Join the Fun!

It's Finally Happening

Final score:

285points

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Misterscooter 7 years ago

A legit and good 'Missed Connection' that plays out.

33points

Three Times Yes

Final score:

258points

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Donah Opande 7 years ago

Why aren't these cute ones at the top?!

32points

Too Little Too Late

Final score:

249points

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Stille20 7 years ago

That was a super polite reaction... though that was a pretty big miscalculation

114points

Debbie Andersson 7 years ago

Didn´t she know him enough to know he was taken tough??

18points

Ellis 7 years ago

If it’s Lagos, Nigeria, odds are he kept it a secret from many people

10points

Кonstantin 7 years ago

...so theres no time to waste!!!

9points

Tessa 7 years ago

I like the way you think

6points

Smoofy 7 years ago

Oh s**t

7points

Mhiller17 7 years ago

Exactly my reaction 😅

2points

Lady Lazarus 7 years ago

"Oh if you are busy next week, the week after is fine with me."

3points

Laily F. Noor 7 years ago

How about tomorrow?

3points

Wyndmere 7 years ago

The one that got away. -- She should of asked him out last year. Maybe she would be getting married next week too.

2points

7 years ago

Wow that's kind...I'm getting married next week

2points

Chris J. Ford 7 years ago

"The risk I took was calculated, but man am I bad at maths."

2points

Sara Jane 7 years ago

Damn, but at least she isn't living in hope for a married guy without knowing it !

2points

Charlotte Brine 7 years ago

Ooosh damn.

2points

sara dickson 6 years ago

are you suspecting your partner,i strongly recommend this website WALTERCYBERWIZARD

1point

Allana Rose 7 years ago

Whoops! A little too late for these two!

1point

KELSEY GOODEN 4 years ago

omg so dump you

0points

Random Child 5 years ago

S**t, that is horrible

0points

Random Child 5 years ago

S**t

0points

Moses Neutron 6 years ago

wamp wamp

0points

Moses Neutron 6 years ago

womp womp

0points

David Ross 7 years ago

Worth a try.

0points

Troy Currie 7 years ago

There were pauses between the last 4 responses...He probably thought about hitting it before the big day.

0points

Pippa Runs 7 years ago

😲

0points

Imperfekt 7 years ago

I just spit out cracker crumbs!!

0points

Susanna Vesna 7 years ago

Wow,..ouch

0points

Samantha Iza 7 years ago

Ouch

0points

Yenny Kartika 7 years ago

OMG.. too bitter and too sweet simultaneously..

0points

Mark Erwin 7 years ago

This made me aaahhhh in a sad way.

0points

Crane 7 years ago

Ah, that's gotta hurt.

0points

Susan Forbes 7 years ago

You snooze, you lose

0points

Nancy Peters 7 years ago

Lovely

0points

Gillian Black 7 years ago

ha ha bit hesitant there for a start was the one considering

0points

Oscar 7 years ago

Oh....

0points

Maggie Collins 7 years ago

At least he was honest.

0points

Karilee Schmeckpeper 7 years ago

Oops.

0points

Nora 7 years ago

Dang.. that's my fear all the way

0points

BoredBirgit 7 years ago

OMG this would bring me to bitter tears.

0points

Rebeca Suttle 7 years ago

ouch!

0points

christina murray 7 years ago

looooooooooool goddamn

0points

Isabel Tamayo 7 years ago

Wow, just wow. </3

0points

The Full Course

Final score:

224points

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Smoofy 7 years ago

Why are all the happy ones down here at the bottom of the list

17points

Ready To Spoil You

Final score:

205points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

Yay! I'm vicariously elated for complete strangers and I don't care! Vote up!!! :D

62points

Straight To The Point

Final score:

173points

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Steffen Beth 7 years ago

Damn..... Direct...

57points

Happy Ending

Final score:

169points

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Maureen Zappellini 7 years ago

I'm guessing this isn't a guy but another gal ( judging by the screen wallpaper) and the crush hasn't come out yet?

59points

Short And Simple

Final score:

154points

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Lillian Chesak 7 years ago

Cute and sweet!

17points

#10

Blocked

Final score:

150points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

What an arsehole, can't even be human enough to turn her down politely.

132points

#11

Wourld Lorve To

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134points

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lotte hoi 7 years ago

"Yurp" 😂

70points

#12

A Wholesome Man

Final score:

134points

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Stille20 7 years ago

Ha ha... I love his "oh, right... I don't want sex... just making sure you didn't" line.

56points

#13

Just To Be Clear

Final score:

107points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

what a weird response!

80points

#14

No Tengo Dinero

Final score:

83points

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Vítor Trevisan 7 years ago

Shes probably asking her husband, guys

96points

#15

Don't Mind If I Do

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82points

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Smoofy 7 years ago

YAY

17points

#16

Can't Stress That Enough

Final score:

76points

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Misterscooter 7 years ago

Wow, the person asking needs a pan to the head, I guess.

62points

#17

The Fun Part

Final score:

71points

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Tareyn Espich 7 years ago

omigod. I wish BoredPanda would have dirty-minded comics. :)

39points

#18

Thanks But No Thanks

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71points

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Dani Donovan 7 years ago

At least he was polite

51points

#19

Yeah Nah

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71points

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christina murray 7 years ago

"not particularly" i'm crying lmao

61points

#20

Right To The Point

Final score:

70points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

Great, but I hope he elaborated later.

11points

#21

Working For It

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65points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

geeze... talk about making her work for it!

58points

#22

But Why??

Final score:

59points

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Steffen Beth 7 years ago

Ouch.....

71points

#23

Can't Wait!

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59points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

Strange response, but at least he said yes.

19points

#24

New Phone

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57points

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Tareyn Espich 7 years ago

That's a little creepy.

41points

That's Most Likely A No

Final score:

55points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

I'm running out of disdainful epithets, I'll have to consult the Random Insult Generator: What an Atomic A*s Spasm!

90points

#26

I'd Rather Die

Final score:

47points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

why are these guys such jerks, it costs nothing to be polite

72points

#27

Yes Please!

Final score:

43points

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Christian Sanz 7 years ago

Sorry, what just happened here?

132points

#28

Sounds Fun

Final score:

40points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

I get the distinct feeling she just got Friend Zoned :(

100points

#29

Date Challenge Response

Final score:

36points

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BoredBirgit 7 years ago

May the question be "where is Kenosha" or "who is Kenosha"? 😁

59points

#30

Do Sharks Walk?

Final score:

33points

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Jess Harvie 7 years ago

Bit rude...

43points

#31

Up For Interpretation

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31points

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BoredBirgit 7 years ago

Wut?

25points

#32

A Movie, Maybe?

Final score:

31points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

:) nice

11points

Awkward Chat

Final score:

28points

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Alia Gail 7 years ago

lol that’s kind of awkward

15points

#34

Doesn't Look Too Good

Final score:

24points

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Var Vas 7 years ago

I hate replies with just a 'K'. wth

59points

#35

Never Ever

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24points

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Lillian Chesak 7 years ago

Harsh

45points

#36

Bounce Away Now

Final score:

8points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

what a d**k

46points

#37

Ew No

Final score:

6points

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Jess Harvie 7 years ago

This could seriously hurt that girl. Fine if you want to say no, but say it nicely

124points

#38

Date Challenge Response

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4points

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Smoofy 7 years ago

wow all these people are being jerks, I mean some are nicely rejecting but...

49points

#39

That Requires An Explanation

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2points

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AutumnNies 7 years ago

'calm' what lmao

31points

#40

Why Not

Final score:

1point

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Neeraj Jha 7 years ago

100% battery!

20points

Datechallenge Responses

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-15points

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CelSlade 7 years ago

Witless Turd Gremlin

22points

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Datechallenge Responses

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CelSlade 7 years ago

Rusty Wiener Fungus

23points

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Datechallenge Responses

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Sivi 7 years ago

I wonder what this.. accident was about.

20points

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Datechallenge Responses

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Smoofy 7 years ago

Jeez

29points

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#45

Datechallenge Responses

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Dani Donovan 7 years ago

Ugghhh awful

27points

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Patrick Lopez 7 years ago

There are a lot of people making assumption about these guys being jerks in their answers, without knowing any of the history of the people involved. We have no idea if the person who sent the message is a creepy stalker type, a crazy ex, etc. Maybe the person who received the message REEEEEAAAALLY hates the sender, and has made it obvious in the past. Maybe the person receiving the message is actually homosexual, and out and open about it. There's just not enough context.

35points

Taryn Wallace 7 years ago

I was thinking the same thing. For all we know these people could be really good friends, they could have had a terrible falling out, they could be married to each other for all we know. I know if I asked my bf on a date he'd probably say something like "ewww hell no not with you" and we have been together for 8 1/2 years so I don't think there's a need for all these pissy comments. Some people are s****y but you never know.

14points

James Cale 7 years ago

Literally just what I was going to say, people are forgetting the pre-context of the existing relationship between these people... Maybe things weren't so great. Maybe she shut him down hard or has been know to string him along in the past. How did she pick who to ask, was it a random from her past or someone with a connection.

4points

Janice Foster 7 years ago

If they were that bad, surely you'd block them before it got to the point where you felt frustrated enough to respond in such a way. Even if you don't respect them, surely you can respect yourself and act like a decent human being.

2points

Claire Kidd 7 years ago

They can't all be creepy stalkers/homosexuals. There are way too many jerky responses for that to be the case. I would never be mean to someone who asked me out because I know how scary that can be. It's just not nice.

2points

anarkzie 7 years ago

I'm guessing(hoping) that more than a few of them are fake

1point

Spencer Reilly 7 years ago

This is true. I had an absolutely beautiful girl (way out of my league) that I would avoid like the plague. She wouldn't say anything, just creepily stare. When I politely asked her not to do it, she got all kinds of pissed off...ain't nobody got time for that.

0points

christina murray 7 years ago

lol some of these were harsh as hell but f**k it, i've curved people just as hard. can't have a double standard.

14points

Gigi 7 years ago

Ouch. I asked a guy out once and he laughed at me. Hard. I never asked another guy.

12points

Richard Strong 7 years ago

Yeah? Welcome to the club.

1point

Kara Witham 7 years ago

I love the yes ones that seem like they were hoping to be asked but too shy do make the first move.

7points

Leoninus Fate 7 years ago

lot of people are a******s here how many of them women do you think will actually go out with the person, like 3 of them said they had no one else to ask plus why is it so bad for a male to turn down a female but the other way its ok? I'm a gay male, I got a lot of girls that "crush on me" if one asked me on a date I would say no, and a lot of them are just friends some have had me go on dates with them and have tried to "make me straight" by forcing them selfs at me does that mean IM the bad guy for the next time That person wants to ask me on a date? I had this one girl she was my best friend, BEFORE I came out, she hung off me, but she was always trying to get me to touch her, it ended up with a restraing order, and I stil got random texts from her, WAS I THE BAD GUY to be rude and block her like so many people said was "wrong " for guys on here? how many of those girls with a crush, might have msg the person a ton of times before this post was the last straw and blocked them?

6points

Jas Faulkner 7 years ago

That's such a shame. I've asked male friends out for coffee, lunch, etc. It's not always about romance. I've had more than few conversations that go this way: Me: Let's go get some coffee and talk. Him: I'm Gay. Me: I know. I just want to dish about show/movie/singer/whatever we've talked about before that we both like.

0points

Allana Rose 7 years ago

I think it's good that these girls took the risk like guys are always expected to do. Give you a little taste of scary it can be and maybe next time you turn a guy down, you will go easy on him instead of acting like a b***h. Some girls can be so cruel to a poor guy just cause he isnt her "taste" or whatever.

3points

Celeste Spaniel 7 years ago

I originally got rejected by the man who has now my been my fiancé for eight years! :P

3points

anarkzie 7 years ago

I'm guessing that a lot of these are already established relationships.

3points

BREAK YOUr perceptions 7 years ago

the hell man. some of these dudes have no chill/ no manners. i feel like we should give props to the guys who let them down easy. but really that should be the standard not the superlative.

3points

Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago

I feel sorry for all those who were into jerks and had courage to ask those jerks out. Many of the answers are just rude and at least now those who asked know.

2points

NoAssumedName 7 years ago

There can't be so much a******s that talk like that with a woman...or there's some story behind (they're still a******s thou) or I call those it fake

1point

NoAssumedName 7 years ago

*so many

0points

Dani Donovan 7 years ago

I’d rather be rejected in a text than they say yes then stand me up. Had it happen back in the day and it sucked.

1point

Weiyin Wu 4 years ago

yeet

0points

lee cook 4 years ago

I think I want girl's phone number to help me cut off my d**k for her to call me9804295689

0points

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Yurp is one of the most powerful sentences i have heard in my entire existance

0points

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Ava_Xoxo 1234 6 years ago

I thought that a lot of them were rude…Like I would never be so rude don’t get me wrong some of them are nice but these mean guys are a*s holes

0points

Juanita Thomas 7 years ago

LOL

0points

Fay Baker 7 years ago

People are disgusting.

0points

g90814 7 years ago

Best response: K

0points

Leon Wagner 7 years ago

Title: "Women Are Sharing The Responses They Got After Asking Out Their Crush On A Date" should be "crushes" unless all these women were crushing on the same person.

0points

Amanda Nebel 7 years ago

Everyone talks about women friendzoning guys, but I am a woman who has been friendzoned by two separate guys. I was honestly starting to worry that these were all gonna be sappy yesses.

0points

Moise Cummings 7 years ago

I'd like to know the context of some of these relationships. Some of the responses seemed mean and uncalled for, but they also could have had a history as well and the woman was clueless and underestimated the hard feelings.

0points

Axel Santos 7 years ago

I would like to know what would happen if these stories were the opposites... us asking girls on a date :)

0points

Alexandru Sfirlogea 7 years ago

It'd be all NOs, these people don't seem to know about each other, they're crushes, not friends, and the guys are either joking, being real or it's all rigged for clicks.

0points

Aaaa Bbbb 7 years ago

Good post! More validation of my conviction that if I ever end up single, I'm just going to accept it and not make a fool of myself.

0points

Maria Morrill 7 years ago

Personally, i finally got the courage to do the same thing stateside and was blown away with the positive results....we have all gotten to cautious cause folks are basically too mean overall with all the social media out there and the ability to crucify.........stop the insanity and apply golden rule....take the harsh truth of live living and the pursuit of happiness.....if the other person is harsh it may be for a totally benign reason....don't read into it too much and just smile that you had the courage to put yourself out there. you never know the future and take the good with the bad. this from someone who just hibernated for four years after a really bad divorce and then out of the blue met someone very casually and just talked for a few weeks and then just took a gift basket upstairs.....ordered a friday night pizza, can't go wrong with that and said, hey you wanna share a pizza......and i am 63 and thought nothing could go right but even if it had gone wrong i still smile.

0points

Ketty Joseph 7 years ago

I told my crush to take me out and he said " what have you ever done for me to take you out". No hard feeling now. However at the time, the ground swolled me whole. Guess people can be mean, but you don't have to take it on. Also, I don't think I will be asking a guy to take me on a date any time soon...

0points

anarkzie 7 years ago

I got asked out by the hottest girl in my class when I was about 15, the idea that she would want to show me any genuine interest was so far beyond my comprehension that I turned her down, I just could not work out her angle. insecurities can play games with your head and make you a d**k in some cases.

0points

Pol Macqueron 7 years ago

Well, it's high time girls ask for dates and not just wait for guys to do so. Because you know... sex equality. And some guys being shy. Sometimes it will work, some other it will burn. But that's what we, men, are actually going through. So that feels actually right that women go through it as well

0points

Jessica Stohr 7 years ago

Well now I'm thinking about my crush who I will not ask out anytime soon because I would surely be friend zoned! >~< (But at least I can be his friend! :))

0points

Handsome Otter 7 years ago

Never know till you try!

2points

Maggie Collins 7 years ago

I would like to learn about the people this way. Some of these guys I would not like to be in a relationship with, EVER! Just from one sentence!

0points

Anna Secoria 7 years ago

Most of these are completely fake.

0points

Min Lee 7 years ago

Humans are sexual beings

0points

Tomás Lacerda 7 years ago

Fakes.

0points

Hugo Raible 7 years ago

Shows how easy it is for women to get a date. Do the same with men... sad Bored Panda article resulting.

-1point

Ordinary Tree 7 years ago

about half of these are rejections m8. And dates dont guarantee anything

2points

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Patrick Lopez 7 years ago

35points

Taryn Wallace 7 years ago

14points

James Cale 7 years ago

4points

Janice Foster 7 years ago

2points

Claire Kidd 7 years ago

2points

anarkzie 7 years ago

I'm guessing(hoping) that more than a few of them are fake

1point

Spencer Reilly 7 years ago

0points

christina murray 7 years ago

lol some of these were harsh as hell but f**k it, i've curved people just as hard. can't have a double standard.

14points

Gigi 7 years ago

Ouch. I asked a guy out once and he laughed at me. Hard. I never asked another guy.

12points

Richard Strong 7 years ago

Yeah? Welcome to the club.

1point

Kara Witham 7 years ago

I love the yes ones that seem like they were hoping to be asked but too shy do make the first move.

7points

Leoninus Fate 7 years ago

6points

Jas Faulkner 7 years ago

0points

Allana Rose 7 years ago

3points

Celeste Spaniel 7 years ago

I originally got rejected by the man who has now my been my fiancé for eight years! :P

3points

anarkzie 7 years ago

I'm guessing that a lot of these are already established relationships.

3points

BREAK YOUr perceptions 7 years ago

the hell man. some of these dudes have no chill/ no manners. i feel like we should give props to the guys who let them down easy. but really that should be the standard not the superlative.

3points

Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago

I feel sorry for all those who were into jerks and had courage to ask those jerks out. Many of the answers are just rude and at least now those who asked know.

2points

NoAssumedName 7 years ago

There can't be so much a******s that talk like that with a woman...or there's some story behind (they're still a******s thou) or I call those it fake

1point

NoAssumedName 7 years ago

*so many

0points

Dani Donovan 7 years ago

I’d rather be rejected in a text than they say yes then stand me up. Had it happen back in the day and it sucked.

1point

Weiyin Wu 4 years ago

yeet

0points

lee cook 4 years ago

I think I want girl's phone number to help me cut off my d**k for her to call me9804295689

0points

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0points

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0points

Ava_Xoxo 1234 6 years ago

I thought that a lot of them were rude…Like I would never be so rude don’t get me wrong some of them are nice but these mean guys are a*s holes

0points

Juanita Thomas 7 years ago

LOL

0points

Fay Baker 7 years ago

People are disgusting.

0points

g90814 7 years ago

Best response: K

0points

Leon Wagner 7 years ago

Title: "Women Are Sharing The Responses They Got After Asking Out Their Crush On A Date" should be "crushes" unless all these women were crushing on the same person.

0points

Amanda Nebel 7 years ago

Everyone talks about women friendzoning guys, but I am a woman who has been friendzoned by two separate guys. I was honestly starting to worry that these were all gonna be sappy yesses.

0points

Moise Cummings 7 years ago

0points

Axel Santos 7 years ago

I would like to know what would happen if these stories were the opposites... us asking girls on a date :)

0points

Alexandru Sfirlogea 7 years ago

It'd be all NOs, these people don't seem to know about each other, they're crushes, not friends, and the guys are either joking, being real or it's all rigged for clicks.

0points

Aaaa Bbbb 7 years ago

Good post! More validation of my conviction that if I ever end up single, I'm just going to accept it and not make a fool of myself.

0points

Maria Morrill 7 years ago

0points

Ketty Joseph 7 years ago

0points

anarkzie 7 years ago

0points

Pol Macqueron 7 years ago

0points

Jessica Stohr 7 years ago

Well now I'm thinking about my crush who I will not ask out anytime soon because I would surely be friend zoned! >~< (But at least I can be his friend! :))

0points

Handsome Otter 7 years ago

Never know till you try!

2points