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Though attraction can seem confusing to many people, dating expert Bacon pointed out that this isn't the case.

"What guys need to understand is that triggering attraction in women isn’t as complicated as it seems," the founder of The Modern Man project told Bored Panda via email.

"It mostly boils down to displaying personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women, such as confidence, masculinity, charm, charisma, being a playful challenge, humor, and social intelligence," he explained.

Went round to a friends house to play DnD. She made us all nachos and chicken. At the end I went to wash up so as not to leave her with all our mess, I turned around and she put her hand on my chest, stared me straight in the eyes and told me I didn't need to help. Nothing overtly sexy but she held my gaze and had her hand on my chest just slightly longer than would be expected. Anyway we're married now

gabjam , Alex Green Report

Final score:

319points

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Sergio Bicerra 11 months ago

Charisma: 20

139points

“Get your butt in the car, we’re going to get Chinese food” He knew I wasn’t in a great state of mind and we had been friends for a handful of years. He drove to find me when I wouldn’t tell him where I was. After food he drove me to the store to get nerf guns and we battled. Wound up marrying him.

anon , Karan Shiwalkar Report

Final score:

252points

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Anon Ymous 11 months ago

That's the one for sure 💓

43points

The dating expert noted that most guys don't realize that they can "actively create a spark with a woman" by showcasing all of the positive traits.

"In other words, he doesn't have to hope to be selected based on how he looks. He can actively create sparks of attraction inside of a woman he likes, so she then becomes interested in him."

Bored Panda asked dating expert Bacon about how guys might be able to get out of the so-called 'friend zone' that many dread being thrown into.

Put her hand on top of my head and scratched twice as she walked by my chair, sent tingles down my back. Didn't know I like head scratches, woof lol.

DunjonsAndDergons , Anna Pou Report

Final score:

176points

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Robert T 11 months ago

My gf does this. She doesn't like it when I say "woof". LOL

3points

Shaved his head. We’d been friends for about a year, he had medium length hair but was balding badly, basically no hair on top at all. It had been a minute since we’d hung out and he walked in with a completely shaved head and I was like… damn I need to date this man. He looked SO good (still does)

We’ve been together 7 years now and have a baby!

Sydskiddoo , Luis Quintero Report

Final score:

170points

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The Darkest Timeline 11 months ago

Take it from a guy that started losing his hair around 16: for most men, it is not possible to hide thinning hair in an attractive way and it makes you look older. Bite the bullet and shave it off or crop it very closely. Been sporting the cue-ball look for 24 years and it’s way better than pretending nobody notices your rapidly declining lettuce.

93points

Potential-Skin-8610 , Wavebreakmedia Report

Rolled his sleeves up and reversed perfectly.

Eta. I didn't expect this to get as much attention as it did so I'll address some questions.
Yes, it was in a manual car.
It was a hot summers day so he rolled up his sleeves before we got in the car.
Yes, he did put his hand on the back of my chair.

Final score:

153points

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Kara T 11 months ago

Yep. That’ll do it.

79points

"Firstly, he needs to begin displaying attractive traits," the founder of The Modern Man said that being confident, masculine, playful, and humorous can make a guy seem attractive. This way, he's seen as a potential boyfriend or lover.

"Secondly, he needs to begin flirting with her. Most guys overlook this, but flirting is the key to creating a sexual spark with women," the dating expert told us.

"It’s a subtle art of expressing your sexual and romantic interest without coming on too strong. Most women know how to flirt, but most guys don't."

I fumbled a move one night dancing with a friend. I thought he was going to dip me, but he spun me instead. Still, my mistake was enough for him to notice, so he dipped me and said "There, I've got you this time." No right to be as hot as it was.

InsideJokeQRD , Andres Ayrton Report

Final score:

129points

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Susan Teter 11 months ago (edited)

Smoooooth operator!!!!

31points

The entire group went clubbing. He was saying something that I could not hear. He bent down and spoke against my ear. Questioned our 2 decades of platonic relationship at that second. Didn't even hear what he said.

anon , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

127points

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Fussy1 11 months ago

Well...don't leave us hanging, what were the answers?!

48points

I was unsure about something, and he started reassuring me by telling me how smart and hardworking I am.

It wasn’t really what he said, but how he said it. He got this very earnest, stern look on his face that I hadn’t seen before, held eye contact, stopped what he was doing, and told me why he was certain I’d be okay.

AmarettoOrWhat Report

Final score:

119points

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Sonja 11 months ago (edited)

There's nothing more sexy than your partner honestly believing in you. Not the love bombing superficial speeches some guys give you, but when he looks you in the eyes, smiles that gentle, loving smile and tells you exactly why you'll succeed and you know he is right because he sees you for who you are and it's not just platitudes but things you truly do or specific talents you really possess but can't see for what they are due to insecurity.

52points

How someone looks definitely plays a key role in romance. To put it bluntly, everyone wants to feel attracted to their partner—and to feel attractive, in turn. However, looks really aren’t everything.

A person’s character, behavior, and values are also essential when we look at attraction. What this means specifically can vary a lot from individual to individual. But there are some common denominators (with plenty of exceptions, of course!).

#10

She did that thing that girls do where they tilt their head. She was just listening to me talk about MRSA (we're nursing students), and she was kind of smiling, listening to me go into depth about the illness for a test review, and she ever so slightly tilted her head and kept her very pretty eyes directly on mine. That mixed with the slight smile got my stomach in knots and I just started stuttering like a fool. It only happened like a week ago.

bayala43 , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

108points

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Mr. Nurse Man 11 months ago

Ah, MRSA…what a lovely bacterial infection to bring two people together.

89points

#11

When I (26f) went out for a drink one night with my friend C (25M) there was a guy I knew, he was hitting on me, asking me to go home with him and being really aggressive about it. I turned him down and the guy immediately turned on my friend.

The guy got in C's face, saying that it was his fault that I wouldn't go home with him, that he was a c**k block. C just stood his ground, crossed his arms and told him to leave in a very calm, firm voice.

The drunk guy eventually left but it was such a turn on to see C remain so level headed and calm in a tense situation where I'm used to guys being so reactive. It was super hot

idunno324 Report

Final score:

108points

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Boootifull Unicorn 11 months ago

exactly, being calm in a stressful situation is infinitely cooler than being all "macho" and aggressive.

71points

#12

We were listening to a speech about a topic I wasn't familiar with, so we were in the back and he was whispering explanations in my ear, and he had a really nice voice

Later I noticed the collar of his blazer had folded up, so I let him know, and with that nice voice he said "Fix it then" and bent his knees so I could reach. He was so warm I could feel it without even touching him, and he smelled so good

Juliemj Report

Final score:

108points

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leendadll 11 months ago

Been over 30 years and I still dream about the coworker who let me adjust his ties. Loved that l, plus he had the most luxurious shirts I've ever felt.

34points

As Business Insider points out, good looks can be a factor for why women like men, but they’re not as important as you might think.

Having a good sense of humor, being kind to others, and being mindful are what draw women to men, according to research. Women also tend to like risk-takers, as well as guys who (sometimes) play hard to get.

#13

A girl I became friends with on a school trip in high school fell asleep on my shoulders on the ride back.

I'm still coasting on that memory.

anon , MART PRODUCTION Report

Final score:

96points

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Shoes 11 months ago

So lemme share this little story, when I was little I used to have this friend and we were super close! One day when we were watching a movie on school so I rested my head on his shoulder and he put his head over mine and just like that I fell in love with him, unfortunally he moved and I can't see him anymore and I can't keep in touch :(

37points

#14

We were joking and she turned back, grabbed my neck and lightly strangled me. I haven't been the same ever since

axsirik , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

95points

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Ken Beattie 11 months ago

New fetish unlocked: Choking!

78points

#15

I was teaching her how to drive manual. Her first time driving, she got into first without stalling and shifted all the way to 6th. It was so perfect as if it was a automatic transmission. 1 year later and we're married.

BattleHard69 Report

Final score:

85points

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Jessica Bertram 11 months ago

Newsflash: she could already drive manually. This was all according to plan. ☺️

98points

Meanwhile, the Gentleman’s Journal notes that showing off your sensitive side and getting a dog can help you stand out from the competition. If you’re approachable and selfless, you’re only improving your chances of landing a date.

On the flip side, men tend to value women for their intelligence and creativity, good communication skills, loyalty, and optimism.

#16

I asked her outside a party if my eyeliner had smudged. She took my jaw in her hands and gently but firmly turned my face back and forth to examine my makeup, then lightly patted my cheek and said it looked fine. I couldn’t even thank her, I just nodded and we moved on while I gathered myself, lol.

anypebble , Matheus Bertelli Report

Final score:

83points

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Shoes 11 months ago

I WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO MOVE AFTER THAT

39points

lord_bubblewater , Elizabeth Tsung Report

#17

Not neceserily a turn on but when i was in art school we went to a museum with a clown exhibit.
One of my classmates whom i had very little prior interaction with had a fear of clowns.
At a certain point something spooked her, she grabbed my arm. I felt like 'me big monkey, me keep pretty lady safe'
Stupid as it was i had a little crush on her afterwards.

Final score:

74points

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les 11 months ago

Its donw to men really needing to feel wanted, but society doesn't like that for some dumb a**e reason

22points

driftwood-and-waves Report

#18

I am very tactile, he isn’t with anyone else but he always would pull me next to him when we were outside and it was chilly, would sit into my space at work meetings, always put his hand on my lower back when walking me in front of him or next to him.

It was nothing overtly sexual but the fact he didn’t do that with anyone else….. oh my

Final score:

72points

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Brightly 11 months ago

Sounds like he was in to you too ☺️

59points

Desperate-Exit692 , cottonbro studio Report

Marriage.com shares that among some of the qualities that men find the most attractive are friendliness, compassion, cleanliness, and independence.

Empathy and kindness appear to be universally attractive traits, no matter a person’s gender. This makes a lot of sense because human beings are social animals: we rely on communities not only to survive but also to thrive.

#19

I was annoying him, so he picked me up over his shoulder and dropped me on the couch, no biggie

(Was kinda hoping he'd spank me after propping me over his shoulder but)

Final score:

69points

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Breadcrumb. 11 months ago

I'd like this..

25points

caughtbydeercam , Денис Нагайцев Report

#20

We both tried grabbing the same cup and looked at each other. We've been together for awhile now.

Final score:

67points

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Robert T 11 months ago

Always wondered what happened to those two girls. ;-)

49points

WWWWWWVWWWWWWWVWWWWW , The Lazy Artist Gallery Report

#21

Helping me put on a tie because I didn't know how.

Final score:

66points

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Shoes 11 months ago

It's giving Disney vibes

12points

StrawberryForsaken72 Report

#22

When we were young and had sleep overs… my female friend at the time and I would sleep in the same bed (I’m also female) and one night she like cuddled up to me and spooned me while was was sleeping… I don’t think she was aware at all.. but I was like ooo I like this very much…

Final score:

66points

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Mbfsc63 11 months ago

I would like it very much too.

8points

#23

I was hugging this friend at school, they were sitting down and i wasn't so their head was on my chest, at a certain point I was about to go and they said: "stay here, i can hear you're heartbeat" it just gave me so much butterflies

sister_mushroom Report

Final score:

61points

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Cricketgeeklol 11 months ago

MANY

15points

#24

We were wrestling and I pinned her down. She said "if this were a movie we'd make out right now". I didn't go for it that was 15 years ago I was just her maid of honor at her wedding I love her but oof.

Bloodllust , Nathan Martins Report

Final score:

60points

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June 11 months ago

Why did they chose a pic picturing a guy ??

10points

#25

Button popped on her shirt exposing more tit than she ever exposed around me. We ended up getting married. Going on 10 years too. It was a happy accident.

reddit.com Report

Final score:

56points

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Vasana Phong 11 months ago

Happy accident 😉

33points

#26

We were at a party drinking and I got handed a shot. I said, “This one is going to f**k me up.” He looked right at me and softly said, “Don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.”

I threw that shot straight back.

ms_ing , MART PRODUCTION Report

Final score:

54points

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WindySwede 11 months ago

eeeh? (I got a bad feeling about this..?) Hopefully not I guess, but could have been!?

16points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#27

I was pretty good, if not best friends with someone I never thought I would be attracted to. We were at the bar one night and I was cold. He took his favorite jacket and put it over my shoulders and hugged me. I got a feeling for him I’ll never forget after that.

Gizmottto Report

Final score:

53points

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#28

Run their hands through my hair at the base of my neck

unlitlanterns , Bonaventure Fernandez Report

Final score:

53points

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#29

Gave me some eyes that were unintentionally intimate as I was helping bandage her finger that she accidentally cut badly. Sort of the “look at youuuuuuu being all caring and helpful”.

anon Report

Final score:

53points

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J. Norton 11 months ago

Ohhhh, I also had a fellow bandage my cut finger (it really hurt!) and it was so dang thoughtful & sweet. That memory still gives me delicious shivers....

16points

#30

Came to drop off food and medicine while I was sick. I was absolutely not in the mood but I wish I was.

chrisandfriends , Pavel Danilyuk Report

Final score:

51points

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Nykky 11 months ago

Was it homemade? I would have brought homemade, but I like cooking for others. Maybe that's something I can do when I have room, cook soup in advance, then heat it up whenever someone gets sick! Freezer soup, homemade and delicious

0points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#31

I was hanging out with some of my guy friends and they all started kicking a ball around so I sat on the side near some cool flowers I wanted to draw, I wasn’t paying attention and at one point the ball started going towards me and one of the guys ran right in front of me like inches from me to stop it he then spent like 5 minutes checking if I was okay then gave me head pats. That wasn’t a normal thing for us but now it has become one. So yeah…

Ralts_Shinx Report

Final score:

49points

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Beachbum 10 months ago

I don't know, this sounds strange..... hanging out and just brings a draw pad everywhere she goes? And how fast was this guy that saw the ball coming for her and stopped it? I hate made up stories

0points

#32

Weird one here, but it was a staring contest.

She claimed she was good at it and beat everyone before me to prove it. You play to win normally and I'm usually not one for staring, but I couldn't look away from the big, beady hazel eyes she had. So even if she got closer to throw me off, it's honestly what I wanted because she basically doubled how cute she already was in that moment.

Needless to say, I didn't lose. She looked away to blink and then playfully nudged me in defeat while grinning. It was a done deal then—I developed a crush on her from that day onward.

SilverEnigma20 Report

Final score:

48points

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Sarah E Cofer 11 months ago

This is actually a pick up artists manipulation technique to make someone feel more intimately connected. Studies show that partners that look into each other's eyes for longer than 5 seconds on a regular basis are happier and feel more connected and comfortable to their partners

1point

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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French Diver’s “Jewels” In Tight Swimming Trunks Become Talk Of The Town At Olympics

#33

I was invited to a new coworker's birthday party. She was pretty buzzed by the time I arrived and ended up introducing me to all her friends as her hot boss.

Astro_Afro1886 Report

Final score:

45points

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Jp@nda 11 months ago

Eewww, and that's when you realize there is a power imbalance and you excuse yourself

1point

yeeters-apprentice Report

#34

Me and my female best friend got on the topic of massages, she jokingly said I should rub her feet, I said sure and gave her a massage, she then asked me to do her calves, hands and arms and she gave me a hand massage.
What turned me on was seeing her enjoy the massage.

This happened like 2 days ago and I have a big crush on her but can't tell if she likes me or if she genuinely wanted to show me how to massage.

Final score:

43points

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Maggie Fulton 11 months ago

Crush. She has a crush.

69points

#35

Literally asked me to pick her outfits for the weekend and modeled all morning in different outfits while telling me to pick some out. Didn't leave the room to change.

KURO-K1SH1 Report

Final score:

41points

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VonBlade 11 months ago

I too have been this oblivious.

62points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#36

Tackled me. Not in a playful way either, she was trying her best to take me down (and generally succeeded). We were always just friends but in those moments after we’d hit the ground, I sometimes felt a little different about it.

Buhpuh , Tima Miroshnichenko Report

Final score:

40points

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Jake B 11 months ago

K Drama material here.

11points

#37

Put her arm around me and leaned against me.

Yeah thats all

Youtube-Gerger Report

Final score:

40points

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Isaac Harvey 11 months ago

It’s the small things that make the biggest differences.

6points

#38

Not friend per se but work colleague. Leaned back in an office chair with his hands behind his head smirking a little.

Completely out of context in the situation but my mind equated it with the position some men adopt when they’re right about to get head. Took me right out of the meeting.

shymilkshakes Report

Final score:

40points

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OdetteB 11 months ago

I fell for my first proper boyfriend when he adopted exactly this pose. And I fell very hard indeed.

12points

#39

She showed me how the tattoo on the back of her upper thigh moves when she bends over. I was 19 and she was wearing short shorts…that was enough to make me blush.

anon Report

Final score:

37points

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Jp@nda 11 months ago

'Twas on purpose

3points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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“This Breaks My Heart”: People Stunned—And Angry—After Woman Buys Lost Luggage From Airport

#40

Called me sir. I didn’t even know this was a turn on.

PurpleIncarnate Report

Final score:

36points

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Susan Teter 11 months ago

I was bartending and a HOT guy came in with his crew. Company credit card/open end...just make them happy. Big boss man came up and asked me for my number. Said NO. He said not for me...for HOT guy. Still said no. HOT guy nutted up and asked me for my number. Said no, but gave me his. Called him 6 months later. Knew him 20 years and married him. This theory is not for the faint of heart.

11points

#41

She was talking about how she was into biting and I called her weird. She bit my forearm (no blood) right before class....... yeah that was a fun hour.

PearlHar8or Report

Final score:

35points

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Nice Beast Ludo 11 months ago

So now you are into biting also?

8points

#42

We were at a party, I poured a shot, liquor spilled on my hand and it got sticky which I hate. She proceeded to lick my entire hand clean. Confused and horny.

Rimaek , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

33points

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moggie63 11 months ago

She didn't want to waste decent alcohol.

18points

#43

Pulled my hair. I was doing something on the computer, and she suddenly pulled my hair. Weirdest feeling ever, but my acting skills was on point and nobody noticed a thing.

WhenYouAreLost Report

Final score:

33points

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Beachbum 10 months ago

What?

1point

"I Didn't Start The Dryer": Karen Gets Taught A Lesson After Throwing Out Neighbor's Wet Clothes

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Guy Divorced 3 Years Ago Drops Off 3 Y.O. With His Ex-Wife Completely Out Of The Blue

#44

My guy best friend just just hugged me out of nowhere, idk what happened to me but something

Denecece22 Report

Final score:

32points

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Laura Williams 11 months ago

Fun.

0points

#45

Played drums with a V-neck sweater on.

mdotca Report

Final score:

32points

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Boootifull Unicorn 11 months ago

i love this, because its one of those things that would look good on any gender.

20points

#46

Put his finger in my mouth. We’ve been married 8 years now.

Ferb71 Report

Final score:

31points

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LCB 11 months ago

I need some context...

24points

tragicaltales 11 months ago

Perhaps they were testing the finger-carrot theory

2points

Ewa K 11 months ago

He was a dentist 😉

4points

Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 11 months ago

First thing that came to my mind was Robert de Niro and Juliette Lewis in that super creepy, uncomfortable scene in Cape Fear but I am guessing (hoping!!!) it wasn't anything like this?

1point

Catharina Geerts 11 months ago

That would turn me OFF

0points

#47

She cut her hair in a way that was just so damn beautiful.

mr_banana_69420 Report

Final score:

31points

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Elaine Van Zon 11 months ago

A hair cut can be everything to how hot a person is.I had a friend with longish hair,because he hadn't had it cut for ages.When he did he looked so gorgeous I was smitten

9points

#48

One time at a party she was a bit tipsy and started to stroke my neck.

drax3012 Report

Final score:

30points

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Isaac Harvey 11 months ago

The smallest things can make biggest differences. (Also covering up a not-the-nicest-comment)

5points

#49

She didn't really do anything. I just randomly had a really nice dream with her. I had a crush on her since

HashBrown2231 Report

Final score:

27points

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Michael Danhauer 11 months ago

I didn't have a dream or anything but I (m) became attracted to my best friend (f) as we were just hanging out getting stoned. I was digging the pattern printed on her jeans and I suddenly realized how good the pants looked on her. Then a switch flipped in my head and I saw how beautiful she was. I hadn't thought that just 5 minutes before. Spent the next 2 years hoping her feelings would change towards me too but it didn't happen until I started dating my future wife. My friend then realized I was a catch, got jealous and we stopped hanging out because it got awkward.

7points

“All Three Shot Out Pink”: Triplets' Baby Shower Turns Sour, Pregnant Wife Wants A Divorce

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College Student Does Exactly As Told After Roommates Demand They Keep Their Stuff In Their Room

#50

Look deep into my soul after having an argument and saying "OK daddy"... was so confused and turned on at the same time

ALittleVoid Report

Final score:

19points

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Spocks's Mom 11 months ago

😵‍💫😖

13points

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What do you think ?

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Zedrapazia 11 months ago

I have a funny one too! Before I met my fiance, the Hobbit movies had just come out and I kept telling people that Smaug was a wyvern in this interpretation, not a dragon (because dragons = 4 legs, 2 wings, wyvern = 2 legs, 2 wings). When I met my fiance as a friend, we talked about the Hobbit movies and he tried to explain to me that Smaug was a wyvern. That moment I knew he was the right one. For him, it was when he found it I played Doom 2016 and had big anger towards the Cyberdemon.

25points

Toasted Applesauce 11 months ago

That's beautiful.

5points

Clown fish 11 months ago (edited)

My friend of 23 years came round and beat up my abusive ex because he heard him over the phone, screaming that he was going to kill me. Me and my friend have now been together 7yrs

21points

Headless Horseman 11 months ago

My favorite 🥺

8points

Tuesday 11 months ago

❤️❤️

2points

Nykky 11 months ago

Sounds like that douchecanoe needed a good a*s whooping anyways. Good for you two!

0points

Boootifull Unicorn 11 months ago

some of these are cute and then some are just downright horny

17points

VonBlade 11 months ago

To be fair, it's the "accidentally turned on" list, not the "Calamity Jane sings Secret Love" moments.

14points

Limey 11 months ago

My story is, we had been friends for 5 years. I asked him why he never dated anyone (because I knew for a fact there were plenty who were interested). He said “I am waiting for someone just like you”. Been married 38 years now.

7points

Sergio Bicerra 11 months ago

Happened about 15 years ago with my best friend (friends since 1994) but she literally wanted some like me, NOT me hahahaha

5points

Sarah E Cofer 11 months ago (edited)

#1 I was bartending and a guy walked up beside me and shyly said "you have the most beautiful freckles on your shoulders and collarbone" and the odd compliment and shy genuity of it and it not being the usual "you're sexy" "I would so do you" lines I was used to really made me smile and I was instantly attracted to him.

6points

Sergio Bicerra 11 months ago

Did you ever got on a date with that guy?

3points

Aqsa Azam 11 months ago

Cutest article ever. It is my favorite. Gave me butterflies lmaoo

4points

Sarah E Cofer 11 months ago

#2 He said "you float when you walk by in that dress" and I was instantly turned on. In fact it still turns me on whenever I think about the look on his face that day. Damn you Jason.

4points

Headless Horseman 11 months ago

All she had to do was smile while looking into my eyes, then turn away and call me "dumb" while still smiling and looking down and I think I ate my heart that day

3points

Joy 11 months ago

We were put in the same class for a training thing for work. We had to complete a physical fitness exam for it. My girlfriends and I just watched him, jaws open. His muscles were just bulging and he flew through the exam as if it were nothing. We ended up getting together by the end of our two weeks there. We've been married for just over a year now. :-)

3points

Tuesday 11 months ago

WAIT I LOVE THIS HAHAA

0points

BarkingSpider 11 months ago

Had a friend in high school I used to goof off with at work that I was never attracted to. One time he walked by and just lightly bit the back of my shoulder. We ended up in the back having like a 10 second gnarly make-out session, then went back to work like nothing happened and never spoke of it.

2points

Unnamed Hooman 11 months ago

My friends introduced me to a guy they knew, and at first I thought “This guy is kind of a weirdo.” But he commented on my necklace (LOTR one ring necklace) and we ended up talking about Lord of the Rings for an hour. That’s when I fell in love

2points

Tuesday 11 months ago

LOTR really brings hearts together

1point

les 11 months ago

I'd been arrested ofr somethig and was in the bar afterwards. a girl i know was sitting in the group and kept talking about liking bad boys while making eye contact. I was completely oblivious and spent ten minutes asking why she wanted someone that would treat her and her kid like c**p and she'd constantly be worried about them cheating. I wasn't trying to be an a*s about it, i genuinly wanted her to pick someone that would treat her nice. I can still hear that whooshing noise from it all going over my head, lol

2points

Lee Banks 11 months ago

I was living away from home, went back to tcob, and wound up stranded. I went to my local bar to see if any of my friends were there, so I could sleep indoors. This guy I had passed on the street several times offered me a couch. I asked the ladies at the bar if he was ''safe'. Resounding yes. I wound up crashing there for nine days. We talked on the phone every night, after. When I found out about a really cool bat cave, and we planned to go together, it hit: This was real. I could road trip with a relative stranger. We've been together for almost two years, and will be married soon. Also recently acquired a cat.

0points

Rosie 11 months ago

When I was a young woman, long ago, I was in a "public car" (a cab that picks/drops passengers anywhere, but along a specific route) on the left side of the back seat. A guy gets in & slides next to me. We're both wearing short sleeves so when a 3rd person got in, our arms touched skin-to-skin. I got chills & every little hair stood on end, but also got like a hot flash. I looked at him, but he did not react at all, so I guess it was just me. I've always lamented I once sat next to my soulmate, but he didn't recognize me. Sad. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

0points

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Boootifull Unicorn 11 months ago

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Zedrapazia 11 months ago

25points

Toasted Applesauce 11 months ago

That's beautiful.

5points

Clown fish 11 months ago (edited)

My friend of 23 years came round and beat up my abusive ex because he heard him over the phone, screaming that he was going to kill me. Me and my friend have now been together 7yrs

21points

Headless Horseman 11 months ago

My favorite 🥺

8points

Tuesday 11 months ago

❤️❤️

2points

Nykky 11 months ago

Sounds like that douchecanoe needed a good a*s whooping anyways. Good for you two!

0points

Boootifull Unicorn 11 months ago

some of these are cute and then some are just downright horny

17points

VonBlade 11 months ago

To be fair, it's the "accidentally turned on" list, not the "Calamity Jane sings Secret Love" moments.

14points

Limey 11 months ago

7points

Sergio Bicerra 11 months ago

Happened about 15 years ago with my best friend (friends since 1994) but she literally wanted some like me, NOT me hahahaha

5points

Sarah E Cofer 11 months ago (edited)

6points

Sergio Bicerra 11 months ago

Did you ever got on a date with that guy?

3points

Aqsa Azam 11 months ago

Cutest article ever. It is my favorite. Gave me butterflies lmaoo

4points

Sarah E Cofer 11 months ago

#2 He said "you float when you walk by in that dress" and I was instantly turned on. In fact it still turns me on whenever I think about the look on his face that day. Damn you Jason.

4points

Headless Horseman 11 months ago

All she had to do was smile while looking into my eyes, then turn away and call me "dumb" while still smiling and looking down and I think I ate my heart that day

3points

Joy 11 months ago

3points

Tuesday 11 months ago

WAIT I LOVE THIS HAHAA

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BarkingSpider 11 months ago

2points

Unnamed Hooman 11 months ago

2points

Tuesday 11 months ago

LOTR really brings hearts together

1point

les 11 months ago

2points

Lee Banks 11 months ago

0points

Rosie 11 months ago

0points

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Boootifull Unicorn 11 months ago

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