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When someone or something gives off good vibes, you can immediately tell: a field full of vibrant sunflowers, a home cooked meal with your closest friends, an album that makes you want to move and groove. On the other hand, when a person is radiating bad vibes, it can be easy to tell as well.

Below, you’ll find some of the subtle traits that are immediate signs of bad vibes that Reddit users have recently been sharing online. Take note of any of these behaviors to look out for, and be sure to upvote the ones that make you wary of certain people too.

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“What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) How they treat/view animals.

Character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you!

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they try to push God on me and say that things happen because it's the plan from God and I am being strong for God and they will pray for me.



    Just.... no. Don't f*****g do that s**t to me. Keep your religion to yourself.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has happened to me so many times and it's fvcked up. I'm an athiest, I never try to force you to lose your religion.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) How they treat someone in a service position, wait staff, etc.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always respect EVERYBODY exactly the same, no matter what their status is.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) If you're blasting music in public, I instantly hate you

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. Who the fvck does that with zero regard for anybody else without being an idiot.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they don’t like cats. And I don’t mean like “oh I’m just a dog person” I mean like “a cat is just a moving speed bump” kind of person. It gives me “I don’t like relationships I can’t control” and “I don’t respect living things that exist beyond my control” vibes.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a dog person, but I love cats so much. But my love of dogs is immesurable. But I love cats so much that nobody here can comprehend how much. It's just that dogs are... well dogs are just YES YES YES YES YES. And cats are also YES YES YES YES YES but dogs are like, one YES more.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) they dont return the cart after loading up the car

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Australia, you need a gold coin ($1 or $2) to unlock a cart from the other carts. When you return it, you get your gold coin back.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Littering

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I littered once when I was small and I still feel very bad about it

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) The way they view pets.

    If they pick up a pet who'll live 60+ years (like some parrots) and then randomly say "lol I'll give it away/abandon/release in the wild" after the poor thing is attached? Big red flag.

    Pets can't live properly on the streets/in the wild after domestication. For birds, they would need readaptation to wild settings. And pets can die from heartbreak/depression.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cat thinks he wants to go outside and when we don't give in to his every demand he says he's going to just run away. Like dude. You've been an inside cat for 16+ years. You'd get beat up by a squirrel. Also good luck with the door k**b because you have no thumbs

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They can never be wrong.

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    #10

    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They make jokes at other people's expense, but can't stand it when someone jokes about them.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Treating garbage collectors like they're trash. Mate their job is to literally pick up trash after you.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the CEO is away for a couple of weeks, you probably wouldn't notice. If the cleaner is away for even half a day, you sure as heck notice. They keep the building from looking like a rubbish tip, and the toilets clean enough to use, and I appreciate the f*ck out of that.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) People who incessantly refer to you by name in a conversation. It comes across like some weird sales / cult strategy to engineer fake rapport.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have just met each other I've heard it can be a good way to "lock" their name into the ol brain cells but only early on in the conversation not through the whole thing. But I will point out it has NEVER worked for me. I can't remember my own nieces or nephews names without difficulty let alone a stranger..🤣

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) If they quickly bring their religion into s conversation

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) S**t talking their significant other.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they’re far too pushy with questions and don’t leave you alone despite you making it super obvious that you don’t want to answer their questions.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just had a scary version of this happen. it's not ok. just respect the no, just respect the boundary

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Someone who knocks on my bedroom door and opens it immediately instead of waiting for me to answer it

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they don’t acknowledge that you held the door open for them. Not even a small smile or head nod.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just let go of the door. If it hits them, so be it. I'm not your doorman.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Small lies. It can be anything. What they ate the night before, when they came home, their favorite color. The smaller the lie is, the more suspicious the person becomes to me.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They ask you something and start talking over you before you are done or before you even have a chance to start.

    I know this can happen for someone who is ADHD or ASD, but those cases it's usually pretty easy to tell that they are just distracted or overexcited and not intentionally dismissive of you. The red flag is for someone who just genuinely does not give a s**t what your answer was going to be in the first place.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know someone like this. When they do it, I just walk away. They obviously only want to talk about themselves or push their opinion, not really interested in a conversation with you.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) That whole compliment but it’s an insult thing and then they laugh it off as a joke

    Like wtf is your problem

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when someone says something that sounds serious, but when it turns out it offends me, they act like it was a joke and I'm just being difficult or dramatic. Cowards.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) If they don't treat people under their authority with respect.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can delete the words "under their authority" and it should still be true.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) In a conversation, never ask you a single thing about you or your opinion

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Hyper political

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! People that bring up politics in conversations where it isn't warranted are the worst.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Talking c**p or making fun of/nitpicking everyone that walks by.

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    #25

    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) I just met you. Don't call me honey, baby, darling, or anything like that.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) If they're always the "good guy" when they tell stories about bad situations.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Head to toe screaming designer brands for some reason rub me the wrong way.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry.....but if I'm gonna wear your rubbish items, you better pay me for being a walking billboard!!

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Using their phone too much during group meals

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or at all. Shut the phone off and let everything go to voicemail. If there’s an important call you can’t miss, excuse yourself from the table to take the call in private, ffs!

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) “You can Trust me”
    Nope, if you gotta TELL me that with words, nope.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Gossip about other people.

    If they do it about others, they’ll do it about you.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Sense of Entitlement .

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Standing too close. The definition of personal space varies by culture, but even so so, most people quickly pick up the correct distance for social interaction. Someone who does not either is not paying attention or is pervy.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or neurodivergent. Many neurodivergent people have trouble with social norms like that

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Obsessing about how other people eat their food. Particularly getting annoyed at plain eaters. Like, eat your own food and mind your own damn business. How someone else eats isn't going to affect your food. I've never met someone who does that who didn't turn out to be a d**k

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only time I obsess about other people eating, is when they are loud chewers. It physically makes me wanna gag

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they don’t rerack their weights or wipe down the equipment at the gym.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no remark necessary, but pity the poor attendant that has to police them !

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) People who obviously know you are next to be served at the bar but order anyway. It can happen by accident, but sometimes you just think d**k.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I worked in a bar, I pay attention to who's next in a queue and I would purposely serve them last.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) The way they treat, or talk about, pets or animals is a good way to judge character.

    And another is how they treat their belongings.
    Example: Knew a guy who wouldn’t hang up his jacket. Just drop it on the floor or some furniture.
    Same with his phone and stuff, he’d have a new phone every week because he kept dropping it or casually throwing it onto tables.

    The disregard for the value of things just bugged me.
    If you don’t value your own stuff, how can you value other people’s belongings. Ya know?

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry this is off point but he must’ve been loaded if he got a new phone every week

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They call me "friend" right off. Pal, or buddy is almost as bad.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They introduce themselves as a Christian.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They're stood naked in my kitchen by the open fridge drinking my coconut milk straight from the carton.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) I have a friend who's a psychiatrist, he says it's psychiatrist lore to always beware of men with yellow tinted glasses lenses.

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    #41

    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they take but never give. Personally I believe friendship should be as equal and balanced as possible but if a friend can't even meet you a quarter of the way? They ain't your friend.

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    How they drive especially on the highway.

    Can’t stand people who weave in and out of lanes going 20 over thinking the interstate is their personal Indy 500

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Saw one of those sorts on my way home yesterday. Going 75 in a 35, weaving between cars and taking dangerous blind turns. Naturally it was a red sports car that looked like it probably cost at least six digits to buy.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When they park in the fire lane to run into the grocery store or dry cleaners or whatever, especially if it's in a parking lot where only one car can get around them at a time.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We love to see that-- we break their windows, run deliberately drippy 2" hoses through, then have them cited, and impounded. Dont mess with FireFighters

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) When you share meaningless info about you or someone and they make it your or their defining quality. Basically they put you and other people in a box.

    Another one is when they start “playfully” roasting you too early on in a connection. That’s for close people and we aren’t anywhere near that.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve only just starting playfully roasting my friend and we’ve been friends for nearly 3 years now

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    Guilt tripping.

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    When you only know them for a minute and they already start getting super personal

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh gosh, I have trouble knowing what the boundaries of conversation are sometimes and I tend to overshare. (I have less trouble in my native language, English.) I think part of me just wants to shock some Germans, who are usually a lot more formal until you get to know them.

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    #47

    If they talk bad about homeless people

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    if the puppers dislike them I listen

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    How they react to a line or a restaurant wait. Huffing, eye-rolling--they don't go full Karen, but you can tell they're REALLY annoyed that Their Specialness has to wait their turn like everyone else.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It appears that 80% of German women are called Karen! People really like to demonstrate their annoyance here, I find. In Britain we keep it in but complain about it afterwards!

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    #50

    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Asking the race of the people in your story when you are talking about something that has absolutely nothing to do with race. Also saying things are racist when they aren’t and using racial slurs.

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    #51

    When someone doesn’t listen to you. As in actually HEAR what you’re saying. It’s one thing if they don’t understand how you’re feeling and you need to clarify. It’s another when they’re blatantly ignoring you because they’re being selfish or defensive.

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    Cut into the middle of a conversation, not even acknowledging you were talking or there.

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    #53

    when they have a weird hatred for kids, and im not talking about not wanting any. i mean straight up despising and in some cases threatening to harm children cause of their dislike for them.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, this one I get I say kids can be annoying somtimes and I don’t personally want them, but some kids can be so sweet and the most adorable things ever.

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    Can’t give anyone a compliment without immediately s**t talking under their breath

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    Whenever I've met someone and we go out to eat or just eat snacks at home, and they don't clean up after themselves. Like I mean, just leaving trash on the table and going to bed without thinking about it. Those people are usually the last people to take responsibility for their actions.

    Edit: I don't mean being forgetful, I mean like refusing to clean stuff up, sorry for the vague explanation.

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    #56

    Elevator eyes.

    That's when someone looks you up and down. Like a woman looking at another woman's outfit/appearance from head to toe. Super judgmental.

    And if it's a man, super creepy and gross.

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    Acting like only one half of a couple exists

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Flip side: If a male friend includes your girlfriend in the conversation, he is not necessarily trying to get into her pants. (Unless maybe he's a transvestite.)

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They enjoy making you feel uncomfortable or smile when asking awkward questions.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people smile or laugh in awkward situations. My sister and I burst out in hysterical laughter at our dad's funeral for example.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) "Here we are like family!"

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    #60

    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) Not being a reliable narrator and believing your assumptions as facts.

    Small exaggerations or telling stories from your perspective once in a while are fine but seemingly being unable to frame your perspective and feelings separate from the rest of the world is concerning. My sister will often state other people's thoughts or feelings she believes as if they are fact. Needless to say she can't be relied on for a trust worthy depiction of events, even in the most low stake scenerios

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Intelligent people are happy to be better informed about things, however they will research/fact check first before correcting themselves. They will also freely admit, after they finish researching/fact checking, that their prior understanding was wrong. What they absolutely do NOT do is double down on their wrong information.

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    #61

    45 minutes until I'm scheduled to quit work, and you're stressing me about working faster.


    thank you for the f**k ups I made from the stress, today I know better than yesterday.

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    A married male coworker who knows you are also married and yet keeps making random sexual comments towards you.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When this happens, it's called Sexual Harassment, and you need to go to HR.

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They interrupt multiple times when it's your turn to tell a story, or explain something.

    edit: I have aspergers and ADD. I'm quite aware of how difficult it may be to tame these urges to do so. My comment is more directed towards those who are narcissistic, fake, or micro-controlling as a behavior. Thank you for all the further comments, I hope I didn't offend anyone from any misunderstanding.

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    I hate it when people call other people 'fake'. Like, truly, what does that even mean?

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    Anyone that knocks on my door with a clipboard or wearing a suit holding a book.

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    #65

    When they have a habit of telling other people what to do, usually disguised as a request, but it's framed in a way that makes it seem unreasonable to say no.

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    Their eyes, and before you say there's no possible way you can tell someone's character by just their eyes.

    It hasn't failed me yet.

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    That resentful glance/stare you catch them giving you when you unexpectedly look up

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    “What's Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers) They covered in blood but they don't seem to be hurt.

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    If they are too sweet at first. Can't be trusted.

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    Lack of personal space or maintaining direct eye contact too long.

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    #71

    Honestly, some people are way too into themselves. Confidence is great, but at some point you gotta remember you're around other people. Gross.

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    #72

    The sociopath stare.

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    #73

    No platonic friends of the opposite sex

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly more than half my platonic friends are the opposite sex

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    #74

    Opening up too quickly. Like you see someone for a 2nd time in your life and they start sharing way too personal stuff out of the blue.

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    #75

    I can usually read people quite well, so it always freaks me out when I meet a person and there is... nothing. Just a blank slate with a smile painted on.
    Sometimes they turn out to be great people, other times they end up being total pricks.
    But it's strange and slightly worrying when they don't project anything.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are they not projecting anything, or is your ability to read people more limited than you think?

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    #76

    When they talk about how people spoil their kids and they are strict.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel that statement 2 b true. Has anyone ever been some place and the kid is pitching a fit while do nothing 2 correct them? I blame the parents! My kid ALWAYS behaved when in public.

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    #77

    Ignoring their kids because they are having fun. Not to the point of calling CPS.....just more like, they'll go running if the kid screams but won't be aware enough to stop it in the first place.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Helicopter parenting is a very bad look. Let kids be kids, they'll turn out alright.

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    Boasting about themselves. Shows low self esteem.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if they have low self-esteem that's their fault? Usually not! A bit of compassion is good.

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    #79

    The word "hun".

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    Trying to stand in your blind spot

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    are you ok? because i don't think i have ever known where another person's blind spot is???

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    #81

    they’re “too nice”, apparently something people don’t really pick up on (hence the subtle) but i always have and i always end up being right about them in the end

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s what I call a “nasty-nice” tone of voice and attitude. If you’ve ever been in the receiving end of it, you can recognize it at once.

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    #82

    Dirty hands/fingernails if they are not in a trade where that would be normal.

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    #83

    If they drive a Kia Soul. I’m not joking. I’ve been burned 3 times now by people who drive them.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same vibe with Renault Clio owners. More than 5 times, they had a problematic personnality. I call it ''the car for people without imagination ''

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    Everyone loves them.

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    #85

    Sounds cliche but their energy, and facial expressions, Ik facial expressions are not that great to go off but it's just something I've observed rolling eyes attitude face that's beneath Me face ugh I'm too good for this world face I've just seen this alot with other women in particular.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve also noticed a lot of people with really hard and mean looks on their faces. I don’t mean resting b***h/bastard face (hey fellow Pandas, we can say bastard!). I mean someone who looks like they’d cut you for just looking in their direction. You know, if you have to look like that to survive in your neighborhood, fine. But when you go into other people’s neighborhoods, where you don’t have to look that way, just try to soften it a bit, or you’ll unnecessarily and unintentionally scare TF outta people.

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    Never share anything or are very hesitant to share, stingey

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, been burned too many times to share too much of anything.

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    #87

    If they say their ex “is a f*****g psycho”
    I don’t need to know, & you probably drove her *to that!
    My ex is a psycho but I don’t rant about him, or mention it to others asides from my gf’s

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So your ex is a psycho? We don't need to know that, and you probably drove them to it.

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    Someone who smile and bubbly all the frigging time.

    It’s always been a front and facade hiding the real true self behind, which is just a normal human being with flaws.

    But the facade itself is also a sign that the person have a mental problem dealing with some form of negativity. Something like either wanting to please or have a false believe that no one likes a sad individual…etc.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay so now we have a problem with people smiling. Sometimes the only way to get through a rough patch is fake it till you make it. And even if the person has mental health issues doesn’t mean they don’t deserve a friend

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