Took a woman on a date years ago who did that. Had our waitress constantly attending our table, you could tell she got off on having a "servant." It was a major turnoff. Didn't go out with her again after that.

I have always wondered why people think that it is alright to say that they hate cats. The general response would be "Yeah, I get it. Cats are assholes." If you say you hate a dog, then the whole world is against you. "How dare you hate a dog? What sort of sub-human are you?" To cat-haters: what in the world did a cat ever do to you? So, yes, I'd run far, far away from someone who would harm a cat, or any animal, really.

this is such an incel thing to say

Oh god.. Wolf pack leader, awooo.

There's some sense to this statement. You can have respect for your fellow human and also respect the roles that different people have. If you make a big spill in a mall or airport, will you get a mop or a janitor? Just apologize and show gratitude.

Fact: All drama magnets are negative polarity.

omg - the most violent person I know is a huge litter bug - flings stuff all over the place, disgusting...also a serial domestic abuser and physically violent

Those people also often can't stand jokes of similar type aimed at them.

Took my date to a great restaurant where one of my best friends was our waiter. I introduced them to each other. On the ride home my date said to me " I cannot believe you would introduce me to a waiter... and what is it with you wearing a trench coat to a luxe restaurant.. don't you have anything nicer?" LAST DATE.

That's part of someone's identity, It's important you get it right to respect them if they are sensitive or feel more comfortable with you doing so.

Unless they really have problems pronouncing it because, for example, their mother tongue is very different than yours, even with the best of efforts. Luckily my name is easy for Koreans, but if I were, for example, Zvjezdana.....

Even worse: People who knowingly and willingly keep calling people by a certain name although the person has repeatedly asked them not to do so. Some people want to change their name for various reasons and you need to respect their choice. Don't care how long you know them, if they tell you that their new name is Roberta instead of Adam, you call them Roberta.

Or when they correct you. My surname starts with V and in spanish the V is pronounced as a B. I had it a lot in other countries that people corrected me like "I am X with V" and they are like "You mean Y (pronounced with a V). How are you so arrogant to correct somebody about how to say their own name?

Also people refusing to stop using deadnames. Thats not their name get over yourself

I hate being called Janet, especially when I've introduced or been introduced verbally as Janette. Janet is somebody else's name. People even spell it wrong when replying to my work email and my spelling is right there at the bottom. It's rude.

My sisters name is Daphne, she hates it when people pronounce her name like daf fuh knee, its daf knee, she even has a shirt that says that

Spelling is just as important as pronunciation too. If you care enough about the person, you'll learn to both spell and pronounce their name correctly.

I. Hate. That. After I tell someone 20 bajillion time how to pronounce my name and they STILL don't TRY to pronounce it right - I am done. (It's Cor-reen btw)

Back when I worked at AAA folks would call and just give their membership number. I learned that if you just read the name really fast and a little mumbly, people would hear it correctly pronounced. "Why hello Mrs. Katchezantomarkaris!"

Add gender pronouns to this, as well. It's not at all difficult to refer to people in the way they prefer...within reason, obviously. Im not calling you "Champion of the World" or whatever...

for me its this one friend i used to have my name is Nicky and i specifically told him to type Nicky but he would always write Niki or Nicki i mean sure im a girl but i clearly asked for a c,k and a god damn Y not I

Or tell you that you are pronouncing your own name wrong - had it happen..

It depends of who and where. As a Finn I totally understand that 99,5% of world can`t pronounce my name correctly...

I don't think it's such a big deal and I say that as someone whose name is almost always mispronounced.

I do this but not on purpose. I have trouble with some names so I will just ask the person to say their name so I can get it right. Yes it annoys people.

High School kids are big time victims causing them mockry and depression

Like the GOP and our VP Kamala Harris

Within reason, tho. You can't name someone "Ae12zyz" and expect people to pronounce it "Bob"

I would pronounce your name, De-Rek Bond-U-Rant.

A lot of teachers I have had have called me the wrong thing. Eventually I got tired of correcting them and just answered to what they called me.

Ugh... THIS... when I literally JUST introduced myself and they immediately call me "Mike". It's barely half a syllable to finish my name and you are THAT lazy.

My name is clearly pronounced ¨Me-uh¨ How the f**k does Mia Look like Maya?

And don't use nicknames if they don't give you permission. Dude is also not the proper way to adress someone who's not part of your entourage.

Omigosh. This happens to me all the time! Drives me wild

I'm CandAce not Candiss

That's my pet hate, i get ridiculously cross when i hear football commentators saying player's names wrong!

I’m the worst with this, it’s that I mix up sounds in English and Spanish! I always apologize and try to explain that I never confuse their face or forget who their are; just the pronunciation of their name.

Ah, yes ; or comment on a particular aspect of your looks. In my case, I have been bald since I was about 22. If someone was derogatory by saying something like ' hey baldy' I'd quite happily respond with 'what, big nose' or ' man, you're ugly on the inside' or, one that nearly ended badly ' what, you zit faced twat with your ugly child and wife'. I have it down to a fine art nowadays

Uuh this reminds me: don't know if it's true but I heard a story once. An asian guy with a western name like George Smith had a coworker who couldn't or wouldn't remember his name. So the coworker just named him Genghis Khan. I told this story to my German Mother in Law. She did not see what was so bad about it. So I tried to explain it by asking what she would think if someone just named her Adolf Hitler. She was outraged but said "thats different!". I was speechless. And thats my mil in a nutshell.

i am really bad at remembering names , had to make nick names to remind me , not good when drunk and one slips out

Respect pronouns too! They’re just as important as names.

That's what happens when your name sounds like a Star Wars character, mister D/é/ré/k B/un/duran/te/.

AND SPELL IT RIGHT, TOO!!!