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50 Times People Spotted Such Huge Jerks, They Just Had To Shame Them Online (New Pics)
It's perfectly fine to have disagreements and differences of opinion, but it's important to remember that we're all in this together. Treating others with kindness, even when we don't see eye to eye, is essential for building a sense of community and creating a positive environment for everyone.
When we act like jerks, we not only hurt people, but we also diminish our respect; again, it's okay to have strong beliefs and stand up for what we think is right, but there's no need to belittle or demean others in the process. Compassion not only benefits those around us, but it also brings joy and fulfillment to our own lives.
Sadly, these things are often easier said than done. So, as a reminder that we should strive to make the world a better place for each other, we at Bored Panda put together a list of those who don't. We hope that karma catches up to these inconsiderate weasels.
Continue scrolling to check out the images and don't miss what we learned about empathy from NY-based Licensed Clinical Psychologist and founder of STEPS (Stress & Trauma Evaluation and Psychological Services) Dr. Valentina Stoycheva and Psychologist and Collaborative Divorce Coach Dr. Ann Gold Buscho — their comments are spread between the entries.
(This is a new rendition of an ongoing series. For older publications, follow the links here, here, and here.)
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#1
Stealing From A Grave
#2
Gettting Used To The Fact That Some People Are Just Jerks
According to Dr. Valentina Stoycheva, the author of The Unconscious: Theory, Research, and Clinical Implications, empathy is dependent on having developed a 'Theory of Mind,' which is the ability to understand and share the emotions of others.
"Many factors, such as upbringing and personality disorders (such as narcissism, for example) may result in an inability to experience empathy," Stoycheva told Bored Panda. "In addition, some people may situationally struggle with this if they are in an active state of being traumatized or have significant mental health difficulties. As a result, temporarily, they may have a hard time empathizing with others due to a lack of internal resources to do so."
#3
Teacher Taking A Child’s Hearing Aid As Punishment “Cause She Wasn’t Listening Anyway”
patricia patricia 1 year ago
Stop sobbing hysterically, go to the police and report her. That idiot can't be a teacher, or look after anything alive, not even a cactus.
#4
Support Worker Leaves Her Shopping Bags On Top Of The Disabled Man In Her Care As She Takes A Fag Break
"Empathy is hard-wired into our species, some believe, which allowed our species to work in groups, form communities, and prosper," Dr. Ann Gold Buscho, who penned the book The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting, also told Bored Panda.
"They may lack empathy because of trauma in childhood, especially abusive parenting. They are in survival mode and scanning for threats (hypervigilant). Lack of empathy is associated with low intelligence and several mental health disorders, and some people may not have the internal resources necessary for empathy when they are overly stressed, just trying to keep their heads above water."
#5
Neighbour Built A Community Library. Last Night Someone Dumped Chili And Cat Food Inside
#6
Someone Replace This Receptionist
#7
Man I’m Actually Pissed. My Mother Got Rid Of My First Pet Without Warning Me
The good thing is that egoistic behavior can be modified. "Empathy is a part of high EQ (or emotional intelligence)," Dr. Buscho explained. "It is a skill that many people can be taught through therapy and a desire to develop more intimate relationships with friends, families or partners."
However, she said that if someone doesn't recognize their deficit of empathy or isn't motivated to develop it, it will be difficult or even impossible to remedy, even with professional treatment. "Therapy would be helpful, as would coaching and feedback from others, ... [however,] certain personality disorders are so entrenched that the egoistic behavior may not be changed unless the consequences of that behavior are so painful that the person becomes curious or motivated to commit to change."
#8
Someone Send This To Rosie
#9
The Big Family Behind Us At The Food Court When They Left
#10
Big Time Karen Energy
Miss Tinker 1 year ago
Invite her into the kitchen during this time to eat with the staff. I'm thinking she'll change her mind pretty quickly.
#11
This Was Posted In A Restaurant's Facebook Group
Green Tree 1 year ago
So service staff is expendable or something? This is unbelievably selfish and cruel.
Interestingly, women are better at empathizing with other people than men.
Recently, researchers asked people to look at photos of the area around a person's eyes (the person is making a particular kind of facial expression, and the study participant had to identify what that person is thinking or feeling from a set of possibilities).
To see if cultural differences impacted empathy scores, data was collected from teams around the globe. Merging their results with large samples from different online platforms, the authors of the study were able to capture results from nearly 306,000 people across 57 countries including Argentina, Croatia, Egypt, India, Japan and Norway, and in 36 countries, women scored on average significantly higher in their cognitive empathy scores than men did, while in 21 of the countries, their results were similar.
There wasn’t a single country in which men scored better, on average, than women.
#12
Some Rich Kids In Honduras Thought This Was Cute
#13
Don't Be This Type Of Person
trollingergirl 1 year ago
Disgusting. Was du nicht willst was man dir tu, das füg auch keinem anderen zu. Surely: you would not want this to happen to you, so don't do it to others.
#14
Neighbor Parked His Tesla By Blocking The Sidewalk, Someone Threw Red Paint At His Car
#15
My Cat Almost Got Stolen Today
Sunshine Lady 1 year ago
Did she know this is someone's cat? Maybe ahe thought it's a stray cat.
“This study clearly demonstrates a largely consistent sex difference across countries, languages, and ages,” study co-author Carrie Allison, who is the director of applied research at the Autism Research Centre at Cambridge University, said in a press statement.
“This raises new questions for future research about the social and biological factors that may contribute to the observed on-average sex difference in cognitive empathy.”
#16
Found A Camera In My Air B&b. It Was Halfway Behind The Painting With Only The Lens Peeking Out
Discovered it because we heard it clicking after me and my girl got out of the shower.
#17
Tourist Scales Ancient Egyptian Antiquities
#18
A Caretaker Stole My Grandpa’s Old Rolex Before He Passed Away. I Was Supposed To Have It
#19
Burned Down Community Book Donation
However, I am willing to bet that many of you, dear Pandas, have had strong reactions browsing through these pictures.
Dr. Valentina Stoycheva highlighted that this happens because most of us have a need for the world to be, at least to a degree, organized and predictable in order to feel safe. "People who act like jerks break social contracts that we all need in order to function in society," she said.
"Even if their behavior does not concern us, we still experience it as possibly dangerous or threatening. If everyone started acting this way, then society as we know it would collapse and that is scary."
#20
This Dude Decided To Park In Front Of My Driveway When The Entire Street Was Free
#21
We See Stuff Like This On A Daily Basis
#22
Mom's Boyfriend Threw Away My 9-Year-Old Collection Of LEGO Because I Didn't Use It For A While. There Are Sets From The 1990s In There And Also Sets In The Harry Potter Series
#23
Poor Dog Left In A Filthy Car
#24
A Mom Left Her 2 Kids, A Child And Baby In A Carseat, Alone While She Went Into Dance Class
StrangeOne 1 year ago
Please don't just post pictures of other people's kids, no matter the situation. Do better. If you see kids in distress or in a bad situation with no other adults around call the proper authorities.
#25
My Dad's A Nurse And The Hospital Gave All The Nurses This Bag Because All Nurses Are Women Apparently
#26
Guy Posts Racist "Nice Guy" Post And Then Proceeds To Argue With Everyone Who Tells Him He's A Jerk
Green Tree 1 year ago
TLDR: I harassed a friend and included racist overtones and now they don’t want to be my friend. What did I do wrong?
Detroit Citizen 1 year ago
They forgot to add but Im a nice guy why dont they love me smh
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Jihana 1 year ago
I can tell you why. Brcause you are a racist, misogynistic jerk who thinks a woman ows you sex because you were nice to her.
JustJackie 1 year ago (edited)
He got absolutely reamed on reddit, as he should. He also said that maybe he knew more about black people, to one of the commenters...Who was black. He didn't learn anything, he's probably still out there, being a total racist s**t bag, and making women uncomfortable. Spelling edit.
Aria Whitaker 1 year ago
Ugh, looks like they deleted the thread...I would have loved to see how much c**p they gave him for that nonsense!!
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Leesa DeAndrea 1 year ago
And girls. Plenty of rude, arrogant girls in this world too.
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Dina Anastasakos 1 year ago
If he can't see what he did wrong then no amount of explaining will make him understand. In any case, he does not want to really know, he just to feel validated by others that he is in the right
StarlightPanda! 1 year ago
His feelings were hurt so he says horrible things to her. Of course he's the AH.
StarlightPanda! 1 year ago
Isn't this what you call one of those "nice guys" or something?
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Allen Packard 1 year ago
This right here. Might be the cringiest thing I've ever read. Had to stop twice, it was too much.
Cassi Lyris 1 year ago
TL:DR; I fetishized the first girl willing to speak to me and she won't touch PP for some reason. Whhhyyyy tho??? I'm clearly such a catch and she's like, BLACK. Does she not know that? Gaw!
Celeste Finn 1 year ago
Totally an AH. At least he thought to ask for feedback from humans. Your horniness does not equal any need on her part related to your race. You objectified her as an exotic animal and then projected that warped view back onto her. Which was likely an event that will traumatize her and not you. You need a class in empathy.
MrsFettesVette 1 year ago (edited)
"(I wouldn't take her home) until she answered why she rejected me"- and guys wonder why women are often afraid to say "no" to them.
Vicki Cunningham 1 year ago
Yes, you are the A! A complete one, thinking your white azz is better than any other culture. Sickening.
Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 1 year ago (edited)
EEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWW! Get some help dude. We were all 18 and stupid once. It's not too late for bro to get himself fixed. Absolutely TA, but young enough to get better.
Mary Hunt Peret 1 year ago (edited)
Another entitled male and a racist to boot. What an absolute WINNER. :(
Bob La Capra 1 year ago
"She's probably one of the five black girls in the school." Either she is or is not
Ron 1 year ago
You will be known as either a pedophile or murderer one day, I can't help but wonder if your attraction was towards someone you felt was easier to control, to someone you felt would not stand up for herself. The attraction is not to the person but their attributes...and in your mind they are smart until you get rejected. You have the attributes of a pycho and should seek mental help
Mike Soigne 1 year ago
I couldn't get past "big, black cotton" [ball]. Incel + racist -- how "lucky" can a woman get?
Janet Howe 1 year ago
JHC. What the he*l is wrong with you dude?? She said she didn't feel that way about you. Case closed. But you persisted. As if that wasn't bad enough, you told her she'd be lucky to have you!? You called her nerdy. You insulted her. Get the picture -- it's not going to happen. SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. Leave it alone before she calls the police on you, you stupid sh*t.
Tiffany Porter 1 year ago
To be fair he did say she smart! But not smart enough call out for a different ride home, after dude took that kind of stance with her she's lucky she didn't disappear, it's like he was telling on himself for being a psycho, beyond TAH
Jennifer Brantley 1 year ago
This seriously can't be real! If it is though this guy sounds like a Dexter to me! She's gonna end up in Bay Harbor! But he seems like he would keep a souvenir. Maybe her "big black cotton hair"! Come on.....is this for real?? Is this guy seriously that full of himself?? I'm laughing but creeped out at the same time.
Keith Pedersen 1 year ago
Not only are you the a*****e, your a racist a*****e that thinks she should like you just because your white.
Sydnie Laney 1 year ago
racists to my races, to everyones, just about, all are equal, you all need to get your head straight. That girl had a reason, she does not need an explination for you, and your bs, leave her alone, leave all girls alone, she is not your play thing, she is an individual, strong, brave, and beautfiful woman, your words are stronger than your actions, if does not like you, suck it up, black women do not typically go for white men, they go for who they love or have the qualities of a good natured man, not a certain race, complete Bs, (Sorry for the grammar errors)
Melissa Hamed 1 year ago
Do you know the concept of friendship? Because you sure as heck didn't act like one.
William Mclaurin 1 year ago
You didn't do anything wrong. Your mom did. She should have swallowed the night you were conceived.
Mary Peace 1 year ago
He described her in such glowing terms, her lips and body were just voluptuous, but when she rejected him, she suddenly became nerdy.
Bernadette Jamieson 1 year ago
I well and truly hope this kid reads the following comments, might just give him some insight.
Penny Brueggemann 1 year ago
You insulted her, you harassed her, you yelled at her, and you thought all of that was OK. Get some therapy boy
Kyllein MacKellerann 1 year ago
Yeah, you are. You're also an Egotistical AH, but that goes without saying.
Leesa DeAndrea 1 year ago
She is not required to give a reason why. Hopefully this person is young enough to learn from his mistakes.
Margaret Weaver 1 year ago
"I'm here to know why" It breaks my heart that this child got to such an age with no upbringing whatsoever. Honesty just heartbreaking that he doesn't seem to understand what is wrong with his stance, behaviour, reasoning, assumptions, and approach. Either the part about animé was a lie, or this child has a systemic emotional disorder, because animé is reeeeeally not subtle about bashing this sort of entitled behaviour.
Family Osborne 1 year ago
I don't know to upvote this because its awful and that was the GOAL...or downvote it bc its AWFUL
Cafesinner 1 year ago
Can we just note the cotton comment in connection to a black person cause ooof
Diana Mensone 1 year ago
YTA, not only for not simply taking no, but also being so f*****g arrogant.
JaimeeJames WD 1 year ago
A lot of the descriptions didn’t sound natural in they way they were written. I think troll.
Potato 1 year ago
Well, "happy" is usually spelled with only 5 letters, so I'm not sure why you're complaining.
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#27
Friendly Reminder To Call Out Your Family For Bad Behavior
#28
This Jerk’s Parking. Needless To Say There Was No “Disabled” Sticker On The Car
#29
This Guy On The Train Was Putting His Mask Down Every Two Minutes To Sneeze And Played Music On His Phone For One Hour
Whenever someone asks him to stop he got aggressive.
#30
She Wants A Discount In Exchange For A Bottle Of Water (Tap Water, That Is)
#31
A Jerk Blocked My Mom's Driveway, So She Can’t Pick Me Up From A Football Game
Did I mention it’s cold, windy, and rainy... And none of my friends are there so I can’t get a ride from them.
#32
If You're A Parent And Let Your Kids Make A Mess Like This
#33
My Landlord Entered My Apartment Without Notice (Illegal) To Tell Me To Clean My Lint Trap
#34
Somebody Vandalized A Gay Pride Sidewalk In The Town Over From Me
#35
There’s A Package Bandit In My Building And One Of My Neighbors Had Their Medicine Stolen
Cyber Returns 1 year ago
Call the police. Tampering with mail is a felony, plus pharmaceutical theft carries a hefty charge too
#36
Seen At A Gas Station
AbsintheMinded 1 year ago (edited)
Looking at the other signs in this photo, I’m guessing trump supporters own this shop. Update—> seems I hit a nerve, 😂
#37
People Who Leave Perishable Food On Store Shelves
#38
There’s A Limited Amount Of Parking At My Apartments, And This Douchebag Parks Like This Anytime He Can So Nobody Will Hit His Car
#39
The Worst Kind Of People That Shouldn’t Exist
StrangeOne 1 year ago
The posts on Quora are often a joke, or someone posing as someone else but making it sound like themselves. It's weird.
#40
I Split Up With My Boyfriend Yesterday. I Fell Asleep While He Was Packing And He Stole My Toilet
#41
There Is An 11-Day Bin Man Strike In Edinburgh And This Is Only Day Two. Most Of The City Is Like This
#42
I Work At A Pet Store. Some Jerk Used A Brush For Sale To Brush His Dog, And Then Just Put It Back. Dude
#43
Letting Your Kid Draw On The Nobel Memorial At The Natural History Museum
#44
Her Friend Didn’t Answer The Phone
#45
Moving Day. Looks Like Drunk Me Left A Note For Future Self. I've Been Sober For 4.5 Years. Man That Guy Was A Jerk
#46
The State My Ex Left My House In After I Went Away For A Week
#47
Owning A Maserati Doesn't Make You Not Trashy. They Just Opened The Door And Set Down Their Litter
#48
Dude Takes His Massive Mastiff On The Bus And Fails To Control The Dog. Dog Is Barking Every 10 Seconds. Bonus Points For The Dude's Cheeks Hanging Out
#49
A Man Disguised As An Old Women In A Wheelchair Threw A Cake At The Mona Lisa Painting In Paris
Cyber Returns 1 year ago
The frame is not the original, but a replacement from the 1970s when the older frame was found to have insects in it. The glass in the front of it is bulletproof, so all this idiot did was make the cleaners spend an extra 5 minutes of cleaning it and laugh at him getting arrested
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Aww but Eww 1 year ago
Honestly, humanity sucks! Even more so after this post. I would totally understand if aliens blew up this entire planet, except for animals.
Dina Anastasakos 1 year ago
OMG l 100% agree and usually get panned for saying it.
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Pink kitty 1 year ago
The article title should be '115 examples of disrespectful people' that don't care about anyone but themselves '
Maple Porkly 1 year ago
As sad as it is, the worst things done to me were from my own parent. Every day I was told a new way how I am worthless and no one will ever love me. I drank myself nearly to death at 20 before a friend saved my life. We've been married over 10 years now and he tells me everyday how amazing I am.
patricia patricia 1 year ago
Unfortunately, parents, and family in general, can be a person's worst nightmare. Some people should not be allowed to have children. Fortunately, you found a person who helped you. I do hope you have nothing to do with that toxic person anymore. You don't owe them anything. You deserve to be happy!
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BoredPanther 1 year ago
pls go here so we can get Zara the Squiddy Squid back pls!!!! She is legitmately innocent: https://www.boredpanda.com/?p=4727791&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
Littlemiss 1 year ago
Oh what happened to her??? I enjoyed reading her comments. P.s. the pages goes to a 404 page error.
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333 1 year ago
BP is getting as bad as mainstream media with all this doom and gloom. Stop showcasing garbage human beings and give us more of those "awesome woodworking projects" or "human decency" posts.
patricia patricia 1 year ago
On the one hand, you are right. This post was really depressing. However, the posts have descriptive titles. The title here is: "50 times people spotted such huge jerks ... " What did you expect????? Nobody forced you to read it. There's a variety of contents in BP, so you can choose. Why the complaint? Go and read something else instead.
Load More Replies... D Peterson 1 year ago
I stopped reading not because I don't care but because this is the type of behavior I see too often. I'm unsure whether people are getting worse or I've just become more aware of how often people are just cruel to each other.
deanna woods 1 year ago
In this new year, we have to not act like these types of people. Being a decent human being will not hurt you, it will show the world that you have the capacity to care for others. We all need to think about other people and not be destructive or petty or rude or inconsiderate. Doing the right thing may require a few extra steps, but at least at the end of the day, you will know that you were not a jerk to someone. If you are sick stay home. If you are in the grocery store and you decide you don't want something, go put it back in its proper place. If you are romantically interested in someone and they don't like you accept it. When you go into a restaurant, don't leave a huge mess. Don't be racist, homophobic, xenophobic misogynistic, or anything else. Now more than ever, we need to be decent to one another.
V Martinez 1 year ago
I sometimes wonder if any of these bozos ever see their posts out on different sites. If so, do they ever take the time to read the comments as well. Then I come back down to reality.
Aww but Eww 1 year ago
Honestly, humanity sucks! Even more so after this post. I would totally understand if aliens blew up this entire planet, except for animals.
Dina Anastasakos 1 year ago
OMG l 100% agree and usually get panned for saying it.
Load More Replies... Pink kitty 1 year ago
The article title should be '115 examples of disrespectful people' that don't care about anyone but themselves '
Maple Porkly 1 year ago
As sad as it is, the worst things done to me were from my own parent. Every day I was told a new way how I am worthless and no one will ever love me. I drank myself nearly to death at 20 before a friend saved my life. We've been married over 10 years now and he tells me everyday how amazing I am.
patricia patricia 1 year ago
Unfortunately, parents, and family in general, can be a person's worst nightmare. Some people should not be allowed to have children. Fortunately, you found a person who helped you. I do hope you have nothing to do with that toxic person anymore. You don't owe them anything. You deserve to be happy!
Load More Replies... BoredPanther 1 year ago
pls go here so we can get Zara the Squiddy Squid back pls!!!! She is legitmately innocent: https://www.boredpanda.com/?p=4727791&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
Littlemiss 1 year ago
Oh what happened to her??? I enjoyed reading her comments. P.s. the pages goes to a 404 page error.
Load More Replies... 333 1 year ago
BP is getting as bad as mainstream media with all this doom and gloom. Stop showcasing garbage human beings and give us more of those "awesome woodworking projects" or "human decency" posts.
patricia patricia 1 year ago
On the one hand, you are right. This post was really depressing. However, the posts have descriptive titles. The title here is: "50 times people spotted such huge jerks ... " What did you expect????? Nobody forced you to read it. There's a variety of contents in BP, so you can choose. Why the complaint? Go and read something else instead.
Load More Replies... D Peterson 1 year ago
I stopped reading not because I don't care but because this is the type of behavior I see too often. I'm unsure whether people are getting worse or I've just become more aware of how often people are just cruel to each other.
deanna woods 1 year ago
In this new year, we have to not act like these types of people. Being a decent human being will not hurt you, it will show the world that you have the capacity to care for others. We all need to think about other people and not be destructive or petty or rude or inconsiderate. Doing the right thing may require a few extra steps, but at least at the end of the day, you will know that you were not a jerk to someone. If you are sick stay home. If you are in the grocery store and you decide you don't want something, go put it back in its proper place. If you are romantically interested in someone and they don't like you accept it. When you go into a restaurant, don't leave a huge mess. Don't be racist, homophobic, xenophobic misogynistic, or anything else. Now more than ever, we need to be decent to one another.
V Martinez 1 year ago
I sometimes wonder if any of these bozos ever see their posts out on different sites. If so, do they ever take the time to read the comments as well. Then I come back down to reality.
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