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There is no surprise that a lot has changed since our parents used to be our age. Not only do we have more innovations, resources or even attention to mental health, but also there is a huge difference in our views on relationships. Probably there are many of us whose parents at our age were already married with kids and we can’t even call the doctor…

Well, about that, on TikTok there is a trend going on that more and more online users are hopping on. Folks online share their parents’ photos when they were at the same age and in comparison add their own photos revealing quite a different state of life that they are in. So scroll through, upvote the ones to which you can relate the most and share your thoughts below!

“Each generation uniquely shapes the cultural, social, and economic landscape, reflecting the values, priorities, and challenges of their time,” shared Alexis Abramson, PhD, who is a lifestyle gerontologist, with Bored Panda.

She also shared a few societal changes that have occurred between generations, starting with environmental awareness. “Younger generations have been more vocal about climate change and environmental conservation, influencing policies and behaviors. Also, family structures - they have become more diverse, with variations in household compositions, including single-parent households, blended families, and chosen families.

“There’s also been a trend towards delaying marriage and childbirth, as well as an increase in cohabitation and non-traditional relationship arrangements.” Moreover, political ideologies and affiliations have shifted over time, influenced by global events, social movements, and generational values.

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M O'Connell
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm 36, and I would love if someone gave me an Easter basket of fun stuff :)

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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well you're pointing him in the wrong direction! Sunset is the other way. Poor dog. 🤭

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Obviously, each generation has witnessed remarkable advancements in technology. “For example, older generations may have experienced the introduction of television, while younger generations grew up with smartphones and the internet. This has dramatically altered communication, entertainment, and work patterns.

The following changes are in gender roles and expectations over the years. “Women’s participation in the workforce has increased, and progress has been made towards gender equality in various spheres of life. Attitudes towards LGBTQ+ rights have also evolved, with growing acceptance and legal recognition.”

Alexis noted that there’s been a growing emphasis on health and wellness, with increased awareness of mental health issues, the importance of physical fitness, and the impact of diet and lifestyle choices on overall well-being.

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TheGoodBoi
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tbf, you're doing what your father was doing at the time 🤷‍♂️

LakotaWolf (she/her)
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I'd done the same. My dad was in the Air Force and fought in the Vietnam War. I wanted to follow his path and join the military. I am so jealous and proud of OP - Air Force medic!!

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tw 72
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely nothing wrong with this! You go, girl!

SleepSycho
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't know which is harder or more adulty but ur achieving a*s making the rest of us look bad

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Leigh Tanner
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You should feel proud and accomplished. You're uniformed and serving. Thank you for YOUR dedication. Good parents 👍

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Now, speaking about the advancements in technology and communication - Alexis emphasized that they have transformed the way relationships are formed, nurtured, and maintained across generations, significantly impacting societal norms and family dynamics. 

She pointed out that technology has revolutionized communication, offering instant connectivity regardless of geographical distance. “This has led to more frequent and diverse communication between family members, including video calls, instant messaging, and social media interactions. Consequently, younger generations who have grown up with these tools may place greater emphasis on constant communication and staying connected with their families compared to older generations.”

Comparing relationship dynamics, she noted that social media platforms and dating apps have altered the dynamics of romantic relationships, providing opportunities for meeting new people, and maintaining connections. “Younger generations often use these platforms to explore relationships and express themselves more openly. In contrast, older generations may have different views on online dating and prefer more traditional methods of meeting partners.”

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg is that Raising Cane's?? I'll take a box combo, no slaw, extra toast please...

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At 29, your parents could afford three kids, to have a house built, and own a camcorder. Times have definitely changed.

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Technology has also both strengthened and strained family bonds. “On the one hand, it enables families to share experiences, photos, and updates in real time, fostering a sense of closeness even when physically apart. On the other hand, excessive screen time and digital distractions can lead to reduced face-to-face interactions within families, potentially affecting the quality of relationships, especially between parents and children.”

Also, generational differences exist in attitudes towards privacy and sharing personal information online. “Younger generations tend to be more comfortable sharing details about their relationships and family life on social media. In comparison, older generations may value privacy and discretion more, preferring to keep certain aspects of their personal lives offline.”

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Finally, Alexis emphasized that there are overarching trends in the way different generations approach parenting and raising children or wanting kids in general, but individual parenting styles and approaches can vary significantly within each generation based on factors such as cultural background, socioeconomic status, and personal values.

Starting from parenting styles - each generation exhibits distinct parenting styles influenced by their upbringing, cultural values, and societal norms. “For example, baby boomers may lean towards authoritative parenting, emphasizing discipline and respect, while millennials and Generation Z parents often prioritize a more collaborative and empathetic approach, focusing on open communication and emotional well-being.”

Also, looking at work-life balance - Alexis pointed out that it has become a significant consideration for many younger parents, particularly millennials and Generation Z. “They often strive to balance career aspirations with family responsibilities and are more likely to seek flexible work arrangements and parental leave policies to accommodate their parenting duties.”

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Natasha Arruda
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pfft, this will NEVER be me... Cause if my mom drops me off somewhere she has to stay with me and hold my hand. 😂

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“With the proliferation of technology, younger generations of parents are navigating the challenges of raising children in the digital age,” she emphasized. “They may implement stricter screen time limits, monitor online activities more closely, and educate their children about digital literacy and online safety from a younger age.”

And delayed parenthood. “There’s a trend towards delaying parenthood among younger generations, driven by various factors such as pursuing higher education, establishing careers, and financial considerations. Many millennials and Generation Z individuals are opting to delay starting families until the later stages of their lives, contributing to lower birth rates in some regions.”

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So guys, don't forget to check out Alexis’ Instagram, Facebook, X/Twitter, LinkedIn and website

And what do you think about this trend? Do you have some fun comparisons? Share your thoughts below!

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Natasha Arruda
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, at least you're trying! Good luck with therapy too, hope you find a good fit on the first try.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this a trophy photo? Like posing with the bifurcated remains of an Easter Bunny they hunted down?

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, two Victory Royales in a row takes incredible Fortnight skills!!! I would be very proud of such an achievement.

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Sheila who?
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We were so intent on giving our kids everything, occasionally we forgot about the fact we were raising adults. I tried my very best to teach mine the life skills and they (29m,30m,35f) are excellent people.

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Natasha Arruda
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, your mom didn't have email so she didn't need to overcome the anxiety, that obviously explains all the differences.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, you knew enough to dress in dark colors and bring a container for your stash, so at least you're good at what you're doing.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I honestly don't know how kids are supposed to become independent today with the same ratio of success we (people in their mid 30s-40s) enjoyed. Hubby and I had 1st little at 21 & our 1st apartment was 645$ a month with 2bdr, 2 bath, washer dryer and trash & water bills were included in rent (this was 2002.) With one decent income or two mid level, very doable. Everything in that same area is now 1800-3k a month but the incomes have not gone up 3-4x to compensate!

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Make sure to save these videos, in case the next generation will energe and wants to continue the picture comparison tradition :)

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LakotaWolf (she/her)
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Mom with her son she had at 23" - uh, so, OP's brother? I'm a little confused at the wording on this one.

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