Really wtf?

These terrible advices make people stay in abusive relationships and that's sad

Good sleep is really important!being tired means possible fighting so as long as it works for you don't hear anyone

If it wasn't for sneaking out of the bed to sleep in the guest room when my husband snores super loud we would have probably not made it this far. Especially considering how irrationally annoyed I get when I don't get a good nights rest.

Getting sleep divorced saved my marriage and sanity.

My parents slept apart for 4 years until my dad got a handle on his sleep apnea & they were married 38 years until my mother passed from breast cancer in 2018. Sleep is vital to mental & physical health.

Same. I need silence to fall asleep, I can´t have anyone next to me.

I sleep in a separate room from my husband because he snores and I’m a light sleeper. It works for us too

"The secret to a happy marriage is separate bedrooms and separate bathrooms." -RuPaul

Married for six years so far. Never slept in same bed. He snores and I’m an insomniac. We cuddle in his bed watch tv but sleep apart.

Haha, if anyone shares a bed with me,be will both most likely end up on the floor without a blanket. I am literally incapable of sleeping without moving!

I get it and it is great you guys are able to make it work. It shows a really strong relationship. I heard plenty of stories of people breaking up after starting to sleep in seperate beds because they lose intimacy. I guess you just need to make sure your time in bed is not the only source of intimacy throughout the day. good communication seems essential. I also think toxic masculinity can be a real hurdle for this type of solution as it can be hard for some (if not most) men to speak about their emotional needs like intimacy. I say this because i can sometimes struggle with it too and i also see it in my dad and brother. Two of the best men i know.

Joanne Woodward was once asked the secret to her long marriage to Paul Newman. “Separate bedrooms,” she replied.

Separate rooms for over 20 years, married for 40.

Separate bedrooms are sometimes absolutely necessary! Health and sleep issues, snoring, restless legs- many reasons. Don't judge! If you both get more rest sleeping apart, then it's what works for you.

Why do couples always have to sleep together?

My hubby likes the heat way up, lights on , tv & pc going, 2 giant screen playing, faxes from around the world, at all hours, noise from so many sources, and cats lounging about.... I like the lights turned low , cool temp, quiet reading, and my dog snoring softly near by... Separate rooms, with individual colors, decor, art and individuality works well... We know right where to find each other for together time... 49 years later, I still give this approach, to sharing lives together,a five star rating.... Allowing each other space and individuality goes a long way in cultivatung happy, healthy relationships! I wish this contentment and happiness for everyone!

I suffer horrendous migraines so having a separate room sometimes is a must. I have loved all my partners but if they are going to be snoring, turning on lights, or moving about in bed they WILL get thrown up on.

us too

As much as my ex snored, separate sleeping arrangements was the only thing keeping me from losing my GD mind.

I would have divorced already if I shared bedroom with my partner!

having separate blankets helped our sleep tremendously

my husband and i haven't gone to sleep in the same bed for... 10+ years?

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They sound like the boring types who only have sex at night.

As a kid with divorced parents i have to say this is the most horrible advice!! Kids always know and understand EVERYTHING!

In my country there is a saying that says "man is the head and woman is the neck that turns the head wherever she wants" I don't know if it exists in other languages...

I'm pretty sure there are schools somewhere teaching that, cause i know too many men that do that!

I prefer happy spouse happy house

Exactly! And there is no "helping" the wife with the housework! You don't "help", you share chores that you are both supposed to do!

So THIS is how marriage works. No wonder I am getting a divorce.

this breaks my heart on so many levels..

I'm so tired of the holy matrimony and sacred crap with marriage. Marriage is a legal issue. You want to involve the church? Good on you! My experience has been that the church has no place in marriage.

HAHAHA! I would like to see the reasoning for this corellation

In some cases i think it's true not always of course! Edit: I'm referring to misogynist cultures that don't respect human rights of course! i just didn't want to be more specific cause i didn't want anyone to be offended! But these cultures in a marriage are always a deal breaker!

Unfortunately, MANY adults act like Petulant Toddlers...

The correct is you shouldn't need anyone period. Once you are good with yourself then you can have a healthier relationship with someone else!

Oh my God. A man from church. Holy coward.

I think this is good advice.

There are no rules at that! Whatever works better for each couple!

I try not to go to bed angry... i usually say at least goodnight even if i mean f**k you!😅😅😅😅

BWHAHAHA! The irony here!

I WISH my parents had split up.

Being a decent person will def get you sum more than being a bum.

Why isn't an option? Are we royals or something?and nowadays even royals get divorce!

Again. Bullshit. Cut out the toxic. Blood relation means nothing.

That was a stupid movie AND stupid advice.

D&D!!! :)

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No one is perfect. The secret is to love someone with their imperfections instead of despite their imperfections.

In my country we say the opposite! First year you are deep into honey and then you are deep into s**t😒😒😒 not very optimistic i know!