Supporting Trump is not a political position, it's a psychological one.

Hurting a grown adult is one thing. Hurting something that has no real way of stopping you or defending itself is another. F*****g pieces of s**t

And when they're not attracted to that woman anymore, she'd get the same disrespect as the others.

Oh hey, I see OP has met my sibling! Yeeah... don't ever EVER tell me "they're family! Forgive everything!" - no.

I'm a devout atheist? Does that count?

This. And blaming any wrongdoing on someone else. "Someone told me to do it." "If he hadn't done . . . I wouldn't have had to . . .."

To be honest, this is kind of a problem with me, like making excuses, but I'm definitely working on it because I understand that I need to be responsible for my own actions

To me, the worst version of this is someone who does something hurtful and then ACTS upset/sad WITH you -yet not accepting responsibility while telling you they didn't MEAN for it to happen, or it wasn't their fault because things just happen. No, YOU happened.

And don’t forget willful ignorance.

Insecure narcissist

One word: narcissist.

I have had to interact with someone on a consistent basis who has never admitted to doing anything wrong. This is difficult.

Narcissists make sh!tty friends.

e.g., MAGA Republicans

I have lost multiple friends over this...I even groveled and over apologized cuz those people meant /a ton/ to me at the time...but nope. The second time I don't even know what I did wrong. It's hard for me to make friends now because of it

....my boyfriend has difficulty with this one. Though he admits now sometimes I am 'not wrong' and he was 'not not wrong'

Goes hand in hand with when they are the **direct cause** of something horrible happening (example: you needed advice on whether to, bring up an issue-that-50/50-could-get-worse to a potential employer, and they urge you to do it, insist that you HAVE to... in fact, they 'know the guy' so they 'know' they'll take it well... and you end up getting berated and blacklisted by said 'guy'-and you're jobless now) - and they act like 'oh well, I guess *you* made a decision, and sometimes they go bad!" - yup, they suddenly remember it as YOU having done this to yourself, they certainly didn't have a hand in it!

Many use their education/ background as an excuse for their racist views. Nope. At some point in life, you are making your own choices. My father is racist, homophobic, xenophobic and misogynistic (and also abusive and violent to his family). I moved away and haven't spoken to him in years.

I can't absolutely not understand how anyone would think that's ok

As someone who works close to the scientific field, I would like to say that many seem to misunderstand the concept of science. Scientific knowledge is not fixed, it is what we think is closest to reality based on various sophisticated experiments and observations. Within the scientific community there is constant discussion and sometimes verification (unfortunately this is far too rare as there is neither prestige nor money for it and verification is even more expensive) whether all this is so.

Cruelty, full stop. If they're being cruel to animals, children or vulnerable people, it also makes them a coward but cruelty to anyone and anything would be an immediate deal breaker to me.

Anyone who thinks they are entitled to even try to control their partner is a big red flag for me.

"You're too sensitive, stop taking it personally, I was only joking"- really?

That's a quick goodbye.

It's for the better and now she'll be the victim of your broken friendship.

If they do it once, they will do it again and again.

Not just a red flag, but a mile-high warning sign.

Anger issues can be managed with a good therapist. Otherwise, you'd be making your loved ones lives a living hell (and they don't deserve that).

Oooh. I used to spend hours trying to convince my ex that I travelled for business and that was it. "Yeah, sure, who knows what male colleague was with you in your so-called business trip?" How do you prove that you didn't do something? Why would need to prove smth. like that in the first place?

For me, it depends on the degree of it. Certain things would be a deal-breaker but many things can be worked through and you can find the cause.

Yep, thanks for showing your true colors early so I can get tf out

Hatred towards any group shows someone who is irrational and unbalanced.

This is just plain creepy.

Never heard of Pearl but agree with the other two. I know many men who find Peterson inspirational or even clever, I don't. He's egoist who twist others' words and rarely replies to a question when it's uncomfortable to him.

If they often talk about other people behind their backs, then chances are they are doing this with you as well...

If it's their nature to be that way, then it is the real them. Doesn't mean you have to like it.

Having worked in retail in my 20's & 30's I can quite agree with this. Some customers treat you as a servant.

It's too late for me. I read that as abduction. In my defense, I was watching X-Files earlier.

Hate this! I make sure right in the beginning i dont want kids so no one is disappointed later on. If you lied to make me like you or to be with me its your fault thing are going to end or you are going to be childless

Not a red flag really, people have vices/habits. I quit smoking but I don't judge others for it.