As my Grandmama Wilkerson used to say (after she'd had a slug of hooch) "Don't come a knockin' if you be a stalkin'".

lol. Ya just never know which way!

My second husband asked my grown son for my hand in marriage. My son replied that he better take the rest of me, too. No joke.

Upvote for the picture.

Back when "no" was considered "maybe".

That's been tossed out by many for the past 100 years at least. yeah, by me, twice.

That's just scary. A boy did that to me on the beach in Mexico when I was 16. Eww.

They call that "stalking" now.

If I found Ryan Gosling lying dead in the road, I would put him in my car so I could use the carpool lane.

nothing gets me more hot and bothered than a slap and splash... wohoo

Honestly if they'ved been happily married for however long who are we to judge as long as they are both happy 😁. And no laws were violated before hand I personally say mind your own f****n g business . You people really need to ask your parents or grandparents when they got married I think you'd be surprised 🤯 also my parents have a age difference they've been happily married for 35 years so yes s**t happens sometimes and we honestly don't know the circumstances sometimes that's all I was trying to say but to be perfectly honest I don't give a c**p what people think of me either way 🙂

Na. Disagree with this one. It differs from couple to couple. When I moved to the US, I would get anxious my the number of choices on the menu especially not knowing what they tasted like. I trusted my boyfriend to always order for me for a long time.

Doing it without asking or having any indication that they want you to is obnoxious. It's a nice gesture if you know they'll appreciate it.

Depends on the person. I went on a date with a Hungarian girl once and she insisted I order for her. It may be cultural.

always let her order first

disagree. i cant communicate to save my life...

Yeah no. My husband and I do this for each other from time to time if we've already talked about it and one of us is just more ready to speak than the other. It's really not that serious

And you know you speak for all?

I... I'm sorry but I do want to hear from grandma. Did he kidnap her or was that just an excuse so she could stay out with him? If he dud it's f***d but idk something about how it's written gives Mr the inpression it's one of those "girl wants to say yes but doesn't want to get shamed so says she was forced" I might be very wrong

Also - man and wife. He has an identity as a man, and she is just an adjunct.

Was always gross, TBH.

Very lovely. It worked for them! That's what matters.

If only there had been another option they could have chosen…like maybe the woman decides if she wants either of them. Don’t mind me, just a woman having stupid thoughts! #sarcasm

Five years later: Miso sick of soup.

Such an animalistic way to act, and very unattractive.

The way they treat bulls in a fight is so crappy, I'd cry over the animal as well. Unless the guy is being jabbed repeatedly with spears too, it's not a fair fight.

Finally one I can agree with. Because people used to ACTUALLY do this. Both men and women might write an unsolicited love letter (especially teenagers), and people just did show up unannounced at other people's homes (whether they were a romantic interest, friend, or family - people often used to do that).

Yes, however, back then they couldn't text or call.

I mean if someone offered ME 4 horses and a mule I'd probably say yes, but I'd be upset if they gave them to my parent.

Stalking is despicable. Forceful romantic attention is unacceptable. In the film “Say Anything” the mains fall in love and she breaks up with him solely due to her emotional turmoil due to her complex relationship with her father (which is the main plot of the movie btw - it is not a romance). They are both incredibly unhappy. He tries to contact her, and a last ditch effort plays their song outside her house as a reminder that their relationship is too precious to be swept aside in a crisis. At no point does he stalk her in this film. I will die on this hill. Thank you.

That's actually kind of scary.

When and where was trespassing romantic?

Too many people still think that Romeo and Juliet was a love story.

My husband and I got engaged after 3 months of dating, married 7 months later. It will be our 8th anniversary this July and still going strong. My parents got married in Vegas after 3 months dating, together 44 years and they're still in love and each other's best friends. What works for some may not work for others, but it's nobody's place to judge other people for when and how they decide their relationship should move forward.

I saw a girl try that with her keys in middle school, the guy didn't get it at all (or he was not interested and great at acting) and it was so very cringy. I still get second hand embarrassment just thinking about it.

How about part of my ear?

Your Mom didn't speak French.

If your jacket is wet, how am I supposed to put it on later and claim it as my own? Besides, getting lifted over the puddle is far more entertaining to me.

Upvote for the Monty Python reference!

Whats up with this? Is this romantic???? It sounds more like some kind of cultural ritual?