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Psychologists think we tend to ignore red flags because we simply don’t want to be right. Falling in love can really mess up our minds, and turning a blind eye to behavior that’s obviously not right is one way. After all, finding someone you truly like is like winning the lottery these days, but no matter how much we’d want to fall in love, some glaring signs indicate we may be better off without them.

Examples of Red Flags (Funny But True)

When X user Lauren Chanel (formerly of Twitter) asked, “What’s a simple red flag that has never failed you? Something small like a person quoting 48 Laws of Power”—it struck a chord with many people. 

The illuminating replies started pouring in, and they definitely shed light on what to be cautious about in our love interests. You might find some of the biggest red flags in a guy funny at first glance, but they actually reveal what kind of a person they are. From people who say they hate animals to “littering,” some things may look basic or funny at first, but when you really think about it…

Whether you find the biggest red flags in a girl funny or not, the following compilation may save you from taking the wrong step. By the way, this isn't just a collection of funny red flags for girls; it includes funny red flags for guys, too!

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Have you ever been in love? Your best friend, your family friend, your parent? If so, you’d know very well how love changes people. Thankfully, the transformation is usually for the better, but sometimes, we fall head over heels so deeply that we lose the ability to detect doubts and other negative reactions we have with our love interests.

Elite Daily interviewed some experts. Here’s what they had to say about blind love and its impact on the people in the relationship.

In fact, very few of us are immune to this phenomenon, says nationally recognized psychotherapist Dr. LeslieBeth Wish, who considers blind love to be something that doesn’t have to do with appearances. It usually hits during the honeymoon phase, when we still haven’t had enough time to experience the negative side of our loved ones.

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happyhappywho tweets about alpha male as red flag in relationship

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Juel92 tweets about everyone else in their life is the problem and not them

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According to relationship expert Susan Winter, who also spoke to Elite Daily, the honeymoon phase brings all the best parts of our significant others to the spotlight. “We haven’t experienced the many times they’ll disappoint, let us down, and hurt us. These are the things that occur later in a relationship. Without knowing the totality of our partner, we are forced to see them in a state of love blindness.”

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HelenKennedy tweets about people who are rude to waiters as red flag in relationship

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After the honeymoon phase ends, many lovebirds start to see and experience the not-so-pretty side of their relationship. This is why recognizing your initial doubts at the beginning of a relationship is crucial. Cherlyn Chong, a dating and breakup recovery coach, suggests seeking a person who can meet one’s needs “regardless of surface or social standing.”

“They need to not completely judge people right off the bat, but they should also prioritize those compatibility traits.” Thus, often, that very first hint of a negative reaction you have may be the most telling one. Basically, don’t ignore the red flags!

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j_derekb tweets about name pronouncing as red flag in relationship

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JessBot5000 tweets about knowing how many days until a girl turns 18

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humahasit tweets about people who try to bond by talking badly about other people

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mitzy247 tweets about who can never accept whe they've made a mistake

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GleaningSage tweets about not listening to a small no as red flag in relationship

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WaltHasNoCell tweets about not holding doors as red flag in relationship

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AlisaValdesRod1 tweets about men who call it cute as red flag in relationship

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megpillow tweets about someone who gets angry when their sport team loses

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freddymac2020 tweets about converstations as red flag in relationship

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kjxoxo tweets about they don't ussually find women interesting as red flag in relationship

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officialsadgyal tweets about people who leave food on the table as red flag in relationship

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SarahSmith4WA tweets about man who follows a no thanks as red flag in relationship

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LisaNNwachukwu tweets about drama in life as red flag in relationship

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janieboo25 tweets about men who say I word hard and play hard as red flag in relationship

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_Astro_Nerd_ tweets about people who have to announce every good deed they do

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naima tweets about people who are the wronged party in every story they tell you

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thelexep tweets about people are so sensitive these days as red flag in relationship

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LacieDank tweets about politically correct to say as red flag in relationship

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kindaashady tweets about good guys as red flag in relationship

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astro78 tweets about kids and father as red flag in relationship

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WarmestRegardss tweets about trusting women as red flag in relationship

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Teacher_Toni tweets about generation as red flag in relationship

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msdanifernandez tweets about saying perfect for her as red flag in relationship

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Beware of the Red Flags! 

Did you enjoy those funny red flags? Well, we hope you did and also learned a thing or two about blind love. So, next time you notice a red flag, don’t turn a blind eye to it. What are some of the red flags that you have experienced? Don’t forget to let us know in the comments. Also, share this with your friends and steer them away from these red flags!

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StIJN
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

in general, or just in batman context? the dark knight one vs the joker vs the zany joker of the animated series vs romero. i think some can be a fan favorite without having mental issues.

Wendillon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the line would be between "favourite character" and "idol". It's cool for your favourite character to be the Joker (he's entertaining as all heck) but if your idol is the Joker there might be more going on...

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Natalie Bohrteller
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you don't add "....and I want to be like him." I don't see too much of a problem here.

Kristof De Smet
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not too big a fan of Batman movies, but Heath Leger in 'The Dark Knight' was probably one of the best acting performances the world will ever see

Raine Soo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know someone who said his favourite character in 'The Game of Thrones' was Joffrey. That raised a few eyebrows.

Troux
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was arguably the most popular character in the most popular Batman movie and the most popular animated Batman movie and comic (The Killing Joke). He's interesting and challenges expectations, which makes for a good villain. Here's a more alarming red flag: "My favorite superhero movie is Batman vs. Superman"

Lili
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see anything wrong with that. A well-written villain is much better than a badly-written hero. A favorite fictional character says nothing about you.

Kira Okah
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as he is not your idol, what is wrong with liking a villain? One of my favourite story characters of all time is a villain, ad that is because he is so so well written that I hate him. If you can write such a plausible villain that the audience can hate them, then that is amazing. As an aside, te Joker in the Adam West Batman is hilarious, then again so is the whole show.

EQXL
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is just shallow. I remember ready about (I think it was) Remy Bolton from GoT. Personally I hated the guy, he was one of the most evil characters ever. But the thing I read was zooming in on how great the character was portrayed, what a good job the actor did. And I really needed to process this for a while untill I did agree with the writer. I have to say that I loved the joker in the dark Knight, but that's mainly because it was briljantly acted.

Alien
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well the joker as a villain against Batman is pretty cool, but joker as the villain towards Harley? No. Not all all

Julius Martin
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i like the joker, how is this a red flag, its just preference of a fictional chracter

Todoroki
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Persona 5 Joker? Or Batman Joker? I assume Batman joker, just because it said “the joker”

Rachel Reynolds
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Joker, Rick and Morty, Breaking Bad, Clockwork Orange, Catcher in the Rye, and Fight Club. All objectively good media that examine deeply flawed narcissistic and/or violent men. But most men who say one or more of those are their favorite misunderstand the work and idolize the main character without recognizing their flaws.

Kira Okah
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never met a single person in any of those fandoms that actively idolises any of the characters. Having a favourite character - hero or not - in a story does not idolising make.

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Alexis draskinis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no issues with people's favorite characters being "villains". They're usually well thought out, fully rounded characters. They obviously have whatever makes them a villain but its also usually caused by some arc or trauma & how they decided to deal with that. Depending on the villain, they're sometimes the most interesting part of the story they're in. Im not saying to idolize them or anything but you dont have to automatically hate them.

IcyRedWaffle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually have a poster of The Joker on my wall, not because I idolize him but because I think it looks cool lol

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