I agree, too many times people feel entitled due to their age. You don't owe anyone anything. Congrats on the souvenir and the story you will be able to tell your friends and family.

Any job that serves a societal need is respectable.

In Finland, speeding tickets are income based. Just as an example.

So agree! I love all my stuffies!

Greed and narcissism... it's sad, but it's human nature. The majority of the people out there are fake as heck, and will do things like posting videos of themselves crying on the internet as PR moves, to help promote and enhance their brands, to help them gain those clicks, likes, follows, and subscribes. Even more sad is that there ARE the odd few out there who honestly have no one and no where else to turn to, and are using the internet to reach out. But those odd genuine few are usually buried and overshadowed by all the loud popular influencers out there, with their TikToks and viral videos and their memes.

Harassment is the right word. What happened to Diana and other famous people with the paparazzi actually haunting them, spying and giving no Fu*ks. But here's a thought: Who the hell buys those rag mag's is an accomplice bc if they stop buying that filth then the paparazzi will (nearly) go away or at least be way less.

Speaking as someone who was out on their ass at 18... basic parenting, including food, clothing, and sleeping indoors.... isn't nothing. Not when you consider what it's like to do without any of those.

Why censor the word murder, not like we all can't figure out what it says, strange BP.

I read a quote before, wouldn't it be safer to fire blanks at someone than fire bullets at someone with a bullet proof vest

Also gambling

Agreed. You have to survive before you save the world.

I've discovered this trend on the Internet and honestly, I absolutely do not understand it

You ruined it with "sure they're cute" because that's the whole point, they're NOT cute, people have just been trained into thinking they are. People need to realise that inbred dogs with serious health problems are the exact opposite of cute.

100% - the cheater is the one at fault - unless the people they cheated with is also someone who you have a relationship with then it's equal blame as they both owe you loyalty. I've never understood the blame being passed to the person they cheat with, and it's usually women who blame the other woman when their guy cheats - I sure there's a patriarchal link to all that that could be deciphered but seriously, they're just a shitty person if they knew he was involved with someone - if they didn't then they're just as much a victim in it all. This idea that men can't help themselves if offered sex has to stop - you don't accidentally have sex - yeah, you may regret it after but you totally know what you're doing while you're doing it.

Yes. Every now and then I hear of someone trying to convince the person they're having an affir with to leave their spouse and marry them. And I think, Why? You KNOW this person isn't loyal. He cheated on his wife with you. What makes you think he won't cheat on you with somebody else? If he left his wife for you because you're younger and prettier or whatever, what do you suppose will happen when you get a little older and he meets someone younger and prettier than you?

In all of my six plus decades of life, I can truthfully say I have never seen an example of "The Grass is Greener on the Other Side" to ever once hold true. Exactly the opposite, everyone I've ever talked to that left their mate after cheating said that the grass on the new side ended up tasting even worse than where they were. Work on what you already have, loyalty is worth more than all the beauties in the world dressed in gold.

Lost my "partner" a couple of times. Different partners. One was a casual relationship and he got back together with his old girlfriend. They married. Second one was a guy I was really crazy about. He got together with another girl. They married. Apparently I drive them to marry others. It's OK. I wound up with a good guy myself and I never cheated on anybody so no regrets.

Nobody steals a partner because I person is a person and not an object. They are an adult who made their choices and they alone are too blame.

Cheaters and honewreckers who know their lover's relationship status are equally to blame

If a divorce is based on cheating, the cheater should get 0% of anything.

Always blame the cheater, not the person they cheated with.

It's both their fault. Or all three of them.

Don’t blame the other woman (or man). The cheater probably lied about being single.

Agree, its nit Joleenes foult to steal her man, its his. I would not want a man who rather is with someone else. I thung thus would be the same for my husband

Yep! Agreed. Say thank you for showing me what I'm missing - as in a lifetime of pain and worry, distrust and self-doubt. Bye Bye Birdie!

You aren't doing yourself any favours by staying with a cheater. Once a cheater!...

i had this guy years ago who i met on a dating site, i'd been chatting and flirting with him for a while, then he mentioned he had a girlfriend, then asked me for nudes and wanted to hang out. when i told him no, i'm not interested, he got angry with me and didn't understand why i didn't want to talk to him any more. i had to explain that a) i didn't want to be his bit on the side and b) if you would cheat on your current girlfriend with me, if you ever left her to be with me, what's to stop you doing the same to me? he still didn't get it. never spoke to him again.

I seriously considered sending her a thank you card. I knew he wouldn't leave without someone else to go to and stay with. He had to go, and I didn't ever want him back. She took care of that for me. Still grateful and they are still together. Wonderful. ;>)

I’ve never understood why people go after the person their partner cheated WITH, instead of dumping the partner. If they did it once, they’ll do it again. Move on.

So many people these days seem to faunt sex as no big deal. Fine. I respect your opinion, after all it's not against the law to have sexual relations outside of marriage. I demand respecting my opinion that it is not acceptable to me. Been flat out lied to too many times. Just pack your bags and don't come back if you decide you want more than I give you. Never think it's okay with me. Sex is the biggest deal of marriage. Mistake, my ass.

u can not "steal" someones partner, thats not how relationships work. if they go with u... they go with u of their own free will.

also a lot of the time the person they are cheating with don't even know that you are in the picture. for all some of them know your so is single.

Cheating in a relationship is the worse sin one can do. If you cheat on me, you are history!

This. I have been "the other woman" though I was completely unaware the person I was dating was already with someone. We met online, and all seemed perfectly normal. He came clean after 18 months - because they had just bought a house together and he didn't know how to keep up the act. Somehow, in that scenario, as I was recovering from getting hurt, I ended up being vilified as the "bad person". So much hate - for a choice I DIDN'T MAKE and a relationship HE PUSHED FOR, acting as though he was single and describing her as "his ex". I actually ended up having a nervous breakdown.

This!

I agree 100%. They did you a favor and took out the trash, sooner, rather than later...

Hey bro, not when you’re married to her, and you’ve got 4 kids, and she doesn’t want them !

I never thought about it this way. It is 100% true.

Well, not all of your hate...

The saying goes: 'it takes two to tango'. Also, they need to be aware that if the partner is unfaithful once they will be unfaithful again.

Thank you. I've been the biggest red ass in the room for expressing that, especially during my divorce period. No one wanted me to be ok with it. The trust was broken, that was that. I was walking away after a serious breach of trust, and I restructured my life to fit my new situation. Riding jeeps, hunting antlers and artifacts, spending massive time in remote places. Living out of my jeep and backpack with an awesome dog to watch over me. She got a house she likes, a boyfriend she likes, a decent life. All in all, fair trade. Sorrynshit.

The colour-coded baskets is such a clever idea.

They should also put that salary on the job posting...

Yes, it really should be free. I have been in therapy on and off for years and it has been free (/paid by taxes). It's due to mental health issues so free healthcare = free mental healthcare. I learned a lot and cope much better. I wish it was available to all who needs it. To hear that people live with anxiety, ptsd, depression etc and can't afford therapy to learn how to cope better is really, REALLY sad.

I don't use those sites anymore. If you want me to subscribe, or permit adverts in my ad blocker, or click a cookie thing every time, I just bounce. Enjoy your bouncerate and zero ad revenue. ALSO. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD stop with the f*****g animated adverts. They drive my poor ADHD ass crazy. I can't stand it.

I work only to sustain my life. I do not live to work.

In many cases I would agree but in many I would not. For example If an employee of mine turned out to be a KKK member, or they were videoed ridiculing a disabled person I would fire them without hesitation.

As someone who breaks up spaghetti before boiling them - I agree. Now give me those judgemental looks :P

I agree completely. The world will always need woodworkers, metal workers, plumbers, electricians etc, not young people with huge financial debt and very little practical skills.