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Guy Decides Not To Change Color Of The House He Bought, His Teen Son Struggles With It Years Later
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Guy Decides Not To Change Color Of The House He Bought, His Teen Son Struggles With It Years Later

Guy Decides Not To Change Color Of The House He Bought, His Teen Son Struggles With It Years LaterMan Enjoys That His Newly Bought House Is Pink, His Teen Son Has Problems With It Years LaterGuy Buys A Pink House And Refuses To Repaint It When Years Later His Son Can't Stand ItTeen Boy Upset Over Living In A Pink House, Parents Reject His Idea To Repaint ItSon Hates Family's Pink House, Parents Refuse To Repaint The Walls Since Everyone Else Loves ItTeen Upset Over Living In A 'Barbie House' With Pink Walls, Parents Reject His Plea To Repaint ItSon Hates Living In A Pink House, Dad Refuses To Repaint It As All The Other Family Members Love ItGuy Decides Not To Change Color Of The House He Bought, His Teen Son Struggles With It Years LaterGuy Decides Not To Change Color Of The House He Bought, His Teen Son Struggles With It Years LaterGuy Decides Not To Change Color Of The House He Bought, His Teen Son Struggles With It Years Later
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Once upon a time, there lived an old gentleman who was greatly tormented by his entitled neighbors. And one fine day he figured out how to make sure that every glance at his house would spoil the neighbors’ mood. He took several buckets of paint and painted his house pink!

As the years passed, the old gentleman finally passed away, as did most of the neighbors who didn’t like him – and this geezer’s son put the old house up for sale. The buyer turned out to be a guy who wasn’t actually afraid of the prospect of a long renovation, but the only thing that remained unchanged from the old owner was the pink walls.

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The author of the post bought a house painted pink many years ago – and left the color unchanged

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The seller told him that it was his late dad’s house and the old man had painted the walls pink in order to annoy his neighbors

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Now the author and his wife have 3 kids: a teen son and 2 younger daughters

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So the boy really hates the pink walls and urged the dad to pick another color when the parents wanted to do some repairs

Yes, the Original Poster (OP), the user u/Wild-Argument-308, now lives in this house with his wife and their three children: two daughters and a teen son. Now let’s try to guess – which of the five family members hates the pink color of their house? That’s right, the author’s son.

Apparently, the boy grew up with the idea of taking a bucket of paint and repainting the walls – but his dreams weren’t destined to come true until the original poster decided to give their house a complete overhaul. But, to the kid’s regret, the parents decided to leave the walls pink!

The boy tried to protest, but his parents rejected his requests to repaint the walls – after all, this is their house, and all the other family members had nothing against the pink color. According to the parents, when the house becomes the property of the kids, they can make decisions about painting, but not now.

The original poster’s mother-in-law tried to put pressure on him and his wife, arguing that it would be embarrassing for a 13-year-old boy to live in a ‘Barbie house’, but the author honestly asked his son if his peers teased him about this. He replied that they hadn’t, but he just hated the pink walls and wanted a ‘normal’ color.

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Well, for now, apparently, the kid will just have to accept it – to the delight of his 8 Y.O. and 10 Y.O. sisters, because they don’t mind living in the ‘Barbie house.’ Especially after the stunning success of the Barbie movie.

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“Yes, it’s not surprising that a 13-year-old boy isn’t happy to live in a pink house – after all, this is that formative age period when every teenager fears bullying for literally every little thing,” says Irina Matveeva, a psychologist and certified NLP specialist, whom Bored Panda asked for a comment here. “Unfortunately, there have been cases of bullying for much more petty reasons. However, so far his fears, in his own words, are groundless.”

“However, this is also the age when one should learn to respect the decisions of their elders, to whom, in fact, the house belongs. And if all other family members like the pink color of the walls, then this should be respected. In the end, the father correctly noted, when the children become the owners of this house themselves, then they can change something. In the meantime, the boy can try to be proud that his house is in fact so unique,” Irina ponders.

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By the way, the perception of pink as something ultimately ‘girlish’ appeared only at the beginning of the last century – and before that, pink, on the contrary, was perceived in Western society as assigned to boys. So the perception of colors changes over time – especially since all color prejudices are nothing more than a convention. Just take a look at Leo Messi scoring goal after goal in the pink Inter Miami jersey in Major League Soccer!

Commenters on the original post also sincerely believe that nothing terrible is actually happening here. “I think your son will mature to understand that pink is not an embarrassing color, and honestly your MIL should too,” one of the commenters wrote. “Also your MIL should respect your decisions in parenting and about your house.”

After all, according to most people in the comments, this is how democracy works. “He can make the decisions when it’s passed down to him. 4 against 1. The ‘voting’ was fair and square. He’ll live just like he has been in that house for all of his life,” another person added wisely. So what do you, our dear readers, think about this situation?

People in the comments, however, told the author that he is right here as he’s actually the owner of the house and not his son

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Oleg Tarasenko

Oleg Tarasenko

Author, BoredPanda staff

After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Brenda
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a grown a$$ adult woman, I would never live in a pink house. Why? Only because I hate most shades of pink. That being said, while I understand your son wanting a different color (EVERYTHING you do is embarrassing to a teenager!), I applaud your decision to keep the pink since you & your wife love it. As my mom used say (and still does), "When you pay the bills, you can do it your way. Until, then, we do it my way!" He'll live.

Zoe Vokes
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When he was a teenager my brother made my parents park down the street and around the corner when dropping him off for school because apparently it’s embarrassingly to have parents drive you to school. I never understood that one. Everybody in the school has parents that drive them places. And they’ve spent an hour out of their day doing the school run.

Joann Hart
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then drive by the school roll down the windows and yell, love you johnny

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Dragons Exist
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These poll answers make it seem like the kid had to choose between shooting his mom or dad, not having to live in a pink house

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Brenda
Community Member
6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a grown a$$ adult woman, I would never live in a pink house. Why? Only because I hate most shades of pink. That being said, while I understand your son wanting a different color (EVERYTHING you do is embarrassing to a teenager!), I applaud your decision to keep the pink since you & your wife love it. As my mom used say (and still does), "When you pay the bills, you can do it your way. Until, then, we do it my way!" He'll live.

Zoe Vokes
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When he was a teenager my brother made my parents park down the street and around the corner when dropping him off for school because apparently it’s embarrassingly to have parents drive you to school. I never understood that one. Everybody in the school has parents that drive them places. And they’ve spent an hour out of their day doing the school run.

Joann Hart
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then drive by the school roll down the windows and yell, love you johnny

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Dragons Exist
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These poll answers make it seem like the kid had to choose between shooting his mom or dad, not having to live in a pink house

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