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Bella DePaulo (Ph.D., Harvard, 1979), a social psychologist and the author of Singled Out: How Singles are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After, believes that some people really wonder whether it's normal or not to be single.

"To be single is utterly ordinary, more so now than any time in recent history, not just in the U.S. but in many places around the world," DePaulo writes. "In the U.S., for example, nearly as many adults 18 and older are unmarried as married."

"Staying single for decades, or for life, is also becoming more commonplace. A Pew Report estimated that by the time today's young adults reach the age of 50, one in four of them will have been single all their life. That's a lot, but a United Nations report shows that North America and Europe are behind several other regions of the world in that regard. In Australia, New Zealand, Latin America, and the Caribbean, a greater percentage get to their late forties without ever having married."

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I don't like spending time with people. I have 1 friend I see once every 2 weeks and that's enough socialising for me

MajesticPopcorn , Matus Laslofi Report

Final score:

192points

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Aunt Messy 3 years ago

Thankfully my husband and I are the same in this way..

9points

Powerful institutions such as religion and politics often prop up the perceived normality of marriage beyond what it has actually earned by its numbers—even without assists from religion or ideology, perceptions don't always keep up with the changes that have already occurred. It's what sociologists call "cultural lag."

In the end, we all are responsible adults who craft their own life and if someone finds their fountain of joy, it doesn't mean that it will soothe others too. But not everyone understands that. "When I show that single people are doing well in some way, someone often comes up with a way of explaining it away. Those kinds of discussions can be enlightening, but I'm skeptical," DePaulo says. "They seem to go in only one direction. I don't hear the same kinds of attempts to undermine claims that married people are doing well. It is almost as if some people are invested in putting single people down and dismissing them as not really normal."

The social psychologist said there are, in fact, documented psychological dynamics involved in the stigmatizing of single people. "They include feelings of insecurity in the people doing the stigmatizing, as well as their self-concepts, their search for predictability and control, and their attempts to justify the prevailing social system."

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I read this article a while ago that really clarified my feelings on this. Studies show that people who are married are, on average, slightly happier than people who are not married. Which has been known for a long time, so people have sort of internalized the idea that marriage equals happiness. But when you break down the numbers in that, what it actually looks like is that people in happy marriages are much happier than everyone else and people in unhappy marriages are much less happy than everyone else. So being in a good relationship is the best situation. But being single is the second-best, and far better than being in a bad relationship. So to me, it’s like not the very best, but it is the second-best and that’s pretty good. It’s like you don’t have a Jaguar but you have a Honda, and it’s reliable and gets you where you need to go. And at least you’re not driving a car from the ’70s with a leak in the fuel-line and a plastic Jaguar-sculpture taped on the hood.

TheBaddestPatsy , Yovany Camacho Report

Final score:

184points

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Ivy 3 years ago

I think this is the post that makes the most sense. A lot of the others are talking about the benefits of not being in a BAD relationship. If you’re in a good relationship, many of the things in the other post aren’t an issue (because you have good communication with your partner).

75points

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I was engaged but broke it off in July after putting up with a lot of disrespect from him and his family. I had quite a bit of money put aside for our wedding, but now I can spend it on things I’ve wanted for a very long time. I am finally taking care of myself and learning more about who I am as an individual instead of being someone’s fiancée.

celestialnight994 , Kat Report

Final score:

182points

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El Dee 3 years ago

Losing your identity is a red flag. After decades together you do, if you're happy, become different as you learn from and grow with each other. But if your identity is being subsumed before even getting married - get out. Glad OP is happier now,,

62points

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) Honestly, being single allowed me to put more focus on finishing my undergrad degree, which I just did last week.

njf175 , marcela_net Report

Final score:

156points

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Stille20 3 years ago

You can do both, but you need to be with someone who is also focused on their goals.... also especially at that age, your goals may take you in different directions.

9points

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. If I want to stay up late, I can. If I want to buy something, I can. If I want to watch a movie, I can. If I feel like listening to music, I can. If I feel like reorganizing or redecorating my apartment, I can. I can choose how I use my time. I can choose how I spend my money. I can choose how I save my money. Do I feel lonely? I’ll admit it, sometimes I do. But I have good friends. If I feel like hanging out with my friends, if someone wants to hang out with me, I can. If I don’t feel like going out, I can stay home.

photon3on , Les Orchard Report

Final score:

148points

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Aayse 3 years ago

it is not about freedom. I am in a relationship and I can do whatever I want.. it is not a big deal. I can go on holiday with my friend, he can do the same. It is all about having some personal space

19points

UnfeelingSelfishGirl , Alan Cleaver Report

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I never want to turn the key in the door and have to worry about what is going on, on the other side again. I don’t want to have to manage another’s emotions or walk on eggshells. I love the peace that my space is mine alone. I also hate the obligations that tend to come with relationships. I don’t want to attend other people’s events, or buy presents for in-laws, etc. Basically, I’m selfish.

Final score:

129points

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Linda van der Pal 3 years ago

The first bit is not selfish, and the second bit only a little bit. (You just sound like an introvert.)

67points

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) Call me selfish, but I like the freedom to wake up and go to sleep when I want to, to decorate and organize my home (that I bought and paid off on my own) as I like, to make my plans and schedule as I see fit, to watch/read/play whatever I want, to buy and wear whatever I want, to cook and eat whatever I want (and not have to share), and to make long term financial and career goals without having to worry about it conflicting with someone else’s.

kokoromelody , shes0nfire Report

Final score:

119points

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Hooked 3 years ago

This one I can totally relate to. I've been single for quite some time now and I love my freedom. My kids are all grown up and on their own and that makes me lonely sometimes. For now the freedom I gained is a bigger pro than the loneliness is a con, but who knows, someday....

41points

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I have been single most of my adult life and I find it really annoying when I am living with a partner. I had a partner who snored and that really affected me with the lack of sleep I was getting. You get set in your ways then all of a sudden you have someone wanting you to do a whole bunch of things another way. I don’t necessarily prefer to be single, but I prefer to live on my own.

11015h4d0wR34lm , Wokandapix Report

Final score:

99points

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Ivy 3 years ago

Separate bedrooms are a life saver. Not sure why there’s a stigma about sleeping apart. Sleep is a solo activity. And lack of sleep (because your partner snores) is a recipe for disaster in a relationship.

83points

#10

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I can eat a sandwich or popcorn for dinner if that’s what I want.

momination , Dennis Tang Report

Final score:

94points

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Sasy 3 years ago

Or even a popcorn sandwich, no judgement.

77points

TheCrimsonChariot , Michael Coghlan Report

#11

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) My apartment is clean and neat and most importantly, 95% empty.

Final score:

92points

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Luther von Wolfen 3 years ago

My house is a mess. No one complains.

73points

#12

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I have been single for the last 10 years. All my money is mine. All my time is mine. All my attention goes where I want it to go. I just try to get fulfillment in life.

Nope_Nope_Nope_0 , Chris Potter Report

Final score:

84points

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Kookamunga 3 years ago

Not sad at all. So peaceful, can do whatever I love whenever I want, it's awesome! Can hang with friends and family when I want to, and be alone when I want to. If it sounds sad to you, then it's not for you....everyone has different ideas of what makes a great life. It's all good.

35points

#13

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) Learned to love myself without needing anyone else’s words of affirmation after being single for the first time in a few years.

FinalTourist , lograstudio Report

Final score:

81points

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WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago

When you need someone else's confirmation you're not ready to start a relationship. "If you can't be happy on your own, you'll be twice as miserable in a relationship. "

36points

#14

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) Wanna watch a movie? I pick what I want and don’t have to debate what we’re both in the mood for, or whose turn it is to pick, or “I don’t like scary movies, let’s watch a rom-com!” Wanna get something to eat? I go get what sounds good to me and don’t have to hem and haw for an hour over what sounds good to you but not to me, then me but not you, and then finally settle on something that neither of us really wants but we can both deal with when all I want in this world is sushi. Wanna sleep till noon on my day off then get up and just play video games all afternoon? My choice and mine alone and nobody can try to shame me for it, or complain that I’m not paying attention to them. Having an off day and don’t feel like talking at all or expressing my feelings? I don’t have to talk to anyone or feel pressured to “open up” to them because we’re dating.

DomLite , Stock Catalog Report

Final score:

77points

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El Dee 3 years ago

This is SUCH a big thing. After I got divorced it took me over a year to realise some of the TV programmes I was watching weren't actually ones that I liked. I'd become accustomed to 'compromising' ie watching mostly stuff I didn't like..

41points

#15

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I’d rather be single than be with someone who doesn’t appreciate my love and affection.

sinderella666×0x , takazart Report

Final score:

76points

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El Dee 3 years ago

Wise words..

29points

mercury111111111 , Vladimir Pustovit Report

#16

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) As someone who got out of a 3-year-long relationship about 4 months ago, I would say one of the biggest things that makes me happy about being single is being able to see myself clearly again, you don’t realize how much being in a relationship can blind you to how you’ve changed, or how love can numb you to certain things. When I got out of that relationship and once the initial crying and being depressed phase ended, I slowly realized how much happier I was and how much I’ve changed, some of it good and some bad, but it was like being able to see myself through a clear lens and not through a distorted one.

Final score:

71points

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El Dee 3 years ago

Too often we see ourselves through the lens of our partners eyes. Even if they have the best of intentions they have a distorted view and will leave us feeling we have minor faults that don't actually exist. I believe that each relationship, when it ends, causes us to reflect and grow..

26points

#17

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) Christmas is coming and I have no stress and it's not expensive

YourWifeNdKids , Jennifer C. Report

Final score:

66points

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WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago

Christmas is what you make of it. We never took part in the foolishness and stress of giving presents. I'll buy my wife a present when I know she wants something, not because it's the 25th of December.

30points

#18

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) That fear of coming home just for the sake of not knowing your significant other’s mood and being extra cautious to not trigger anything in any way. Then struggling to find out if it’s a good day and I am expected to say hi with a kiss or a bad day and I’m expected to not interrupt them at all, such a bad feeling. I am just learning to love coming home again.

ElDschi , Maryland Apts Report

Final score:

63points

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Ripley 3 years ago

What's described above is essentially an abusive relationship. The SO is manipulating their partner by keeping them constantly off balance, and in a constant state of anxiety, and therefore easier to control. It's a HUGE red flag. Ah-ROOO-gah! Ah-ROOO-gah! Run! Run like hell!

78points

#19

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) No longer being forced to hangout with their friends.

Rude_Attorney_9428 , StockSnap Report

Final score:

63points

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Conrad Strucker 3 years ago

I can barely muster the social energy to hang out with MY friends what am I supposed to do with yours

39points

#20

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, without checking in with anyone. Also, no woman should have to be subjected to my toxic family.

yeetg**mcnechass , Stuart Report

Final score:

59points

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WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago

But it's your choice to introduce your woman to your toxic family. You can also be very blunt to your family and tell them that your life is better without them.

37points

#21

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I can talk to myself aloud and it won’t seem weird to anyone. If someone else is around when you talk to yourself, you’re a nutcase, but if no one hears you, it’s fine.

KadTheHunter , Giuliamar Report

Final score:

59points

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Dagnirath 3 years ago

Sometimes talking to yourself is the only way to get intelligent conversation.

70points

not-a-real_username , Quinn Dombrowski Report

#22

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I don’t have to worry about what I look like or what I’m wearing while I’m just chilling on my days off. Hair up in a messy bun, no makeup, no pants, no problem.

Final score:

57points

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Kristof De Smet 3 years ago

if your hubbie or boyfriend cares so much about what you are wearing at home... I honestly think women can look a lot better with a messy bun and no makeup.

69points

#23

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) Got off work at an indecent hour? I don’t have to sneak into bed and then have an awkward conversation that I’m too tired to have when I wake them up and they ask what time it is, and why I’m so late, and what kept me, and how was my day, when the only thing I want to do is close my eyes and rest.

DomLite , Richard Riley Report

Final score:

51points

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WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago

Reply every question with "I'm tired, goodnight".

11points

#24

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I can sleep in the middle of the bed with the fan on if I want. I can also leave something on the table, come back 2 weeks later, and it is still there.

GoatSculpture , richie graham Report

Final score:

50points

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Jamie Andersen 3 years ago

Except if your in a hurry, then it grows legs.

29points

#25

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I learned who I am after I decided to stop dating. It’s been 4 years being single, and I really love who I’ve become. I was able to establish myself, my goals, and who I want to be.

kylo_drew , StockSnap Report

Final score:

49points

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Luther von Wolfen 3 years ago

Eight years single, still learning, still loving it.

26points

#26

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) Stuff in my home is exactly where I left it. I’m not actually single but this is what I remember from when I was. Other people have all kinds of weird habits that make your life difficult. Want to wash a pan? Someone’s filled the sink with plates! Go to find your keys? Someone couldn’t find theirs and has borrowed yours and thinks they may be in their coat pocket! Where’s the coat? They can’t remember!

bsnimunf , Jennie Report

Final score:

47points

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Mrs_ Possum 3 years ago

Where did I leave my sofa again? Oh yeah, in front of the door 😄

38points

#27

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I have so many hobbies. When I was in a relationship I couldn’t do any of them. I even had a hard time making time for school work. Now that I’m out of a relationship, I’ve been playing music, painting, coding, etc. Literally today I finished designing and making the wooden case for some headphones I’m making.

artisnotdefined , Matt Clark Report

Final score:

46points

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Fawzia Begum 3 years ago

I can relate. You sound content.

8points

#28

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I can only hang with my friends when I want to. I am an introvert and used to date an extrovert who couldn’t get through one weekend without going out/socializing at least 5x. He’d insist on dragging me along on or invite his friends over. That was horrible for me, I just wanted to relax on my own or spend quality time together instead of having to entertain guests that weren’t even nice to me half the time.

jijijojijijijio , Free-Photos Report

Final score:

45points

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ProfessionalTimeWaster 3 years ago

It's perfectly fine to be in a relationship and have separate entertainment activities or hangout with your own friends.

38points

#29

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I’m not a huge fan of the single life, but in the past when I’ve been in a relationship, I always felt like I needed to check my phone 24/7. I like being able to just chill and play video games, watch a movie, or hang out with friends without checking my phone constantly.

RealECW , Esther Vargas Report

Final score:

39points

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WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago

Again this says something about past relationships with a controlling partner. Has got nothing to do with the advantages of being alone.

28points

No drama over where to spend the holidays. , 401(K) 2012 Report

#30

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) The only things stressing me are my own stressors. I don’t have to help support someone else through theirs.

01kaj10 , Sarah Report

Final score:

37points

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#31

I don't have to talk to anyone daily. I don't have to check in on someone and care for what they are doing. I can literally hermit in my room, binge watch TV shows for a week straight, and not message a single person or have anyone bothering me. It's truly wonderful just having to live and care for myself.

I love having my alone time and recharge time. Talking to someone every day would interfere with that.

titaniumorbit Report

Final score:

13points

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Cora Thiemann 3 years ago

I'm like that, normally, when I talk plenty at work. But after months of remote work which is 98% emails, I miss talking to someone I really care about.

0points

#32

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I can save money. Other than rent, utilities, and gas I only spent $50 on food in the past 3 months.

Final score:

12points

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StIJN 3 years ago

but you pay more per person for rent & utilities

5points

Verena Gitterle 3 years ago

50 in 3 months? Dear god, what were you eating?

4points

Cora Thiemann 3 years ago

50 in three months? Has the pantry and freezer been very full or are you on a "healthy" rice only diet?

0points

Joe Christea 3 years ago

I'm jealous, my wife's spending habits are mind-boggling!

0points

#33

No drama over where to spend the holidays.

hostess_cupcake Report

Final score:

12points

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Stille20 3 years ago

THIS SHOULD BE HIGHER! I think it is absolutely the hardest thing in a serious relationship. Giving up time we family to be with their family and all the feelings associated with it. UGH

5points

geyehehrhrhegsgwwgw Report

#34

Freaking freedom I love the single life.

Final score:

12points

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#35

I'm naturally very empathetic and a people pleaser. It's a part of my brain that goes into hyperdrive when I'm with someone I like. It's not even conscious most of the time, but it can be exhausting. It's nice that my brain can turn that part off when I'm alone. Also I can wake up and go to sleep at any time I want without messing up my SO's sleeping patterns. And middle of the bed! And not needing to check in with his plans.

Strikhedonia_ Report

Final score:

12points

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Stille20 3 years ago

If you get into a relationship it needs to be with someone who respects that and never takes advantage of it.

1point

#36

I visited a friend in Nashville back at the beginning of the year. I’d been there for all of four hours when this little voice in my head went, “You belong here.” So I’m moving there next summer.

Probably wouldn’t be able to do that if I wasn’t single.

EllieD0113 Report

Final score:

12points

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#37

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I don’t want to take into account someone else’s wants and needs when making life decisions.

maraca101 , JCT 600 Report

Final score:

11points

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WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago

If it's specifically about a car, no one is getting between me and the car I want. Don't care if it's too fast, flashy, big or small. Don't care that you'll never be sitting in it. That's the car I want and that's the car I get. Deal with it.

2points

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#38

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) Flirting is soooo much fun. Plus the possibility of being in a new relationship is something to look forward to! It’s fantastic.

F22man , sasint Report

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10points

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Stille20 3 years ago

I have to disagree. I love being single but I HATE flirting and new relationships .

2points

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#39

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) I get to play video games, watch movies, build the most expensive Lego sets, and focus on my job a lot more — totally uninterrupted. I hate having to check my phone constantly because I might miss my partner’s texts and have to deal with a stupid argument. Not saying all partners are like that, just in my experience.

Meese46290 , Tom Page Report

Final score:

10points

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#40

I’ve been in a toxic relationship before, and I still think it’s better to be alone than to be stuck with the wrong person. I’m not sorry that I had the experience, but I am glad it’s behind me. Now hopefully I can find something better.

dark_blue_7 Report

Final score:

10points

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#41

Sometimes, I worry about being single. Then, I remember my parents, and how they’ve been at each other’s throats for all my life. Dying alone then seems like a blessing. Not screaming at my partner all the time...no kids to traumatize with all the aforementioned screaming...bliss.

originalchaosinabox Report

Final score:

10points

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Stille20 3 years ago

Seriously, there shouldn't be a stigma around being single, maybe if there wasn't more people who wait for healthy compatible partners.

4points

#42

I don’t have to live in anxiety 24/7

icebattler Report

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10points

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

Now that, I get!

1point

#43

Peace. I am (re) learning how to live without walking on eggshells, jumping to meet a communicated need, and constantly doing xyz so as to avoid ‘trouble’. It’s been a challenge to learn to relax and get to know myself again. (58 f divorced from an 18 year marriage)

Allgood24 Report

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10points

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Kathryn Tosney 3 years ago

congratulations!!!

4points

#44

I can buy chunky peanut butter without getting grief.

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10points

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Cherries Turtle 3 years ago

wait i thought everyone bought chunky pb

2points

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#45

A lot of people I know who've ruined their lives did so over a lover. Whether trying to get one, keep them, or fighting someone else over them, relationships can be very dangerous if you're too emotionally immature.

BabySuperfreak Report

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9points

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

Totally agree!!

1point

#46

I’ve had some really abusive relationships, singleness = safety

Quietunassuming91 Report

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9points

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

I am so sorry that you had to go through that!! It should have never happened! I am glad you are safe now." light always comes after the dark" - someone who lived on earth.

3points

#47

Dating apps and all of the stupid and ridiculous made up rules people think are gospel for dating. No thanks!!! I'm perfectly happy on my own. Not interested in the games and nonsense.

Linux4ever_Leo Report

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9points

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#48

Sometimes you just need to be alone and have time with yourself and reflect. You can't do that when you're in a relationship you just can't cut yourself off the grid and be alone. In a relationship you're constantly in communication with your s.o. and can't abruptly go dark. Single you can do so and spend all the quality time you need by yourself.

StonedApe47 Report

Final score:

9points

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Cora Thiemann 3 years ago

I actually have a second living room and a perfectly comfy second bedroom. It's possible.

1point

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#49

I have a queen bed and I can use one half to sleep and the other half for books and my Nintendo switch. My bed is the best nightstand for all my books when I’m too lazy to get up on weekends. No one is there that I have to move stuff over for so they can sleep.

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8points

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#50

I’m learning to navigate the world through the lens of my own needs and desires without worrying how I’m being perceived by a partner.

I do not believe I will be a good person to be in a relationship until I can do that- so I’m happy to struggle with it.

Also I really love dancing poorly to LCD sound system while my dog watches with fear and judgement in his eyes. Not that I couldn’t do that before... it’s just so free to do it in my own apartment alone.

buttercupvibes Report

Final score:

8points

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#51

I genuinely prefer it to be honest, I don't have to answer to anyone as an adult and I love that. I think I'll want to settle down eventually, but not for a while.

ArtoriasBeeIG Report

Final score:

8points

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#52

People Who've Been Single For A While Now Reveal Why They're Glad To Not Be In A Relationship (30 Pics) You don’t have to remember trivial dates, buy extra gifts during holidays or for specific people, no need to justify my purchases, share food, or even decide on food.

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#53

I can do whatever I want and not feel guilty about spending time with no one.

Dawulf187falke Report

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#54

Spent many years letting partners treat me poorly because I didn’t value myself, and I’d jump from one to the next. I told myself in August 2019 I was going to do a 1 year break from dating. It’s December and I’ve extended it because I’m so happy and I’ve started to appreciate my value.

It’s a dope feeling, and I recommend anyone who bases their value solely on others treatment of them in romantic relationship to do the same.

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

Never ever let someone treat you less than the amazing person you are!! If they can't see the awesomeness oozing from you, their loss! You deserve someone who treats you like royalty!

1point

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#55

On a day to day basis, I struggle less with feelings of guilt. There are things one misses out on by not being in a relationship, but not beating yourself up over a snappish reply or a thoughtless gesture towards someone you care about are not among them.

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#56

No one can cheat on/ abuse me.

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

Horrible that this happened! So happy that you got out of that toxic relationship! remember, you most likely have trustworthy people around you that will always be there for you!

2points

#57

Being able to save

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Cora Thiemann 3 years ago

I'd actually save more if I had someone to split electricity, utilities,...

0points

#58

It's selfish, but I get to do whatever I want to do and nothing I don't. Feels good.

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

not selfish! it is taking care of you!

4points

#59

Been single my entire 27 years of life but i guess being that im introvert i like that i don't have to keep up with texts or phone calls.

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Vorknkx 3 years ago

Very relatable. I am an introvert too, and I have a har time imagining myself living with someone else. She's probably expect conversation, and I wouldn't have the slightest idea what to say. Or she'd want to spen time together, and I'd constantly be thinking about all the enjoyable things I could have been doing, if I wasn't "trapped" in spending time together.

3points

College Student Does Exactly As Told After Roommates Demand They Keep Their Stuff In Their Room

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#60

Not having to deal with partners leaving you completely unfulfilled and always putting their bullsh*t above you. Not having to argue to exist in the ways you do because their insecurities and lack of self worth smother your joy.

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

Compromising is one thing. but not doing anything, suppressing yourself, not being you, no one should have to do that! no one has the right to tell you who you are! no one can hang their problems in your face and expect them fixed! you deserve the right to be happy! never let anyone take that away!

0points

#61

No longer feel like I’m dragging a dead body behind me through life.

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#62

I don’t want to take into account someone else’s wants and needs when making life decisions. I just graduated from college during Covid and I’m so lost so I don’t want to have a partner until I’m less lost.

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

CONGRADULATIONS!!!!

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#63

Now that I am single, no one can drink, get DUI’s, use all my money to pay their fines, cheat on me, leave me, falsely accuse me abusing my children in order to not have to pay child support and sue me for divorce. So there’s that.

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Stitches 3 years ago

This escalated pretty damn fast

5points

#64

Despite the woeful lack of sex, being single means I get to spend my money on my own stuff.

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Jamie Andersen 3 years ago

Like a realdoll?

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#65

I compromise for noone. I enjoy my own company.

It amazes me that anyone finds the time to make a relationship work in hindsight.

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#66

I've been in a toxic relationship before, and I still think it's better to be alone than to be stuck with the wrong person. I'm not sorry that I had the experience, but I am glad it's behind me. Now hopefully I can find something better.

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

And I am glad you got out of it! lots of times people don't realize they are in one. My best friend was in one, and it was anything but what a relation ship is supposed to be.

0points

#67

Getting a good night sleep in the same bed with another person is kind of a c***shoot with me.

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#68

I can play video games till 5 am and no one will be mad

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#69

I can come home and unwind and not hear someone else tell me about their s***y day or remind me about the dishes in the sink or the laundry or the things we need to do or places we need to go. My life is stressful enough with just me and my job in it. Another person might drive me [freaking] bats*** right now honestly

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

They should have realized that you were stressed and done the dishes and laundry themselves! it really isn't that hard to do them. 5-20 minutes. and laundry is just timing. But nevertheless understandable why another would drive you bats.

1point

#70

I can eat a pb & j or popcorn for dinner if that's what I want.

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Just a girl. 3 years ago

Yess!

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#71

I can sleep in the middle of the bed with the fan on if I want. I can also leave something on the table and come back two weeks later and it is still there.

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Dagnirath 3 years ago

Repeat

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Red rockin lobster 3 years ago

It is obvious that most of these people where spending time with the wrong person.

45points

Daria B 3 years ago

Not to brag, but, reading these entries, I realise I'm in a nice and healthy relationship that I'll never take for granted. I'm glad these people left these mostly abusive relationships. Random thought: the entries that talk about how they don't need to worry about their looks and others' affirmation, a (married) friend of mine and I had a chat about that the other way around. Like, now that we're settled, we only worry about our looks for as far as health is concerned, but we don't feel any stress about these trivial things and are much more comfortable with ourselves now. If your partner feels this way too, that's how a healthy relationship looks like.

35points

Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

Exactly! I read these aloud, and both my husband and myself said, "Wow, that's creepy... Who *are* these people they were with?!" If I want to eat popcorn for supper, I do. He watches whatever movies he wants. We give each other space to be individuals *within* the relationship. Maybe b/c we're friends, not just "marrieds".

5points

Cynner 3 years ago

After 11 years of being single and living alone, i now have a relationship for 18months and moved in with him last August. I still have loads of freedom and we always let each other the choice in joining whatever kind of Social thing the other is going to. BUT ohh how i miss my evenings alone on my couch in complete silence, with my book and cat. Night after night silence, no tv, no music, no shooting games. I love my man, but i also loved being by myself. Oh and the food, he is a pickey eater and dislikes a lot of my favorite dishes. Hate it.

9points

Ljdia 3 years ago

One of my dreams is to have my own place, as small as it is, and him having his own place. We could even be neighbors in the same apartment building!

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Alexis draskinis 3 years ago

Granted ive been married almost 14yrs & we've been together almost 16yrs but i can see where some of these are coming from. Not in an abusive or mistreated sense but i still get it. Me & hubs got together right after college & both lived with our parents before that so we've always had someone to "answer to" if you will. Ive never had the opportunity to just do what i want & answer to just myself. Like if i smash my car, its not just my problem, its both of ours to deal with. Or if i want a new pet, i cant just run off & buy it. Between parents, spouses, & roommates theres always been someone else that can/will be affected by my decisions or choices. Love hubs to death & wouldnt change us BUT wish i had had a bit more "independent" time before we moved in together & got married & had our kid

9points

TrashPandaru 3 years ago

I have Borderline Personality Disorder which I live with pretty well, but I find relationships incredibly difficult. I used to be a serial dater and went for alpha males because I had no self worth or esteem, so I attached myself to 'cool' people to kind of live vicariously through them. I wasn't aware of this at the time. Eventually I couldn't maintain the chameleoning and ended up wrecking the relationship. I've been single now for a couple of years and finally I mostly know who I am, and have found my self love, respect and worth within myself without pinning it on anyone else. Now, I know how I like my life, I know what I will and won't compromise on, and have things just how I like them. At this point, I don't see any real benefits to being in a relationship. I'm not lonely, I can support myself, I am loved, and I'm not overly physical so I don't crave sex or cuddles. I'm incredibly content and don't want anyone messing my s**t up 😂

6points

I want cake 3 years ago

That's an incredibly healthy attitude, I'm so happy for you that you learned all these things and used it positively to grow and nurture yourself. These things are so hard to learn and accept about ourselves, a lot of people never do.

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Stille20 3 years ago

I have spent the vast a majority of my life single (I'm in my late 30s) Being single allowed me to move forward in my career, care for my friends and family and be as free as my job and income would allow in my 20s and 30s. I got engaged last week. I'm happy I didn't settle out of a need to be "with someone"

6points

Ljdia 3 years ago

That's great!

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Ileana Sky Aviles 3 years ago

A lot of these people are in unhealthy, unstable relationships, with partners that are mentally unfit to be in one. If you're not thriving and learning and happy with someone, it's best to enjoy you.

6points

Toasty 3 years ago

There are some valid points made. The only thing I really miss is being able to stay up late and sleep in. Other than that, having someone else in my life has made me a better person 100 times over. I wouldn't trade if for anything. Honestly, many single people want to be in a relationship, and many married people reminisce about how it was when they were single. Human nature.

4points

CorgiGirl 3 years ago

But why, if that is the only thing you miss, can you not stay up later or sleep in. Both of these are such small things to make you happy.

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Kari Panda 3 years ago (edited)

I‘d like to see a "Reasons why I‘m glad I am in a relationship" post for once... If you don’t want to be in a relationship, that’s entirely fine, but there‘s so much attention on the awesome benefits of being single or not having kids on BP lately... Relationships are not a bad thing by nature.

4points

I want cake 3 years ago

I think that there is som much attention for the single and no kids things because it's against the norm. People who choose to stay single and/or childless get so much s**t for it and that's why it needs to be normalised. Posts like that do a little bit towards normalisation of the fact that it's completely fine and normal. We don't need that for relationships. I would like to see more content about healthy relationships though, without the stupid 'never go to bed angry' advice.

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Aroace tiger 3 years ago

I'm cool not being in a relationship tbh! Not for any of these reasons I just don't get crushes and don't feel the need to be in a relationship. FRIENDS ARE JUST AS GOOD MAYBE BETTER

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Noel Benavente 3 years ago

I'm married and i would like to have more time to do some other stuffs, true.. but you can do a lot of these things while married too. I do hang out with my friends, i do watch what i want on Netflix, i do play videogames, i do eat sandwiches for dinner... most of the time what stops me to do these things is not my wife, but my job.

3points

Kari Panda 3 years ago

Exactly. My husband and I have games and Netflix shows that we watch/play together, and then there are games/shows that only one of us likes so we watch/play them separately. Relationships don’t mean you forcibly have to do everything together. Also, in terms of shows/games/food: My husband has introduced me to so much stuff I never tried before and vise versa.

2points

HissyFitzz 3 years ago

All of these reasons plus well the fact that I am Ace and Aro are why I'm single and totally loving it! When I was little I thought crushes were not real and were just stuff in the movies. >w<

3points

El Dee 3 years ago

Quite a mixture of people. Some who've been in toxic and abusive relationships and a lot of people who are just plain selfish..

2points

Mal 3 years ago

Just wondering how deciding to live as a single person is selfish?

2points

qwertyuiop 3 years ago

I absolutely love being single as well. Male, also a hermit monk, in my early 30's. Can do whatever I want, whenever I want, in the order I want, have perfect solitude & silence 24/7, nobody annoying. I also work from home, part time, so I rarely see others, some of the time I enjoy online gaming, when not working or reading prayers. Definitely agree that there are people who are glad to live this way, I've been single/alone for a long time. Would never imagine my life being any different, I would simply go mad if I had to live with another person or take care of children, not for me.

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Faith Hurst 3 years ago

Most of these aren't about how being single is better than being in a relationship but how being single is better than being in a bad relationship. Everyone should believe that. I can do everything these people can do in a healthy relationship. Some of it I probably couldn't have done in some I've been in in the past. That's why they are the past.

1point

Edamame 3 years ago

I just broke up with my boyfriend, this really helped me and i don't feel as sad anymore. thank you. :)

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Stephen Foley 3 years ago

Been single now since Jan 1994 and loving it. I am an introvert and an only child so happy in my own company, with only my cat as a companion although I do have a small but very precious circle of true friends. In my home fortress I can eat what I like, when I like, cooked as I like it, wear what I want or very little as few people visit me and the Covid-19 Lockdown has been a plus for me not a minus it must be for many Extrovert people. I don't have to socialise at events I don't enjoy or with people I'd rather not be with or go to boring Meetings when an e-mail would cover the subject instead. Wordsworth spoke of The Bliss of Solitude and I am living and loving it.

1point

CorgiGirl 3 years ago

I'm another one that thrived being in lock-down. I get to spend all this time with just the dog and me and don't have to make up excuses for loving it !

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gedwards1 3 years ago

I usually scroll through threads then decide whether to upvote the whole thing, but I upvoted every single one of these

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*sigh*, The Yellow Teletubby 3 years ago

A lot of these make me really sad. I've never been in a relationship before and I'm young, so no one really takes me seriously. I'm apparently a pretty good source of relationship advice though, as my friends, and then I, have found out. It just makes me sad how many people on this post were clearly damaged by someone they loved, and continued to let the other person distort their view of love and relationships. I'm lonely asf, and I REALLY want to know what it's like to be in a loving relationship, but I know what to look for, and I know what signs will mean I have to end it. I know I'll be able to end it, too, because I don't want to do what my parents did, and their parents, and their parent's parents before them. I'm taking my family's misfortune in love, and I'm trying my best to learn from it, because I, unlike my ancestors, want to know clearly when to end things. I don't want to end up marrying someone who doesn't make me happy just because it seems like the next logical step.

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Susan Stead 3 years ago

I didn't marry until I was in my mid-30s, so I had plenty of time to learn to enjoy being single. I took myself out to the movies, bookstores, and even restaurants (I brought a book along to enjoy while I was eating). People might come over and try to talk to me when I was sitting at the pub with my book and a pint, but I thought their pity was kind of amusing--I was having a nice time. Although I've been happily married for a couple of decades, whenever someone tells me that they're not sure if they ever want to get married, I totally agree with them. Being single is one of those situations that is entirely what you make of it, and if they're happy being single, they're doing it right, as far as I'm concerned.

1point

CorgiGirl 3 years ago

Amen.

1point

yohiner 3 years ago

Susan Stead good

1point

bslade 3 years ago

Susan Stead haha

0points

Wouldn't You Like to Know 3 years ago

The inability to form lasting intimate relationships is a sign of emotional immaturity. Grow up already.

1point

chvkarthick 3 years ago

Wouldn't You Like to Know haha

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Olivia Payne-Alatsari 3 years ago

I'm glad these people left unhealthy relationships and/or are happy being single. Reading the majority of these are already how I live my life and I've lived with my bf for 6 years. We're like flatmates in that we just let each other get on with stuff, we are involved with one another's life, we watch stuff together but if he gets up before me and decides he wants to play video games all day I'll just do something else or stay in bed all day if I want. If I want to watch crap TV or he does we'll respect each others choices and just wait till it's out the system haha. If one of us really wants to do something else we'll suggest something and I guarantee you either one will make an attempt to compromise because we respect each other and want to make each other happy. We share so many interests and usually hate the same things so life is easy. We're not bothered about what others think and we do our own thing, it's great! Like living with your best friend ☺️ I feel blessed 🙏🏼

1point

cukli 3 years ago

Olivia Payne-Alatsari haha

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DDmaybeandor 3 years ago

I've never been single, and I would really struggle. I'm glad these posters are working on themselves because if my husband dies before me I won't know how to cope. It's nice to see people living their best life in a way that suits them. Someday I hope to be a more stable, grounded, and whole individual. Honestly, I have a fantastic marriage, but we are alone when we enter this world and alone when we leave it and I recognize my shortcomings.

1point

themehmet 3 years ago

DDmaybeandor ?

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Hans 3 years ago

Most of these entries really just express that these singles did not have a relationship with someone compatible with them, in some cases who would not care, and in some even a toxic relationship. I am convinced that most people enjoy affection, and most people thrive when experiencing unconditional love.

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CorgiGirl 3 years ago

I doubt that there is such a thing as unconditional love. I guess I just never found it.

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WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago (edited)

So the most important reason for people to be alone is because they come from a relationship with a controlling or abusive partner. Who could have guessed....

1point

King Joffrey 3 years ago

Apart from the few introverts who don't like spending time with other people, most of these people were in what I consider highly toxic relationships.

1point

Wayne Dorman 3 years ago

I'll be honest, this just seems like a whole bunch of bitter people who've been in unsuitable and in some cases abusive relationships. I've been with my partner now for nearly 10 years, she doesn't tell me what I can and can't do, nor do I her, we often spend time together or she'll do her thing while I do mine. She see's her friends while I frantically dodge social obligations. we've both got scars but rather than seeing it as "having to deal with other people's baggage", we've picked each other up and made each other stronger. A good relationship should not make you want to be single, if that's the case it's not a healthy one.

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Meami 3 years ago

While reading these, at times I thought, good for them but others, I thought were just in the wrong relationship.

0points

M Dream 3 years ago

well this society has to grow up

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Susan Spiegel 3 years ago

Great I am single, 73, divorced. Love dating younger men. Don't even care if they spend the night!!

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Justin Moloney 3 years ago

Most of these seem like personal preferences that they weren't able to voice to their partner (excluding the shitty partner ones)

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jcchinn 3 years ago

Justin Moloney yes

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Celeste Grant 3 years ago

These posts are not about why it's good to be single, they are about why it's good not to be in a toxic, damaging or abusive relationship. A loving relationship does not make you feel like this!

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rasburyjam 3 years ago

Celeste Grant ?

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Wilf 3 years ago

Sounds like most of these are "the benefits of not being in an abusive relationship", rather than the true benefits of being single.

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KT 3 years ago

These entries are just bizarre. What kind of standards to people have out there? lol

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Hodor! Hodor? 3 years ago

I get lots of peace & quiet, be a lazy f****r, drink lots of beer and have sex with a variety of girls

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carmelosf15 3 years ago

Hodor! Hodor? haha

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Maiun 3 years ago

A lot of these posts are about abusive relationships. To understand different types of controlling/ abusive behaviour and to learn about early warning signs you have started dating an abuser check out www.freedomprogram.co.uk. Healthy relationships should be taught in schools, those brought up in abusive households need to learn that is not normal or acceptable behaviour to make your family live in fear.

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Red rockin lobster 3 years ago

It is obvious that most of these people where spending time with the wrong person.

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Daria B 3 years ago

35points

Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

5points

Cynner 3 years ago

9points

Ljdia 3 years ago

One of my dreams is to have my own place, as small as it is, and him having his own place. We could even be neighbors in the same apartment building!

0points

Alexis draskinis 3 years ago

9points

TrashPandaru 3 years ago

6points

I want cake 3 years ago

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Stille20 3 years ago

6points

Ljdia 3 years ago

That's great!

0points

Ileana Sky Aviles 3 years ago

A lot of these people are in unhealthy, unstable relationships, with partners that are mentally unfit to be in one. If you're not thriving and learning and happy with someone, it's best to enjoy you.

6points

Toasty 3 years ago

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CorgiGirl 3 years ago

But why, if that is the only thing you miss, can you not stay up later or sleep in. Both of these are such small things to make you happy.

0points

Kari Panda 3 years ago (edited)

4points

I want cake 3 years ago

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Aroace tiger 3 years ago

I'm cool not being in a relationship tbh! Not for any of these reasons I just don't get crushes and don't feel the need to be in a relationship. FRIENDS ARE JUST AS GOOD MAYBE BETTER

4points

Noel Benavente 3 years ago

3points

Kari Panda 3 years ago

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HissyFitzz 3 years ago

All of these reasons plus well the fact that I am Ace and Aro are why I'm single and totally loving it! When I was little I thought crushes were not real and were just stuff in the movies. >w<

3points

El Dee 3 years ago

Quite a mixture of people. Some who've been in toxic and abusive relationships and a lot of people who are just plain selfish..

2points

Mal 3 years ago

Just wondering how deciding to live as a single person is selfish?

2points

qwertyuiop 3 years ago

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qwertyuiop 3 years ago

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Faith Hurst 3 years ago

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Edamame 3 years ago

I just broke up with my boyfriend, this really helped me and i don't feel as sad anymore. thank you. :)

1point

Stephen Foley 3 years ago

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CorgiGirl 3 years ago

I'm another one that thrived being in lock-down. I get to spend all this time with just the dog and me and don't have to make up excuses for loving it !

0points

gedwards1 3 years ago

I usually scroll through threads then decide whether to upvote the whole thing, but I upvoted every single one of these

1point

*sigh*, The Yellow Teletubby 3 years ago

1point

Susan Stead 3 years ago

1point

CorgiGirl 3 years ago

Amen.

1point

yohiner 3 years ago

Susan Stead good

1point

bslade 3 years ago

Susan Stead haha

0points

Wouldn't You Like to Know 3 years ago

The inability to form lasting intimate relationships is a sign of emotional immaturity. Grow up already.

1point

chvkarthick 3 years ago

Wouldn't You Like to Know haha

0points

Olivia Payne-Alatsari 3 years ago

1point

cukli 3 years ago

Olivia Payne-Alatsari haha

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DDmaybeandor 3 years ago

1point

themehmet 3 years ago

DDmaybeandor ?

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Hans 3 years ago

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CorgiGirl 3 years ago

I doubt that there is such a thing as unconditional love. I guess I just never found it.

0points

WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago (edited)

So the most important reason for people to be alone is because they come from a relationship with a controlling or abusive partner. Who could have guessed....

1point

King Joffrey 3 years ago

Apart from the few introverts who don't like spending time with other people, most of these people were in what I consider highly toxic relationships.

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Wayne Dorman 3 years ago

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Meami 3 years ago

While reading these, at times I thought, good for them but others, I thought were just in the wrong relationship.

0points

M Dream 3 years ago

well this society has to grow up

0points

Susan Spiegel 3 years ago

Great I am single, 73, divorced. Love dating younger men. Don't even care if they spend the night!!

0points

Justin Moloney 3 years ago

Most of these seem like personal preferences that they weren't able to voice to their partner (excluding the shitty partner ones)

0points

jcchinn 3 years ago

Justin Moloney yes

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