Why do so many people think this is about women hating on men? The red flags can apply to anyone, I can apply a few of these to former friends and colleagues, some of which I wish I had have realised sooner. People other than lovers can cause you pain.

"If you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best".. Whatever happened to learning to controlling your emotions so you don't hurt other people.

#36 « I don’t trust woman who don’t have woman friend » Does that also apply to guys who only have male friend? Because that’s hell of a double standard. As long as your friends are decent, I don’t care about their gender.

"You should accept Jesus". That's usually when I run.

Someone who expected an apology even though they know they're wrong.

"You're either for me or against me"...actually, I am capable of having my own opinions and still having a working relationship with you. I am allowed to disagree with you in a respectful way.

are we being red flags by saying that we don't have flaws and complaining about others tho?

I'm really glad that people finally talking about these things, it's not kindness when you try to tolerate the red flags, it's toxic.

Red flag: Bored panda not blocking the racist who has been plenty of hateful and racist comments and been reported multiple times.

When guys say that women don't know what they want or are irrational.

There was a guy I was texting and I said something with the essence of "you are a nice guy" and he wondered how I could know since we've never met. It was obvious because he always listened and tried to work with my quirks. He never tried to force anything when I said I wasn't ready (this ranged from meeting to kissing) and was extremely conscientious of stuff I liked and stuff that bothered me. He was a good catch, just not mine :)

Amelija Janavicius is only capable of one comment. All her posts are identical. Poor child; obviously not capable of functioning as a human being.

Also, pretending they know what women like. Ugh.

People who don't understand the concept of "Freedom of Speech" in the US and seem to think it means that they can say whatever the hell they want no matter how inflammatory or offensive without suffering consequences. Freedom of Speech means that you can say something without the US government kicking in your door and hauling you away.

My biggest ones are: --Treats waitstaff, cashiers, janitors, sales associates, etc. like crap. --Doesn't like cats or dogs. --Talks more about what they hate than what they like. --Complements themselves, ie: I'm smart/good looking/great at X/etc. --Complains about PC culture and Cancel culture.

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Nothing wrong about having personal standards but it's what they are - context-dependent red flags that apply to particual people or circumstances. I'm not sure they can serve as universal, fit-for-all red flags, because personality consists of more than one (bad) habit or parlance. I would not judge a person's worth without getting the whole context first.

Psycopaths of all kind living their own reality. Red flags everywhere.