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There’s only so much BS a human being can possibly take. And this level of tolerance decreases as soon as we start talking about job applications. From one hell of a job description to position requirements that make zero sense, these are just the tip of the iceberg of the dangerous and severe diagnosis known as chronic job search exhaustion.

If you have it, you know it—because at this point you are no longer willing to send one more cover letter with dear this and dear that, because enough is enough. But there’s a safe space to talk about hard things and this corner of the internet known as the r/RecruitingHell subreddit is precisely that.

With 154k members no longer buying into broken job offers, the subreddit has quite a hell of a collection to make you feel better about where you’re at, or at least, not worse.

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    This Happens All The Time

    This Happens All The Time

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    #3

    Anyone Relate To This?

    Anyone Relate To This?

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    JennyLaRue
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES! The only reason they don't include it is because they want to try and pay you as little as they can get away with.

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    Job searching is one heck of a job to have. And while you’re on duty, there are many things that induce the dread of any job seeker—job search fatigue. From never-ending cover letter requests to test tasks, pre-screen interviews, draining face-to-face interviews, trial first day, and you name it, only to find out another candidate has been chosen, it's something that puts a strain on your wellbeing in a way that not many things have.

    The worst part of the job search is that until you find one, you are not allowed to quit. The problem is that if you succumb to job search fatigue, you’ll prolong the whole process and the search will become no less easier, but way longer. So you wonder what can be done about it?

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    #5

    A Little Too Accurate

    A Little Too Accurate

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    Elio X
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So accurate it hurts. Don't forget the mountain of student loan debt because tuition inflation is so much higher than normal inflation. I started college in 2008 and since then the tuition cost has gone up almost 1.5 times.

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    “It produces this feeling of ‘what’s the point’ and ‘I don’t want to put myself out there’ and obviously that’s a problem,” said Dawn Norris, an associate professor of sociology at the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse. But the bigger problem is that if “you’re not seeking, you’re not going to find anything.”

    But according to Norris, job search fatigue is much more complex than simply “an exhaustion of rejection and not hearing back.” It turns out, it has also to do with the loss of identity. “For those of us whose identities were connected to our jobs, those rejections and not hearing back creates a mismatch. We’re constantly getting these feedback mismatches between who we believe ourselves to be and what we’re hearing. When we hear that, it increases our job search fatigue.”

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    #8

    We Need To Make Discussing Salary Normal

    We Need To Make Discussing Salary Normal

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    Mihai Mara
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is normal to discuss salaries. I am an employer, had some interviews as I hired three people (small office). While I liked their enthusiasm and their willingness to work with me, I always told them the net salary at the interview. It isn't fair to find out your salary only after working for a month there.

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    #9

    Opinion

    Opinion

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd like a gameshow type deal where a bunch of folks from different countries try the job applications from around the world.

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    Then, there’s a stigma about job seekers as they tend to self-isolate and put up a smile every time talking to people about how their life is going. But it’s really important to talk to others to get that much-needed social support and reassurance that you’re going to be just fine. Also, people may help you to learn new job search strategies, give a fresh perspective on your skills and experience, provide useful tips, and after all… help you to find a job.

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    #11

    Rejected From An Internship For Not Having Enough Experience

    Rejected From An Internship For Not Having Enough Experience

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    Gold

    Gold

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    James016
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of the content on LinkedIn is so pretentious it feels like a social network for bullshitters

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    #15

    This Guy Gets It

    This Guy Gets It

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    James016
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget that this is an entry level job with the corresponding salary.

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    #17

    Job Ads Nowadays. Sorry If Repost I Didn’t Find It In Search

    Job Ads Nowadays. Sorry If Repost I Didn’t Find It In Search

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    #18

    Company: My Next Hire Needs To Be Enthusiastic About The Role So This Doesn't Happen Again

    Company: My Next Hire Needs To Be Enthusiastic About The Role So This Doesn't Happen Again

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    Marcellus the Third
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Firings will continue until morale improves", I hung that sign on my door once. Didn't know then but it was a few weeks before I left that employ.

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    #19

    Nothing They Can Do

    Nothing They Can Do

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    troufaki13
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if they fire you, are you entitled for compensation?? O.o

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    #21

    Unfortunately…

    Unfortunately…

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    troufaki13
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to my annual evaluations, I am the most efficient employee in my team (my manager wants to promote me). I am severely underpaid, not only for the work I provide but also compared to my colleagues. I asked for a raise and they denied, saying that I should be happy I have a job at this day and age, so I decided to underwork so it matches my salary. I'm still and by far the most efficient employee T.T

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    #22

    Because, Obviously, You Shouldn't Have A Life Outside Work. Thought This Would Fit Here

    Because, Obviously, You Shouldn't Have A Life Outside Work. Thought This Would Fit Here

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    #23

    You Are Not Google. Don't Recruit Like Google. Sincerely, Someone Who Wishes They Worked At Google

    You Are Not Google. Don't Recruit Like Google. Sincerely, Someone Who Wishes They Worked At Google

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    #24

    Idgaf Anymore, Sending Rude Replies To Recruiters Who Ghost

    Idgaf Anymore, Sending Rude Replies To Recruiters Who Ghost

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    Jane S.
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speaking as someone who once worked in admin at a recruitment agency, avoid recruiters like they're coming at you wearing a suit of flaming bees. They give ZERO f***s about you, and keep people holding out hope they'll get jobs that don't even exist. I have so many horror stories.

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    #25

    I Cracked This Morning And Submitted This Application - I Am Sick Of These Ridiculous Questions

    I Cracked This Morning And Submitted This Application - I Am Sick Of These Ridiculous Questions

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    Luther von Wolfen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People praise me for working at a homeless shelter. I work there because I don't want to live there.

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    #26

    2 Iq Test?! Really?

    2 Iq Test?! Really?

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    #27

    Gotta Start Early

    Gotta Start Early

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    Robert T
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    3 years ago

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    Well I would have had 9. I started programming when I was 11. More difficult if you are counting employment, as like most people I graduated at 21.

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    #28

    So I’m Not The Only One Constantly Getting Ghosted?

    So I’m Not The Only One Constantly Getting Ghosted?

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    Gogubaci
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly learned to not casre about this. You don't come back with feedback in 5 working days, I move on. I had cases where the feedback came after about 3 weeks saying ok you made to the next stage. And I was like do I know you? Don't take c**p folks.

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    #29

    Something Tells Me I’m Not Going To Be Getting A Call Back

    Something Tells Me I’m Not Going To Be Getting A Call Back

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    #30

    We Don’t Count Internships As Experience Here, So Let’s Just Forget All Of That

    We Don’t Count Internships As Experience Here, So Let’s Just Forget All Of That

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    Employment Gap

    Employment Gap

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    Catch 22 Solved

    Catch 22 Solved

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    #35

    Exactly On Time...

    Exactly On Time...

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    Corporate Lingo Irl

    Corporate Lingo Irl

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    Jane S.
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, work hard play hard means work a 60 hour week, then participate at least weekly in late night boozing with your colleagues because if you don't, you're not a team player.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sense of humor: we will mock and tease you, then punish you when you get mad.

    Thay
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't hear "like a family" until after I was hired on my first day. It alarmed me a little bit but I brushed it off thinking it cant be bad. This was my first job too soooo... Yeah lol. I know now to stay away when I hear this😂

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Like a family” means “prepare to be psychologically tortured until you want to kill your self”

    Memere
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Paid Time Off - it's just terminology that replaces vacation days & sick days. Most companies in the U.S. are using this term now. You can usually use a minimum of 4 hours (to go to doctor's appointments, dental, etc.), a day or so for being sick, or a week or two for vacation. It's 'earned' each pay period.

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    Ruth Fichter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This literally describes working for a certain high-profile Detroit entrepreneur. You know who you are.

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    #38

    Don’t See “No Memes” As A Rule And I Thought This Subreddit Might Enjoy This

    Don’t See “No Memes” As A Rule And I Thought This Subreddit Might Enjoy This

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a better place, with a better salary and thinking about you, still stuck in this same position.

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    #40

    Hope Memes Are Allowed Here

    Hope Memes Are Allowed Here

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    Mimi777
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked as dispatcher for a trucking company and when we booked loads they emailed them to us so we could print them out to sign then fax them back. I always wondered if there was an easier way to do it...

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    #42

    Still How I Feel Everytime I See It

    Still How I Feel Everytime I See It

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    #43

    My First Haiku

    My First Haiku

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    Jenny McKeown
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can it recommend you should write more when it requests a haiku? Leaving aside the fact that asking for a haiku was ridiculous to start with!

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    #44

    How I Feel Everytime I Log In To Linkedin To Update My Profile

    How I Feel Everytime I Log In To Linkedin To Update My Profile

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    Stephen Foley
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only use Linkedin to keep in touch with peoplewhom I know and who either don't use Facebook at all or who want a more serious and non-controversial Forum/Means to make contact. I have never used it for job-seeking and at age 68 I am highly unlikely to do so.

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    #45

    Found On R/Yesyesyesno

    Found On R/Yesyesyesno

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    Khavrinen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Autopsy Assistant?!? Well, I won't be eating at Moe's Southwest Grill any time soon!

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    #46

    Figured This Would Fit Perfectly!!

    Figured This Would Fit Perfectly!!

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    Lorelai Purvis
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hes still going there's journeys on netflix which is set AFTER alola sun and moon

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    #47

    So After A Full Day Of Applications I Did This...

    So After A Full Day Of Applications I Did This...

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    Amen

    Amen

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    Mihai Mara
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And most of them are just copied from various websites. And never read.

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    #50

    So Has Been My Experience

    So Has Been My Experience

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    #51

    Linkedin Story Feature

    Linkedin Story Feature

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    James016
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are meant to film all your side hustles while simultaneously only dealing with people at a C-Suite level of internationally renowned brands. #barf

    #52

    A Late Night Service I'd Actually Use

    A Late Night Service I'd Actually Use

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    Experience

    Experience

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    Jane S.
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, but this is good advice. A lot of that s**t in job ads is aspirational on the part of the person who wrote it, there are some 'musts' they'll forget they even wrote. Especially recruitment agencies.

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    #54

    "We Are Unable To Offer Positions To People With The Name Jeffrey"

    "We Are Unable To Offer Positions To People With The Name Jeffrey"

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    Anne
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They have one already and email is based on first name only

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    #55

    Not Me But Someone Will Relate

    Not Me But Someone Will Relate

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    #56

    Applying For Jobs In The Middle Of Pandemic

    Applying For Jobs In The Middle Of Pandemic

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    Also Don't Forget The Surprised Pikachu Face

    Also Don't Forget The Surprised Pikachu Face

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because $11,50 per hour buys my unconditional loyalty and never ending efforts to make you even richer....

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    #59

    Actually Said By A Tech Interviewer

    Actually Said By A Tech Interviewer

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    Andrew Gibb
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had a manager in tech say that she didn't like people to have specialist roles. Lolz

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    #61

    Sounds Like A Harassment

    Sounds Like A Harassment

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    How It Really Is

    How It Really Is

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    #63

    I Really Hope This Doesn't Become A Thing

    I Really Hope This Doesn't Become A Thing

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    Rissie
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a recruiter totally fixated on why I took a certain job 20 years ago. He didn't like my explanation and just kept bitching. I told him good luck with finding someone for the position and to have a nice day.

    #64

    Applied For A Job Today. Went Well, I Think

    Applied For A Job Today. Went Well, I Think

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    Uh It's Called Guerilla Networking Sweaty, Totally Fair Game

    Uh It's Called Guerilla Networking Sweaty, Totally Fair Game

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    A Head
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have 100% done this. Both ways. I have friends who have their own business, and now I do, too.

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    #67

    Apparently Entry Level Has A New Meaning These Days

    Apparently Entry Level Has A New Meaning These Days

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    #68

    Waffle House Job Application

    Waffle House Job Application

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    #69

    People-Fed-Up-With-Job-Application-Recruiting-Hell

    People-Fed-Up-With-Job-Application-Recruiting-Hell

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    #70

    "Please Explain In Detail Why..."

    "Please Explain In Detail Why..."

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    #71

    We Value You...

    We Value You...

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    Anne
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My job doesn't even tell me they appreciate me.. Oh. and no, no raise either.

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    #73

    It Doesn't Really Do The Recruiter Much Good Either

    It Doesn't Really Do The Recruiter Much Good Either

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    #75

    When You Just Put In Your 2 Weeks Notice At Your Current Job, Got Excited For Your New Job, And Then Came Across This Post On Reddit

    When You Just Put In Your 2 Weeks Notice At Your Current Job, Got Excited For Your New Job, And Then Came Across This Post On Reddit

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    Marianne
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't people normally sign contracts? I would not resign my old job if I did not have a signed contract from the new employer and if he decides to not employ me after signing my contract, I can sue him.

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    #76

    Time Travellers Required

    Time Travellers Required

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    #77

    A Realistic Rejection Letter On Linkedin

    A Realistic Rejection Letter On Linkedin

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    sofacushionfort
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Added frustration: they never intended to hire anyone from the outside anyway, just audit their internal promotions against the open market value of skills and salary expectations

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    #79

    God I Hate Linkedin

    God I Hate Linkedin

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    Hits Home

    Hits Home

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