minutes, either you're playing me, you have boundary issues, or both. Not to be confused with outgoing, extroverted people who just want to hang out with everyone, but still keep a healthy emotional distance from strangers.

0points

Andy Frobig 1 year ago

This makes me think of an exchange from the movie "Barfly:" Wanda: "I hate people. Do you hate people?" Henry: "No...but I seem to feel better when they're not around."

0points

Animelover 1 year ago

This was a waste of time

0points

Brobro McDuderson 1 year ago

Haven’t we seen this reposted before?

-1point

Rostit . 1 year ago

bruh, every BP thread is a repost. The internet is done, everything has already been said,. we're just reposting content until the world ends in a few months.

1point

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Allen Packard 1 year ago

When someone makes their sexuality their main "thing". I don't want to know what you do with other consenting adults.

-2points

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