There are a lot of people making assumption about these guys being jerks in their answers, without knowing any of the history of the people involved. We have no idea if the person who sent the message is a creepy stalker type, a crazy ex, etc. Maybe the person who received the message REEEEEAAAALLY hates the sender, and has made it obvious in the past. Maybe the person receiving the message is actually homosexual, and out and open about it. There's just not enough context.

Ouch. I asked a guy out once and he laughed at me. Hard. I never asked another guy.

lot of people are a******s here how many of them women do you think will actually go out with the person, like 3 of them said they had no one else to ask plus why is it so bad for a male to turn down a female but the other way its ok? I'm a gay male, I got a lot of girls that "crush on me" if one asked me on a date I would say no, and a lot of them are just friends some have had me go on dates with them and have tried to "make me straight" by forcing them selfs at me does that mean IM the bad guy for the next time That person wants to ask me on a date? I had this one girl she was my best friend, BEFORE I came out, she hung off me, but she was always trying to get me to touch her, it ended up with a restraing order, and I stil got random texts from her, WAS I THE BAD GUY to be rude and block her like so many people said was "wrong " for guys on here? how many of those girls with a crush, might have msg the person a ton of times before this post was the last straw and blocked them?

I originally got rejected by the man who has now my been my fiancé for eight years! :P

the hell man. some of these dudes have no chill/ no manners. i feel like we should give props to the guys who let them down easy. but really that should be the standard not the superlative.

There can't be so much a******s that talk like that with a woman...or there's some story behind (they're still a******s thou) or I call those it fake