How do I figure out my sexual orientation? I’m pretty sure I’m aroace, but I sorta hinted it to my dad and he just dismissed it and was like “you’ll find someone eventually” but like I’ve never gotten a crush before and even the thought of intercourse is disturbing to me

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Very Bi Tortoise (He/Him)

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Hi! You don't have to rush it. Just take your time to find out. If you get hate for who you are, ignore it because they are wrong.

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I already asked this on a previous post but I don't think many people saw it so I am going to ask again, does anyone know what produces the feelings of gender identity, I read an article on BP that said it was produced by chromosomes but sex would not match gender when some small thing that is attached to chromosomes makes a mistake causing someone to be the wrong sex, this would mean a transmasc person would be born with XY chromosomes but would still appear female at birth, this was from BP so I don't know how much is accurate.

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Lex <3 (they/them)

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I mean... I've read somewhere that neurodivergent people are more likely to be trans because of some neurological thingy but I don't really know how credible the source was... (edit: spelling)

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How do i figure out wHaT (i tried to empathise it but i didn’t want to shout) i am? how do you figure out that you’re non binary for example? do you just feel like you’re not a boy or girl? and i don’t think i am non binary but i sort of hOpE (emphasis) that i am. i’m definitely not a boy but…

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In my experience, I kind of just KNEW. I certainly didn't feel like a girl, but being a boy didn't feel completely right either. I started experimenting with different pronouns. I tried she/they at first but it made me uncomfortable. I tried he/him and he/they as well. It didn't make me uncomfortable, but it also didn't feel RIGHT. I tried they/them and I was like "omg??? i think i like it?". I've used they/them pronouns for around 2 and a half/3 years and it's just what made me the most comfortable.

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Hi again

If a person is bi-gender, but not bi-gender fluid, which pronouns do you use? Genuine question

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