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Odds are that if you’re reading these words, you’re very privileged. For one, you’ve had the ability to learn how to read. And secondly, you clearly have access to modern tech and the internet. It’s easy to forget just how lucky we are—we start taking things for granted.

Reddit users started sharing all the things that they believe most people don’t realize are actually privileges. From being able to keep your home warm whenever you want to having a body that functions well and having access to clean drinking water and more.

You’ll find the biggest privileges many of us are taking for granted below, dear Pandas. Upvote the ones you agree with and, if you think there’s something missing, be sure to share it in the comments. What do you think is the biggest privilege people tend to ignore? How do you think we can become more aware of the positives in our lives? Share your thoughts in the comments.

Also, check out Bored Panda's interview with fitness expert Jack Bly about the importance of gratitude and its role in helping us recognize our privileges.

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40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Having a body where everything works properly.

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Tenacious Squirrel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Definitely. You have no idea how valuable and taken for granted your health is until it’s properly taken away from you (e.g. with something chronic, incurable, etc).

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40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Having emotionally, financially stable parents that care about and support you.

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Veronica Sjöberg
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My parents died when i was relatively young so I never had that really but yes, this sounds like a pretty big privilege. Especially grandparents who loves their grandkids and watch them sometimes. That sounds wonderful for the kids to have someone else to bond with and feel comfortable with! And hang out with another generation - for both of them. I think it's so beautiful when grandparents have a great bond with their grandkids.

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#3

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Being vaccinated. People from underdeveloped countries like mines have people dying from preventable disease. My moms mother crossed a warzone after a devastating earthquake so my mom could get a smallpox vaccine.

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Fitness expert Jack explained to Bored Panda that gratitude is vital and helps keep people grounded, no matter their financial situation, privileged or not.

"Gratitude is incredibly important, I believe. I practice it every single morning as part of my routine," he revealed to us that he practices what he preaches. This is why he recommends it to everyone.

"Having good mentors helps big time" when it comes to staying humble no matter how successful you are. "And also life usually has its way of humbling those who are too proud," Jack said.

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#4

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Buying groceries without having to carefully consider prices.

Getting as much sleep as you need.

Being able to quit a job without fear of losing financial stability.

To have people around who can and will help.

Criticizing your own government.

Privacy. Lots of people don't have that.

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

AKA having a normal life without too much strife. Time for sports and hobbies, time with family and friends.

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40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them The ability to actually be a kid when young. It's heartbreaking how many children have to grow up / are hardened before they even hit puberty.

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Samantha Lomb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a teacher I never thought about how many shitty parents are out there till we started discussing families. OMG

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#6

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Drinkable tap water

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cugel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why create a whole system to bring water into households, but then not make it usable?

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According to Jack, one thing that can definitely help all of us become more aware of the privileges that we have in life is morning gratitude journaling.

"Write out 5-10 things you’re grateful for," he suggested. That way, you can start the morning off strong and aware of just how fortunate you are in life. A far better alternative than waking up miserable because you 'have to' go to work, right?

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#7

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Having a safe place to sleep. I'm very privileged to have a safe place to live, and I understood it more since the start of the pandemic. Not having a safe, stable, comfortable home has to be hell when you are on lockdown.

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Otter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Going home to a place that makes you feel safe and happy is one of the great privileges of life - and it's not a privilege that's strictly due to money. If you're well off, and go home to an imploding marriage, an abusive partner, or a dysfunctional family, you have no escape from stress and unhappiness.

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#8

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Honestly living life without any form of mental illness. It’s becoming less and less common but a lot of the people that do don’t realize just how lucky they are

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Winter Eleven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've had social anxiety and depression since i was 5. Might be born with adhd as well. I cannot imagine what life is like for people without mental illness

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#9

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Being able to sit in a house that is kept at a comfortable temperature all year long.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gotta add access to hot water to this one... You appreciate it so much more when you lose it in the middle of winter and have to heat water in a large pot and bathe with a cup for an extended period

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Something else that might work for you is gratitude expression. "Send a message of gratitude to someone you’re grateful for," Jack explained.

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In Jack's opinion, "it's very easy nowadays" to take everything for granted. However, it all depends on your perspective. "And your perspective can be trained for gratitude." In other words, change is possible. But we have to work towards it.

The fitness expert also gave some advice that will serve anyone for decades to come. "Move your body! Figure out what you enjoy that involves movement and do it. It could be sports, hiking, walking around a mall, etc.," he urged everyone to find a form of movement they personally enjoy the most.

#10

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them I'm from Venezuela and here's the things American consider normal that is a privilege here:

Having a car: I've noticed that in the US even poor people have cars, here is pretty damn expensive to have and maintain a car and there's no credit option.

Electricity every day: here power goes out a few times a week. In the US it only goes out when there's a tornado or something like that.

Sanitation: here nothing has an actual valid health certificate, unless it's imported we don't know if what we're eating or the water we're drinking is apt for consumption. Food in America has official certificates.

Having a phone: there's rarely an American without a phone but for someone who makes less than 100 bucks a month is pretty hard to get a phone so there's many people who don't have a phone here and I believe in many third world countries.

Living alone after 18: Here people can rarely afford it so they will live with their parents at older ages and it's considered normal. Sometimes if the backyard is big enough they'll just build a house themselves for when their children get married so they live there with their partner and children. Living alone at 18 or even at 20's is rather uncommon and a super privilege here.

Making fun of the president with no consequences: in the US I remember the media made fun of Donald Trump and it was ok nobody got arrested, but here if you make fun of the president on public TV or a famous YouTube channel you'll go to jail for sure, they call it "hate crimes".

Having animal services: As an animal lover I really hate that if you see animal abuse there's not a number you can call and police won't come, you have to literally take evidence and take it to court or send to a contact that works in the government, and according to the law the animal abuser just gets 48 days in jail (you can push for more but you'll probably have to bribe the judge or have a friend in the government).

Clean streets: People here are worst than animals, the streets are littered everywhere except for the rich areas. In the US the streets seem super clean in general.

Buying clothes and items often: Here we spend many years using the same clothes as it's expensive to buy all the time, but Americans will throw away a shirt or a pair of shoes they've used for a few months and say something like "it was completely destroyed already".

Having good looking houses: The houses of poor people here have black mold on the walls, the roof is asbestos or something similar, the draining system is almost rotten and the house structure is still standing by the sheer power of faith.

Eating expensive stuff: I've noticed Americans will complain a lot if they don't have certain meals but here we just eat what we can afford, for example things like honey, syrup, cheddar cheese, diet toasts, yogurt, chocolate and that kind of stuff are luxuries here.

Having sex: This one is kinda funny but it's true, since Americans have cars and often live alone it's easier for them to have sex. I've been struggling with this for a while because at home there's your mom, your grandma, your siblings, your little cousins, etc. There's literally no privacy, so people with more money are the only ones who can have sex whenever they want.

Walking outside at night: If you do that here you'll likely get robbed or even killed, after 7-8 pm the streets are deserted. In USA or any other first world country unless you're in a specifically dangerous area it'll be fine to take walks at night.

Water everyday: in certain areas here people haven't had water for weeks or even months. In the US water is expensive but at least everyone has it.

Travel papers: if you're American or European you can quite literally travel anywhere with very little effort, getting a passport and VISA here is a whole struggle you'll have to dedicate time, money and effort to get.

I could go on and on but I wouldn't finish today.

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SpikeyBunny
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's only being honest. I feel for r the people of Venezuela :'(

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40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Medical treatment

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Free healthcare and acces to healthcare is a basic human right. Or, it should be!

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#12

Being able to feel safe at home and know your parents or siblings won't abuse you

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The previous economic crash and the current Covid-19 pandemic have widened the gap between the haves and the have-nots. Eddy Ng, the Smith Professor of Equity & Inclusion in Business at Queen’s University, explained to Bored Panda that the 2008 financial crisis restructured the economy while the pandemic has exacerbated inequality.

"We had the global financial crisis which led to many millennials who were employed being displaced. When the economy recovered, it changed structurally, and many quality jobs were lost," he said.

#13

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Hot showers. The best thing ever, which everyone takes for granted

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Iggy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never taken it for granted. There's nothing better than being able to shower.

Robert Thompson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a water outage (like a power outage but for water) once. It was only once. Lasted for about 2 days, and because of the pandemic, I couldn't just go to the gym and get a shower. I used bottled water, and it was room temperature. It was a quick shower.

BusLady
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in a small trailer (rv) and we have a small hot water heater. So showers have to be quick. Lol

David F
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you are homeless it's mind boggling how there are no places to shower. In the old days like 1870 to 1920 you see pictures of places that say "baths 5cents" and now there's nothing like that. The closest is finding a swim center for like $7 to get in or maybe getting a gym membership and if your homeless but shower and wash your clothes nobody would ever know you were homeless.

Virtually Fabulous
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Took me a second to figure out how someone holding a pink heart shaped pancake was relevant 🤦‍♀️

Samantha Lomb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Russia turns off hot water every summer to do systems maintenance. Its a good reminder not to take it for granted.

Sea otter simone
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i def dont seeing as how our water is shared with other people in my neighborhood

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want a cold shower when the weather is hot and I want a hot shower when the weather is cold.

Seadimo Monnapula
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Showers? You guys have showers? We just use a basin: wash the top half of your body first, then get in and wash the second half. Easy peazy lemon squeezy. Also, living off of a 100 dollar Salary. Lesotho Southern Africa. And the biggest core denominator is a dysfunctional government. I am working extremely hard to leave this country

Laura Capshaw
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh no I don't. And I never take running water INSIDE the house for granted. I literally thank the water for running.

Niall Mac Iomera
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know I'm not in a bad situation, but where I live, we can't have cold showers. I live in the Pilbara, and during the dry season, it gets so got that the water out of the cold tap is sometimes too hot to touch. Often I have to skip showers because I'll burn myself.

September
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to shower with a set up I came up for myself. There was no plumbing in a building we were staying in. I took an old mop stick ran it through the bottom of the shrink wrap on a 12 pack of 1 liter water bottles. I tore holes in the top of the wrap just enough so that all the bottle caps were accessible. Then I put the pole across two tree branches so the 12 pack of water was hanging arms reach of my head, upside down, the caps pointing at me. Having sat in the sun all day the water was hot. I unscrewed 2 bottles at a time getting good and soaked standing under them. I'd soap up, wash my hair and then uncap all the bottles as I rinsed off. Then I'd fill the bottles with water again and set them in the sun. Worked fine.

Janet Sturgess
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I prefer a deep hot bath. Though I do agree it's the best thing ever that people take for granted. I've often said - hot water was the best invention EVER!

Georgia Hebert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I must be a weirdo. I don't care for hot showers. I'd rather bathe under a waterfall.

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40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Knowing when your next meal will be

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Rose Romano
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope this was sarcasm, Wilvander. My pension was recently raised and my biggest thrill is that I can eat any time I feel like it. I no longer drink two glasses of water so I'll feel full after I finish a meal. I no longer put off dinner as long as I can so I won't go to bed hungry. I no longer have a cup of broth made from a bullion cube with a single packet of crackers for dinner. I've become obsessed with buying food.

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I feel like a lot of people who grew up with middle/upper middle class family who pays for everything don't really realize how privileged they are. Especially people whose parents pay or help pay for college.

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BusLady
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I grew up poor and if I wanted spending money I had to work for it. There was no financial security in my family. It's funny, but I often have dreams where I'm young and father is taking care of me and providing me a home. I feel so secure.

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According to the professor, after the 2008 financial crisis, there was an emergence of precarious jobs, the gig/sharing economy, and the rise of digital labor. As a result, income and social inequalities rose for those who weren’t able to join the new economy.

The expert said that some racialized groups like Black and Brown workers can fall into a poverty trap that they’re unable to get out of. In the professor’s opinion, better financial literacy won’t solve all the issues. “You need to have the resources to, for example, access training and education," he told us.

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40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Having caring parents who support you no matter what.

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Ozacoter
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And don't insult or threaten you. My father used to say horrible things to me and my sister: and people wonder why I have no self steem.

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#17

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Not being drafted into a high casualty war as soon as you are old enough to fight.

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Samantha Lomb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not sure the US method of exploiting inequality and desperation to recruit poor people into the military is better

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#18

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Having healthy children.

Imagine having kids who’ll always need to be taken care of. Imagine having to worry about what will happen when you’re dead because you know that your child will never be independent or have a normal life.

This is one of my worst fears

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The Covid-19 pandemic has deepened the divide between the rich and the poor, making problems even worse for many of us.

“Workers work more hours with lower pay in order to survive. That leaves little time to accumulate the necessary resources for skill upgrades or retooling for the new economy. This is the poverty trap I alluded to," Professor Ng explained.

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40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them The sky not dropping bombs on you

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Martha Meyer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not the sky dropping them, it's people in planes pushing a button on purpose to kill you.

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#20

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Easy ability to travel internationally. The right passport will take you places.

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Rachel Nduru
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Western countries can aquire visas once they land in my country. Applying for a visa to a western country from mine will take weeks and is usually denied.

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#21

Choosing what you eat based on taste.

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Jace
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And not based on the season but eating things all year round that naturally are not available all year round, like strawberries.

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Guaranteed next meal. Food insecurity is terrifying. I have been fortunate that coming from a poor family, I always had food. Thinking of all the kids who were out of school due to COVID that were on free and reduced meals breaks my heart.

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KariLovesHerKat
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The pain of hunger is a memory that never leaves you. Plus all the shameful moments that go with it

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#24

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Not having glass or barbwires over every wall, not having bars over every window, leaving the door unlocked at night and most likely being fine, etc

Here in Argentina we have our personal jails while the criminals roam the streets

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#25

ability to read

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GirlFriday
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One side of my family is part of a crazy religion that doesn't educate girls past what the law requires (which is 13 in their state) and then many girls are held from school because they need "home training" more than an education. As a result, I have several relatives that can't read. They were never taught. It saddens me that one of my father's sister is now widowed and can't take care of herself or her home because she can't read, doesn't know how to bank or pay bills, etc. Her brothers have to help her. This is very common in that community and it is terrifying to me.

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#26

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them A happy childhood

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40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Being able to ask "what are we going to eat" and not "are we going to eat" I cannot express how greatful I am to have a fridge full of food everyday because I know that in other parts of the world some people go days without eating and sometimes have to resort to eating rotten food. It's awful to think that such terrible conditions exist. I'm just so happy to be privileged enough to have better living arrangements. I just wish other Americans could see how lucky and privileged we actually are.

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Julie C Rose
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“I just wish other Americans could see how lucky and privileged we actually are.” - If you say that to an American who is calling for public healthcare, or a Black American who had a loved one get shot by police, I’ll slap you silly. Even in first world countries there are big injustices, and saying “stop talking about that; other countries have it worse” only benefits the oppressors.

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#28

Sleeping until you are ready to wake up.

Some of us feel its a privilege (a desire to 'sleep in'), but when you work with or know someone who is trying to survive on 3-4 hours a day due to multiple jobs, medical reasons, or lack of shelter, it becomes much clearer.

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#29

Breathing without effort.

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Kishibe Angelo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Scruff Mcgruff The Crime Dawg just said that 99% of the people who don'y have asthma is normal so sorry guys that 3 year old me who had troubles breathing and had to take steroids inoder to breath because ig we aren't normal people and its not a privilage to breath

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#30

If your life is so good that your biggest problems are minor inconveniences, you don’t appreciate just how easy you’ve got it.

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#31

Having generational wealth.

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Ozacoter
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is such a privilege. Millennials and Gen Z in Spain can only afford a decent life because we are being and were helped for years by our families. Their children wont be as lucky and I worry for them.

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#32

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Being conventionally attractive.

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#33

20/20 vision

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Otter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I knew a survivalist, a co-worker who retired to his bunker a couple of years ago. I told him that I really didn't want to survive the collapse of civilization, because once all the optometrists were gone I'd be helpless...

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#34

40 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them Free K-12 education and literacy in general.

K-12 meaning primary/elementary and secondary school, wherever you are from. From 5 years old to 17 or 18 years old. We call it K-12 in the Us (K meaning Kindergarten, through grade 12).

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All children should be able to go to school. To be able to have a basic education, play and be fed and clothed and loved.

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#35

Having a healthy body. Existing without constant reminders that you're inside of a dying animal. Doesn't last forever, especially if you don't take care of yourself (I didn't).

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Ozacoter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I cannot even remember how it felt to have energy and not being in constant pain and its been only a few years that I am like this. I have all the admiration for the people who has lived with chronic pain and disabilities for years. Specially with how little awareness there is. Today I was told that 'I am not disabled' by a waitress (that did not mean bad) when I explained her that the scooter I have is for disabled people. Once I told her she insisted 'but you do not look ill' and she only let it go once I told her that 'i am on the inside". She did not mean bad but it hurts terribly because it means that on top of being discriminated for being disabled I am also judged for 'not really being ill and pretending'.

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#36

Being able to walk safely alone at night.

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Arianna Ibbotson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a woman, I can't, which is genuinely sad that our world has hit a low this bad that females can't walk alone at night without being scared of getting followed or sexually harassed

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#37

Ignorance - being blissfully unaware of the struggles of others because those struggles aren't something you've ever even had to consider.

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BusLady
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been through a lot in my life and it taught me empathy towards other people.

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#38

Having extra money to spend.

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#39

Basically everything. A lot of people worldwide are born homeless.

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El muerto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

there are a grand number of people that are born to be consider as as second or third class humans...some will never see a day of peace in their lifetimes.

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#40

Having your parents pay and provide you with education throughout your school years

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#41

Seeing the contact “Mom” or “Dad” pop up on the caller ID

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I moved 2 years ago so I would be closer to my family. My mom is 84 now and I can spend time with her now.

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#42

Not being bullied because of undiagnosed autistic behaviours as a young person or child.

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Penguin_24!
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I resonate so much with this one. I was bullied for 13 years before I was diagnosed. Sometimes I wish I’d known earlier just so that I could have stopped spending so much of my life wondering why I was so different and why other kids just thought of me as more of ‘entertainment’ than anything else. Now I know though, it’s something I really like about myself, I have a different perspective on the world and I love it.

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#43

Having internet, a phone, TV, PC, Console, etc. Almost anything tech related you could easily live without but have been made so important by companies and are classed as must haves to be able to get information or job replies or contact pretty much anyone or as an entertainment tool. In fact they're such a privilege that even typing this is a hypocrisy because it's a privilege to be able to do so.

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Cesha Wells
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When the pandemic first started I read several stories about children who had to go to fast food restaurants during the day to get their school work done on the tablets and things that had been sent home with them from the school for their distance learning, because they had no internet at home. Finally the school districts and the local internet companies started providing Hotspots for these kids so they can do their work at home for their distance learning

#44

It's funny how most Westerners say "dude you can travel (internationally) cheap, and do backpacking", could be true for them but they're forgetting to look at their shiny passport.

For us third worlders, even if we can afford it and richer than these cheap backpackers, we have to prove to visa officers and immigration our net worth to afford that travelling. Heck a backpacking reason will raise a red flag to most of them.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The young people who chuck work or school to just travel with a backpack are, IMHO, very privileged. They always have fallbacks that aren't available to most, family money or parents who will give them a comfortable home when they come back, or who will help if they get into trouble overseas. Those who have no option but to support themselves can't just stop work and travel.

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#45

Central heat and air. Especially heat.

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София Харитонова
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Russia central heating is really cheap and every house has radiators installed. I shudder to think about countries like Canada, where cold can be more severe then even in Russia but the heating costs way much more.

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#46

Owning and driving a vehicle.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was without a car for years and had to get around by walking, riding my bike or scooter, or using public transportation, which was not very good where I was living. Now I have 2 cats that are fully paid for and that is something I don't take for granted.

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#47

Knowing their family history.

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HarriMissesScotland
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you watch "Finding Your Roots" on PBS, you will understand that many people can't trace their family past WW I, or POC, mainly African descendants can only find 3 generations. It makes me appreciate that I have been able to trace my family back to my 17th grandfather. Just because I have been able to acquire this knowledge does not mean that I am proud of everyone in my family's history.

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#48

Having your own washer and dryer.

Laundromats can be sketchy sometimes--you might find bedbugs, or it can be crazy-expensive and add up over time. Communal washers and driers are an absolute pain--your clothes could get stolen.

Not everyone has about $3000 or so for a brand-spankin'-new washer and dryer for their very own place. So if you've got some, never take them for granted. Ever.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

$3000 seems a bit high for basic. I'm looking right now and see that you can get a washer and dryer at Lowes for around $500 each. Not to mention you can usually find refurbished ones on Craigslist for around half that

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#49

Being able to read for fun without getting easily distracted.

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#50

Having a parent or family member drive you to school everyday rather than having to take public transport.

This was something I took for granted until I was old enough to take public transport to school on my own.

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#51

the western diet.

the impoverished people on the planet do not eat dairy or much meat. they usually don't have access to electricity, refrigerators, or much more money than covers that day of food. they do not eat chocolate or twinkies, because processed foods are more expensive than foods grown from the ground. those are value-added products, after all.

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Annamagelic
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And in America, sadly, it's a privilege to be able to afford fresh vegetables. Twinkies are a lot less money per calorie than fresh produce.

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#52

The fact that someone's life is so convenient that they can worry about what is or is not a privilege, and target and harass someone else for having something, and cry [insert anything here] privilege

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#53

I had a reminder the other day of privilege that I honesty wasn't even aware of.

People were talking about EMS not responding until after police were on-scene. I mentioned that had never been the case for me, as someone who's needed EMS more than once.

It wasn't until after further conversation it occurred to me that it's because of where I live. I live in a gated, security-patrolled community. I'd taken that and that it had played a large part in how quickly EMS got to me, whether police were yet on-scene or not, for granted.

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Kira Okah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An ambulance will get to me quicker than police too. Not that I live anywhere fancy - I live in a small town in the poorest county in the UK, and the nearest hospital is 20 miles away - but the police are two towns over and the depot the ambulances are called from is just up the hill.

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#54

Power, money and water and food. Buffets are considered a luxury.

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#55

Having a Good looking face

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#56

About to unintentionally rally a bunch of incels with this one but… being tall.

Height has been statistically proven to drastically increase your chance of someone being attracted to you, getting a raise or a new job, being respected, and many other things.

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Vasha
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

historically, the taller candidate for public office has a higher percentage chance of winning

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#57

Okay so I spent a good chunk of my childhood in developing countries as did my parents:

Cops aren't bribable

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#58

Living in a developed country.

One person living alone on the federal minimum wage of 7.25 an hour in the US is considered global upper middle class, even when accounting for price differences. This is not to say our progress is all done - far from it - but it is important to look at just how staggering global inequality is compared to domestic inequality.

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Julie C Rose
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get suspicious when Americans say this to their minimum wage workers - the Americans who say this are normally better-paid people who don’t like hearing about the minimum wage issues.

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#59

Eating 3 meals a day

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#60

Being right-handed. I can’t tell you how much grief I’ve had with can openers, notebooks, binders, desks, and too many other things to count.

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Axolotl King
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not to mention borderline abusive teachers who will force left-handed kids to write right-handed. I'm lucky to be right handed but I've heard of a lot of left handed people experiencing this

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#61

English as a first language.

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Sophie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I kindly disagree with you. I don't think it is a privilege, other nations learn it because it is the easiest language to learn. I think the privilege is to be able to learn languages, and having the right education for it. (I'm Hungarian)

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#62

Kitchen counters made of stone. They always get taken for granite.

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#63

US citizenship. Half the country has lost their minds.

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#64

Being a race/gender/orientation/religion/class which allows you to win every argument by simply accusing the person you're talk to of having some kind of privilege.

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Samantha Lomb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow this feels like a really bitter white guy who hates having to consider his privilege. There is no race/ gender / orientation etc that is some kind of magical argument winning card.

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