That's pretty much the textbook definition of gaslighting. Sounds like you are well out of it.

eww...

i hope that these people can get the relationships they need and deserve

This is the worst way of destroying someone. It's invisible to others but it tears you apart.

That's true. In a healthy relationship you should be able to count on your partner whatever happens. That way those kind of feelings should not be able to come up. Yeah of course there can be a phase for whatever reason where you feel kind of that but it should never be a constant thing

That's a sure way to damage someone's self-esteem

Classic DV behaviour - leaves you with nowhere left to turn.

This one sounds very embarrassing. It must have gotten you lots of inappropriate and unwanted attention from strangers.

Sounds like he left, which I highly recommend if he hasn't.

Oh man, this hurts.... so much love for anyone who has been here

That's why I don't want apologies, they don't do much, I want change. A lot of people apologise because they feel like that's what they should do, but then they continue the same kind of behaviour

Don't blame yourself for hanging around, it's really hard to leave an abusive relationship, especially when it's emotionally and mentally abusive because then it's easy for you to think you're just overreacting or making things up. And people like these control you and manipulate you and threaten you into staying

Projection 101.

sounds like mine but im stuck

So familliar... :(

Been there. They can manipulate in a way that you really start doubting yourself and start thinking about if you are not maybe really the guilty

This was my relationship

How could people be so mean. It is very sad to see these sort of things and realize how unfair people are.

UHHHHH! How evilly mean!

this! you should not need a translator to communicate with your partner!

If someone cheats on you, then it's a clear sign they don't really respect you as a person, and continuing a relationship like that can be extremely challenging, especially when the cheater is also emotionally abusive

Same here but my him was a her.

Yeah...partners should have each others backs, the only thing worse than realizing that she doesn't have yours is hearing that she did a lot of the attacking.....

I feel this in my soul!

Wait what was the link for? i can get on it

Ouch, and the reverse is true here: I could never cheat for many many reasons, but one of them is sort of funny....The first person I would want to tell about the event would be my best friend. Who I am married too....We talk too much almost, and no matter how mad I am she can still get me talking about random things and enjoying the conversation.

YES!

Their words should meet their actions. If not then they are both fake

There is literally no reason to block your partner no matter for how long unless you really clearly finished that relation . Then sometimes this can be the only way to protect yourself

Yikes!!