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Revenge is a powerful feeling. It’s the juice of countless soap operas, reality shows, and TV dramas filled with the most satisfying plotline twists and turns. It's hardly surprising why we devour them, considering how motivated we get to seek small victories over people who get under our skin, right? When someone wrongs us or mistreats us — we seek justice. And sometimes, we do it in the pettiest way possible.

"What’s your best 'If I go down I’m taking you with me' moment?" asked Redditor StickyHoneyDude and invited fellow members of the 'Ask Reddit' community to share their entertaining stories. Needless to say, people immediately jumped in on the topic. Dozens revealed their elaborate plans of how they got their just deserts and made people pay for their crimes by dragging them down together — with different results.

We at Bored Panda hand-picked some of the best responses from the thread to share with you all. So sit back, grab a cup of coffee, and enjoy laughing through this wild and extremely petty ride. Keep reading to also find an in-depth interview about our tendency to seek revenge with psychologist Joshua Klapow, Ph.D. Then be sure to upvote the replies you enjoyed most, and let us know about your own vengeance stories in the comment section below!

Psst! If you’re interested in even more similar tales, then check out our earlier piece right over here.

#1

Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver My boss had fired me because I wanted to get into the plumbing field. I had an office job for this plumbing company, and at the time I was a dispatcher for them, just a normal office job. But when I started to express interest in going into the field, he fired me because he didn't like the idea of a "woman" being anywhere other than the kitchen. So... what do I do? I showed the police screen shots of him sexually harassing his female employees, along with a video of him grabbing a coworkers a*s. :)

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Molly Whuppie
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope the fact that you had the screenshots means that you were planning to report him regardless of being fired or not.

Chris H
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So... rather than report him for the sake of reporting him, only report him when he harms you?

Seth
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3 years ago

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Women rarely support other women unless they personally know them.

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Cold Eagle
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those saying that she should have reported him immediately (ASSUMING that the timing want close enough to the event to be negligible) DO need to understand that sometimes it's not safe to do so if you're stuck in an environment with said person. I just feel it's a little harsh to throw at the OP. I think we can all agree that creep got what he deserved.

Seth
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3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That mentality is precisely why creeps get away with predatory behavior. Imagine this scenario: while using the restroom at a bar, a good samaritan sees a creep spike your drink, and when you return the Samaritan discretely informs you of one of the following: 1) They saw someone spike your drink, and they'll walk with you if you want to leave, or 2) They saw someone spike your drink, called the cops, and they will sit with you until the cops arrive. Lots of people would chose option 1, because they don't want to make a scene and potentially have to face the creep; they don't want to experience any more victimization for themselves, and don't care if someone else becomes that victim. Option 2 may be more stressful, but if that was chosen more often there would be far fewer creeps.

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Angela Kelley
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So it took him denying you a job you desired to turn him in or did he just start doing this out of the blue?

Kellie Jones
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should probs have done that either wayb

Allan Felipe
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That should've been done earlier, but at least it was done in the end

Neal fy
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You should've done that even if he hadn't fired you though

iblewsheep
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should have shown that stuff to the police as soon as she knew about it not just hold on to it for revenge.

B Jean the Jelly Bean
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not cool, unless you would have done it even if he had let you go in the field..

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    #2

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver My brother tried to scare me and push me in the lake, the way I was standing I was going in no matter what but I saw him coming so I jumped and turned around and bear hugged him, his momentum took us both into the water. He had all his clothes on and his phone in his pocket lol, that was the last time he tried to prank me

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    Down With Agent Hedgehog!
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend tried to push me into a water sports lake when we were canoeing with my other best friends, because they were goofing around and fell in, and they wanted ME to get in too, saying it’s fun. I have fear of deep water, and plus THEY were on paddleboards, and I was in a CANOE, so it would be IMPOSSIBLE to get back in my canoe because the sides are so high. Not to mention I had zero chance of swimming back shore since we were in the middle of a lake. Well, the coach chewed them out

    Brivid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last spring a women, who was out with a group of people celebrating on pontoon boats, pushed a man, not wearing a life preserver, overboard. He couldn't swim, so his best friend went in after him. Unfortunately they both drowned. She was charged and convicted of two counts of involuntary manslaughter. Pushing people in the water is no joke.

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    Dina Anastasakos
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't people understand that pushing someone into water is dangerous? l hate practical jokes because someone is always humiliated.

    Bobby
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never shove anyone into the water when they aren't expecting it. I did it to my sister at an in ground pool once. Her head snapped backwards when I pushed her and it hit the concrete edge of the pool. 6 stitches. I just don't think it's funny after that

    Ozzie Ogawa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I swear i would cut my relationship to anyone who tried to shove me into deep water, an a*****e classmate tried to drown me during swimming lesson, everyone just laugh even the teacher. That moment gave me the worst trauma in my life.

    Emerald Ocean
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I had similar happpen to me. I was five and just learning to swim. I had a pool noodle and this older girl took it from me and laughed as I panicked. Thankfully my grandfather got to me in time. Weirdly I don’t have a fear of water tho

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    Addicted to Haribo Goldbears
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading that so many of my fellow pandas feel the same way I do really made me feel better about myself. I'm 56 yrs old and never learned how to swim. My daddy's brother drowned when they were little and he had to pull his deceased brother out of the water. So when me and my sister were growing up, he never liked us being near the water. He should have instead made sure we learned to swim, but I totally understand his fear. I thought I was just about the only grown person in the world that doesn't know how to swim at my age. That whole pushing people in is just not funny at all.

    Jack and Coke
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm older than you and I don't know how to swim. I'm afraid of the water and avoid it.

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    Penny Hernandez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at a pool party at the house of friends of my granddaughter. The 'host' thought it would be funny to push me into the pool full dressed. (I can swim well, but....) I got out of the pool to hear my granddaughter screaming at him, "You pushed my GRANDMOTHER the pool." As soon as the host's wife lent me some dry clothes, she packed up her husband, baby, and me, told him (in front of his parents) that she was leaving and wasn't coming back until he learned some manners.

    Chancey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can swim and hate the fact that there are inconsiderate idiots that push people into water. It can be very dangerous.

    Saracynthiasylviastout
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was about 9 years old one summer when I got to go to camp. I was an ok swimmer, no lessons or anything. Well for some reason, we had to jump off a wall into the lake for our swimming test and tread water for 2 minutes. I was scared to jump because it was was about a 10 foot drop. One of the teenage counselors pushed me and it was terrifying. I didn't trust any counselor after that and never went back. I'm 40 now and I still feel that way when I'm around water and heights.

    Melissa Jane
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha Well done and quick thinking,

    Courtney Christelle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pushing someone into the water like that when they aren't expecting it can cause severe injury. Never thought it was funny.

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    #3

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver Not mine but my dad’s. My dad was always a trouble maker & by the time he was 16 he had a fake ID that was passable enough for a couple of bars and clubs in his city. One of these clubs was a strip club. So he’s 16 years old & he’s in this seedy strip club enjoying himself, and he makes his way across the club to get a drink from the bar. On his way he bumps into HIS dad. Apparently they both did a double take, and my grandpa got upset with him and angrily went “what are you doing here?” to which my dad responded “what are YOU doing here?”. My grandpa just kind of nodded and considered that, before they both parted ways. It’s never been brought up again and especially not in front of my grandma.

    littlecbear , Sander Sammy Report

    Jude Bennett
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dad "do as I say not as I do". Son "practice what you preach".

    Katie Lutesinger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of that Simpsons episode where Bart skips school and then almost walks into Homer, and they BOTH freak out. "Oh no, I can't let Dad see me playing hookey!" "Oh no, I can't let the boy see me skipping work!"

    Terran
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It reminds of the episode, where Bart works in the strip club and his grandfather walks in and turns on the spot.

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    Donnie Mc00
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a well known bit in many comedy programmes.

    Della
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The egg didn't fall far from the tree!!

    Atreïdes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe probably not. It’d be more believable if this took place in a country where 18-year-olds can drink than where 21-year-olds can drink, as a 16-year-old is more likely to pass as an 18-year-old than a 21-year-old.

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    Rebecca Vestal
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like father like son but in the worst way!👎

    Mike Loux
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dad: "Well, I see where I got it from, then..." Grandpa: "Guess the apple didn't fall too far from the tree."

    Ivan Petrov
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🤣 OP's dad definitely had the upper hand.

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    "Turn the other cheek" may sound great on paper, but as we all know from experience, it can be incredibly difficult to put into practice. Especially if other people consistently wrong or annoy you to a degree you just can’t stand anymore. Most of the time, it seems impossible to balance the scales of justice and get back at them for causing these problems. But sometimes, a perfect opportunity to get vengeance and put these people back in their place may reveal itself. Then, you're presented with only one question: is it really worth it?

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    #4

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver I ended up doing a college group project with only one other person in my group. We were both pissed since we were probably going to end up with a fail due to not being able to complete it in a week time period with the lack of action from the other team members. So we did not do their part. We only did our part, and emailed (thank God the professor asked for this) a list of who's responsible for what in the presentation not saying a word about them not doing anything. They lost points on the project while we got full credit.

    maskedghostwolf , Dylan Gillis Report

    Katie Lutesinger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In highschool I was forced to do a group project with the two dumbest, laziest guys in the entire class. I soon realised they weren't going to do anything so I put the whole presentation together myself. On the day I stood up and said "well [name and name] wouldn't do any work, so this is just my presentation". The teacher said "IS THAT RIGHT?", glaring at the two bozos. I gave my solo presentation and got good marks, while the bozos were forced to do their own version with no help from me. They got maybe two lines in before the teacher pulled them up for getting their information completely wrong, and flunked the assignment. So in this case it was pretty much me refusing to be taken down with them.

    Amanda Rose
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate group projects for just this sort of stuff. I've always ended up carrying the project while everyone else goofs off.

    Nimues Child
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That professor earned a gold star that day...!

    JayWantsACat
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Professors who care do this since they know there are always people who don't do their part but assume others will for the sake of getting the project done. I actually made a deal with a group for a project back in college. Since most of them were ESL and I hated writing research papers, that if they handle all the research and writing I will review, edit, correct, etc the final project. And then I will present our entire project by myself. This worked out since they were stressed about doing the presentation & I wouldve had to review, edit, correct, etc everything anyways while also having to research and write my portion. We all essentially did have the work we would have normally done. And we got an A. Obviously only works if the Prof doesn't require every team member to participate in every aspect.

    Alicia GriffonLady
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whew! I hate teachers that just insist you should be able to convince the others in your group to be responsible, just magically, and the average the grade for the group. Like i have any authority over another student?

    Portia Reddy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar experience in grad school. The other people were totally jerks. I flew home from the east coast up catch the end of Hanukkah with my family. It's a six hour flight. I told the group I was leaving and would be unavailable for like 9 hours. I got so many emails in that time span of increasing aggressiveness. I sent the professor a very long email about their actions when I submitted my part. They too had their grade impacted!

    Britches are for everyone
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this same thing in middle school. I was in a group with my buddy and another guy. The other guy just didn't do anything, so my buddy and I did our part and the teacher actually asked us to give ourselves grades based on who contributed. We gave ourselves an A and him an F and that was the grade our teacher gave us.

    Hugendubel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Professor probably has a lot of experience with this- hes smart aaand fair.

    Daniel O'Neal
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh. Group projects were the bane of my existence when I was a university student.

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    #5

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver Actually had my boss deliver that message for me. Guy at work made a complaint about me and another guy not doing work. As if our boss wouldn't talk to everyone and get the truth? The guy making the complaint is the laziest piece of s**t in the whole department, everyone agrees on this. The boss had to say to him "if you're wanting an inquiry into exactly how much they are getting done on the job, you need to expect the same level of scrutiny aimed at you." He withdrew the complaint within 18 hours.

    oldladyyoungbody , Alex Kotliarskyi Report

    Asi Bassey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You and the other guy should counter-complain.

    MJ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He didnt want that inquiry for obvious reasons; all the more reason to push for the inquiry.

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    Anyone-for-tea?
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That nice to read about a good boss who has the back of their employees who are performing. Although it seems they need to address the underperformance of the other employee regardless.

    joop
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had a micromanaging manager who asked my collegue to set me up against the other collegue, because one of us had to leave. Some ppl stayed home with a burn out, because they couldn't handle his micromanaging. We got rid of him and have a real great, sweet manager now. And the other collegue said: My husband has a job, I'm 62, no kids, I don't like the job anymore. You can have it. You need it more. So sweet.

    CL Rowan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm surprised it took the a*****e that long to pull the complaint. Must have had one helluva temper tantrum.

    JayWantsACat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kind of reminds me of a co-worker, who I love to death, but she has an insane inability to understand the potential consequences of her words and actions.

    Remi (He/Him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The level of lazy that it took him 18 effin hours to manage even that speaks volumes

    #6

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver I was being fired over a joke I made and my boss didn't try to fight for me at all, so when the HR lady was telling me my remark didn't fit in with the standards held by the council, I looked at my boss and asked how did all of the racist, sexist, misogynistic remarks he'd made fit with the standards held by the council. He's bald f*****g head turned bright red and rather than deny that he'd said any such comments, he went on an insane tirade demanding to know why and how could I do this to him. Bastard.

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    Della
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Revealed a double standard

    Candi Cabral
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, you had no issue with his comments until your back was against the wall. You're just as bad as he is.

    Munnin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, this is a "I'm taking you down with me post". Morality isn't a factor here. It's just stories of people throwing a gut punch to the person responsible for their downfall.

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    Adam L
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was fired for comments and jokes, but won my unemployment case because I proved their "zero tolerance" policy was a sham. The other upside is I no longer work in the toxic environment that I needed escape from.

    tuzdayschild
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like you both needed to go.

    April Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, apart from embarrassing him, what did you actually achieve?

    Ansi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi, everyone. Did you know that Bored Panda bots automaticly bans people for getting downvotes? So when you downvote people with diffrent opinions you ban them from the site. So please downvote spam but not people. 👍

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    Ivan Petrov
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like a great poker opponent.

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    Klapow was more than happy to share his thoughts on the matter, as he recently did a live TV interview on whether we sometimes go too far when it comes to calling out people who betrayed us. "Rejection, shame, and betrayal are extremely powerful, visceral, and survival emotions. They go right to our fight or flight physiological mechanisms," he told Bored Panda.

    "As a result, when we experience them and have a person or persons who we identify as the 'cause', we are almost reflexively driven to 'hurt' them. It is a deep-seated, primitive response. One that we can override and don’t have to act on, but one, nevertheless, that we feel very intensely," Klapow explained.

    #7

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver I had a very bad manager at one company I worked, she was terrible, knew nothing and we honestly didn't know how she got the job. It was her, then 3 team managers, then us team leaders then 100+ staff members. She came in, within 2 month the team managers left and the lad that bluffed his way in to replace them disappeared after 2 weeks due to the stress so I took over. I was doing her job + 3 managers + my own for 3 months with no issues, then just before Christmas I got attacked by 2 lads. I had a knife wound to my abdomen and 2 bruised kidneys + other minor injuries. Signed off for 2 weeks bed rest. She was phoning me after 4 days off asking if I was going to be working over Christmas, it fell within my 2 weeks signed off, I said no and hung up. I then got nearly a dozen texts threatening my job, emails saying she was pissed off as she's had to cancel her plans etc and was going to get me fired. So, upon returning to the office I promptly told her to stick the secondment up her backside and she told me I was going to be in front of HR within the week. I went back to my desk, did a little tinkering and within released her work Lync messages on to a public drive which detailed the affair she was having with someone in our London office, changed her flatshare request on some website to utter filth and fired it all off in an anonymous email to HR and the directors. She was gone in 3 days. :D

    TheMediaBear , Bret Kavanaugh Report

    April Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Changed her flat share request to utter filth? Considering everything else you legit had on her, it's a shame you decided to do that.

    Sas Quatch
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know you got stabbed but can you work Christmas so I don't have to?

    Firefly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a company hires someone unqualified, doesn't look into mass leaving/firings, lets a junior employee do the work of 4 managers for months, it's not a "her" problem; it is a company problem and the employee needs to find something better.

    Remedy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both people here sounds pretty toxic

    StankleBerry
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    DAMN. Just the text messages would have been enough 😅

    Lonely Tentacle
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So... What I don't get is, in those three months, why didn't she (or anyone else, really) mention to HR or to some boss that the higher managers had left? It was 3 whole months!

    Keisha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She deserved the karma she quickly received and then some.

    Debrina Blackmoon
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LMAO(at her)...wish you all the best.

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    #8

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver TL;DR: Power-tripping Air Force security officer attempts to enforce traffic laws on open highway. I latch on to him, figuratively speaking, and pull him into the mud with me. In the Air Force, we have (not sure about now; this was several years ago) security police (SP) who are essentially guards for government installations. They aren’t law enforcement or traffic officers (we also have those). The base where I was stationed happened to have dozens of nuclear missile sites associated with the installation but scattered as far away as 150 miles from the base, with lots of desolate country in between. The SPs were charged with securing these missile sites, which, obviously, had zero to do with traffic law enforcement. As for me, I was a missile operator and often got to the remote sites via helicopter. Just as often, though, weather or other circumstances required that we drive. There were long days on the road to get to and from the duty locations. One fine day I was in the home stretch headed back to base in a government Suburban after being in the missile field for the previous 30 hours. My crew partner and I were grimy and exhausted, but had just about 30 miles to go. That’s when an SP in a government Bronco comes up behind me flashing his headlights. Obviously something was up, so I pulled over. Now, I must mention that the posted limit was (I believe) 70, but there was a standing order that government vehicles were not to be driven at speeds greater than 55 mph. I was probably doing between 60 and 65, and still getting passed by everyone, occasionally even a school bus. Anyway, this self-important SP walked up to my window and informed me that I was speeding. I was flabbergasted that this was why he flagged me down. I figured there was something serious going on in the missile field. Nope, he just wanted to flex. So, this guy was an a*s from A to Z and he just drug me through the wringer, going so far as to confiscate my military ID and order my passenger to drive the remaining distance to the base. Now, I would have happily just told him to get f****d, except he was a captain and I was a lieutenant. Not much I could do at the time but say “yes sir” and follow him back to base as ordered, where he then marched me to the squadron commander like I was his hunting trophy. I was seething with rage by this point and the squadron commander was in a bit of a pickle because he couldn’t very well dismiss this infraction now that it had been explicitly called out. So, being a decent guy, the colonel allowed me to make a written statement explaining things from my perspective. I asked for extra paper and sat in an adjacent office and wrote for a solid 30 minutes. In the end, I received a formal letter of reprimand. However, my written statement was accepted by the colonel and used as a basis to issue a formal letter of reprimand to the dipstick SP captain for several lapses in judgement. I successfully argued that the captain who clocked me either did so with a radar gun—which, although he was a security officer, he didn’t posses—by merely estimating my speed, in which case the allegation would be worthless, or by simply matching my speed and looking at his speedometer. When later pressed by the colonel on his method for determining my speed, the captain admitted to matching my speed and looking at his speedometer. With that admission, the colonel issued the captain a formal letter of reprimand as well for exceeding the 55-mph limit. Being a security officer didn’t excuse him from the standing order any more than it excused me. He also got reprimanded for some other inappropriate uses of his position as a security officer, such as confiscating my military ID while I was on duty in the missile field. It stung getting my military record tarnished like that, but dragging that captain into the mud with me made it almost enjoyable.

    shugerbooger , Mark Chan Report

    Cashme Outside
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know that was back in the day, but the air force’s security forces (yeah, they changed the name) haven’t changed a bit. Got pulled over once for not having a seatbelt on while on base…while returning from a mission… in an armored combat truck (hilux)… that didnt even have seatbelts… in afghanistan. Yeah. Super dumb. Our CO had some choice words for the sec forces commander over that and it didnt happen again, at least not while I was there lol

    Val Reilly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got a ticket on NAS Norfolk back in 1976 for 1 mile over the speed limit. I was 9 months pregnant. Federal Court, it got thrown. Out as the 17 other people's tickets said officer had given lol

    Samantha Maddog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember getting pulled over by MPs when I was 17. I wasn't speeding or even doing anything unsafe, I just happened to transition from an older stretch of blacktop to a newly laid piece and my car did a slight (and I mean VERY slight jig to the right) whereupon I immediately got pulled over. The officious butt-nuggets thought they could terrorize a couple of teens who in their eyes were only out joyriding. No explanation could suffice to excuse our transgression, so my license was confiscated and a ticket issued. I was informed that my parents could retrieve my license at their headquarters later that day( this was in the early 1980's so no cell phones). Now here's the extremely funny part of the story..... My last name differs from my Dad's because he's my stepfather. He also happened to be the Base Safety Commander ( the MPs boss) and my friend's dad was the Base Senior Master Supply Sergeant. The MPs ended up doing perimeter patrols on foot for a week

    arienne libbrecht
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That must have been a LONG time ago if he was in a Bronco. The new one hasn't been out for long.

    Rumple Schleppskin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I too, will make a point of getting passed by a SCHOOL BUS .. When relaying an impression of how slow I'm going.. It's the perfect example.

    Dean Johnson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was USAF Security Police Law Enforcement Specialist during the Bronco Era. Several issues with your story, but the biggest was the good Captain did not know how to defend his law enforcement action. Pacing is a viable enforcement action when no other speed measuring devices are available, even when it requires exceeding the speed limit to accomplish. Yah, he was flexing on you, but I could have made it stick. I was a lowly Senior Airman.

    John G
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But, he would have had to exceed the OPs speed to catch up and pace. I would think that would matter. WDIK.

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    Matt Wheeler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SP's are not, and have never been security officers. They are police officers.

    Candi Cabral
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    So you started the problem and decided to make it everyone's problem. Try playing by the rules and this wouldn't have happened.

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    #9

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver My younger brother found my cigarettes in my backpack when I was a senior in highschool. Mind you, he was 11 at the time. He tried to steal some to earn bragging rights from his friends but I caught him. He tried to force me to let him keep them or he'd tell our parents. So I straight up went to his dresser, looking him dead in the eye, I pulled out a f*cking mr.vapor dispo vape he got from his friend. His face went from a smug smile to a horrified look. He BEGGED me not to tell my parents, and me being an agent of chaos, I recorded the confrontation in case he ever tried to take me down. I shall never lose to my younger brother.

    ElDiablo-115-6 , Omar Roque Report

    Down With Agent Hedgehog!
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are now my hero (except the cigarette part)

    Ansi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if their parents were smokers...

    SCP-3998
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More than likely, that kind of addiction is generational.

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    Trinity Cottrell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always secretly audio record certain abusive family members of mine in case they try lying and pinning the blame of something on me. I especially do this with my hypocritical, abusive Grandmother, since she likes to verbally, physically and financially abuse people.

    Bryan W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish we pocket cameras growing up with my siblings for just this kind of reason.

    joop
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A boy in my son's school sold cigarettes to kids in school and the guy from school had a talk with him. He didnt tell his parents.

    Marah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait, he's vaping at 11? That's crazy, I didn't start anything until I was 14

    MJ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you’re gonna throw c**p, you’d better be ready for the return fire.

    Courtney Christelle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I stole my sister's cigarettes when I was 14, she was PISSED! Didn't tell our mom tho, she ain't no snitch.

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    As it turns out, we are wired to feel a universal thirst for retaliation in the face of a threat. When we are suddenly filled with a whirlwind of emotions, we also feel this instinct that pushes us forward to make seemingly irrational decisions that make complete sense at a time. But in the long run, we’re more likely to regret our actions.

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    When it comes to the "If I go down, I’m taking you with me" moments, Klapow pointed out that dragging people with us makes us feel better in the short run. "It’s the easier way to validate that we are not alone in transgressions, that it wasn’t completely our fault and that the responsibility for the wrongdoing lies with others, not just us."

    "All of this is our emotional response," the psychologist continued. "Deciding to take action and bring someone down with us, is one that comes with consequences," Klapow explained there’s one disparity many of us fail to see before acting on our emotions. "There is a difference between letting a person know they have a responsibility and letting them know that you want them to take that responsibility, versus making them take responsibility."

    #10

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver A couple of weeks ago the scariest s**t of my life happened. I work nights, get home at 0430 and am getting out of my car. I start walking around the front to grab my stuff out of the passenger side so I can head inside. Someone starts calling out to me from the corner behind me. Its this 150-200lb 5' 7"ish hispanic kid, dressed in all black, Hoodia, and face mask. He's approaching me kinda fast which already made me nervous cause usually at 0430 the streets in my small town are dead. As he is closing he's asking if I smoke, and if I have a lighter. Even after saying no he's still coming and I know somethings isn't right and my hand goes to the knife in my pocket. The entire time he's approaching I kept moving around my car and put him in front of me as he came around the front as well. As soon as he's around the hood I see he's got a knife in his hand. I always carry a knife on me. I got used to having one on me for work and just never stopped even after I changed jobs. Its a 4 1/2" flip knife. I pulled my knife out and flipped it open and squared up with him. I was scared shitless and about to p**s myself. I told him, "Come on man, this ends bad for both of us." Not a single word, he just backed away around the front of my car and continued on down the street. I grabbed my s**t and backed into my house as fast as I could only taking my eyes off him long enough to get inside. I called and filed a police report but he was long gone and all I had was a generic description that covers 50% of the population.

    GrumpleBumpkin , Matteo Modica Report

    Hales M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... if he has s face mask and a hoodie with the hood up... how do you know he's hispanic?

    Lizzy Crit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Accent when he's speaking and skin tone of the hand holding the knife

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    RedRose
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This story is boosheet looking for 15 minutes in a day in the life of a superhero.

    Munnin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is this a "if I'm going down, I'm taking you with me" story? It's not meant as a literal thing

    MJ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously, major applause for standing your ground. You were scared to death, but you held on to reason, and that worked on him too. Well done.

    Kimberley Broyles
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd like to know why it even matters what ethnicity he was. A punk is a punk.

    Ivan Petrov
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Three things I always carry - a knife (a folding one, because of work, just like OP), a lighter, and a flashlight. So far, I didn't really needed to use the knife. I hope I never need to.

    Bobby
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad I'm not the only one that has trouble estimating sometimes weight

    Rumple Schleppskin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pepper Spray / Bear Spray would have been nice too. Then call cops and they'll probably get him. .. Just follow the pepper smell. And look listen for the guy groaning..

    Egg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really hope you're joking.

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    #11

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver I once failed a test in hichschool, the guy sitting behind me leans closer to me and whispered “Damnit man, I was cheating off of you” I didn’t mind failing that test

    Steff_164 , Nguyen Dang Hoang Nhu Report

    AutumnSong2009
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A guy in my class last year was (not so subtly) sitting behind me and shifting his desk closer to mine to copy off my laptop. He was in a group with me for the other part of the assignment and thought he was going to get a good grade for once. My laptop died :)

    Hales M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time my prof told me that in my midterm two people had copied off of me. So I decided to eff with them. I used to circle my answers in the test sheet in full view and then last minute fill in the scantron. The funny thing is that I would circle the incorrect ones and then only on the scantron do the right ones. Just before handing it in i would write this on the top of my test so my prof would have my answer key in case something happened to the scantron. I'd write [circle] a=e, b=a etc... they very quickly stopped and got super confused when I would get 90's on something they copied and failed.

    Avocado Toast
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It serves him right because he shouldn't have been cheating in the first place

    Two_rolling_black_eyes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In junior high school, my history teacher was pregnant and was struggling with morning sickness. It was last week of school so she was just pushing through. During the final test, she left repeatedly to deal with it. First time, my bully scooted over and copied my answers (it was a scantron dot test). I then answered every question wrong after that and they ended up copying all my wrong answers each time she left. I had a study hall the next period so when class was over, I asked the teacher if I could retake the test because someone had been copying me but I didn't want to name them (snitches get stitches). She let me retake the test during study hall. I ended up with an A-. Pretty sure the bully ended up failing. We moved the next week before report cards came out.

    Jose Cabanas
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh man, this reminds me of a funny story. It was in highschool and we where doing a science "make up" test that I missed because I was absent that day, in the library on this big round table, there was about 8 of us sitting in one. I also happen to be sitting next to one of my best friends, he kept leaning over and asking me for answers to certain questions, of course I would help him out. Then he would turn around and say he wasn't sure if I was right since he noticed everyone else had different answers, so he decided to go by everyone else. Turns out, I was the only one who passed the test that day, my friend was pissed and we always have a good laugh when ever this story comes up. =XD

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    #12

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver college was assigned to a group for the whole semester with a team of slacker. So none of them, show up to the project meeting... I did all the work, I email the professor about it, she didn't care... So I tank the project grade on purpose( I could just retake the course and get the grade replaced).. So all 3 of them was very sad.... I was happy.

    Einspiration , Green Chameleon Report

    Down With Agent Hedgehog!
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice. I think people who slack off and expect a single person to do group work FOR them should just not get a grade at all. I had this situation too in school, I did the same and the bratty girls I was assigned with yelled at me for ‘being selfish’. Then they hit me. So I hit them back, because they were the stupid group of girl bullies going around in makeup at school, picking on people. And I didn’t do it because I was infuriated, i was totally calm, I did it because they deserved it. And I probably didn’t even harm them much except for their ego, because I normally didn’t speak much at school and I’m a nerd who have never hit someone or yelled at someone since kindergarten. *shrug*

    Dre Mosley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was in a similar situation. I eventually gave up meeting with them to work on it(they always had some excuse), told the professor, and did the whole thing myself.

    Need2Work4Myself
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the reason I HATE group projects!

    Tony Pott
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read about a lot of this kind of thing. Genuine question: do American colleges have no academic integrity rules that forbid taking credit for another's work? If so, and if you have an e-mail/IM documentation trail, can't you bypass your professor and raise the matter directly with the college administration. Because if someone claims part credit for a project they played no part in, that is what this is.

    Spencer McClure
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the teacher refused to do something then the OP could have taken it to the head of whatever major those classes were for. To not acknowledge and punish students like that is no better than to let cheaters go without punishment.

    MJ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty cruddy (for you, BP 🙄) for the prof to just not care that their students weren’t pulling their weight and earning their grade. It sucks that your options were earn other people their grade when you did all the work, or tank so that those slackers got the grade they deserved, but im still blaming the prof on this one.

    Matt Wheeler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The hardest part of this story to believe is that you went to college. It's almost unreadable.

    Jessica Julian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you sure it wasn't your terrible grammar and punctuation that tanked the project?

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    "Dragging people down typically creates a new problem because now you become a person of blame for dragging them down. You are now the object of a transgression and they no longer have to take responsibility because you forced them into action," Klapow said, adding this is rarely a good short-term or long-term approach.

    #13

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver TL;DR: Worked for a joke of a company. (Toys R' US Corporate, 1997) Idiot coworker and management deliberately prevented my success. I wrote a detailed paper to upper management detailing their (true and verifiable) history of theft, abuse of expenses, poor judgment, and atrocious work quality. They canned the whole department (including me) and outsourced I. T.

    ViolenceForBreakfast , Pallavi Gondane Report

    April Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That one might be edging towards 'cutting off your nose to spite your face'. You might not have been getting the promotion you deserved but you did have a job.

    Cory Willson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who cares if you have a job of they refuse to pay you remotely what youre worth

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    Party Poison (They/Them)
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, did he only report this because he wasn't getting a promotion, or did he plan to do it regardless? For me it seems like the first one. OP did this out of spite and most certainly got people in the department canned that had nothing to do with the whole thing.

    KWhiskers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I was also thinking if the entire department got fired when it was management and one (singular) coworker then there were obviously a bunch of innocent ppl who got fired. That's messed up and nothing to be happy about or proud of.

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    Pj Mac
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then they went out of business & everyone clapped.

    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people who fired you might have been afraid that you'd turn your scrutiny on them next.

    Kelly Smith
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So far, this is the only post that actually does what the title says by getting someone back while you go down too. Oh yea, the girl whose brother tried to push her in and she pulled him in too, that one qualifies too but this one is better!

    Candi Cabral
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Notice you were okay with his abuse and theft and poor judgment until you didn't get what you wanted. What's the matter with you.

    Jinx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worked for Toys R Us as a stocker in 2010. Got fired black Friday morning before the sun came up because I asked to go home after spending 10 minutes throwing up in the bathroom and realizing I had a fever.

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    #14

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver In grade school we had desk in rows, I was part of the group in the back these were 6 kids side-by-side. I was leaning backwards in my chair and felt myself falling as I ended up leaning too far. I tried to grab the two kids next to me for support and pulled them off balance since they ware also kinda leaning back, comically I remember one of them reached out and pulled yet another kid down.

    Xerokine , Kenny Eliason Report

    Hannah Evans
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have loved to witness that. Bet it was hilarious

    Electra Complex
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Extremely literal example of the situation 😆

    Aaron Matye
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dragging others down with yourin the literal sense 😂

    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least no one could prove who set off the pile up..lol

    Rumple Schleppskin
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is one of those cute, funny, I'm taking you with me.moments. .. Teacher had to be like.. .. WHAT IN THE.. H..E..DOUBLE HOCKEY STCKS IS GOING ON BACK THERE!!

    Beverly Stuart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sight variation on "Ring around the roses...all fall down".

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    #15

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver 7 years old in deep end of pool on noodle, lose balance and fall off, can’t swim, twin brother has noodle, splash over to him, cause him to lose his noodle, we can’t swim. Lifeguard had to rescue both of us.

    dirtnasty7 , Dave Clubb Report

    Erin Fish
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We were born together, so I guess we'll drown together 😆

    Scott Dixon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So your parents just let two kids who can't swim go into a swimming pool alone? Why are some parents so bad at the job.

    Patricia O'Rourke
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why wasn't anybody with you? (maybe they were with grandparents or friends). Thank goodness for that lifeguard!

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    Jessica Julian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What kind of parent lets their children, who cannot swim, in a pool with a deep end?

    Jordi Sharpe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is where bad parenting is called out for obvious reasons. Wtaf

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    Many people believe revenge will make them feel better and help them gain closure, others report feeling worse and worse over time after retaliating and then ruminating on their deed. But studies have shown that, usually, the taste of revenge is bittersweet, as it's capable of evoking both positive and negative emotions.

    "Getting revenge very often is a way to displace our own hurt," Klapow said. "It can temporarily help us redirect our intense emotions from focusing on ourselves to having an object of blame. It makes us feel like the world is right and stable."

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    Taking vengeance on someone, however, is different from looking for justice, he added. "Seeing a person be held responsible for their transgressions can help us heal. It does create closure."

    "The difference is when we seek revenge, we seek to harm for what was done for us. This creates more anger and more distress. When we seek justice, in contrast, we seek for equality to be restored. Getting justice is not something where we seek to harm. And in that way, the toxicity of revenge is neutralized."

    #16

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver First time I went snowboarding I was 19. My company jn the army did a morale boosting event and we all went up for a day. A few of us took the beginners lesson with about 10 other civilians and things went like you could have expected. The 20 year old army guys being loud and making fun of each other for not doing well. I walked away from my friends to the cutest girl around our age and said "I'm going to stay over here with her. You guys have fun" It was well received and this young lady and I had some laughs while finishing the lesson. Well its time to put our newly found knowledge to the test on the bunny slopes. I was fully prepared to snowboard down the mountain. What I was not prepared for was the chair lift that would take us to the top. This rickety bench held onto a wire clothesline while one foot was strapped onto this long board seemed daunting. The plan was for my friend to sit on the left. Me on the middle. And my new young woman friend volunteered to help me and sit beside me on the right. Our turn arrives and this park bench sweeps me off of my feet and off we go. Mission a full success, beers for everyone upon our return.........up the mountain we ride and then I realize we still have to.....slide off this thing. We are at the top and our turn is up. I get my board facing the right way. My friend talks me though it and here we go........I start to slide a foot away from the seat. Now two. Now three. I've done it!!! Nope. Lose my balance and grab the first thing i can to keep my balance......this 120 pound woman was then thrown to the ground as I regained my balance and perfectly snowboarder away I looked back over my shoulder and apologized.....it was too late. They didn't stop the lift and the people behind us had now piled on top of her with a third row of people on the way. Whoever you were lady. I really am sorry. I have never heard the end of that to this day.

    cliftarded , Colin Cassidy Report

    Icy_Question_4977
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is umm …. a lot to take in.

    Victoria Spies
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh. I didn't even realize until I finished reading it lmao

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    Pam Derck
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a snowboarder myself-- chairlifts are the worst! They were designed for skis. Even experienced snowboarders still fall occasionally and take someone out. The second group of people crashing into her is the fault of the liftie for not stopping it and giving her time to recover and move away.

    SCP-3998
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well this makes me feel better when I went boarding for thr 1st time and the lift operator had to stop and back the lift up for me to get off 🤣🤣

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    Aaron Matye
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At first is started off like a stereotypical romance story, then ended with her getting dog-piled into the snow while you rode away. Lol

    Tania L. Williamson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Mother had the same problem with chair lifts. I her case it was because she broke her leg getting off of a chair lift. She hated skiing as a result. My Father was a narcissistic a*****e who couldn’t be bothered to help her, or anyone, who was having difficulties with anything. I often wished she would just divorce him. Unfortunately back in the 1960s, and 1970s, that just wasn’t done. My amazing Mother became an alcoholic to cope. Decades later, she died first. She died from a fall because he was “too busy” to help her get out of bed. He was diagnosed with cancer 6 weeks later. Nothing changed. He was still an a*****e until the day he died.

    Ace
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lift operator wasn't doing their job. They have an emergency stop button to use in just such an eventuality, which probably happens at least once per hour, but obviously wasn't paying enough attention.

    Frances Blades
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did ALOT better than I would have 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what can happen when you try to be slick...lol

    Sascha Rambeaud
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, no one chiming in that the thing to do was to stop, take off that snowboard and walk back to help her?

    Courtney Christelle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet she was into you until that happened.

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    #17

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver Late to the party. But- was touring Tower Bridge in London. There is a glass floor and I, in all of my infinite acrophobic wisdom, decided to give it a try. I put one foot on it, felt faint- which is typical for me, then put the other foot on it and immediately screeched and grabbed on to the COMPLETE AND TOTAL stranger next to me for dear life. So, dear stranger, don’t be near me if I start to fall- I’m taking you with me.

    zahntiru , Tim Trad Report

    Patricia O'Rourke
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A glass floor up high? I'd be screeching too!

    Midoribird Aoi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look up the glass bridge that exists in real life. See what you think 🤔😂

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    Hannah Evans
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try the one at the top of the CN Tower in Toronto Canada. My Mum managed to put half her foot on it. My Grandmother and I stood in the middle and it was a slightly weird feeling but so cool!

    SCP-3998
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was pushed on it by my "friends" when we went on a field trip in middle school. I'm PETRIFIED of heights, I froze and completely disconnected mentally, I had to be pulled off by the teacher.

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    Minath
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd have to crawl across the glass floor, otherwise I would be rooted to it for the rest of eternity.

    Veronica Richard
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm getting the colly-wobbles from looking at the pic!

    Dawn Harris
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never heard that term before, I love it!! It totally describes the feeling 😄🤪

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    Ansi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They probably didn't mind and understood the situation.

    Aunt Riarch
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well it wasn't me, because you'd never have got me up there in the first place

    Torii W
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would anyone even build such a creepy thing?

    A B C the Third
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They could at least have used a picture of Tower Bridge's glass floor. BP, you asleep?

    Kate
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I almost spit my food out I was laughing so hard! I can totally see myself doing the exact same thing!!!

    Frances Blades
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have that here. In the Calgary Tower. My younger brother can do it. I think my baby brother can do it🤔. My younger sister get to the windows to look around at the view. I can't get within 5 ft of the windows and I will walk down all those with crutches and 2 shattered legs before I go anywhere NEAR the glass cage that sits you on the outside of the building 😳😳😳🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

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    #18

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver I told my little brother I was procrastinating instead of doing homework one time while sitting in the car waiting for my mom, and he opened the door, and knowing that he was about to snitch, I told him that if he did I would tell my mom that he watched porn. He closed the door silently.

    JustNobodyTheEchidna , Wendy Wei Report

    Aski Markup
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sad that kids have access to that sort of filth.

    Bella V
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically they had it in your day too. They were just hidden and in magazine / video form. Nothing new just easier.

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    Ruby Munson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't want to think how the older sibling found out

    Leon/Moxxie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude I have a sister that snitches on me but I have no blackmail against her ;-;

    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh please...kids have been reading " that filth" for years!! If it wasn't the internet, it was Playboy and Penthouse, if it wasn't those it was whatever else was around before. Don't make it sound like kids today are the only ones who ever looked at naked people.

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    Ansi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi everyone. 🙂 Do you know because of that Bored Panda doesn't have moderators, their bots ban everyone that gets downvoted from the site. So even if you don't agree with opinions it makes the site better if we downvotes spam posts, not people. I got banned 5 days for writing kittens and puppies were cuter then ducklings. It felt bad and I promise I'm 100% for duckies now. 🦆😄😁😉😉

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    The next time you find yourself in a situation where you feel this profound desire to get payback, stop for a second and analyze your feelings. "Know, accept and even embrace that our natural desire to seek revenge, to bring someone down with us who has betrayed us, is how we are wired," the psychologist suggested. "It is not inherently bad. It’s okay to think about revenge, ponder it, play it out in your mind."

    But thinking about retribution and actually committing to it are two different things. "Allowing the thoughts to emerge does not mean you will act on them. In fact, telling yourself it’s okay to think these thoughts of revenge and then allow them to pass without taking action is a way to help reduce the feelings of intense anger and distress."

    #19

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver I worked for a hotel at a resort and I had been there for 2 years and never had a holiday off. I was supposed to be helping the wait staff instead of my usual front desk duties on Easter Sunday. But dammit, I wanted to go to Easter lunch with my family. So, they had me working waiting tables the night before and I was helping shut down the kitchen for the night. One of the kitchen crew guys mopped and left a decent sized puddle on the floor and I knew right where to walk as me, the host, and the night manager went to walk out. "Slipped" right in it and twisted my ankle.. I knew the night manager wouldn't do any of the required reports so when I called out the next morning and my boss starts bitching about how I should have reported the incident and I was getting a write up and i was lucky i wasn't being fired on the spot, I can confidently tell her that I fell in front of the night manager so he was aware. She shut it after that because that meant they were liable and had no documentation. I got my Easter holiday off and one more to go to the doctor and get a note.

    NicheNitch240 , Louis Hansel Report

    A B C the Third
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two years without a holiday? How is that legal in ANY country?

    Egg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's called America, and somehow it's still considered a first world country.

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    Sascha Rambeaud
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The land of the free. Where you have to hurt yourself to get off work on a public holiday.

    Lisa Elliott
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Faking an injury is a jerk move and exactly why the ACTUALLY injured victims aren't believed and can't get help. You are making it harder for other people just because you felt entitled to a day off. Not cool. Bad coworker.

    LinkTheHylian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The injury was real, it was the slip that was intentional.

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    #20

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver A friend of mine and I were trying to build and grow a local chapter of our political party and were heavily involved in the youth segment of the county level of said party as well. The leadership on county level (like, still a laughably miniscule position in the party) was an influence-obssessed, twisted petty middle-aged couple who basically kept sabotaging us and cutting funds once they saw we actually wanted to change s**t and not just be numbers in a statistic they could use to show ofd their "growth" to the state level of the party. I guess they felt threatened in their control over the party chapter or something. So, long story short, once this conflict escelated and we saw we're just wasting our time, the youth section conspired against the county-level leadership and collectively left the party. This led to the disbanding of the entire youth section, two local party chapters, the county-level lost about 30% of all their members and the whole thing was the solitary hot topic for a week in the local press, publically humiliating the county leadership for being the absolute garbage human beings that they were, as they provoked this damage to the party with their leadership style.

    UpbeatDoomer , Christina @ wocintechchat.com Report

    Aunt Riarch
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So have you set it up again, now that you've cut out the dead wood?

    Jefferson Selvy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If that is representative of the party leadership, would you want to?

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    joe skevis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Which party and country was it?

    LinkTheHylian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be willing to bet a chocolate bar that it's the Republicans in America.

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    #21

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver When I was in school I got a question wrong on a test but had cheated off someone who got it right. When we were reviewing the test I asked about said question and argued I was correct but I wasn’t. Without thinking I blurted out “then why did Matt get it right?!” And I got in trouble for cheating and he got his grade change to reflect he got the question wrong

    mrsaftey , Jeswin Thomas Report

    Patricia O'Rourke
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All he had to do was, say they compared answers after the test, duh.

    CultOfBambi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Duh, unless Matt didn't mind them cheating off him he wouldn't have gone along with that lie...

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    Cici
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's the reason why we had A B tests lol

    Raine Drop
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a similar story. So when I was in 8th grade (sometimes happened in 9th too) and I had the same science class as my friends, we would just copy off of each other. One day we got homework, and I think I was the only one to do the assignment that night. Well the next day I show my friends, they copy, then the next day after that we get the results. I had the lowest grade out of all of us on that assignment, and they copied my assignment. I was so confused, but didn't call anything out since I don't think the teacher would have cared, and at that time I didn't want the teacher to know that they had copied off of mine.

    JL
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Couldn't you have said you saw his answer during the review? You avoid getting busted and he still gets dinged.

    Remedy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you cheat off a guy, then drag him down? You suck...

    Kat Lyle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is exactly how I proved my history teacher was down marking me. The boff and I proved I had cheated off him - I still got failed for cheating but at least the department head called out the marking. Managed to pass the rest of that year...

    Jan Eivroc
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friendship ended? ...any update would help to close this drama...

    "It’s critical that you always ask yourself what an act of revenge will accomplish beyond making you feel better in the short run. Will it have negative effects on your life later on? Will it cause others to see you in an unfavorable light? Will it tarnish the very reputation you may be trying to hold? Thinking is ok. Acting upon the thoughts is often not okay," Klapow concluded.

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    #22

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver This guy (who was already expelled from my college) got reported to the police for dealing heroin by his ex's boyfriend. He then reported the ex's boyfriend to the college for dealing weed and got him kicked out.

    imaqdodger , MART PRODUCTION Report

    April Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What goes around, comes around...

    Gabriela
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, a snitch for a snitch.

    LinkTheHylian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The ex may want to sort their life out, too.

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    #23

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver My brother was about to be grounded for several months because he snuck out, got drunk and did damage to property which our mom later found out about. When he came home he knew if he opened the front door it would wake mom so he climbed the porch to the roof of the porch and made me let him in through my window. He told me to keep my mouth shut and gave me twenty bucks. I didn't know he'd been drinking and doing drugs, I just thought he went out for a walk and got locked out at 3am (I was 13 and very naive and innocent). A few weeks before the night out I bought an Xbox with money I'd been saving for several months. My brother has a habit of being greedy so I never let him play on it and that pissed him off. As our mom is passing down his punishment my brother says that I should be grounded as well since I knew he'd snuck out and didn't say anything. Our mom grounded me, as well, and took away my Xbox and electronics for a week. My brother was grounded for several weeks but he wanted one small thing I guess. When I got my Xbox back I got the Red Ring of Death a couple days later and my mom wouldn't help me ship it to the Microsoft facility for my warranty repair. It would be years before I had any other system besides my PS2.

    carmelacorleone , Kamil S Report

    AmandaKay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, your mom was the b***h in this one. Punishing you for being your brothers accomplice makes sense. Siding with Microsoft to scam you out of $300+ with defective machinery is utter petty BS.

    Katie Lutesinger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a bit like the Blue Screen of Death on a PC. It means your XBox is broken.

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    Rumple Schleppskin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is kind of refreshing, a story of taking someone down, but it's the teller getting took.

    April Dancer
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    Oh no. You had to put up with dated game playing for a while for blackmailing your brother? Don't bother ringing Childline...

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    #24

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver Barged into a meeting my boss was holding with some Very Important People, and very loudly quit my job, knowing that she has a hatred of being embarrassed.

    TillikumWasFramed , Christina @ wocintechchat.com Report

    April Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure everyone is quite understanding this topic. Just out of interest, what sort of reference did you get to give your next 'lucky' employer?

    Cat Ballou
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    References aren't really needed these days. Employers in the US are only allowed to verify dates of employment. You can sue if they a dry anything negative

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    Local foodie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I kinda wanna know what called for this

    Apathetic Bovine
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...who likes being embarrassed, though? Feel like this one needs a bit more context.

    María Hermida
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody likes being embarrassed, but some people deal with it much better than others. In general, narcissists can't deal with anything that spoils their aura of grandiosity and authority. I guess the boss was a total a*****e who shouted or shamed employees in front of others, and OP decided to give her a spoonful of her own medicine.

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    Sanchi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That pic is photo shopped. Look at the three last people on the table, well actually just the girl with blonde hair and the last person there

    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't necessarily condone this but you pull this type of stunt AFTER you've sealed the deal with the next employer.

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    #25

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver When my boyfriend walks the dog at night (we do morning together and I do lunch and noon) and he comes home with frozen hands. No matter where I hide, no matter how much I beg for mercy, he always pull up my shirt and put his cold hands on me. Causing me to jump. If he is freezing so will I.

    __Paris__ , Andrew Measham Report

    Aunt Riarch
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Time for you to do the night shift methinks.... Just once should be enough

    Susan Howell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or be kind and give him a nice warm pair of gloves.

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    Patricia O'Rourke
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buy him some gloves!! And yes, this is just mean, not funny at all.

    Katie Lutesinger
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad used to ride his motorcycle to work, including during the winter, and if you were sitting watching TV when he got home he'd sneak up behind you and stick his cold hands down the back of your neck!

    Richard Anderson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone would be getting a bucket of ice water over the shower curtain.

    Jane Cortez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know! I know! What if he wears gloves?🧤

    C. T.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make the night walk your together walk. He can do the morning by himself.

    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As you see him coming up the walkway,, hold some ice cubes in your hands for a bit then of course get him before he gets you!

    Tania L. Williamson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where is the middle part of the story where you cause him to freeze?

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    #26

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver Someone was being transphobic to my now-boyfriend, and made him start crying. Dude kept going, so I beat him up (I had anger issues in middle school.) The school knew I had issues, and I told them "Yea I f****d this kid up, but he was being a d**k to my friend." Kid got in trouble cause I NEVER admitted when I was wrong, I only got off with a 2 day suspension (which is really good since I punched this kids lights in)

    StressyLemon , Zachary Keimig Report

    Galex
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like typical netflix drama

    Adam L
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am never gonna punish my child if they get in trouble for defending someone from a bully, as long as they don't go too far themself

    April Dancer
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    3 years ago

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    Hope you've grown up and tackled the anger & blame issues as you sound about 12 in this story.

    SCP-3998
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They were defending a friend who was being horribly bullied, admitted to having anger issues BACK THEN. Reading comprehension would do you some good

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    Jackson Vinc
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actions speak louder than words however I'm not really sure this was the right thing to do in the situation

    Debrina Blackmoon
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hugs to everyone in every group undeserving of toxic bitchfungus assholevirus vilebullshittery. WTF

    Elizabeth Paul
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you! Love that you two are dating now. I hope you have a long beautiful future. I was always the one that "had words" with the bullies. Bullying isn't cool

    Debrina Blackmoon
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was frequently bullied from junior high/middle school and all through hs(still am, but whatever) but always figured it was deserved whether I reported it or not each time I doubted it would be dealt with properly, either way.

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    3 years ago

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    Justin Mundy
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    3 years ago

    Boyfriend sounds like he's a little girl.

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    #27

    Someone Asks "What’s Your Best 'If I Go Down I’m Taking You With Me' Moment?" And 27 People Deliver Playing a game of Yugioh. I know the guy has a face-down Magic Cylinder (negates my attack and deals me damage equal to my monster's power), which will kill me if I attack. I stall until I draw the last card in my deck that can destroy it, but he's set a bunch of other cards face-down as decoys. I use my card, pick the wrong target. I know now I cannot win. I activate Overload Fusion to fuse every monster in my Graveyard into Chimeratech Overdragon, then use Limiter Removal to double its ATK, pumping it up to 19,200. I then flip over Ring of Destruction to destroy it and deal damage to both of us equal to its ATK. The only time I've been proud of a ragequit.

    DrakeyC8 , Erik Mclean Report

    Donnie Mc00
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you lost me at Yugioh.

    Minath
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read this twice and still can't comprehend it.

    Jordi Sharpe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a perfect example of how fandoms are almost cultures in themselves. Specific language and ritual. We, the outsiders, observe with an Attenborough-like intensity, but can never truly understand.

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    Billy Harrelson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did it take five days of constant inner monologues to play that out, lol?

    Adam L
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did they shout that they believe in the "Heart of the cards"?

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    Bennett Eubanks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a yu gi oh nerd I actually understand this and my friend does the same sort of stuff except he just likes to go out on his terms flips over the card and loses. Really funny tho.

    Weeblet
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have many Yu-Gi-Oh cards, don't know how to build a deck or link summon, and I want to play with someone but nobody wants to/knows how to play. Lol

    LinkTheHylian
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can find the game rules online, and YouTube videos will help you with the game mechanics. Then you could probably go to Reddit or something to find fellow players.

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    Jane Doe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But this was in the rules of a game? I’m happy for you, bro, but it’s what you’re supposed to do.

    Ruby Serene
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't play that specific card game but have played/watched people play others. That sounds like an awesome way to go down! Just hope the other person isn't a sore loser.

    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only understood a bit of this because my son had all that stuff and watched the show every afternoon.

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