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Being told that we aren’t able to accomplish something can light a fire in our bellies and push us towards success. The desire to prove someone wrong while continuing to aim for your dreams is something that a lot of people can relate to. It’s a very human (and Panda!) thing.

LA-based TV and comic book writer Amanda Deibert started up an interesting thread on Twitter that quickly went viral. She asked people to open up about the times that someone told them that they couldn’t do something and they succeeded out of pure spite. And open up they did.

Scroll down for the most interesting success stories and for Bored Panda's interview with the author of the thread, Amanda.

Oh, and it’s important to remember that spite isn’t the only driving force for success—that’s exactly what Amanda stressed in a follow-up tweet. When you’re done reading this list, we’d love to hear about your greatest success, dear Pandas, whether out of spite or inner drive.

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Amanda stressed to us that spite usually isn't the only thing behind your marathon towards success. "Well, spite can only get you so far, there has to be an actual desire to do something for yourself or for someone you care about (which hopefully also includes yourself)," she told us.

"I know I am personally motivated to do things that will in some way help or support my loved ones, especially my little girl," the writer pointed out that love can be a very powerful motivating force.

Bored Panda was interested to get Amanda's take on whether people should have very realistic, grounded goals or if they should shoot for the stars. She told us that she believes a layered approach is best.

"Shoot for the stars, but in a way that keeps your needs met in the meantime. It's okay to make sacrifices and take risks, but calculated risks are the most likely to pay off," she said. In her view, preparation and planning are vital components of success.

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"Make sure you have prepared yourself for your journey into the stars. Astronauts spend years training and preparing for their mission. So you need to train and prepare and keep a roof over your head and nutritious food on your plate and care for your body so that when it comes time to make the leap it is worth it."

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You could show how you remove his nuts with that left hand of yours.

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The journey to success is a very individual thing. According to Amanda, it's best to focus on an approach that motivates you best as a person. She also believes that habits are the way to reach your goals. "It's the Malcolm Gladwell 10,000 hours thing. You are much more likely to reach your goals eventually if you are constantly working toward them and building your skills and life in a way that supports you reaching your goals."

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This isn’t the first time that Bored Panda has featured Amanda’s tweets. We’ve previously covered her viral posts about useful life advice, as well as an incredibly creepy house listing full of mannequins.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unlike other situations in this thread, I don't think the doctor said that in bad faith. The brain is incredibly complex, and doctors don't want to be too optimistic. Fortunately, there are many cases where "miracles" seem to happen. I'm so happy she recovered!

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During a previous interview, Amanda told Bored Panda that Twitter users can give some great advice, and they’re full of wisdom.

According to Amanda, it’s always easier to give advice than to listen to it because it’s far easier to see someone else’s situation clearly than it is to see our own.

"When it is our own life, we also have to deal with our own emotions and attachments and habits. I can easily see something with detachment when it isn't my own issue. I think it is actually incredibly difficult to detach and really look at your own life," she told us.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never understood why some people simply don't support their spouse when they have passion for something (like art in this case). I will never stop supporting my wife if she decides to do something similar. Good for you!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Justifying cruel decisions with statistics - it's a special kind of evil.

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"I think change is difficult and scary and most good advice revolves around change,” she said that even not making a decision is actually a decision. One that’s very easy to make. “Good things are difficult and take work, but sitting back and allowing life to just happen is a choice."

The fact is that success is possible for anyone and at any age. There’s a misconception going around that success is supposedly only the domain of the young and beautiful. And that’s just plain wrong. With the right drive, an active body and mind, we can reach our goals whatever the challenges.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"You write so well for a deaf person"... ?! SMH. How can you even say something like that ? It's like saying "You sing so well for someone wearing a red sweater !"

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Writer and award-winning editor Doug Murano from South Dakota previously spoke to Bored Panda about his extremely viral and inspirational thread about over-40’s success stories.

"I was raised to value grit over grace. That might be a South Dakota thing. The women in my life—particularly my mother and maternal grandmother—have set wonderful examples for me in terms of reinvention and perseverance,” Doug told us all about the people in his life who have helped shape his values.

“My grandmother attended university classes and became a certified Master Gardener in her 80s after my grandfather died. At 97, she still tends her own garden. My mother worked some extremely difficult jobs (including one in a meat processing plant) to help fund her doctorate. I had seen (yet another) 'under 40' list the day I wrote the tweet and immediately thought of them,” Doug said.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well done you. But 80 hours a week? Nobody should have to work that much to live.

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"Conventional standards of beauty are king in the media. Young people typically fit that mold more readily than the middle-aged or elderly and attract eyeballs more readily. I think that's probably why I gravitated toward the image of hands that had seen life and work. Again, I think of my grandmother's hands, which are like driftwood now. To me, that's more beautiful than anything," Doug explained that the media often chooses to focus on the success stories that are most presentable.

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Congratulations on that huge success! A baby AND top of class! You are my fricking roll model <3

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"Modern American life tells us we need to spend 40 years breaking ourselves in the pursuit of certain markers of success and then tells us we're irrelevant after we've done exactly that," Doug mused.

"It doesn't make any sense to me and it runs counter to what healthy cultures do, which is to revere and celebrate their elders.”

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife's first ex also told her she should dye her hair, have bigger breasts and look more like his celebrity crush. People who say 5h1t like that should take a look in the mirror.

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Meanwhile, Caroline Abrahams, Charity Director at Age UK, told Bored Panda how to maintain a sharp mind as we age. It’s an important factor when we consider our goals and ambitions in life.

"Our own studies have shown important connections between positive mental wellbeing and keeping active, and having better thinking skills in later life. This is good news because our sense of mental wellbeing is something we can take steps to improve," she went into detail.

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"In the same way that avoiding things like smoking, excess alcohol or a poor diet can help to reduce the risk of developing some forms of dementia and cognitive decline, so can looking after our emotional wellbeing by managing stress, establishing meaningful connections with people, doing new activities or getting a good night’s sleep,” Caroline said.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So glad the OP achieved his goal, but seriously, there is nothing wrong with a trade as a profession. In fact, the mechanic may earn as much as the doctor.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If only she could show Mr. Rothfuss or Mr. Martin how it is done!

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"Staying active isn't just about working up a sweat or running marathons, it can also be moving more each day at our own pace and in whatever way works. Being even modestly active helps give your wellbeing a boost and maintains bone strength, muscle strength, and coordination.”

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a strange church. I was in my church choir from about the age of 14 and I carried the cross every Sunday. The only tricky bit was remember to drop it down so it didn't get stuck in the chandeliers.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Contrary: I had a bf who told me I was only passing my CompSci classes because of him (because he quizzed me before a test?). Fast forward a semester, I had a Linux prof who knew my (ex at that point) bf, who told me not to listen as I was doing great. He also went on to tell me that the guy didn’t know half of what claimed, and was so miserable in class to another female that she was failing the until the prof moved her to another desk. She basically went from an F to an A in a week. Now I’m a senior programmer, and my ex can suck it. I really like that prof. He, and all the other profs in the CompSci program were awesome teachers who did not discriminate based on gender. Especially when it more rare for females to be in the classes. (Seriously, I was the only one in some.)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my mother was pregnant with me, she and my dad went to a doctor to examine the womb water (this was to find out if the baby has Down-Syndrom, especially when the mother is older. Mine was 39yrs old) when the doctor came with a big syringe to poke through the skin in the womb, mom opt out. She said she hadn't to know if I was disabled, she would love her kid nontheless. The doc got angry and told her she should abort me, there are somehow enough idiots on this planet and there is no need for more. DOC WAS SUCH A NAZI!!! I was born "normal" and some 2-3yrs later it came out that this doctor had aborted children way too late, and had raped his patiens. What an a*****e...

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The perfect comeback. Guessing by the handle that they also added a law degree

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's strange how brains work sometimes. Give me a practical word problem and I can solve it. Give me the same problem as an equation and I will mystify people on how I even came up with that wrong of an answer.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom didn't finish HS. At 29, w/ 3 kids (12. 9, & 6), working full time, she not only graduated HS, she finished a 2yr degree, associate of science, in 3 semesters. So even if you had gotten married & had kids, why would he think you'd quit? Mom said we were her inspiration to succeed.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I watch the NHL, and I've seen so many women get involved in broadcasting lately. I think people realize that women who can play the came can call the game. (I remember one Rangers' game where the woman calling the game from between the benches was the granddaughter (or great-granddaughter) of one of the player's who's number was hanging from the rafters. She was calling a game involving the same team that her grandfather played for. And she was wearing his hall of fame ring. I thought that was just so great!)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the hell says that while trying to seduce someone‽‽ Some people are just....

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ableism. I was told I could "only be a receptionist" because I have spina bifida. I hated school so did badly in it, yet I am by no means unintelligent. Literally fighting for your life medically, going through domestic abuse, and having the 'professional' people around you have low expectations of you is soul destroying. I'm doing much better as an adult. I have a uni education and my own business now. I've used those formative experiences to become a counsellor to help others. Don't let any person tell you you can't do something.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Way to go! My mom did it with 4 young kids under 12. GO YOU

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, because your grades in French will definitely have an impact on your ability to be a doctor (even if you plan on working in French speaking regions)

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would someone say that to a high schooler? Especially the assistant headmaster?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A very large football player named Rosie Grier did needlepoint. I think he'd like to see someone object to you embroidering.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kindly remind your parents that we don't live in medieval times anymore.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once underwent a long writing hiatus too - not because of other people, but rather due to sinking too deep in my own depression and self-loathing. Glad to say this is all behind me now.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many of these stories are only affirming the fact that we should follow our dreams regardless of the advice of our parents, teachers, colleagues, counselors, etc. Keep moving forward.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds very interesting. Have heard that the heart synchronizes to the music that you're listening to. So, it makes sense that it could be used as a tool for medical purposes.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope he was proud and congratulatory. She deserved a pat on the back for a job well done.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What?...no ones operates on standing people...wht the f**k was wrong with that douchbag of a dr?

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly though, it is rare for that to happen to anyone, that's why I think it's good advice. I'm sure that wasn't meant spitefully.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look - someone has to start it, the conversation, the re-education of us all, and it ALWAYS starts when people aren't ready. How does it feel to be Avant Garde? I bet it fecking rocks!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Clearly never heard of a fellow named Beethoven either....

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's fabulous to achieve and do what you love for a living, and if you're also helping others, it's icing on the cake.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's fantastic when people show "them" that their pregnancy is not a school ending, career ending, disease or disability that some people treat it to be.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefully learned that you don't have to listen to doubters when setting goals too

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure privacy is why no details, which I respect, but my curiosity is going bananas.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plenty of single mums on here proving that's the case

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It takes a great doctor to get someone to want to live. Or a mediocre one...

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The old "Ah, I don't understand them/they don't do my subject well therefore they must be stupid/thick..." attitude

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is an added challenge but certainly not a "never be able to". It's down to your determination and hard work.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brilliant. Glad the lads were along just to "make up the numbers"

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...and here is the commercial break we needed....the hero with a shitload of dare accomplishments.

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