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Connie_Damico , Xavier Mouton Photographie Report

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Automatically assuming all women enjoy, want and will have children.

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Sarcastic Cow 2 years ago

Surprisingly, we don´t.

128points

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Being docile and passive. We’re expected to take so much c**p on a daily basis without complaining. Sexual harassment? it’s just a compliment. Sexual assault? you had it coming. do you really want to ruin his life? Periods or any type of pain/illness? it’s not that bad. The amount of mental labor we’re expected to do is exhausting, but we have to do it or nothing would get done. And then men get offended and call us names when we assert ourselves or express any emotion other than happiness. Our boundaries are constantly trampled and we’re supposed to just take it with a smile. It’s so frustrating!

HRPunsNStuff , Ben White Report

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S. Mi 2 years ago

We somehow paradoxically socialize women to expect sexual abuse, blame ourselves and yet somehow think we are the only ones.

87points

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Taking care of a husband like he is an overgrown toddler incapable of doing anything for himself

Stormallthetime , Erik Mclean Report

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Mike Crow 2 years ago

My wife takes care of me when I am down and I take care of her when she is down.

151points

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do A woman must be lady like

You know how I feel about that one? (Farts loudly) that’s how I feel

VeeSquibbles , Alphacolor Report

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Mercy Wanjiru 2 years ago

I like her...

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lastseenhitchhiking , Maria Lupan Report

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Having to defy the normal process of ageing and that ageing somehow diminishes our worth.

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327points

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Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

Ugh. This. Yes, I'm looking more like my grandma. So what? She had a boyfriend in her late 80s. :-)

92points

Cultural-Chart3023 , Anastasiia Chepinska Report

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do A man can walk away from a pregnancy or a family and go on with life without a bat of an eye from society but heaven forbid a woman ever walk away from her kids

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El muerto 2 years ago

this!

56points

Programmer_girl0 , Priscilla Du Preez Report

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That all women want a man/relationship.

I'm happily single for years and don't want to be in a relationship. I don't get why people assume that single women aren't as happy as the ones in a relationship, when it was proven that single women are the happiest population out there.

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Dora Ferrier 2 years ago

Preach! I love being single. I was never the little girl who grew up fantasizing about my future wedding to my Prince Charming. I can't think of anything I'd rather do less. People always assume my life is unfulfilling and lonely but it's the complete opposite! I have 100% freedom to do whatever I want to do and I love it!

98points

Super_sassy_cakesf12 , Kristine Wook Report

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That doctors STILL do not provide adequate health care for us. And the fact that we still don't have autonomy of our bodies (in the US)

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Swan 2 years ago

in the us or anywhere else ; trans surgery = rejected you don't dispose of YOUR body ; breast removal surgery (for example to prevent cancer(or any other reason (confort etc...)) = rejected you don't dispose of YOUR body ; trying to get a tattoo = are you sure, you'll regret it ; plastic surgery = you don't need it ; uterus removal (like to stop periods and period pain) = rejected you don't dispose of YOUR body --- [for now (and certainly for ever ): I 'am' a woman so I'm not sure if it's a woman only thing or doctors and surgeons just don't listen to anyone]

61points

#10

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That we shouldn’t show anger. Men always talk about how hard it is that when they cry, they’re called a pussy or something like that. I agree that that is a valid issue and I wish it weren’t that way, but I also wish that women could express anger without getting called a b***h or being called irrational. We get asked if we’re menstruating, we get told we’re overreacting. Just once I’d like to feel free to be angry.

MrsFrobert , engin akyurt Report

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Olivia Sorenson 2 years ago

Exactly! Like am I only supposed to have emotions while I'm hormonal??

65points

#11

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Being ok with getting paid less than men for the same job

that_other_geek , Elisa Ventur Report

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ScotuL 2 years ago

Everyone should be paid equally despite their gender

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#12

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Dressing for men. I see many people tell women that they should not dye or cut their hair, not get tattoos, or wear certain fashion because it is unappealing to men. However, a lot of women nowadays (like me) dress for themselves and not for male pleasure.

BennaJoJenna , Caitlyn Roberts Report

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MoMcB 2 years ago

That one always makes me laugh. I have, and my friends have been told that dyed hair, tattoos and how we dress is unattractive. Why do we want to be attractive to that type of man?

102points

#13

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That vaginas should be smooth always

ruthiebkind , Juli Kosolapova Report

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Mary Mosher 2 years ago

For the love of God, need we remind people that vaginas are an INTERNAL organ ... the outer area consists of inner and outer labia, and vulva.

178points

#14

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That women should do all the cooking and cleaning.

m0rbidowl , Gelmis Bartulis Report

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Kristof De Smet 2 years ago

My kid's teacher once asked what the kids thought about cleaning: was it the woman's responsibility or is it something that both should take care of? Only kid in class who thought it was a shared responsibility, was mine. I think we have a long way to go.

87points

boysenberry_22 , Kevin McCutcheon Report

#15

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Ugh, I live in the Southern US & the whole “wife must fix husbands dinner plate before hers or the children’s” is strong here. I get in debates all the time about this—it agitates me to no end. I don’t know why. It just comes off very misogynistic.

The reasoning I’ve heard from people I know is that “if your husband works hard then he should not have to fix his own food when he comes home” as if women don’t also work hard & almost always have to pull the second shift if kids are involved. I don’t understand why it’s such a debate. If it matters who eats first, then it should be the kids. If there’s no kids, then who cares? Both spouses can make their own plate or one (either one) can make both plates. I’m not a housewife or a waitress for my husband. We are equals, we both work & gender roles are outdated as hell.

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2S2N 2 years ago

Because it is misogynistic

74points

#16

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do The concept of virginity.

Alice-Xandra , DANNY G Report

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Agnes Jekyll 2 years ago

Always confused me as a kid--who were all these studs having sex with if the women were all virgins?

114points

#17

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That they need to wear makeup to look presentable — think a professional setting, a lot of people have the notion that it is lazy for a woman to not have ANY makeup on.

Now I wear makeup sometimes and sometimes I don’t, I just think it’s an outdated expecting that half of the population has never had.

heyitsamess , Annie Spratt Report

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Sarcastic Cow 2 years ago (edited)

This is just because people (read men) who write these rules have no idea what makeup is. You can have your whole face covered in ´naked´ style and they will say ´ You see how good you look without all those colors on!´

63points

#18

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Vulgar language is not feminine.

Stopped counting how many times I was told that but I always told them to f**k themselves

nebunala4328 , Nenad Stojkovic Report

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June 2 years ago

I don't spew profanities. I enunciate them clearly, like a f*****g lady.

164points

#19

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Be thin.

nokho , Laura Chouette Report

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Mercy Wanjiru 2 years ago

I don't want to...

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#20

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That women can’t do anything. Fixing things, manual labor, etc. I hate when my girlfriends say “I’m waiting on him to do this or that and it’s frustrating.” How about you get off your a*s and figure it out like he did. Lol

X13M1 , Robert Couse-Baker Report

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El Dee 2 years ago

Yes, the division of labour along the lines of gender - makes no sense at all..

53points

#21

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Being event coordinator, sender of household thank you notes, purchasing holiday gifts

Altruistic-Ad6449 , Shaun Wadham Report

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Agnes Jekyll 2 years ago

My mom bought all the gifts for my dad's side of the family for 15 years. And when she told my dad, it's your turn now, all the gifts stopped.

75points

#22

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That we all have a maternal instinct. Hahahaha NOPE.

catastrophized , FLOUFFY Report

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S. Mi 2 years ago (edited)

It's a nurturing instint and exists in many people of all genders. We just try to socialize it out of children we've identified as male, while expecting it of women.

56points

christine-fights , Abigail Keenan Report

#23

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do We are the emotional ones

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Sarcastic Cow 2 years ago

Just because ´anger´ is not marked as emotion.

82points

happysmize , Many Wonderful Artists Report

#24

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Being devoted to shi**y husbands

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John Smith 2 years ago

I have known a couple of women that were with guys just because "it would upset them to break up".. Girl he gives you a blackeye and you don't want to upset him, buy a clue. Leave, leave now, if it upsets him, who cares. The guy is obviously a d**k and deserves to be upset and alone.

56points

#25

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That women automatically make better caregivers (children or the elderly).

DisneyUp , Kelly Sikkema Report

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Kristof De Smet 2 years ago

Honestly, most of the time they are. But that doesn't mean that, as a man, you shouldn't at least try.

38points

#26

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Having to smile and accommodate other people’s awkward and rude behavior. The- “I’m sorry I can’t help but to say or notice” and what they is creepy, unwarranted, intrusive, interrupting, offensive etc. Get out of my space! I don’t care that my voice is unusually high pitched or that whatever you noticed or have to say about me.

bourbonpuppybaby , x1klima Report

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kayla Mckee 2 years ago

Or the the whole thing of of, you would be so much prettier if you did ______. Or two i get a lot, you smell good, and your eyes are so pretty......yeah I know because I shower and use a lotion and body spray combo that I love and I see my eyes every day, if you are getting that close you need to back out of my space or you might be met with a flying hand.

46points

GrandAffectionate708 , Adam Winger Report

#27

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Sex isn’t a right when you’re in a relationship. You have to maintain other parts of the relationship to keep that flame alive. “You must be cheating” isn’t going to make the situation any better.

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Robert Thompson 2 years ago

I hated it when [my now ex wife] would use that line. As if I was just a sex doll to her, a piece of meat without any person behind the flesh. (now I am well enough to say that I was the victim of an abusive partner)

37points

#28

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That woman have to take birth control (hormonal) in a long term relationship

effingneedhelp , engin akyurt Report

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Rens 2 years ago

I think both parties are equally responsible when it comes to birth control. It should be openly discussed and mutually agreed upon.

68points

#29

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Giving birth. It is the second most terrifying and painful thing a person can go through, the first is burning alive. The industry is great at hiding the many difficulties of pregnancy just to further the human race. You can permanently lose grey matter in your brain, weaken your bladder, develop allergies?? during and after pregnancy. Don't even get me started on the labour itself- i have no idea why any informed woman would want that. just google 4th degree tears and you'll be put off for life

Salty-Floor-476 , Aditya Romansa Report

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Swan 2 years ago

I HAVE been burnt alive , and I would give birth if I could, I most likely can't (related to the burn thing) but if women are not ready to go through giving life to have a baby they can adopt; I understand women are also ready to go through this it's their choice how about the maximum informations about it and then they make their choice?

61points

Candy_Sneke! 2 years ago

Are you ok? How bad were your burns? It must really suck

9points

Swan 2 years ago

very badly burnt on my back sides arms and legs : now very ugly scared purple skin and it's painful (because my skin isn't elastic anymore so when I stretch or bend in any way or lay on my back it hurts) yes it sucks :( the first one was more than ten years ago and the scars are still visible it'll never heal.. mon-bras-6...9700b4.jpg

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Stuart “2-D” Pot 2 years ago

Just want you to know that no matter what people say I’ll always think of you as a perfectly normal human being. It took to long for people to accept melanin, and I’m not gonna sugarcoat it, you probably get A LOT of judgment. But now you know, there is at least one completely random internet idiot that completely accepts you.

7points

Suzy the observer 2 years ago

Good grief! Are you well now?

1point

Leodavinci 2 years ago

and without interference from politicians or anyone else as to their medical needs.

1point

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Tuna Fish 2 years ago

How about needing my husbands "permission" to get my tubes tied after my first child. I s**t you not. My doctor said I had to get him to sign a form agreeing to the procedure before they would do it because I guess it was his body too. HA. I said "no problem, doc. He's waiting in the car for me." I went down the elevator and when I got back the form was signed and I had the procedure. Hubs was at home at the time.

27points

Shabette the Great 2 years ago

Madness!! And deeply cruel

7points

Rus Kus 2 years ago

This infuriates me. Adult women are treated like under age kids not mature enough to make decisions and not trustworthy enough to be responsible for their life. How is that even possible in modern world? Why someone else has a right and a privilege to have a vote and equal if not more weight in other person's health issues is beyond me

6points

Chris M 2 years ago

That cannot be legal, can it? Where was this?

3points

Rahul Pawa 2 years ago (edited)

Not quite as bad in my situation (with the genders reversed) when getting a vasectomy after my first kid. Doc asked me how many kids I have, and if my wife agrees with me about getting the procedure. But they took my word for it, she didn't have to go or sign any papers.

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Donkey boi 2 years ago

We need to evolve to lay eggs!

15points

Swan 2 years ago

hey I always thought that ^^ it's so much better (we can leave the eggs safe in a warm place and go to sport/work/school and the best we don't have either breasts/milk factories or periods yay! )

11points

Raven DeathShade 2 years ago

Same thing, nine months sooner.

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John Smith 2 years ago

"Have you seen the size of an egg? Seen the size of a chicken’s bum? That’s what all the clucking was about" :)

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Agnes Jekyll 2 years ago

A friend's husband said to me (in front of his pregnant wife). Why do women even have to go classes or to the hospital? They just naturally know how to do it. They've been doing it since the beginning of time. (and dying since the beginning of time, I told him--go visit a Victorian cemetery)

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Rahul Pawa 2 years ago (edited)

Women dying in labor back then was caused by doctors not washing their hands between the autopsy room and the delivery room. Midwives at the time had much higher survival rates.

2points

Kelsey Lee 2 years ago

Right? I gained 60lbs and it took a year to lose, i ripped my lady bits, messed up some other parts, and occasionally pee myself now and my baby is 2! Not to mention all the sexist B******t i went through with doctors and family while expecting. I love being a mom and i love my kid, but when people ask me if I'm having more I'm like sure if it's developed in a test tube.

9points

J J 2 years ago

As a dude, I will never understand why woman come within a mile of our weiners considering the potential outcome

7points

Kristen Bagan 2 years ago

Haha!

3points

Robert Thompson 2 years ago

I have noticed that women with many kids seem worn out. Not tired, but used up. As though there is only so much nutrition that you can pass on to your kids before you run out.

6points

Keith Mitchem 2 years ago

Unfortunately men can't do anything about this. We cannot give birth to keep the human species alive. Many of us would take that burden from the women we love if we could, but we can't. All we can do is be a supportive as possible. You also insult women who are happy to go through labor in order to bring their little angel into the world. Not all people are all the same. My stepmom had no regrets and she went through labor 4 times. Only getting an epidural once. I asked her directly.

5points

GFSTaylor 2 years ago

And women should be allowed the choice of whether they want to go through all that. Full sex education is essential, birth control should be readily available and free/cheap, and abortion should be legal.

4points

Got Myself 4 Pandas 2 years ago

I've done this 4 times, I very much doubt it's anywhere near to being burned alive - yeah it hurts like b'jesus but it's not constant so you get breaks between contractions. Maybe I'm lucky that it wasn't too bad - don't get my wrong, it's taken it's toll, my body has been through a lot of trauma, it's changed and not for the better, I'll never be who I was before kids - I've accepted this. My kids were worth it. I agree that it should be better understood how difficult pregnancy is and how dangerous it can be - too many people think it's easy - it really isn't.

3points

Michele Wintzloff 2 years ago

Especially when men look at you just after giving birth and expect you to have a flat stomach.

3points

Carter 2 years ago

And why women are obviously the stronger sex.

2points

buttonpusher 2 years ago

3rd degree scald was the worst pain I've ever felt. The sort of pain that would make you pass out. Also have kids, one without pain relief and that didn't even come close.

2points

Natalie Kudryashova 2 years ago

Some women want that. I’ve given birth three times and would love to do it again. Sure it hurts but the memory of the pain is soon forgotten and anyway it’s a small price to pay for bringing another person into the world

2points

Liu Woods 2 years ago

True, I think the main issue is assuming all women do. It’s an absolutely incredible experience for people who want it, and some people don’t want it and never will.

2points

Dark Side of the Loom 2 years ago

Thank god it's not systematically as traumatic as described here... and I've been through this twice, first one C-section, 2nd time vaginal birth without epidural - yet it's still one of the best memories of my life (despite the pain and all).

1point

Jo Choto 2 years ago

People who are able to give birth do so because of a circumstance of birth. There is no other way to bring humans into the world, except for someone, somewhere to give birth to them. It's nobody's fault. And now we are making bigger and bigger babies, with bigger and bigger heads and our bodies have not been able to evolve quickly enough to cope.

1point

Got Myself 4 Pandas 2 years ago

My kids were big, but got smaller each time. My first was 10lbs10 - and not everyone would've been able to birth a baby so big - I'm lucky I could. Even at that my smallest was my 4th at 8lbs3 - still bigger than average. Because my first was so big I was monitored closely by my midwives to keep track of size and induced me before my due date if needed. But yeah, women are the only way to have children, there's no other way and we can't escape nature. I didn't need to have kids, it was a choice, did I fully understand the impact it could have on my body? Hell no, but since I did it 3 more times I must've decided that it was worth it

0points

El muerto 2 years ago (edited)

question..why do many women who have given birth have several children?

1point

Sharron Lindsay 2 years ago

Nature has designed us to forget about the trauma and the pain otherwise the species would have become extinct

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An Unpopular Opinion. 2 years ago

Because the kids. It hurts for a little while, but then there's a new person in the world, how neat is that? And babies are ( in my opinion) absolutely adorable, and as they grow up you get to see their personalities and interests change as they become their own person. I'm too young to be a parent, but I have little siblings/cousins, and watching them grow up is amazing :)

5points

Raven DeathShade 2 years ago

Some people enjoy it, some forgot the pain (because that happens sometimes), and some people just like kids. And of course there are religious reasons as well, and peer pressure.

5points

Kimi Tomminello 2 years ago

I have 2 kids. Because I love kids and that's how many I could afford. Both births were traumatic, the 2nd required an emergency C section. The pain lasts for a very short time in the scope of things and some women love raising kids enough that the pain is well worth it.

3points

Kristen Bagan 2 years ago

Plus, in many cases, when a subsequent birth is soon after the previous (within 5 years? A guess) the body has muscle memory to make the process a lot easier/simpler/smoother/faster. Of course, this is not the case with all people, but there is science to back this up for an average amount of women.

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MagentaBlu 2 years ago

Because some of them like rising human beings? Maybe they still have hope in humanity and therefore really want to have a family? Perhaps they believe children need siblings to play with and grow properly? Or just because they want it. Period. P.D. There are some women who actually are able to feel orgasmic pleasure giving birth. Belive it or not.

0points

Lea S. 2 years ago

Informed women want it because they want children. We shouldn't shame either side.

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Susan Egan 2 years ago

People have a very different values toward family. We had problems with infertility. It was no issue for us to switch to adoption and I'd never change it for the world. There were women in an infertility group that felt like "failures" since they needed invitro to give birth. One woman had two kids and didn't feel like a "woman" due to needing help. We let that group go, but it stuck in my mind how different people think about family. Sorry if it's off topic.

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Wednesday 2 years ago

The second time around, after 10 hours of labor, the nurse came in and was going to "Just break your water," before I had the epidural, "To speed up the process..." I told her if she valued her f*****g life that she'd better not... Then asked the doctor to remove her from my room.

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Celtic Pirate Queen 2 years ago

Choosing not to have children, period. Yes, I have 2 of my own, but that was my PERSONAL choice. Not all women want (or should have) kids. And that is absolutely fine.

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Lindsey Judd-Bruder 2 years ago

This, and also, THERE SHOULD BE MORE INFO READILY AVAILABLE ABOUT PPD.

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Brian Bennett 2 years ago

Never have wanted to give birth and never did. Was a nurse in labor room Dr. overheard future father say " Come on honey it can't be that bad" Doctors reply was how would you like to pass a watermelon through your b******e! That shut the jerk up!

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Lisa Hearn 2 years ago (edited)

I developed an allergy and my hair changed colour when I had my first child, weird and scary stuff happens to our bodies when pregnant.

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Lalalaina 2 years ago

Unpopular opinion here, but giving birth isn't that bad. Yes, it hurts like a b***h for a few hours, or days, but then that's it. It's done. ...and would I do it again...probably...

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Carlotta Müller 2 years ago

Oh yes! I know why I would never never ever want to be pregnant. The foetus is having a fight inside of the human who carries it, a fight for resources, that's the reason one has a placenta. To protect the carrier. I do not want all the bad things that come with pregnancy and giving birth. I do not need a child. I do not want one.

0points

Napoleon dynamite 2 years ago

Nah probably a snake jumping out of the toilet and bitting you while you pee

0points

Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 2 years ago

As someone who has given birth twice: The thing about pregnancy and giving birth is that it can be everything from relatively easy to a life-threatening, life changing catastrophe, all outcomes are possible (I would know because I had one easy giving birth and one rather bad, but not that bad.) Even if giving birth goes easy-peasy, it will still be a bloody, painful hassle with interludes of total boredom. No need to panic but inform yourself and don't get to attached to your birthing plan. If you are financially able, get your butt to a doctor you trust and like, go there regularly during your pregnancy, give birth in a decent hospital (and take all the drugs they are willing to give you). Cut every bastard out of your life who gives you s**t about how you are supposed to give birth, breastfeed or just feel about your baby / new role as a mom. Kids are sometimes great, but definitely not all the time. Sometimes they are just a job you have to do.

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Angela Vezdos 2 years ago

I totally thought that was 4th degree tears - as is crying.

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Monilip 2 years ago

Gray matter lost in pregnancy comes back in less than you years after birth, you know,

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J H 2 years ago

Some birth stories can be really traumatic, it's true. But compared to being burned alive...? That's more about the mindset and medical experience of the person going into labor and thru birth than the process itself. It's really unfortunate how people only talk about the negative aspects of birth, and then those who do have good experiences or "easier" pregnancies or labor are told they didn't have a "real birth" or "real pregnancy". Not all births are traumatic or bad. Point blank period.

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Bron 2 years ago

2 of my 4 births were pretty much painless but I had done a lot of prep work to make it so (previous injury made this necessary)

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Turtle42 2 years ago

I have medical conditions that would cripple me if I were to get pregnant. I have no desire to ever go down that path. And I will never do so. I have to think of my own health. Or I wouldn't be able to think of others.

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Renita Fox 2 years ago

Amen !!!

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Rylee Evergreen 2 years ago

YES! I am EXPECTED to have children and marry, like hardcore I MUST do that, and it's like- I don't want to. I'm not mentally stable enough to have children (heavy chronic depression and anxiety) and I don't want to pass those genetics onto my kids. And yet I know that I'll probably end up with children anyway, just to satisfy my religion and culture and parents. It sucks so much and I really don't want to go through that. Like let me live my life. PLEASE.

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Tamra Stiffler 2 years ago

Rylee, the only person who gets to decide what to do with your life, should be you. I don't know your specific situation, or what country you're from, etc, but unless you believe in reincarnation, this is the only life you get. It should be 100% your own.

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Achmor 2 years ago

I just looked up those tears...yikes, the thought that could happen never crossed my mind.

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Fatima García Soto 2 years ago

Omg I shouldn't have Google it.. I am 3 months pregnant and my biggest fear of life is giving birth...

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Raven DeathShade 2 years ago

It's okay :). By the end of your pregnancy, it will get to the point where you don't care how it gets out, as long as it gets out.

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Tami 2 years ago

My sis in law was scared of giving birth, but she did fine. The one who freaked out was my brother! 🤣🤣🤣

3points

Sharron Lindsay 2 years ago

Don't worry you'll be fine. When you get closer to your due date you begin to feel differently. You just want to get it done and be with your baby. What you're feeling is perfectly normal. Good luck

1point

Wendy O'Shea 2 years ago

I had a 4th degree tear with my first child. She came into the world facing up. It was a fast labor and I only pushed once. SO, a lot of stitches later and good OB care, I was OK.

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Got Myself 4 Pandas 2 years ago

With all honesty it really isn't as bad as people make out - yes it's painful, but it's not constant, in between contractions you have a small time to gather yourself for the next one. You'll look back on it and remember that it sucked, but you won't focus on that - your focus will be that you met your baby finally - those 9 months are the longest of your life! I've done it 4 times, if it was truly that awful would I have done it more than once? Unlikely. My first born was 10lbs 10oz, was a bit of a shock! But even so she was born just fine and I didn't even require any stitches after - I've never needed stitches - there are some things you can do to prepare yourself for birth, just Google it and try not to listen to horror stories people love to scare folk with. Best thing is to go in with an open mind, not having a strict birth plan - things can be very different from expected. You will do great

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Masen Silas 2 years ago

LOTS of medication. Lol. I felt nothing, took a nap, had a baby 💁‍♂️

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Beeg Wang 2 years ago

You can have a C Section. As yet, biology and science hasn't caught up with intellectual justice parity between sexes. Women still have the womb. Overpopulation is the biggest threat to mankind though, so, adopt?

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Got Myself 4 Pandas 2 years ago

True. But they can understand better that pregnancy is very difficult and life changing in many ways - I'm not the same as before I had kids, in so many different ways. My ex-husband expected everything to be business as usual days after giving birth, in every way - it wasn't and he didn't give me any time at all to recover. That wasn't fair. Being supportive and understanding isn't that much to ask for is it?

3points

#30

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do It's mind blowing how many guys expect you to be a free therapist to them. Like, uh, I didn't sign up for this.

m0rbidowl , Hernán Piñera Report

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Scarlett 2 years ago (edited)

Off topic but related. Being the therapist friend to anyone isn’t fun. Try not to get yourself in that position. I was that friend all through middle school but when I looked for help myself, none came. I’ve rid myself of being that friend in high school but now I don tell anyone when I need help because I got so used to never getting any.

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#31

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That women should be physically smaller than men/petite/dainty/etc in order to be feminine

kitnic94 , Jonas Weckschmied Report

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Kelsey Lee 2 years ago (edited)

This one sucks. I'm 5'11" (f) and my partner is 5'5" (m). Why does everyone need to bring it up? The kick of it was when his mother said she was a good wife in part because she made her husband feel tall. I replied that I took her son to greater heights :p

22points

#32

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do So many men view you differently when ur unapologetically yourself. I’m loud and stand up for myself when I need to and men give you that ‘how dare you look’ and it just fills me with power.

Past-Outlandishness5 , LexScope Report

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Babette Venetianer Neil 2 years ago

I am not loud or rude, but I speak my mind and people go crazy. I have been told I really say what I am thinking. Why else would I speak?

12points

#33

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That we shouldn’t want/need rest while we are on our periods. Just because we have one every month for years doesn’t make it any less uncomfortable. I’m not saying mine is horrible every month but sometimes it hits me hard and it gets exhausting pretending like I’m not hurting.

buzzbombin , Tracey Hocking Report

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Ozacoter 2 years ago

Or that it does not hurt. I have broken bones, flew out of a golf car, fell donw stairs, recovered from two big surgeries. Nothing has been as painful as my top 5 periods.

22points

#34

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do We will do domestic labor

christine-fights , Josue Michel Report

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Donkey boi 2 years ago

You WILL! You absolutely will do domestic labour! If you're not willing to help out with the household chores, go live live on your own! It's not acceptable to expect one person to do it all. Everyone that lives in a property should share the housework.

15points

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#35

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Our focus is only his pleasure

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Sarcastic Cow 2 years ago (edited)

Ok, yes, but only if his focus is your pleasure.

16points

#36

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do We don’t like/ want sex as much as men. I personally have a much higher sex drive than my SO.

maya_mots , Womanizer Toys Report

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TheWeeb 2 years ago

Just ignore the troll. They've already got almost -700 points, don't give them the satisfaction of more.

10points

#37

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Providing free emotional labor.

tc88 , Heather Mount Report

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Mike Crow 2 years ago

Im sorry but what is emotional labor?

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#38

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That I'm gonna look good before bed. Like i dont sleep in makeup sorry

246K , charlesdeluvio Report

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Donkey boi 2 years ago

Guaranteed you look better going to bed than you do waking up!

2points

thin_white_dutchess , Michal Janek Report

#39

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Being expected to bend or compromise in a situation. Being the one to suck it up for the sake of everyone else.

Logical-Cranberry714 , Eric Ward Report

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Yeppers 2 years ago

Girl vs. Boy life success is measured differently. The trick is to not accept any other judgment than your own. This is YOUR life.

5points

#40

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do If you do have one child, you have to have another. You know, for reasons.

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Donna Clanclan 2 years ago

For the betterment of the childs perspective? It's wild having siblings and then making friends with someone who doesn't. Like, do you even know that feeling of 'I'm the only one allowed to murder this jerk.' ?

4points

#41

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Having children. When I tell people I don’t want kids, they always look at me like I’m crazy and then tell me I’m still young and I’ll change my mind

Queenielauren , Alex Pasarelu Report

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Swan 2 years ago

(it might not be much but) you're not crazy ; and I believe you (I believe you know your mind and don't want kids) !

19points

#42

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Men paying for dates/drinks

abv1401 , Artem Beliaikin Report

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MoMcB 2 years ago

I've always paid my way. Not because I'm a militant feminist, but because too many men think you owe them something if they pay.

20points

CosmicSirenMandi , Marco FrontSoldier Report

#43

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Putting up with any kind of abusive behaviour from their husband. Abuse isn’t just limited to your husband just beating the c**p out of you he could be emotional, mental, or verbal abuse! The same thing goes for women who just stay with a man because they want to be a happy family with their kids even though their husband is cheating on them constantly.

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35points

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Ꮋꭼꮮꮮꭺ-ꮪꮻꮜꭱꮯꭺɴꭰꭹ 2 years ago

not-so-nice-comment have a 🌸 instead

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#44

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That women over 50 can't wear skinny jeans or be trendy.

wavyheaded , Avie Huff Report

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Alexandra Nara 2 years ago (edited)

I wear whatever I want...Sometimes to get attention and sometimes to feel comfortable Sometimes I express moods or choose a certain functional clothing- and sometimes I' m just wearing anything cause being naked is illegal. None of anyones business

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#45

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That women are just dying to get married before 30.

wavyheaded , Samantha Gades Report

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Yeppers 2 years ago

This thread really has you triggered Clark.

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#46

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Having to push though feeling sick, tried, or in pain to get stuff done.

I have 3 chronic conditions (endometriosis, adenomyosis, and pelvic floor dysfuntion) and im being watched for a 4th (possibly lupus). Ive had to work while in pain, get up and go do housework despite being exhausted or having a migraine. Ive had people accuse me of faking my pain or exhaustion to get out of doing stuff. Bosses have made me break physical therapy orders and make my pelvic floor worse cause they refused to give me help.

LavenderSage013 , Abbie Bernet Report

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34points

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Ozacoter 2 years ago

This. Everybody treats you like you are just lazy and a liar. My in laws never seemed to believe me until i got so bad that i needed a disabilities scooter.

13points

lastseenhitchhiking , unsplash.com Report

#47

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Our lives and identities being structured around and based upon motherhood and relationships.

Final score:

32points

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#48

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That older women are automatically jealous of, and are competing with, younger women.

wavyheaded , Christian Langballe Report

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Jo Choto 2 years ago

When I see beautiful young women going about their lives, it makes me a bit nostalgic for times gone by, but I am in no way jealous. In fact, there is nothing you could offer me to have to go back and experience all the changes I've had to go through getting older. Except maybe if I can go back with all the knowledge I have now, so I don't have to suffer through it all again.

10points

#49

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do We're always competing with each other

christine-fights , Kurayba Report

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Isabella 2 years ago

This has nothing to do with society expectations!

4points

#50

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Shaving

leafypeep , Oz Seyrek Report

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Jo Choto 2 years ago

I have come across two gorgeous women in social media who choose not to shave and have what would be considered a normal amount of body hair for a mammal. Both have received death threats, actual death threats, from numerous men for "daring" to contravene some arbitrary standard of femininity.

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#51

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Being the "peacemaker" in a situation usually including men. Always disliked how women were seen as the "heart" of the family, the one keeping it all together. They want it to sound noble, but it sounds exhausting as hell and unfair. Like no one in a family can function without a woman doing the emotional labor.

I have been a woman of chaos for several moments in my life LOL, not a troublemaker (all the time) but one to stand up for myself in ways that are not expected. They assume I'll be a peacemaker because I am a woman. HAHA!

LetsBeReal24 , Rosie Sun Report

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29points

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#52

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Staying home and belonging in a kitchen

winterbaby26 , Caroline Attwood Report

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June 2 years ago

Kitchen has food 🤤

11points

#53

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That all women love sex and are "great" at it.

Alot of women hate sex and are not "great" at it.

lifesalotofs**t , Becca Tapert Report

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29points

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Ozacoter 2 years ago

I think that the double expectation is that women should not love sex and should not enjoy it. But at the same time they should not deny sex to men. Which is horrible.

8points

wavyheaded , Christina @ wocintechchat.com Report

#54

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That women over 40 have to cut their hair short, like up to their ears.

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29points

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Ozacoter 2 years ago

But younger women get s**t for having short hair.

12points

#55

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That women can't be genuine friends with each other.

wavyheaded , Priscilla Du Preez Report

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29points

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GaeFrog 2 years ago

yeah my friends and I always try to ruin each other's lives because we both think the other is prettier/s

13points

Altruistic-Swing2253 , Pâmela Lima Report

#56

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Being delicate and quiet = being lovable

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29points

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Swan 2 years ago

that doesn't even woooooooooork 😭

13points

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#57

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do The pressure to conform our bodies and our sexual behavior, in time consuming, ridiculous and even harmful ways, to whatever unrealistic standard is in style at the time.

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28points

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#58

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That we are expected to smile all the time to everyone for no reason at all. Men don’t do this, aren’t expected to and don’t get approached unsolicited from strangers in public with advice to “smile more.”

Ld862 , Lesly Juarez Report

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27points

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Luther von Wolfen 2 years ago

People see me not smiling and they start asking about my emotional state - "Everything okay?",. "You look upset. What's wrong?" I'm just standing here with a face - my emotions are none of your f'ing business.

6points

#59

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do I’m tired of having to be “nice” just because I’m a woman. Especially in the workplace where all the men are “allowed” to be jerks.

jenneschguet , Siora Photography Report

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27points

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Jo Choto 2 years ago

The good news is that "being nice" is something we have 100% control over.

3points

#60

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do The automatic assumption that a woman will take her husband's last name upon marriage

tearsofhunny , Drew Coffman Report

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25points

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Shanaaia 2 years ago (edited)

I know two men who took the name of their husband. But "normally" it's annoyingly common vice versa

6points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

#61

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Giving a c**p about social anything. Chatting like everyone else when in a new environment. Hosting dinners. Holiday parties. Sending gifts, reminders, thank you notes, etc.

There's being polite and then there's expectation. No thanks to expectation.

MikkiSticky , Lee Myungseong Report

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25points

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Summer Mason 2 years ago

My husband makes me write the cards cause I have prettier writing. However I suck at word play so he has to tell me what to say. Lol. It's a 50/50 when you get cards from us.

0points

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#62

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do The concept that women should work-outside the home and do most of the housework. The idea that a stay at home woman is less than a woman who works and has a home.

We went too far the other way with the whole women working concept.

Irishsetter14 , Dan Gold Report

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24points

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Ozacoter 2 years ago

Its the biggest lie of our society. Women got the responsibilities of men (need to get a degree, need to pay 50% and have a paid job) but nobody told men to start doing housechores. So we began to be expected to work 40h and be a housewife at the same time.

12points

#63

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Our appearance is for men. I couldn't care less what they think. I am who I am and they can suck it.

philosopherlogic , Gian Cescon Report

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24points

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Susie Elle 2 years ago

Watch me shove an entire office worth of supplies into the pouch of my hoodie and walk around like I'm a kangaroo

13points

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#64

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Anything that is expected of a woman just because she’s a woman.

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23points

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Margot Newton 2 years ago

This

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#65

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Any expectations for women to wear make-up, heels, skirts, etc. in order to “appear professional.”

Vienta1988 , Dane Deaner Report

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22points

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#66

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Not an expectation so much as a societal view: I think the lack of dignity given to jobs related to childcare and education, and the expectation that women who are serious and driven won’t work with children, is messed up.

My take is that raising the next generation of humans is extremely important work, and the only reason people don’t dignify it is BECAUSE it’s associated with women.

Instead of fixing that societal misperception and dignifying that work, people just avoid it (myself included; I ended up teaching/working with children as a last resort after avoiding it because I saw it as “womens work,” but I have found that I actually LOVE it).

ResponsibleFinance11 , FeeLoona Report

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21points

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Olivia Sorenson 2 years ago

YES YES YES YES YES

3points

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#67

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Having to be perfectly groomed all the time

aimeed72 , Valeriia Kogan Report

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21points

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Lousha 2 years ago

I visited Croatia once. We wanted to go on an excursion so we met at a bust stop at the edge of town around 4 in the morning. We girls looked like one would expect at such an ungodly hour, tired, puffy faces, comfy, baggy clothes. Then a bunch of local women arrived, all with PERFECT makeup, big hairdos, colour coordinated, very neat clothes, freshly manicured nails etc. They were beautiful , but I often think of them and feel it must be exhausting to be a Croatian woman.

1point

#68

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That we have to strive to be likable. False!

Oh, also that because we are women, we are drawn towards children and mothering them. I’ve never felt maternal towards any human child I’ve ever met.

_so_anyways_ , Christina @ wocintechchat.com Report

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19points

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lenka 2 years ago

Yes! I hate being told I should be "nice". Nice girls win. B******t. I will be polite and respectful but I dont have to be nice and I dont have to be likeabile.

5points

#69

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do ALL OF THEM!!!!

The ones I hate the most are: women shouldn't even want to be physically strong. F**k that, it sucks not being as strong as a guy, and I will go to the gym and lift weights.

Women are supposed to want to be sexy and find being objetified empowering. Or they have to be modest and prudish. I really hate that, can't I just be a normal human with sexual desires without having to either be prudish or overtly sexual

Women aren't supposed to really have hobbies or passions. I am into things women are really not supposed to be in: welding, magic, basketball and woodworking. I really hate that women aren't really supposed to have these interests and when we do it is simply because we are trying to impress men or some s**t.

Having to cook and clean to please men. I have no problem doing some cooking and cleaning, but I am not some guys maid.

Stargazer1186 , Sven Mieke Report

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19points

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K- THULU 2 years ago

People are people, regardless of sex, gender , race , any of that fkn sht. Be yourself, fk everyone. Be yourself and noone else, if the world doesn't like it... well fk them !!!

4points

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#70

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do To never care about a man's looks, only his heart or wallet. Looks aren't everything but for some reason women are expected to put sacrifice their sexual attraction to man just to get one.

ButterScotchMagic , Elizeu Dias Report

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17points

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Tuna Fish 2 years ago

What? no.

3points

#71

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Looking nice all the time. Sometimes I just wanna be in my bath robe and slippers. I shouldn't have to doll up all the time.

dictatemydew , Adrien VIN Report

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17points

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Paddling Panda 2 years ago

I sometimes walk my dog in my housecoat and flip flops. And I honestly don't give a f**k what anyone thinks. Though there is a special place in my heart when someone calls me The Dude

4points

#72

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do To be caring and nurturing. To bring cooked food and cakes to the office.

schwarzmalerin , NordWood Themes Report

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15points

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An Unpopular Opinion. 2 years ago

That's exactly who I want to be though- caring, helping people, and heck yeah am I going to bring cupcakes to work sometimes!!

2points

#73

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Asking men out...Apparently, that's too "forward" and you come off as "creepy" and "clingy" for asking a guy out, despite it being 2022. But then, men don't ask women out anymore.

What are we supposed to do? This makes bringing back arranged marriage in the Western World look better every single day.

mlo9109 , Priscilla Du Preez Report

Final score:

15points

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Swan 2 years ago

well lorraine did ask marty out for the ball and it was 1955 ! well she asked him to ask her to the prom but in the dub she flat out asks him 😁

5points

Simple_Employee_7094 , Kinga Cichewicz Report

#74

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That we are somehow better human beings than men, so should behave better than them.

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13points

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Atlas 2 years ago (edited)

I’ve always heard men were the superior gender, I never heard it vice versa

6points

#75

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Wearing stockings/tights at work.

yellodello1221 , Rikky_Satin Report

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13points

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setsuriseikou 2 years ago

Ooh, the bane of my existence through high school, uni and several years of an office job! I stopped putting on these wretched things quite some time ago, but the thought of not having to deal with them anymore makes me happy to this day!

2points

AccomplishedWing9 , Jason Briscoe Report

#76

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Cooking for a man

How come every time someone asks me about romantic relationships they bring up me cooking for a man?! If I learned how to cook, he can learn how to cook. There are too many resources to not know how.

Final score:

13points

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Lsai Aeon 2 years ago

I've had my son in the kitchen helping since he was 5, he's 14 now, and makes the absolute bestest pancakes ever

3points

#77

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do We must initiate everything. sex. talking about relationships. planning

christine-fights , Yolanda Suen Report

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12points

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El muerto 2 years ago

b******t. if something is the other way around.

3points

LezPlayLater , Barbora Polednová Report

#78

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Being tidy and organized. Not just at home, but even in office settings.

FreezingDrizzle , Volha Flaxeco Report

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12points

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#79

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do Shaving my legs. Thankfully my husband doesn't care or I wouldn't have married him. My chronic pain makes it difficult to shave and legs just say my first adventure in waxing went horribly

BakedTaterTits , Billie Report

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10points

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Robin DJW 2 years ago

I quit shaving decades ago when I was put on blood thinners for the rest of my life. One little nick and the tub looks like someone was dismembered in it.

2points

#80

This Thread Has Women Sharing 30 Outdated Things Society Expects Them To Do That exposing my ankles means I'm easy or not "in tact"

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5points

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Mercy Wanjiru 2 years ago

some people...think that ?! good Lord...

15points

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Ivana Bašić 2 years ago

I cut my hair from a longish Bob to a buzz cut. Everyone asked how my husband would feel about it, what if he preferred long hair. If he prefers long hair, he can grow his own!

21points

Novel Idesa 2 years ago

When I cut my hair short I remember a family member said "You know, men prefer long hair," and I said, "Well men should grown their hair long then." That shut them up.

11points

InvaderZim 2 years ago

Same here. I’ve had my parents be like “what if men think you’re a lesbian?” Bruh I’m ace anyway I don’t want a relationship

1point

Pepinie Tojetajne 2 years ago

Oh my, heard that too. Like if he can stand it he can shove in up his ...

1point

Yumiko 2 years ago

the future will look upon is and our time and think we were barbaric middle ages. what's the justification for paying women less than men again ?

18points

Immortal Emperor Paradox 2 years ago

The level of order determines the the amount of equality between the majority/stronger/oppressor group and the minority/weaker/oppressed group in a society/community. This may apply to almost all facets, like race, caste, sex, culture, ethnicity, etc. We've come a long way from when women were treated as objects, to chattels, to humans, although not absolutely. It's a given that the far future would be a much better place for everyone, including women. For our descendants, we would just be inferior, savage old farts.

1point

Eepe 2 years ago

Right?! I’d really like to know what people in 100 years will think. They’ll definitely wonder what we were thinking and allowing.

1point

Monilip 2 years ago

1) women work less hours 2) women take jobs paid less in the first place (for example: less dangerous ) 3) women don't ask for rise as much men (for different reasons)

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The Starsong Princess 2 years ago (edited)

Being called a Karen if you stand up for yourself or express any discontent. Send your undercooked chicken back in a restaurant? You’re a Karen. Want a company to honor their warranty? Karen. Expect a clerk to wait on you instead of the man who arrived after you? Karen. And on and on.

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Kristin Ingersoll 2 years ago

That's... not what "Karen" means - it's how you go about things. And the fact that you're that clueless means... you might want to take a look at how you complain.

4points

Si 2 years ago

Yep. The new misogynist surge, now that online shaming of brides, mothers, Instagram models has worn thin. Online shaming of women who’ve had plastic surgery or use filters still got some mileage tho.

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Gabby M 2 years ago

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Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

I'd like to publicly thank my mom, who managed to uninstall a lot of this in me before I even hit puberty, despite it being prevailing thinking of the time, and it being how she was raised.

10points

Viney24 2 years ago

this is one my sister got a lot... shaving. women are expected to shave their legs armpits and other parts that they should only shave if they want to

9points

Robert Thompson 2 years ago

I never understood this one. How has "hair" become ugly? Some covergirl stereotypes make sense to me, but not this one.

4points

MichiShmichi 2 years ago

Stop seeking approval. Life is so much easier. Trust me.

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Kensi 2 years ago (edited)

I got one too. I enjoy going to events (theatre for example) by myself (I am a woman) and for many men so far it has been like an invitation to come to me and (and I quote): "to keeping me company because I'm there alone". I never noticed it would happen to my male friend. I don't go there to meet men but simply to enjoy time there by myself.

6points

whodunnitfan2013 2 years ago

I was taught to be submissive to men growing up, and to always look pleasing to men. F**k that. I'm still recovering from my misogynistic upbringing.

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Enby.Minecraft.Bee. 2 years ago

If yall liked this yall should probably read the book "Cinderella is dead"

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Jo Choto 2 years ago

Almost all of these issues relate to how the woman is perceived by the man for doing/not doing a thing. Fact is, the second women stop wanting the approval and desire of men, they will stop caring about doing or not doing most of the things on this list. We have the power. We have the choice.

4points

Ashlie 2 years ago

Except when it comes to employment. The majority of higher management positions, boards of directors, etc. are held by men. Every time diversity is brought up, I get tepid agreement and then treated to a monologue about the need to hire quality candidates, as if hiring mostly white men meant that the company was hiring quality candidates.

6points

Purple Gerbil 2 years ago

Can I add babyshowers to this list? Yawn.

3points

whodunnitfan2013 2 years ago

Also, that all women want to and should get married. And that all women should only be wives and mothers.

2points

Tom 2 years ago

Some of these are just plain toxic. Preferring to be overweight rather than healthy is insane.

1point

Joyce Blodgett 1 year ago

The entirety of mankind/humankind is in for such a huge shock in the near future.

0points

Monica Pryts 2 years ago

Ok but the vagina is inside the body. Please don't try to shave it.

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Christoph 2 years ago

WHAT? Empower YOU! Be strong, wear "B***h" as a badge of honor. Do you. Have pepper spray. Carry on.

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Brian Bennett 2 years ago

Men and women should not CONTROL each other. If this is happening in your life - either male or female get the hell out of that relationship. There is a difference between give and take, some people can't or don't want to realize the difference! Control is just the start of future abuse. Get out while the gettin's good!

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Pepinie Tojetajne 2 years ago

Yeah, experienced lot of that. Sorry, not there for this. And I will let you know. 35 without childern and my hubby has hands. So stop your nonsence. And I have hairy legs :D

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Octavia Hansen 2 years ago

I sing in bars and clubs. When a man is interested in me, he thinks I'll quit this job. When I sing a love song, every man thinks I'm going home with him. Every man thinks I am just singing until I find a man to support me. That my singin/writing songs/recording albums and jingles is just something fun I do until I find "a real job."

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jonathan rasco 2 years ago

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Robert 2 years ago

So where's the thread about men? Expected to pay for women, protect them, be the breadwinner, not allowed to show emotion, supposed to drink beer, watch sports, be handy, it's always the man's fault a divorce happened, supposedly men always cheat, men are always child predators, the list goes on and on. Women think they have it bad but believe me, there's s**t on both sides

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Ally MacMann 2 years ago

I'm going to agree with you here (albeit not on every point). BP has had entire articles on toxic masculinity and there's lots to suggest that outdated stereotypes also harm men. Let's be clear - they don't harm men as much as women but suggesting there is a problem shouldn't be controversial!

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Pisco 2 years ago

Its in all the posts that feminists write about how sexism harms men. But misoginistic men like you hate those posts and pretend that they dont exist.

1point

Monica Pryts 2 years ago

Triggered!

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Tami 2 years ago

So true. Men have a lot of pressure on them. And women probably reject non-conforming men more than men reject non-conforming women. So that can make life extra frustrating for men.

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Steven 2 years ago

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Tamra Stiffler 2 years ago

Actually, it's the product of sexism and misogyny, but thanks for playing!

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jonathan rasco 2 years ago

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Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

I see. Complaining is narcissism now?

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Clark 2 years ago

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musical-trash 2 years ago

These are not complaints, they are issues. Real life issues. How would you feel if everything on this list happened to you?

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Clark 2 years ago

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Ivana Bašić 2 years ago

I cut my hair from a longish Bob to a buzz cut. Everyone asked how my husband would feel about it, what if he preferred long hair. If he prefers long hair, he can grow his own!

21points

Novel Idesa 2 years ago

When I cut my hair short I remember a family member said "You know, men prefer long hair," and I said, "Well men should grown their hair long then." That shut them up.

11points

InvaderZim 2 years ago

Same here. I’ve had my parents be like “what if men think you’re a lesbian?” Bruh I’m ace anyway I don’t want a relationship

1point

Pepinie Tojetajne 2 years ago

Oh my, heard that too. Like if he can stand it he can shove in up his ...

1point

Yumiko 2 years ago

the future will look upon is and our time and think we were barbaric middle ages. what's the justification for paying women less than men again ?

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Immortal Emperor Paradox 2 years ago

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Eepe 2 years ago

Right?! I’d really like to know what people in 100 years will think. They’ll definitely wonder what we were thinking and allowing.

1point

Monilip 2 years ago

1) women work less hours 2) women take jobs paid less in the first place (for example: less dangerous ) 3) women don't ask for rise as much men (for different reasons)

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jonathan rasco 2 years ago

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The Starsong Princess 2 years ago (edited)

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Kristin Ingersoll 2 years ago

That's... not what "Karen" means - it's how you go about things. And the fact that you're that clueless means... you might want to take a look at how you complain.

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Si 2 years ago

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Gabby M 2 years ago

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Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

I'd like to publicly thank my mom, who managed to uninstall a lot of this in me before I even hit puberty, despite it being prevailing thinking of the time, and it being how she was raised.

10points

Viney24 2 years ago

this is one my sister got a lot... shaving. women are expected to shave their legs armpits and other parts that they should only shave if they want to

9points

Robert Thompson 2 years ago

I never understood this one. How has "hair" become ugly? Some covergirl stereotypes make sense to me, but not this one.

4points

MichiShmichi 2 years ago

Stop seeking approval. Life is so much easier. Trust me.

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Kensi 2 years ago (edited)

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whodunnitfan2013 2 years ago

I was taught to be submissive to men growing up, and to always look pleasing to men. F**k that. I'm still recovering from my misogynistic upbringing.

4points

Enby.Minecraft.Bee. 2 years ago

If yall liked this yall should probably read the book "Cinderella is dead"

4points

Jo Choto 2 years ago

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Ashlie 2 years ago

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Purple Gerbil 2 years ago

Can I add babyshowers to this list? Yawn.

3points

whodunnitfan2013 2 years ago

Also, that all women want to and should get married. And that all women should only be wives and mothers.

2points

Tom 2 years ago

Some of these are just plain toxic. Preferring to be overweight rather than healthy is insane.

1point

Joyce Blodgett 1 year ago

The entirety of mankind/humankind is in for such a huge shock in the near future.

0points

Monica Pryts 2 years ago

Ok but the vagina is inside the body. Please don't try to shave it.

0points

Christoph 2 years ago

WHAT? Empower YOU! Be strong, wear "B***h" as a badge of honor. Do you. Have pepper spray. Carry on.

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Brian Bennett 2 years ago

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Pepinie Tojetajne 2 years ago

Yeah, experienced lot of that. Sorry, not there for this. And I will let you know. 35 without childern and my hubby has hands. So stop your nonsence. And I have hairy legs :D

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Octavia Hansen 2 years ago

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jonathan rasco 2 years ago

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Robert 2 years ago

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Ally MacMann 2 years ago

1point

Pisco 2 years ago

Its in all the posts that feminists write about how sexism harms men. But misoginistic men like you hate those posts and pretend that they dont exist.

1point

Monica Pryts 2 years ago

Triggered!

0points

Tami 2 years ago

So true. Men have a lot of pressure on them. And women probably reject non-conforming men more than men reject non-conforming women. So that can make life extra frustrating for men.

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Steven 2 years ago

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Tamra Stiffler 2 years ago

Actually, it's the product of sexism and misogyny, but thanks for playing!

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jonathan rasco 2 years ago

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El muerto 2 years ago

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Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

I see. Complaining is narcissism now?

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Clark 2 years ago

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musical-trash 2 years ago

These are not complaints, they are issues. Real life issues. How would you feel if everything on this list happened to you?

10points