Really wtf?

If your goal is to be a single mother raising a child on her own, makes perfect sense to me.

This happens way too often :(

This is sickening

I've heard that advice, also I've heard it always needs to be woman's decision to have children, because men only know they want one after it has already arrived. Also I've heard that if we don't get kids now he's going to regret it and leave me for younger, fertile woman. If somebody try to tell me any of that again I simply tell them my husband and I CAN'T have children. Basically it's true, because we don't want to.

An accidental pregnancy may change a couple's mind, it may not, but to deliberately "accidently" get pregnant is NEVER a good idea!

Never, NEVER do that. Happened to one of my Dad's best friends. His friend ("Ted") was dating a girl who told him she wason birth control but stopped taking it. She got pregnanat and had a kid, and she almost ruined ted, ted's girlfriends and baby daughters lives.

My partner wanted to wait, and more than one friend suggested I sabotage birth control

I know someone who did this. We're no longer close, for obvious reasons, but they're still married and have a whole separate life with their "surprise" child because it cost them literally everything else (she alienated anyone who knew what she'd done & his two older children were pretty much written out of the narrative. )

So basically based on her own ignorant assumption, she urged you to lie to your spouse and trick him into making you pregnant, forcing him to become trapped in a situation that would change and affect the rest of his life. Yeah, because that is what you do to people you love... I wonder what her marriage looks like. This speaks volumes about the kind of person she is. By the way, I do have a kid who I absolutely adore and would not exchange for anything in or out of this world, HOWEVER having kids is not for everyone and it is unfair to the person AND the child, that you are unbeknownst to them, forcing this upon.

My MIL keeps telling me to poke holes...

Just great. Instant single mother.

Strangely, I get the same advice from a man. He was bragging that his two girlfriends did it to him. And now he has four beautiful sons. o_O

Why even tell people what you and your husband have decided to do with your lives?

Well 30 years later my father is still happy about it.... not saying lie to them but... he is happy. Never asked the details, but I'm alive so I'm happy about it!

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These terrible advices make people stay in abusive relationships and that's sad

Good sleep is really important!being tired means possible fighting so as long as it works for you don't hear anyone

As a kid with divorced parents i have to say this is the most horrible advice!! Kids always know and understand EVERYTHING!

In my country there is a saying that says "man is the head and woman is the neck that turns the head wherever she wants" I don't know if it exists in other languages...

I'm pretty sure there are schools somewhere teaching that, cause i know too many men that do that!

I prefer happy spouse happy house

Exactly! And there is no "helping" the wife with the housework! You don't "help", you share chores that you are both supposed to do!

So THIS is how marriage works. No wonder I am getting a divorce.

this breaks my heart on so many levels..

I'm so tired of the holy matrimony and sacred crap with marriage. Marriage is a legal issue. You want to involve the church? Good on you! My experience has been that the church has no place in marriage.

HAHAHA! I would like to see the reasoning for this corellation

In some cases i think it's true not always of course! Edit: I'm referring to misogynist cultures that don't respect human rights of course! i just didn't want to be more specific cause i didn't want anyone to be offended! But these cultures in a marriage are always a deal breaker!

Unfortunately, MANY adults act like Petulant Toddlers...

The correct is you shouldn't need anyone period. Once you are good with yourself then you can have a healthier relationship with someone else!

Oh my God. A man from church. Holy coward.

I think this is good advice.

There are no rules at that! Whatever works better for each couple!

I try not to go to bed angry... i usually say at least goodnight even if i mean f**k you!😅😅😅😅

BWHAHAHA! The irony here!

I WISH my parents had split up.

Being a decent person will def get you sum more than being a bum.

Why isn't an option? Are we royals or something?and nowadays even royals get divorce!

Again. Bullshit. Cut out the toxic. Blood relation means nothing.

That was a stupid movie AND stupid advice.

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