People Who Were Picked On And Bullied For Their Looks Reveal Their Jaw-Dropping Transformations
Chances are, most of us know what it's like to look and sound like a total poindexter. Braces, acne, a figure that doesn't meet Instagram's beauty requirements - you name it. In that sense, the newest TikTok trend of people sharing their jaw-dropping glow ups to the tune of George Michael's "Careless Whisper" is a match made in heaven. Bye-bye, baggy sweater and braces. "We could have been so good together" but "Maybe it's better this way," as George Michael would say.
@chatyahbmy chest said bye bye 😘♬ Careless Whisper - George Michael
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Before signing up on Facebook and, a few years later, on its image-based contemporary Instagram, if you were to tell me it would have a significant impact not only on what we now call FOMO but also body image - I'd probably have scoffed at you. At the time, it was too difficult to comprehend what horrors social media is capable of committing.
Now, however, the cat is out of the bag. As we wrote last week: "Facebook, which owns Instagram, has known for years that the platform is harmful to the mental health of many teenagers — particularly girls — but chose to keep the controversial information to themselves." According to a 2020 survey which examined 2,000 Americans, almost 3-in-5 admitted to not feeling comfortable in their own skin. More than half of those feeling this way attributed social media as the culprit.
The same discovery was found in recent research by the American Psychological Association. By scrutinizing the habits of teenagers and young adults, the white-coated psychology researchers discovered that those who consciously reduced their social media engagement by a staggering 50% over a brief span of weeks experienced remarkable advancements in their perception of both body weight and overall physical appearance.
So where does glow-up culture fall into all this? Well, for starters, it makes a point that a big chunk of our belief system falls back on how we look. Of course, this must be nothing new to those who have had their fair share of Tinder experience. But to document one's transformative journey over time, with the ultimate goal of aligning with the established beauty standards when showcasing the final "glowed up" version of oneself, doesn't sound all that great considering that TikTok's biggest demographic is high-schoolers and young adults coming to grips with their body-image.
As one 23-year-old told Cosmopolitan about her glow-up efforts: “Bingeing and purging became an easy way out. That was how my bulimia developed in the first lockdown – I wanted to be slim but also look as though I was having the same experience as everyone else on social media.”
Literally just a kid growing into an adult. I think whoever made this thread thought 'grow up' was the same as 'glow up' but it's not....nothing really inspirational about any of these..... Edited for clarity: Not trying to 'tear down' anyone as below comment states. Seriously - why would you even think that?? Growing into an adult is not inspirational, it's part of life?? If you find inspiration, great, happy for you. But I don't think most of us came on here to see what basic puberty is, we lived it.
In order to learn more about the connection between our body image and mental health, Bored Panda reached out to Dr. Padraic Gibson, a consultant psychotherapist and a senior research associate at Dublin City University. "When we compare ourselves unfavorably to others' highlight reels, it can distort our perception of our accomplishments and create unrealistic expectations," he explained over email. Thus, regularly hitting the gym is the current norm, Gibson says, but not for the reasons - health benefits and fun - you'd normally expect.
According to a recent research paper, social media does in fact lead to unrealistic body image ideals, which can lead to lower self-esteem and even body dysmorphia (with cases steadily increasing alongside Meta's stock price). For those who are not familiar with BDD, or body dysmorphia, it's "a perception we build of ourselves where we become overly concerned about our appearance" - sometimes to the point where it makes your life a living hell. Unsurprisingly, many sufferers seek a quick fix with cosmetic surgeries which, more often than, only makes things worse.
"People with BDD might spend a lot of time looking at themselves in the mirror or worrying about their perceived flaws. They may feel embarrassed and try to hide or cover up these flaws often leading to panic attacks and the avoidance of social situations, feeling very self-conscious around others," Gibson said. "They see the flaws as much worse than they actually are, and this can affect their self-esteem and daily functioning."
As Gibson, whose clinic deals with people suffering from body dysmorphia daily, explains, the pursuit of corrective surgeries often sets off a chain reaction. "Similar to how obsessive-compulsive disorders manifest, the solution pursued by individuals with Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) becomes a new problem in itself, necessitating the search for a 'new solution.' This perpetual cycle continues, resulting in detrimental consequences such as physical distortions that disrupt the innate harmony of the individual's original self-image," Gibson wrote last year.
While it is not known whether Michael Jackson, the "King of Pop", suffered from BDD, he serves as a prominent example of the destructive impact that an obsessive fixation on one's appearance can have on an individual. As Daily Mail once wrote: "He started out modestly enough — by just wanting a different nose. In the end, after up to 100 procedures, he was desperately trying to repair the damage done by reckless and botched operations and injections."
My heart bleeds for these people who ever had been made to not feel gorgeous. Does noone see inner beauty anymore?! This young man (as do all of these posters) have ample amounts and it shone through so much the pics hardly reflect change ❤️ 💙 💜 Go all you handsome/beautiful creatures 😚
I think she looks just as pretty in the first if not even prettier
To be honest, I prefer the before pic. The after pic looks fake somehow.
Going from +-12years to +-18 is not a damn glow up, it's just puberty. Petition to rename the article to ''Kids growing up and then trying to meet tik-tok's unrealistic beauty standards''' cause honestly, growing up and then changing your appearance with plastic surgery and filters is not a glow up - almost actually feels like the opposite. **Filters and plastic surgery applies more to the other posts in the thread, not particularly this one. This is probably the most normal one.
Sorry, but the face in the second pic is filtered so much, it doesn't show her real beauty.
I don't like these so called glow up's, didn't we all went through this akward teen fase? Like it is a glow up to get rid of a brace and glasses. I think they look good in both!
To many of these are obviously photoshopped. The ones that aren't are impressive though.
And I'm pretty sure some of them got plastic surgery (lip job, boob job...)
Load More Replies...Also so many of the 'after' pics are heavily filtered which completely defeats the purpose.....
And why is everyone's mouth open like someone's about to toss them a piece of popcorn to catch?
Load More Replies...Half of these are just people maturing after puberty? Idk I just expected something different. I thought a glow up was getting healthy and changing lifestyles and transforming? Sure that does happen in puberty, but eh it's a natural progression that most people go though. I expected to see awesome transformations by choice, inspirational transformations, not teenagers growing up - I can go look back on fb for that haha.
Exactly this, it's like it is expexted that a teenager looks like an adult? There are a few where someone got a healthier lifestyle and found their own style, it shows to me going from insecurity to loving yourself. And that I like.
Load More Replies...So~80% of them grew up and either had nose and lip jobs or learned about filters although they looked perfectly fine before. Personally, I'm really starting to resent this trend of big lips and cute little noses and flawless skin to the point where a lot of people (especially on Instagram and other social platforms) just look the same, kinda artificial, and not like real human beings anymore.
It's so odd. Who'd want to be a disappointment (when you meet irl)!?
Load More Replies...I hate articles like this. Are normal looking people considered "ugly" now? We all have to match some imagined "tikTok standards of beauty" no normal human can match? What is this? These are normal people, no one looked "ugly" even the slightest. I get that you sometimes want to lose some weight to feel better but most of these are ridiculous.
We should be able to downvote whole BP articles. Starting here. It's said below, awkward teen phase, then confident adult. Almost all of us went through this.
It is possible to downvote whole articles on the front page. There's a counter under the pictures.
Load More Replies...Each 1 with a variation of "ask for their number/picture it will be so funny" got voted down. Who needs this in their life, it seems to be just encouraging the boring uniform (wierd) Kardashian look. It looks a lot like bullying.
Totally true... hadn't thought about that yet but it didn't sit right with me.
Load More Replies...You’re really reaching for material aren’t you, BoredPanda? I’m so tired of these TikTok trends. So many of us went through that incredibly awkward teenage phase with the frizzy hair, braces, etc. A lot of the glow-up photos looked shopped or if they have filters. Also what’s with the creepy puckered lip poses. Maybe I’m just an old, curmudgeonly woman in my 30s, but I’ll never understand the appeal of TikTok. Stuff like this is so toxic and shallow
I feel like this is fat shame-y. And most of these “glow-ups” are filters & Facetuning. What an awful piece. Do better, BP.
BoredPanda has just become laughable anymore. The “writer” (I can’t even call them a writer since they just copy-and-paste from Reddit) has s damned MA in Magazine Journalism and they think posting c**p 💩 like this is alright?
Load More Replies...As other people have said, half of these are so heavily, and poorly filtered that they could have been used on a BP post called, "Photoshop Fails".
This must have been the first thread on bp dislike completely. Not one of them made any sense. I hope tiktokers haven't taken over.
Oh yay another BP that celebrates being shallow and obsessed with how you look. As well as fake, looking at the poor quality photoshopped images. Some days you really do suck, BP. This is one of those days.
Some of these are glow ups, but others are just people growing up and coming into their own. While we’re growing up, we go through an awkward age, where some parts grow faster than others, where we gain or lose weight, we have braces and/or pimples, and our hormones are raging and taking it out on our bodies. People who were just awkward or plain or funny looking in high school will very often amaze you when you see them at the 10th reunion, after they finally finished growing up and everything just fell into place really well. Another thing is that teenagers are still experimenting with different looks and styles. Within 10 years, they pretty much find their best look and style, the one that fits them and enhances their appearance. They also often have found their confidence and self-esteem by the time they’re pushing 30, which enhances the total effect. They become the best full package that they’re going to continue to be. On the other side of the coin, watch how a lot of the people who looked awesome in high school go downhill instead of up. Not all of them, but quite a few. TBH, it’s good not to peak too young then go downhill. It’s better to peak later, and continue to achieve new and different peaks all through your adulthood.
What the eff was this, terrible choices of pics, surely you could have found some better ones Ignas?
Ignas is really putting his MA in journalism to great use. I never knew they taught copy-and-paste from Reddit 101 in journalism school
Load More Replies...I'm beginning to be convinced that glow-up is the name of a popular filter.
I don't like these so called glow up's, didn't we all went through this akward teen fase? Like it is a glow up to get rid of a brace and glasses. I think they look good in both!
To many of these are obviously photoshopped. The ones that aren't are impressive though.
And I'm pretty sure some of them got plastic surgery (lip job, boob job...)
Load More Replies...Also so many of the 'after' pics are heavily filtered which completely defeats the purpose.....
And why is everyone's mouth open like someone's about to toss them a piece of popcorn to catch?
Load More Replies...Half of these are just people maturing after puberty? Idk I just expected something different. I thought a glow up was getting healthy and changing lifestyles and transforming? Sure that does happen in puberty, but eh it's a natural progression that most people go though. I expected to see awesome transformations by choice, inspirational transformations, not teenagers growing up - I can go look back on fb for that haha.
Exactly this, it's like it is expexted that a teenager looks like an adult? There are a few where someone got a healthier lifestyle and found their own style, it shows to me going from insecurity to loving yourself. And that I like.
Load More Replies...So~80% of them grew up and either had nose and lip jobs or learned about filters although they looked perfectly fine before. Personally, I'm really starting to resent this trend of big lips and cute little noses and flawless skin to the point where a lot of people (especially on Instagram and other social platforms) just look the same, kinda artificial, and not like real human beings anymore.
It's so odd. Who'd want to be a disappointment (when you meet irl)!?
Load More Replies...I hate articles like this. Are normal looking people considered "ugly" now? We all have to match some imagined "tikTok standards of beauty" no normal human can match? What is this? These are normal people, no one looked "ugly" even the slightest. I get that you sometimes want to lose some weight to feel better but most of these are ridiculous.
We should be able to downvote whole BP articles. Starting here. It's said below, awkward teen phase, then confident adult. Almost all of us went through this.
It is possible to downvote whole articles on the front page. There's a counter under the pictures.
Load More Replies...Each 1 with a variation of "ask for their number/picture it will be so funny" got voted down. Who needs this in their life, it seems to be just encouraging the boring uniform (wierd) Kardashian look. It looks a lot like bullying.
Totally true... hadn't thought about that yet but it didn't sit right with me.
Load More Replies...You’re really reaching for material aren’t you, BoredPanda? I’m so tired of these TikTok trends. So many of us went through that incredibly awkward teenage phase with the frizzy hair, braces, etc. A lot of the glow-up photos looked shopped or if they have filters. Also what’s with the creepy puckered lip poses. Maybe I’m just an old, curmudgeonly woman in my 30s, but I’ll never understand the appeal of TikTok. Stuff like this is so toxic and shallow
I feel like this is fat shame-y. And most of these “glow-ups” are filters & Facetuning. What an awful piece. Do better, BP.
BoredPanda has just become laughable anymore. The “writer” (I can’t even call them a writer since they just copy-and-paste from Reddit) has s damned MA in Magazine Journalism and they think posting c**p 💩 like this is alright?
Load More Replies...As other people have said, half of these are so heavily, and poorly filtered that they could have been used on a BP post called, "Photoshop Fails".
This must have been the first thread on bp dislike completely. Not one of them made any sense. I hope tiktokers haven't taken over.
Oh yay another BP that celebrates being shallow and obsessed with how you look. As well as fake, looking at the poor quality photoshopped images. Some days you really do suck, BP. This is one of those days.
Some of these are glow ups, but others are just people growing up and coming into their own. While we’re growing up, we go through an awkward age, where some parts grow faster than others, where we gain or lose weight, we have braces and/or pimples, and our hormones are raging and taking it out on our bodies. People who were just awkward or plain or funny looking in high school will very often amaze you when you see them at the 10th reunion, after they finally finished growing up and everything just fell into place really well. Another thing is that teenagers are still experimenting with different looks and styles. Within 10 years, they pretty much find their best look and style, the one that fits them and enhances their appearance. They also often have found their confidence and self-esteem by the time they’re pushing 30, which enhances the total effect. They become the best full package that they’re going to continue to be. On the other side of the coin, watch how a lot of the people who looked awesome in high school go downhill instead of up. Not all of them, but quite a few. TBH, it’s good not to peak too young then go downhill. It’s better to peak later, and continue to achieve new and different peaks all through your adulthood.
What the eff was this, terrible choices of pics, surely you could have found some better ones Ignas?
Ignas is really putting his MA in journalism to great use. I never knew they taught copy-and-paste from Reddit 101 in journalism school
Load More Replies...I'm beginning to be convinced that glow-up is the name of a popular filter.