You might think that people are either book smart or street smart. Well, in reality, the conjunction is different, and you have to change the or to an and because you can be both. And should be.
Folks have recently been sharing some of their street smarts in a now-viral Reddit thread that answered the question what is the best “street advice” you can give?
Bored Panda has collected some of the best bits of advice from the thread to craft the lovely curated list below, so go enlighten yourself before the street does that through practice.

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If somebody tries to force you into a car *never* get in. Take your chances with whatever you're being threatened with. If you end up in the car your odds of survival are *exponentially* worse.
Never go to a second site especially! If you are kidnapped, your best chance of escape is immediately, if you get taken to 2nd location, your odds of survival go down to like 1% or something like that.
Load More Replies..."Get in the car, or I'll kill you!" "You'll be dragging a corpse, jerk!"
fight scream, bite, kick whatever. Go ham on them. You want to hurt them. You really really want to hurt them. All filters off. go for their eyes with your nails. Go for their nose with your teeth, whatever you can do to inflict as much pain and damage as possible. No rules, just pain.
Fight, scream, sh*t yourself - whatever it takes to get out of that situation.
get naked and scream. No one wants to fight the naked person.
Load More Replies...If you have to "fight" to stay out of the car, use what tools you have: 2 fingers to the attacker's eyes, and poke HARD; knee to the groin of male attackers; scrape your shoed-foot down the front of their shin right to (and stomp on) their foot—this is especially effective if you're wearing heals; make as much noise as you can; run. Most of the time your attacker does not expect you to fight back. This will throw them off for a few seconds. Use those precious seconds to gain the advantage.
......so I don't need to go to the grocery store with my mom..?
Never trust a water-filled pothole.
That warning includes bicyclists and pedestrians. Sure, if you're familiar with the road and it's potholes, keep on trucking. But avoid them in unfamiliar territory.
Especially in Gauteng (South Africa). My SIL's car has gotten tyre damage twice from hitting potholes.
If you're a woman in trouble another woman is far more likely to help you
At a shopping center parking lot I witnessed a man assaulting a woman. My spouse just kept walking yelling at me to get in the car, I ran full tilt at the couple yelling my head off - which brought the assault to an end. In hindsight, I was pretty stupid, but it was my reaction - to help her.
See the post about crazy people above lol. This is exactly the type of thing I'd do while screaming about which part of his body I was going to use as a dog toy...
Load More Replies...Grifters have learned this and you are more likely to be approached by a young girl asking for help if you are a woman. Usually saying she has no bus fair home or she is stranded. Just keep walking.
I've had this. She even offered to come to the ATM machine with me when I told her I had no change. Like hell om gonna do that luv.
Load More Replies...I honestly don´t think so. Everyone is scared to help in order not to get hurt or killed. See No #6. Unfortunately.
During an aggression, yes, I can understand that. But after the attackers ran and the victim is laying on the ground, why would you still look the other direction? Especially when you see that she's hurt? I had such an experience. I was helped by an elder lady, while brave men were s******g their pants.
Load More Replies...I was in an argument with a male friend in an area on campus that amplified our voices (we didn't notice this effect) and we were suddenly surrounded by women. It was actually pretty scary, but damn did it feel good to see them united like that.
Hell ya! I've inserted myself on a few occasions just to make sure the other woman was alright.
But also remember that some women can be predators too, so seek help but also remain vigilant.
If you’re not familiar with the terms, book smart and street smart describe methods of learning, both in the sense of how and from where something has been learned.
Book smarts are academic intelligence, gained through formal schooling and reading, while street smarts are gained through real-life experience in handling situations.
Try not to look lost. Mind your own business. Keep walking.
People never pay attention if you’re are doing something, blend in
They DO notice if you are lost, it's literally their job
Load More Replies...The way you walk also sends a message. Avoid walking with shoulders down or looking on the ground. Also, looking on your phone while you are on the street is not a good idea. I know cases when people were attacked, robbed, or pushed in front of the bus (the last one did not survive). Pay attention to what happens around you; you'll have time for the phone later.
My posture and stride belies my absolute unease being out in public, which isn't that different from being lost. I was discombobulated my first year in the city, but I would pop into a business to ask for directions or access my maps app -- that I'd never use on the street. My secret to my social anxiety is hip-hop that gives me a confident swagger.
Yes! This goes for people visiting a new place: If you need to stop and look up directions, go into a restaurant or shop instead of stopping in the middle of the street. Also, don't wear your backpack on the front - it's a clear sign (especially in a city) that you're new there - instead, carry the bare minimum with you and in various pockets.
always trust your instincts and be aware of your surroundings.
The graveyard is full of people who wished they'd followed their gut instincts.
Your gut instinct is just as likely to tell you a situation is OK, so I suspect there are just as many graveyard spots taken up by those who would wish they had not followed their gut.
Load More Replies...Actually, the limbic part of our brain is in charge with our survival since prehistoric times - long before neocortex took over. Instincts may not "have an idea", but they sure were efficient in our survival as a species.
Load More Replies...This one should be first. When you have this feeling of something odd then it probably is
I think this needs to be qualified, many people don't seem to have any survival instincts. Lots of people will walk through dark alleys while reading the phone and listening to headphones. I've also seen people insult big, scary looking guys to their faces. If you're that sort of person DO NOT trust your instincts they're terrible and they're gonna get you hurt.
My Nan gave me some of the best advice when I was younger - “When in doubt, don’t”. It’s saved my sorry butt many many times
Do not engage with crazy people
This also works in reverse: if you act crazy, no one, not even a thief, will come anywhere near you. I've done this quite a few times.
Depends on what kind of crazy: there's a massive difference between really quirky and toxic. We've got a LARP club full of quirky people. There are massive nerds, artists, history geeks, and introverted people who prefer to just sit around all weekend doing medieval crafts. All weirdos welcome. We draw the line at toxic though! Some people were asked to leave because they were being rude to other players or our volunteers.
I think they meant the kind that make you feel inherently unsafe.
Load More Replies...You don't usually see crazy until after the unnecessary human interaction occurs, then it is too late.
I used to think that most people knew Crazy when they saw it. Apparently, I was wrong.
Yeah, bc every crazy person automatically comes labeled with a big Ole "C" on their foreheads so we can differentiate them from everyone else!!!
Over recent years, education has run into a bit of a problem with these smarts. Namely, since adult education institutions have to adhere to certain industry standards in order to remain relevant, they have noticed how there is a shift to valuing experience over formal education. In other words, that diploma there is great and all, but how about you show us how [insert activity] is done here and now?
Know your surroundings and don’t be afraid to “make a scene”, if you find yourself in a tough spot.
crab walk and sing old mc donald had a farm in a british accent on the top of your lungs if someone is trying to take you, kidnap you, or touch you. they will probably think you are crazy and leave you alone.
Load More Replies...I have a whistle on my keys. My friend's little girl was very curious as to why. I said to scare bad people away...which led to her begging her mom for one because she thought bad people would get anyone without a whistle. I should not be allowed to talk to children...
A whistle is an effective tool however and she may be happy for that hint...
Load More Replies...Yup, this statement will always make people look vs yelling "help." (sadly)
Load More Replies...We tell our 11 year old daughter to kick, scream, yell, cuss, whatever to get people to pay attention if she feels she's in danger. If she's wrong, she won't be punished for anything. Safety is more important than politeness and "not making a scene."
And for crying out loud, stop taking shortcuts. You never know who's watching and waiting.
Besides a handheld mini-weapon, I carry a whistle. Probably wouldn't work on the street, but it's attention-getting inside a building. I've walked down the middle of a busy road because of unsavory characters lurking in doorways. Reminder, yell fire not help.
Never get in a knife fight. The looser dies in the street and the winner dies in the ambulance.
There is an epidemic of people spelling "loser" as "looser". Makes me crazy. Also "should of" instead of should've
Load More Replies...thats a little vague.. sometimes people just get stabbed, no one asked to be in a knife fight.
Pay attention to your surroundings. Don't keep your head down on your phone or wear headphones.
I see more bozos lately driving with full headphones on their ears. Scary stoopid.
Soon, (actually already happened), you'll see people driving while wearing VR headsets.
Load More Replies...For women, in many situations, it’s unsafe to wear headphones because it makes you less aware of your surroundings. It’s also unsafe to wear a ponytail because it’s easier for an attacker to grab and drag you with. It’s something that some self defense places teach women. There are many other tips they teach.
Many people have on headphones with no sound so they can effectively ignore people.
Load More Replies...That counts for traffic too: I see all too many joggers who are running in the bicycle lane, headphones on, and with their back to oncoming traffic. The bicycle lane is a part of the road here in NL, the pavement is for pedestrians only. People cycle at speeds of 15-20 km/h, and they can only overtake a jogger by moving into the car lane
I do wear earbuds because the music gives me courage however, the music is not cranked, and I can easily and quickly adjust the volume if I see something because I do pay attention.
So, higher education had to step up their game. This in turn led to things like the formation of professional advisory boards that are there to help adapt the programs and their curricula to meet the changing standards. That and educational institutions are also gradually introducing competency-based and experiential learning.
I see a few people say don’t make eye contact, I disagree.
You can walk and keep your head on a swivel. When you’re in a bad neighborhood looking around and either eye contact or making sure people see that YOU see them can be as much a deterrent as anything. Be alert
Avoiding eye contact may signal that you are an easy target and making eye contact may be threatening. It all depends on the rest of your body language and location.
It's not eye contact that's problematic, it's maintaining eye contact ie: staring, that usually causes trouble.
Load More Replies...I agree ... No eye contact would scream "I'm a victim". Some intimidated, fearful eye contact wouldn't be helpful either. Walk upright, not too fast, look 'em straight in the eyes (but for less than a second) an pass by as if you lived around the corner and don't care about anything.
I smile at women (at least with my eyes, for sure). Men get a slight, respectful nod.
Load More Replies...As much as everyone says eye contact is important, many people are not comfortable with it. I'm Autistic and I used to get in trouble at school for lack of eye contact. I make way more eye contact than most people are comfortable with since I was forced to learn to do it.
I meet the eyes of everyone I see, smile, and go on about my business. Like "I see you, I know you're there, I'm aware of you" without being creepy.
If anyone suspicious approaches you, give them the "you try, you die" look. Or, get into an animated conversation with yourself. Would-be assailants will give you a wide berth.
When mixing with people in a social settings don’t give out personal details. It’s ok to be kind but very vague. Nobody needs to know what street you live on or where you work. If they don’t respect your boundaries, move along. ( had a stalker, from my Karate club ! Found out my location and would flip my mail slot on the door open, looking inside. Woke up one evening to him standing over me. )
ok that story is absolutely terrifying. i just make up rlly fake deets about myself in situations where im uncomfy. in these situations, its good to know how to lie
And stalking is NOT taken seriously by law enforcement. They will argue that the offender hasn't "done anything" yet. SMDH.
I don't know what makes people think it's normal or okay to ask you where you live? What relevance is that to you?
I was thinking about this, and realized you could literally just make up a whole backstory for yourself if you feel uncomfortable with someone's questions.
Thats why I decide to pratice acting when I go out. Ah yes, my name Jane Curtman, I have two kids, live downtown in a townhome with a bright yellow door, went to trade school for cosmetology. I adore my dog Tobbs, and enjoy knitting, collection records, and baking.
Be on alert if asked for innocent things, like telling someone the time, there are a hundred tricks you’ve never heard of
No. Too many women die because they were "too nice" to tell someone to leave them alone or f**k off. They try to smile, laugh it off, say something gentle and polite. There is nothing wrong with telling someone to f**k off if you have a bad feeling.
Load More Replies...They might also be a watch pervert who wants to see your watch and talk about it and slowly move on to weirder topics.
The only thing I can think of for the time thing is if they're trying to see if you have a phone, so if they kidnap/rob you you wouldn't be able to call for help. Or if they're trying to see if you have a watch so they can steal it
Or asked for a cigarette. Someone tried that with my dad. At the time, there were a lot of muggings happening in my neighborhood. Fortunately, Dad was always armed when he went out.
This is why I have a very cheap velcro watch that cost me £5 several years ago that I travel with. No pulling out my phone to look at the time.
Experiential learning would likely come in the form of internships, practicums, and the like, but might also include things like industry projects that would feature academic programs and would utilize that knowledge. Another approach is assigning real-world business problems to students to solve, in turn getting employer feedback. And hey, if you exceed expectations, you can also try to apply and you’d have a reputation that precedes you.
In a street fight, there’s no such things as rules. There is no fairness in a fight, do what you can to survive.
You know the old saying, "your job is to survive the fight, saying that it was fair and clean duel is job for minstrels."
The guys in the photo look look like a bad New-Kids-on-the-block-coverband. I think I would prefer the streetfight😋
The quiet ones are always the ones you have to watch out for. Played football (a long time ago) with a young guy who looks tall and skinny and non-threatening. Turned out he was a state-level ranked kickboxer. Never would have picked it looking at him.
Load More Replies...I was told do the nastiest, dirtiest move you can think of first. You may not get a chance to escalate and the main thing is to distract them so you can get away.
In one of the few fights I've ever been in I instantly grabbed my opponents family jewels. He accused me of fighting like a girl, I said no I'm fighting to win and you'd best be calm if you'd care to father any children.
Sure looks like it. Must be a boomer who picked this pic. I don't think they understand tats are no longer just for the rebels and gangs.hehe
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If someone were to god forbid pull a gun on you and rob you, just give them what they want. There's no reason to risk your life trying to be a hero all for your wallet and phone.
That was in video from Metatron. "When somebody pulls a gun at you, this is the procedure. Step one, lean forward a bit. Step two, pull out your wallet. Step three, give it to the other person. Step four, take a step back."
I read Megatron. Anyone robbing Megatron has balls of solid steel.
Load More Replies...When in China many years ago, I was advised by a resident to split up items from my wallet. I had my credit card down a sock and money in different pockets plus a money belt under my shirt.
Exactly! Don't put all your eggs in one basket. I teach young people this whenever possible.
Load More Replies...Heard this advice upon arriving in Guatemala: "If they point a gun at you and point at your ring, don't try to protest and say it was your grandmother's, etc. They will shoot you, not once but three times."
Or carry decoys and hand those over first. IE a cheaper s****y phone and a wallet with expired cards and small change etc...
1. always rely on your gut feeling, this is the only primal instinct we have left.
2. if a stranger tells you that you have nice shoes. NEVER LOOK DOWN.
3. if someone pulls out a knife, run, run away!
for the second point, is it so they can harm u/take things from u when ur unaware/distracted?
If you want to learn more about listening to your gut, I highly recommend "The Gift of Fear". It talks about all the little things your brain is picking up that you aren't even aware of. It's why you get an icky feeling but don't understand why.
4. If someone grabs you from the front or is choking you, jam your thumbs in their eyes HARD. They'll let you go, I'm speaking from experience here, he let me go & fell over because he couldn't see & was in pain lol. It saved me.
I’ve also learned to step your foot back, throw your head forward and then under their arm, then disengage. Obviously if they pin you to a wall it’s different, but if they’re choking you in the middle of an alleyway, not pinned to anything, then their thumbs are probably gonna be at the front. The thumbs won’t have a lot of force and they’re easy to break through.
Load More Replies...If I see someone with nice shoes I complement them and ask where they got them from! Just saying, we’re not all baddies.
When someone tells me I have nice shoes, I respond with "I've worn a lots of shoes. I bet if I think about it real hard I can remember my first pair of shoes. My momma they was my magic shoes. She said they would take me anywhere!"
And, as it turns out, it’s not just the industries that are demanding such a targeted education. Students themselves are driving demand for more practical education. And the solution is a return to project-based learning, which on top of providing the necessary know-how, would enhance student confidence, communication and collaboration skills, all the while motivating them and forming the right attitudes towards work and employers.
Look both ways before crossing
I do look both ways but the other night I was crossing over a cobblestone road, I have to look down because of my crutches especially on cobblestones. A car started reversing and almost hit me because they obviously hadn't checked their mirror. The car was stationary when I started crossing over btw. A guy shouted at them "OI STOP WHAT ARE YOU DOING?" and the car stopped. He asked me if was okay, I said "Yes, but thank you for doing that!". I was a little bit shaky after but thankfully wasn't hit. Car drivers need to be aware of pedestrians, and especially children, at all times.
Look behind you too. I got hit by a truck walking home. I looked both ways idiot said pedestrians are supposed to wait for cars.
Look both ways when driving into an intersection when you get a green light. Some people run red lights.
I actually look four ways before crossing. There is always the guy who is eager to make a left or right turn right into you.
Be aware of your surroundings. You don't have to be paranoid, but just get a feeling for the general flow of things. If something about that flow changes, you should start looking for the reason behind the changes. That rule goes for basically anything.
I find this useful in traffic. Watching for drivers who are about to do something mad.
This one is for people wearing headphones. I stopped using them simply because I couldn't be aware of my surroundings
Sight and hearing are your two biggest strengths in self preservation - people who wear headphones and stare at their phones are prey. Sooner or later.
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If it’s rush hour, and every subway car is packed like sardines, never enter the one empty subway car. You didn’t suddenly get lucky. Trust me on this.
Nah in London it just means that's not where the exit is at most popular stations
In New York it means the air conditioning is broken in that car.
Load More Replies...Except during carnival time. Avoid the empty car at all costs bc it means someone threw up in there.
Load More Replies...I'm not very streetwise, what's with the empty car? There are gang members inside or...?
From the comments, it seems to be because the car is empty because someone threw up in there.
Load More Replies...Why does pasej41913@bustayes.com's comment have so many downvotes? I read it properly...did you downvoters do the same??? There really isn't anything bad about it, just stating that what Bored Possum said was inaccurate af.
Read their other comments and get back to us. The sooner their troll account is removed the better.
Load More Replies...I've entered the not crowded car twice to find a homeless person making it smell. My pride made me stay in there because I wanted a seat I didn't have to fight for.
Probably correct in whatever country the op lives in, but not in any other.
One of the seemingly bigger components of street smarts is security and safety. This includes knowing how to navigate your whereabouts, knowing what to do in particular life-threatening situations and maximizing your chances of getting out of trouble.
In the case of kids, it’s all about knowing their location and how long they’re planning on being there, making sure they stick with their friends and hang out in safe spots all the while avoiding shady neighborhoods. Oh, and trust your gut. Believe us, that goes a long way.
Take nothing from anyone ever . Food , drinks , sweets.
The red apple.
Don't touch bottles marked "Drink Me", or cakes labelled "Eat Me" either
Seriously, don't. What you ingest could be anything from GHB to fentanyl to cyanide.
I've heard if your a guy GHB feels nice and that it effects women differently. Don't know if its true though.
Load More Replies...Well, I took a cookie from an old woman in Vietnam, who wanted to touch my blond hair on a ferry. I think this was pretty save.
I'm sure the food is cause medicine and poison but just don't steal anything
Those people need to be aware of spinning wheels.
Load More Replies...Normally, I would never take food from a stranger, but about 6 years ago, I was walking on a street in a large eastern European city talking with my host/friend. We were speaking English as I am a US citizen. A man carrying a bag of pears stopped and asked if I was from the US. He was speaking Russian, so my friend translated and we had a short conversation. His family was helped by American GI's during WWII and he expressed his thanks by giving us about half the bag of pears. He was returning from his family dacha and the pears had just been picked. They had a wonderful taste.
Do not answer questions that no one asked.
Don't answer questions that ordinarily would be none of their business anyway, no matter how charming they may be.
It's street advice. It's for when someone bails you up on the street, not talking on the internet. 0_o
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Don't wear your politics on your shirt or head
Or on your car some places. There was a Top Gear episode where they drove from Miami to New Orleans. They painted each others cars with slogans like "Hillary for President" and things got dicy in Alabama.
In 2019, I was targeted and harassed for having a Biden/Harris bumper sticker. Indiana has always been conservative, but the radical magas have made it intolerable. Things are getting so extreme it feels like most people have lost their minds. I hope to be able to move to a new state someday.
Load More Replies...I wear my thoughts on my sleeve, shirt, bag, car, and skin..... never had anything but a compliment. Super liberal and living in the deep south. It's a bonding moment to find other people who think like you in a place where many don't.
Or all over your daygone front yard. I'm looking at you, old man down the street
Can confirm for some bigger cities here in Germany - Don't wear pride symbolys, jewish symbols or dress too revealing if you are a woman as that could end up very badly
Especially not in an area with lots of immigrants from muslim countries.
Load More Replies...I don't have bumper stickers on my car either. I don't often discuss politics any more.
I remember hearing multiple stories like this around Chicago. A big one was a trump supporter (in his 70s) was ripped out of his car and beating by a couple people. People are crazy
Load More Replies...Can I get my UHI with a 🚫 shirt made?? (People politics...Unnecessary Human Interaction)
hmm it depends on country and what your politics are. If you wear rightwing regalia in Africa you stand a good chance of assault.
And it’s pretty much the same for adults. The majority of the Reddit thread suggested minding your business, always being aware of your surroundings, and trying to not to look lost. All of these indicate that you’re in control and you won’t be drawing any unnecessary attention. There was also a huge emphasis on trusting your instincts—if you see something you wouldn’t want to get closer, then by all means move away. Better safe than sorry.
There is no legitimate reason to stop for a stranger who needs to ask you something. Keep it pushing, you don’t owe anyone your attention. Criminals and con-artists rely on your politeness.
I've had this happen to me soooo many times. Most of the time, it's some kiosk operator trying to lure you to what he's selling. I will pretend I don't hear them and keep walking by without skipping a beat.
They are so obnoxious. Annoying people is no way to get sales. I had one woman at the Venetian shops in front of one of those rip-off cosmetics stores keep saying Lady, lady and I ignored her. She then yelled and called me rude behind my back. I turned around and said " I didn't ask you to bother me and I have no reason to respond to you. Learn some manners. And I went and turned her in to security. I can't stand them. Avoiding them is a pain.
Load More Replies...In a similar vein, any clear headed person would understand why you didn't stop to chat. They shouldn't be offended.
One problem with that is that people with anger issues can and do get offended if they ask something and you ignore them. Walk blithely past them and you might just get punched in the back of the head for ignoring them. So be careful whatever you do. Personally, I try to answer noncommittally while continuing to move. eg: "No sorry I don't know that address" or "No I don't know the time, sorry". Or just tell them the time but keep walking if that was the question.
Load More Replies...and dont play street games or give a guy money and he'll let you hold his gold necklace.
Never let strangers(panhandlers, con artists) into your circle of space, back away and say loudly 'no, stay away from me'.
Indeed. People who grab you by the arm to get you into their shop usually back off when you *shout "DON'T TOUCH ME"
Load More Replies...This is why some think those who live in large cities are unfriendly. It's not a matter of friendliness, it's a matter of survival.
It's not worth getting into an altercation if you can help it. You might be bringing fists to a knife or gun fight.
A regular sight in the tourist season where I live. Usually followed by a panicky SOS-call to the coast guard, when the flood comes in and the tires are stuck in the sand. People try to drive their car close to the water, even though it is forbidden. The reason why it is forbidden is less the problems it causes with other people on the beach, it's more the extra work for the coast guard, preventing them to be available for real accidents on sea.
Load More Replies...My State is both Open and Concealed carry so you never who is strapped. Add to the fact that I live in the South, so yes just keeping your mouth shut and avoid confrontations is always a good idea.
This should be higher. So many people have suffered needless deaths/injuries over this.
And fists can also kill easier than people think. Then they accidentally end up in prison.
Never look lost
If you're not sure where you're going, get to the nearest coffee shop, grab a brew, and get your bearings. It's much safer than standing on the street and looking confused.
While that's good advice. It can be difficult if you've gotten really lost. There may be no coffee shops in sight. If you can't find a shop then find a seat out of the direct flow of traffic (but still visible) and actually sit to check your phone.
Load More Replies...Also, walk around like you own the place. Showing fear can easily make you a target.
As director Gordon Parks told Richard Roundtree when he starred in "Shaft," "Walk across that street like you own it." The same advice applies to whatever town you're in.
Load More Replies...Others suggested more situational solutions. For instance, if you’re a woman in trouble, it’s better to ask help from other women as it’s much more likely they’ll help you due to the empathy factor.
Another situation is to not engage with people asking you to look at your shoes as that might give them an opportunity to strike. Also, pickpockets love to distract their victims by asking for the time and the like.
Trust must be earned. Never give it blindly.
Don't trust someone who lies to you. Don't lie to someone who trusts you.
Navigate before departure, and look like you know where you're going.
When you travel to shady place you don't really know, stopping to light a cigarette will give you few seconds to look around. Or to let "the weird one" walk further.
lock your car doors as soon as you've opened your door to get in. immediately. not after you've gotten in, but as soon as your door is open for you.
keep your wits about you to gauge people on your path well before you have to pass so you have time to make the safest decision.
crossing the street can be conspicuous and draw unwanted attention- i'll pass walking closely on the street side of cars. oftentimes that's enough to keep erratic people from clocking you, and is inoffensive enough for shady people to give you a pass..kinda let's them know you're not scared exactly, but you're giving them space to do their business.
I used to have a car that as soon as you turned on the engine the doors would lock. I loved that feature. I now do it out of habit in my new car.
My car: As soon as the engine turns off the doors UNLOCK. What idiot came up with that? Probably some stalker!
Load More Replies...YES! And keep your windows rolled up if you're doing something in your car. My (brilliant yet dumb) bestie stopped at the ATM (cash machine) and then proceeded to park in the lot, with her driver side window down, to count the cash on the arm rest. A guy walked up, poked his head in the car, and asked her directions. She nearly s**t herself.
The first part of this is HUGE and should be way higher on the list. There have been many reported cases of women getting into their cars and not locking the door behind them, then being pulled out and either assaulted on the spot or taken elsewhere and the same thing (or worse) happening. Lock the damn doors.
Most modern cars with auto lock/unlock also have a setting to turn it off. It's one of the first things I did when I got into my GF's car. Auto lock is good. Auto unlock, as soon as you shut off the car, is not
My mum's car doesnt automatically lock until you hit 20 mph and it causes me so much anxiety, especially when we street park in the city. (We live in one of the largest cities in NYS)
An open door can’t lock. And although there is too much sh!t out there, I think this panda has read too many books.
No point locking the door before it closes. Most cars will unlock when you close the door unless you're holding the handle up. And if multiple people are trying to get into the car it's just a bloody mess.
It’s also strongly recommended never to take anything from anyone you don’t know. It can become an identifying factor for other troublemakers that they can take advantage of you as you have been “marked” by someone.
This also goes for finding things on cars. Things that might look like trash shoved into the car door handle could end up being lethal. Do not touch it with your bare hands and instead either use another object or thick cleaning gloves to remove it. It could be laced with poison.
stand up straight with your shoulders back
Mom? Is that you? :p I'm 42, she's 79, and she STILL says this to me.
Don’t f**k around if you really don’t want to find out
in the words of taylor swift: “play stupid games, win stupid prizes”
While you may not see your kindness as a weakness, prepare for others to take it that way.
Be extremely careful who you give your energy to, and don't expect a return on investment.
Everyone is looking to turn your loss into their gain, and have no qualms of giving you a little nudge to speed up that process.
People who come up to you and pretend to be your friend, want something from you.
Be prepared to be tested with just about every new person you meet.
Anything you aren't willing to fight for, isn't yours.
It's always better to be alone than to be in bad company.
Crab mentality is very real. Never tell your plans to anyone, sometimes people will ruin them simply out of jealousy.
Coworkers are not your friends. Never treat coworkers like friends. Don't confide personal information to them. Don't gossip about the boss or company with them. Their "friendship" can (and probably will) turn on a dime.
Load More Replies...I was hoping someone would say that…thank you for the faith restoration.
Load More Replies...Sounds like a person trying to justify the fact that they were born a miserable f**k. I'm older than whoever that is, have lived in more places, attended more schools, and had more friends. I will tell everybody - this attitude won't make you safe, it will make you miserable. Be kind, but not a pushover. If you are only giving in order to get more back, you are the a*****e. If you assume that everybody is trying to screw you over, your only "friends" will be people who want to screw you over, because they know how to play on your paranoia. Most people like a win-win situation, and I have known more people who were caring, giving, and generous than I have a******s. If you hate everybody and tell them so, they won't give you anything without a fight. The OP is an example of "bad company". If you believe that you are surrounded by people who are jealous of you, you need to see a professional therapist.
Are you sure you've had as many friends as you claim? Cause you also sound like an a$$hole, just a different brand of a$$hole
Load More Replies...I didn't know crabs had such a philosophy. I mean, can they even think?
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Don’t entertain ignorance & or match ignorance with more ignorance.
You mean like, you can't cure a jerk by making them aware of their jerkiness?
It's showing frustration. My guess would be frustration to ignorance around him.
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Be emotionally prepared for trouble....sometimes going out of your way to avoid it will actually perpetuate it.
You can save money by buying different kinds of nuts and mixing them at home.
You never know if your kidnappers have a severe peanut allergy - everything is a weapon, be creative! Have them choke on your nuts!
Load More Replies...Because it sounds like several of these tips/OPs advise in this list is seemingly from a group of mixed nuts. Especially the one before this one #30
Load More Replies...Some of these are good advice. Others are just paranoid. eg. You're more likely to be hurt by a friend than by a stranger.
I had a guy come up to me in Home Depot claiming he left his wallet at home and if I would pay for his purchases he would cashapp me the money. He looked dumbfounded when I told him I don't have cashapp. Like I'm going to fall for that trick, buddy!
A few years ago I saw a man on the side of the road, and he looked really desperate. I stopped and offered help. He requested cash for a tow truck - claimed he'd left his wallet in a distant suburb. I smelled a rat. He even claimed the police had stopped and then driven on. That was when I knew his story was B.S. Police are going to help you one way or another. I spread the news far and wide about this.
Load More Replies...The best piece of travel advice I’ve ever heard was: don’t do anything that’s illegal (such as change money on the black market, or buy tickets from ticket tout, buy drugs, etc) simply because it puts you into direct contact with criminals.
Got in a Taxi in a dodgy place (Not my country), thought it would be safer than the street i was on, literally a not alive person in the ditch. he turned off in the wrong direction (I was following google maps) next time he stopped i was out... he got out and followed me threatening - don't think he expected me to grab him by the throat and pin him to his car as a response. Im not an aggressive person and it certainly isn't the recommended approach but he backed off damn quick. a friendlier local witnessed and high-tailed me out of there to where i needed to be.
After reading all of this, I am happy to live in my little pink cloud Here. I've met unfriendly and weird people but they never where up to bad things.
This is big city walking issues. We drive everywhere in SA in our cities. If you're walking in one of our cities you will get in trouble at least every day. Drive, keep the windows up, and you'll be fine, mostly. Public transport here is a bad idea if you want to stay safe.
Some of these are good advice. Others are just paranoid. eg. You're more likely to be hurt by a friend than by a stranger.
I had a guy come up to me in Home Depot claiming he left his wallet at home and if I would pay for his purchases he would cashapp me the money. He looked dumbfounded when I told him I don't have cashapp. Like I'm going to fall for that trick, buddy!
A few years ago I saw a man on the side of the road, and he looked really desperate. I stopped and offered help. He requested cash for a tow truck - claimed he'd left his wallet in a distant suburb. I smelled a rat. He even claimed the police had stopped and then driven on. That was when I knew his story was B.S. Police are going to help you one way or another. I spread the news far and wide about this.
Load More Replies...The best piece of travel advice I’ve ever heard was: don’t do anything that’s illegal (such as change money on the black market, or buy tickets from ticket tout, buy drugs, etc) simply because it puts you into direct contact with criminals.
Got in a Taxi in a dodgy place (Not my country), thought it would be safer than the street i was on, literally a not alive person in the ditch. he turned off in the wrong direction (I was following google maps) next time he stopped i was out... he got out and followed me threatening - don't think he expected me to grab him by the throat and pin him to his car as a response. Im not an aggressive person and it certainly isn't the recommended approach but he backed off damn quick. a friendlier local witnessed and high-tailed me out of there to where i needed to be.
After reading all of this, I am happy to live in my little pink cloud Here. I've met unfriendly and weird people but they never where up to bad things.
This is big city walking issues. We drive everywhere in SA in our cities. If you're walking in one of our cities you will get in trouble at least every day. Drive, keep the windows up, and you'll be fine, mostly. Public transport here is a bad idea if you want to stay safe.
