Why do so many people think this is about women hating on men? The red flags can apply to anyone, I can apply a few of these to former friends and colleagues, some of which I wish I had have realised sooner. People other than lovers can cause you pain.

"If you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best".. Whatever happened to learning to controlling your emotions so you don't hurt other people.

#36 « I don’t trust woman who don’t have woman friend » Does that also apply to guys who only have male friend? Because that’s hell of a double standard. As long as your friends are decent, I don’t care about their gender.

"You should accept Jesus". That's usually when I run.

Someone who expected an apology even though they know they're wrong.

Racism of any kind, in any way, total turnoff and conversation ender!!

Two more: 1. People who never compromise. 2. People who have/had good parents and don't respect them, take advantage of them or aren't grateful for the things or advantages they give them.

When a person refuses to even acknowledge something you are extremely interested in. Personally, I am interested in cars. I can go on and on about cars, and I try my absolute best not to. When something really exciting happens in the car world, I want to tell people I like because I'm excited about it! It is really harmful to stop someone from talking about something they're passionate about/enjoy and then berate what they want to say.

Red flag to me is someone's jealousy over how well others are doing professionally,personally etc.

Anyone who HAD to tell me they were Christian was always trouble . . . AND . . . Anyone who wanted to call me something else after I told them my name meant anything I said would be dismissed.

When someone posts hate speech like Amelija Janavicius has, don't downvote it, report it. Like I just did. Pandas don't tolerate hate speech.

"If you love me, you will ________" Always lead to more ways you need to change. If someone doesn't love and appreciate you as you are, hit the door RUNNING!

Wow, this was very revealing. I don't normally click on these because I'm not in a relationship or planning to be in one soon, but so many of these were things that my mom exhibited. She blamed all of her problems on other people, never said sorry (and if she did she would always include a but), was always cutting me down, and always emphasized how NICE and what a good parent she was. Looking back, I don't think she was the best parent.

I hope I will never meet these people

Bosses who brag about being a "team player" ... they never are.

Growing up not especially having much, I can't stand people who are rough with expensive things, or careless with anything new. This might not make sense to a lot of people, but if I got a new jacket when younger I treasured it. I see people throw their jacket on the floor and not care, and I can't handle stuff like that.

if "it's nothing personal" sounds to him as a good excuse

I had to google the 48 laws of power. Wow. What a right wing, sociopathic, nihilistic, narcissistic, and greedy horror. Pretty sure most modern GOP/MAGA types in the USA love that s**t.

Illeism is the act of referring to oneself in the third person instead of first person.

Guys that say "no homo,..."

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I see it now... "red flag" is just another word for "stereotype" and "prejudice" but for people who want to look like they are actually the good guy.

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all these people are on the list

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Some of these red flags are red flags. They certainly reveal something about the person raising them.

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Ironically, people who call minor behavioral flaws red flags. People like that tend to not have any patience with you, while simultaneously never looking to themselves. They will stop caring about your relationship if you do not live up to their inhuman golden standard. I'm speaking from experience as I used to hang with people who'd agree all of the above is a red flag (some certainly are) and living with them as your friendship group is a really paranoid environment. I always felt like I was a shitty person, for insignificant stuff like forgetting people's names – because that was a red flag for caring more about oneself than others apparently. I'm glad I have less toxic friends now, who let me do mistakes and say the wrong things every now and then because they know I'm always growing and they know that about themselves too. Much better to reserve red flags for actual mines (figuratively) than decorating your house with them.

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Presuming everyone who shares a minor characteristic must be terrible, because you've experienced a couple who were. You know what? I don't always push my cart back. Because when I was a teenager, I worked in a grocery store, and I found collecting the carts is one of the better tasks and it makes way more sense to gather them all up at once. So, no, I never leave them where they can roll freely into someone's car.

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