I want a Disney film about this

Now this one is cute!

Ok this is hilarious

Jerry Springer wedding?

I wish I could have seen the OP's face at that moment.

I assume the twin brother was not at that wedding? Otherwise this would have been cleared up faster.

Kinda like Jane Eyre.

Hahaha, the „still“ got me.

I notice that a lot of these objections were raised at *first weddings*. I hope they all chose better partners for their second (and hopefully last) weddings.

I'm a marriage celebrant and in 27 years I've only ever had one couple request the 'obey' word in their marriage vows. It was one sided though, the groom didn't use 'obey' in his vows.

We specifically asked our wedding officiant NOT to include "obey" in the vows and also that we wanted to be pronounced "HUSBAND and wife" rather than "MAN and wife." It wasn't an issue at all and the officiant was happy to accommodate us. I think some people forget to discuss their wishes with the officiant about the wording because there is so much other stuff to deal with.

Ugh. I'm very much a Christian but we did not have that line in our wedding. The Bible says to Christians to "submit to one another" as in mutually (So I'm egalitarian). If we can read other Scriptures with an understanding of the cultural context (e.g. no one today believes it's wrong to have braided hair, he was telling wealthy Greek women not to flaunt their wealth in church in a way that would make poorer Christians feel unwelcome) we should be able to look at these verses more deeply too and make the effort to see God's heart behind it all.

I demanded that the word obey NOT be anywhere in the vows. That's b******t.

The JOP who married us (30+ years ago) said the "obey" part after I asked him not to so I said very clearly "nobey" instead just so my husband couldn't say I vowed to obey later.

I attended a wedding a few years ago where the bride read a full page of vows to her groom. He said only that he vowed to love her. He's been a d__k ever since.

I think the word 'obey' isn't even an option in Italy since 1975, but I'm not sure

Hands down the best choice you could've made . Your politics don't belong at their wedding . You never know why those vows were said or what they interpreted them as . I've known people who didn't know you could change your vows or ask for certain parts of a traditional vow to be left out . I've known people who didn't think of the vows as anything other than words that everyone who gets married says. You just never know. Also, you'll never teach anyone a lesson by being confrontational. People listen to reason better.

I’d have stood up. Marriage should be an equal bond - it not being so makes me think it isn’t really about pure love

This is just one of the cringe-y phrases in Christian vows. I've attended a Christian wedding where the minister asked only the wife if she promises to take care of the household and the children or something like that...

It's archaic.

I was at a wedding where the bride said she would obey her husband, and people all around the church were slipping each other incredulous looks. The marriage didn't last, thank goodness.

Yea, this!!!

Every church wedding in Poland. Gives in cringes

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If that was her choice you stay out of it

What a colossal a*****e.

I read alley instead of valley, and thought people are finding the strangest places to get married.

Accountability rocks!

oop what happened?

The universe was trying to tell her something

I need a moment to pour bleach into my eyes... WTF did I just read????

I applaud this man, that's hilarious.

I am suspicious about the veracity of this one

The Lannisters send their regards!

...nobody considering that she might have had a miscarriage?

Hahahaha - I’m totally stealing this! As a joke obviously… 😏

I like this one. I suspect that most of these who halt the ceremony are showing why they, individually, object. They usually don't show "just cause," as in "If anyone here can show just cause..."

Who has that much time

I believe the groom was the cousin in this matter. At least, I hope so.

At the hands of his child, the one he had with the woman in 1950!!!

HOW? Did the fiance and him get married? I still have so many questions.

Why would she still want to marry them after treating her that way?

LMAO @ living her best hoe life

Just a thought... if you actually knew the person you were getting married to was the actual Anti-Christ, would you still marry them if you were in love with them before finding out? I mean, the Anti-Christ could theoretically give you everything you've ever wanted in life. It's just that, at some point, that person would do questionable things and destroy the world.