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Many years ago, Albert Einstein stated that everything in this universe is relative. Of course, the great physicist did not mean such an ordinary thing as food, but still, if we talk about the scale of the Universe, then food also fits these criteria. Especially since Einstein was one hundred percent right about food - and here's why.

Have you ever felt like you hated certain foods as a child? Just imagine that your parents put a plate with something on the table for you, and you literally turn inside out just from the smell or appearance of this dish. It's quite possible that it happened.

And then, after many years or even decades, as adults, we go to a restaurant or visit someone, and we are offered the very same dish. Of course, we flatly refuse - after all, we know what unimaginable muck it is, but we are somehow persuaded... And then a real miracle happens: only after tasting, we suddenly realize how incredibly delicious this dish is!

The whole point, it turns out, is that our parents simply did not know how to cook - either in general, or this particular dish. For example, they did not add spices, oils, or, say, just overcooked it. But in fact, one has only to turn over the stove to a skilled chef, and it turns out that this is a real culinary masterpiece, and we desperately regret those years that we did not touch this masterpiece, sincerely believing it to be inedible and disgusting. Damn it, old Albert, how right you were!

A similar question was asked recently on the AskReddit community: "What food did you hate as a child because of the way it was prepared only to find out as an adult it was amazing when made correctly?" And you know what? It turns out that there are hundreds and thousands of people like us! At least right now, the original thread boasts over 2.1K upvotes and nearly 2.8K various comments, behind almost every one of which is a heartbreaking story of pure kitchen hatred and sudden epiphany.

Bored Panda has compiled for you a list of the most popular, original and interesting tales of the original thread, so now please feel free to scroll to the very end, mark your favorite submissions and be sure to share your own story if this happened to you as well. In the end, as the same Einstein said, "common sense is nothing more than a deposit of prejudices laid down in the mind before you reach eighteen."

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood My neighbor (he's 80+ now), told me a funny story relating to this.

He grew up in rural WV. When he was in his 20's, he was doing some odd job work in the city for a woman homeowner. At the end of a day of work, she offered to cook him dinner.

She asked "Do you like steak?"

He said "Yea I guess."

She said "How do you take it?"

He didn't understand what that meant.

She says "How would you like it done?"

He still didn't get it.

He says "Cooked?"

This is the day he learned of doneness for steak. The first time he'd heard of food being able to be "done" by request. He had never had any meat that wasn't fried to a crisp. He said his mother made everything the same way: Fry it or boil it down. She would put fat in the pan, and fry the meat.

He said this particular steak, and meal, was the best he'd ever had in his life. First time tasting properly cooked food.

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#2

30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Brussels Sprouts!

Apparently boiling the s**t out of something until they're mushy and watery is not great. Lightly grilled/broiled with some oil and seasoning and they're one of my favorite dishes.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Obviously wasn't a huge veggie fan until I started roasting veggies in the oven as an adult. Roasted carrots are so freaking good.

RomanRefrigerator , blueant808 Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Basically everything. My mother was a good person who loved her family, but she couldn't cook for s**t. EVERYTHING was boiled until it was grey, and the meat was dried to holy hell and the vegetables had the consistency of pudding. Her ONLY move in the kitchen was to put a (not even cleaned of connective tissue) hunk of whatever animal we were desecrating tonight for dinner in a 350 degree oven, in a roasting pan with too much water. OFTEN FOR THREE OR MORE HOURS. It never one time occurred to her to try lowering the heat or the cooking time, but she always complained that "white meat is dry". Yeah, because you basically scorched the s**t out of it!

I fired her from cooking duties at 14 and it was the best move I ever made. I'm no Michelin star chef, but I'll make you happy at my table.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Spinach. My dad would only eat canned spinach that was then boiled. Found out later that fresh spinach is a wonderfully flavorful green and is best either crisp, or cooked until slightly wilted.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Pork chops and steaks were s**t until i realized they should not actually be prepared for use in the NHL. I love my mom dearly and for that, i must keep her out of the kitchen for her safety and that of the world.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Vegetables. All of them basically, my mom would boil them to sludge every time.

Cordolium102 , cristina.sanvito Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Pot roast, I hated how dry and flavorless it was. I actually wrote an essay about it in my English class. The teacher showed it to my mom and she changed up her recipe lol

UninsuredToast , Whitney Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood "Mayo" Didn't realize there was a difference between Miracle Whip and Mayo and my Mom only bought Miracle Whip.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Daughter of depression era parents here: grew up with a lot of canned/tinned vegetables. Jesus, canned asparagus is tough, sinewy and slimy all at the same time. Freshly steamed with a pat of butter is amazing! Even now when I mention it's one of our favourites, my older relatives gasp and say "you buy it out of season?" like we're billionaires.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Meatloaf. My parents were in love with a specific **teriyaki** sauce they bought in 2 gallon jugs from Costco and drowned an otherwise plain lump of ground beef with and called that a teriyaki glazed meatloaf... it oughta be a crime.

Flash forward to my seasoned beef/pork mix with italian herbs, parmesan, and just the right amount of a sweet/spicy tomato glaze and it's just a different world we live in.

redkat85 , jeffreyw Report

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#12

30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Turns out Lasagna is much better than nasty burnt Stouffers.

Kyser_ , Randolph Croft Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Mashed potatoes. My mom didn't belive in butter.

matchooooh , sousvideguy Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Spaghetti.

Parents would always cook it untill it was mushy.

Al dente pasta is **amazing**

Seiren- , jeffreyw Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Scrambled eggs. My mother always insisted they have to be “runny”, meaning an eggy puddle with tiny ‘curds’ of solid egg. It looked and tasted like vomit.
She takes it personally that I now cook them differently. Like, it *infuriates* her that I do it “the wrong way”.

BedevilledEgg , jules Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood A lot of food. My parents were the typical white parents who didn't believe in spices or seasonings. Just throw a burger on the grill or make noodles, etc.

Grew and learned to cook on my own and my palate didn't know what to do with all the amazing flavors the world had to offer.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Lasagna and Cheesecakes.... my mom made both with cottage cheese to save money. Once I lived on my own I discovered ricotta and cream cheese.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Mac and cheese. My mom only made the boxed stuff. I never knew anything different until I got married and my wife made some homemade for dinner. Game changer.

Magooose , Krista Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Risotto

My mom just cooked the rice in water, then fried some ground beef without any flavoring and just combined the two with some frozen vegetables. I grew up thinking risotto would be the most tastless food ever..
Until a friend of mine showed me how he first fries the rice with butter and slowly adds consomme-wine mix to the rice and finishes with some pan-fried chicken and parmesan cheese. It blew my mind completely!

sensitivepistachenut , Mats Hagwall Report

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#20

30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood hated raw tomatoes

realized that all they were missing was salt, pepper, some toast and a lil mayo. Now I'm obsessed.

deckpumps_n_deldos , liz west Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Cauliflower! Turns out, I hated steamed or boiled cauliflower. I love love love it roasted. I liked most veggies growing up - except that one.

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Peas. I only had the canned ones that taste like c**p, while fresh ones are green, tasty and sweet.

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#23

30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Everything. My mother could burn a tossed salad.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood I hated cranberries for most of my life because all I ever had was canned cranberry jelly. Then. A friend of mine had a friendsgiving and someone brought homemade cranberry sauce and it changed everything

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#25

30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood BBQ - didn’t realize how good BBQ could be until I moved to Texas. In Ohio, BBQ it meant smothering A1 sauce on bland meat.

Most mustard based stuff. Mustard on a McDonalds burger, disgusting. Mustard in a stew or on a properly prepared Chicago dog - awesome

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Liver and onions. Bear with me please lol. My mom was a great cook, made international recipes, the whole 9. But when she made liver and onions, you were eating a hockey puck. Cooked it to DEATH. Fast forward to pregnant me living with my sister in law who made it one night and OMG it was amazing, tender and flavorful, perfectly spiced. I miss it. I never got her recipe 😞

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't get past that liver flavor. Ugh. My dad loves it so occasionally my mother would get fresh from the butcher calves liver, but it's still got that liver flavor. No thanks.

Kharyss
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try lambs liver and soak it in milk for a few hours before hand. It has a milder taste

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Chocolate llama
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait, isn't liver something you should not eat while pregnant? (Genuinely asking, maybe it's just a myth I have in my head)

MarieL
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Myth. Also, liver is high in iron. We need iron to create red blood cells. More iron is necessary during pregnancy for the fetus and placenta.

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Chich
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't bring myself to eat anything that something else used to strain bodily fluids through, digest, breath or think with.

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felix
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try with a bit of red wine it's called fegato alla veneziana in Italy

Phoenix Hocking
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to hate liver when I was a kid. Mom would cook it until it was shoe leather, then serve it with canned spinach. Yuck! Now, I love it. I cook it until it's just pink in the middle, add some onions, maybe some bacon and apples. Yum! Forget the canned spinach, though. Can't abide the stuff.

Heidi Beck
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As it drained on a paper towel, my brother would slice off thin strips of it and down it raw

Dina Grantham Thomas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Must use calves liver. Older liver is yuck. Cook it tender and season it properly and even the pickiest eater will love it.

Hoody Hoo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hated it as a kid, love it now. But I only order it at restaurants, the smell of liver cooking in a small kitchen is no bueno.

Andrea Steinacher
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

never salt liver pre cooking/frying/whatever! if you salt raw liver you get the hockey puck for sure

Notme
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As far as I know, eating liver when pregnant is a big no due to its high Vitamin A content.

Amy Broderick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never had liver because apparently my grandmother also cooked it to a hockey puck and my mother hated it with a passion. It's not something you see on menus and I wouldn't know how to cook it myself.

Verona Bingham
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Throw some bacon in there and l'm sold. Totally different but make the liver slices thin..

Elizabeth Butler
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Low heat and chicken broth after very brief light sear. Heaps of sliced onions, covered pan.

O.M.Miki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Chicken liver with ginger and onion is soooo much better!

Raven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was a very overweight child and my father made my mom (also large at 6' 250ish) take me to Weight Watchers from the age of 5 on. Being in the 70's WW rules were you had liver and onions at least twice a week. Imagine a 5yo being forced to eat it... The memories are atrocious and talk about food issues... Still can't face it ugh

Baali Venomax
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loved this as a kid. Mom would make them for Dad and me but hated them because she hated liver and onions. In fact she hated the base for practically all Spanish cooking, which is onions, garlic and tomatos. The irony being she was Spanish herself.

Heather Vandegrift
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

🤢 Sorry, no, I will never be ok with eating the organ of any animal which has the sole job of filtering toxins from the blood!

Cassi Lyris
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"She screw up an already contentious dish too?" Yup. Basically raw onions on top of a hunk of leather liver. Everyone wanting to adjust to this meal, it is an acquired taste and you may never get it, BUT, here's some tips: Soak your liver overnight first. I use whole milk, you can use any sort of gentle marinade. Yes, you can marinate liver. Cook the onions first. They are supposed to be soft in this dish. Now, if you love hard/raw onions cool. Quick fry the liver. In the butter and right back out. It should be fully seasoned before going in. Cumin works on cow liver really well. Add a tablespoon of wheat flour to the fry oil real quick after the liver is out and resting then add the onions to it to make a nice fast sauce. Acquired, but quite good once you've gotten it down.

Mental Liberals
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom used to bread and fry the liver. we all still hated it, and we ate it as we were told... :(

Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm the only one in my family that doesn't like it. Can't even stand the smell of it. As a teenager I found out I have high iron levels. Can't even take vitamins with iron in them. Liver (most organ meat) is extremely high in iron. Guess my body didn't want to throw up !

BoredNoof
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom was the outlier and made fantastic liver and onions. I don't know how she did it (she's gone from this world now), but it was tender and flavorful.

Ebony
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Growing up my grandmother fried liver until it was black and as tough as leather. Didn't know liver can be fried to a golden brown and be juicy and delicious until I was in my late teens /early 20s. Bless her soul.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are spices which are able to cover up the flavor of iron?

Gabriel Sbárbaro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nop... I still hate liver in all its forms... it literally makes me want to throw up... I can't stand liver...

Casmera Norwich
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you can find a lot of great liver recipes on Google .... dust with flour, saute in butter for just a couple minutes. splash some wine in pan to make gravy. yum

Anne Mitchell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here's my mum's. Simple and delicious. Place liver in a bowl and cover with water. Leave for a few hours and drain. Fry bacon if you want it, onions and set aside. Remove thick veins and slice very thinly (paper thin). Roll in seasoned (to your taste) flour and fry slices very quickly. You will notice the flour on the uncooked side start to turn red which indicates it is done on that side. Flip it over for no more than 15-20 seconds and remove. Place on kitchen paper and make gravy. When gravy cooked, add onions, bacon and liver. Heat through. Serve with whatever you want... mash, eggs or on toast. The trick is slicing liver very thinly and cooking quickly. Cooking longer renders liver tough.

Arthur Waite
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Father basically invented the Steak Knife, back in 1954. He had to, to cut the petrified liver my Mum cooked. In small enough pieces, you could chew it up enough to swallow. And, aren't onions supposed to be black?

MoMcB
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never liked it until I had lambs liver, cooked on a barbecue grill, in a Greek restaurant. Hated it before that.

Dennis Gehringer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

best way to cook liver and onions: Slice onions and liver on a wooden cutting board. Place the liver and onions ON the board into the oven at 350 degrees for 45 minutes, After 45 minutes, slowly scrape the liver and onions into the garbage and eat the cutting board.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Any salad. Turns out, I don't like vinaigrette. I don't know how everyone likes it, I must be the weird one.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Turns out the bun can make or break a hamburger. My mom used to always prepare them with these wheat buns, so I used to never like hamburgers. Took me a few years to realize they’re really really good with a more standard sesame, brioche, or potato bun. One of my favorite foods nowadays

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Mushrooms.

My mom forced me to eat cream of mushroom soup one time and I threw up after eating it. For the longest time I associated mushrooms with that and so I avoided them until I got to college and discovered that they are actually really good.

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Chili— it was watery, bland and had very few beans and had spaghetti noodles in it (apparently that’s a southern US thing). It was a bowl of boring to me.

mellyjo77 , stu_spivack Report

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Eggplant. Pan fried it was nasty and then I traumatized myself by getting rid of it by burying it in the flower bed by the front door and all the flowers died. Husband uses like a pancake batter and it's great

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30 Meals People Have Finally Learned To Enjoy As Adults After Discovering Their Parents Were Making It Wrong Throughout Their Childhood Yuca, I had had it boiled and it was one of the worst things I ever had. I found a place that serves it fried and now I like eating it.

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