New technologies have always been scary. Mostly because people prefer the familiar and technological advancements bring unexpected changes into the world they worked so hard to adjust to. So it’s not surprising that some individuals reject innovations or take longer to adapt to them. Especially the older folks, whose declining cognitive and motor skills are making it even harder to keep up with modern devices.
Luckily, this doesn’t stop them from trying, often resulting in quite a few funny blunders and mishaps. Bored Panda has compiled a whole list of texting fails, hoping that it serves as a reminder to message your elders and encourage them to use technology more often. After all, practice does make perfect!
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I Found An Old Screenshot From The First Time My Grandma Messaged Me. I Love Her
Thabks Dad
Dammit Facebook!
My grandmother did something similar once, but in whatsapp XD
It’s true that more and more people over 60 are embracing modern technology (just look at these awesome folks on this list!). 2023 statistics reveal that 80% of people over 65 own a smartphone, while in 2020, it was found that 55% of elders over 75 use the internet.
There’s also been a rise in seniors who use tablets and social media platforms. 43% of adults over 50 report getting social daily, with their most preferred way to do so being Facebook.
Text To Speech Problems
Woke Up This Morning With A Text From Grandma
However, despite this, the digital divide between generations still remains quite wide. Many aging individuals struggle with modern devices because they aren’t quite as senior-friendly yet.
Tiny buttons, cluttered screens, and quickly disappearing message notifications often make older adults let their hands down. In fact, 64% of people over the age of 50 believe that technology isn’t designed with their specific age group in mind.
With age, a lot of adults experience a decline in brain functions like memory, attention, and processing speed. This can make learning to use modern devices more difficult, especially when they come across unfamiliar concepts and a constant flow of notifications and information. Their loss of vision, hearing, and fine motor skills also add to the difficulty of trying to grasp new technologies.
However, it’s important to not give up when faced with these challenges, as older adults who don’t know how to use technology can feel isolated and disconnected. They might miss out on calls with family or online communities that can provide them with a sense of belonging. This can further lead to loneliness, depression, and issues with physical health.
A Friend Posted This
Grandma
The elderly who struggle with modern devices may also miss out on various opportunities like online learning, entertainment, shopping and so much more. This can hinder their personal growth and disconnect them from the world around them. They might also start losing their independence as many everyday tasks, from banking to appointments, now rely on digital devices.
Coward
Congrats
In addition, the inability to use modern tools may pose safety risks. If they can’t navigate online sources, they might miss important safety alerts, struggle to reach out in an emergency, or be more vulnerable to scammer attacks.
On the contrary, mastering technology helps older people to ensure their safety, keep in touch with family and friends, stay informed on the latest news, and even improve mental and physical well-being. Various games on phones and tablets can improve memory and cognition skills, while health applications in combination with smartwatches remind elders to move around every hour and record various important health metrics like heart rate, calorie intake, and sleep patterns.
Man's Mother Likes To Use The Microphone Function Rather Than Typing To Text While Driving
My Grandma Learns To Text
Thanks
To make the transition easier, older people may need help from their loved ones. The younger folks might start introducing them to technology by explaining the basics, like what apps and social media platforms are and where they can find the essentials, such as the phone book, messages, and camera. They might understand better if these concepts are compared to things they already know and use. For instance, the web page address can be comparable to a street address.
Grandma Said She Was In The Middle Of The Atlantic Late Last Night With No Extra Explanation
I Don't Know Grandma
During this, it’s important to be slow and patient and allow them to figure things out for themselves. Assure them that they aren’t going to break anything, as a lot of older people might be worried about it. While you’re at it, make sure to explain why technological literacy is important and how they can benefit from it. Don’t forget to repeat everything often and use simple language—terms like selfies or emojis might not be a part of their daily conversations yet.
Can The iPad If He Uses This iPhone?
From commenter on the original post: My guess is... The iPad returned a phone call, and the screen looked like the iPhone screen when it did. Now they can't get the phone screen back and want to know if the iPad can be used like an iPhone? Maybe? Is what they think happened?
This is the kind of error report I get from my parents about 5 times a day. "I pressed the thing and now it won't ring like it used to, there's an American voice and it says words, how do I fix it?"
Sent This To My Dad A Couple Of Years Ago. Still Makes Me Laugh
Thanks Ma
Perhaps the most crucial part in all of this is teaching them about internet safety. Help them set up secure passwords and warn them not to send sensitive information to anyone they don’t know. Educate them on all the ways scammers may try to deceive them and why it’s vital not to click on suspicious links. If they need it, write everything down!
Excellent Work
Yes I'm sure this will be at the top of the Attorney General's list of things to investigate.
Another challenge that elders might face is texting, as small keyboards on phones can be hard to master. First, try downloading a custom keyboard with bigger buttons and enlarging the size of the text as much as they require. Then comes practice. You might ask them to message you every day and give texting assignments, like writing how their day has been or what they did throughout it. With practice and help from their loved ones, elders should master technologies in no time. Oh, and make sure to explain emojis and slang so no awkward blunders happen!
“Go To Bed”
My Grandma
I am always amused when younger folks (aka folx) assume I am a Luddite in regards to technology. I am 74, IT reported to me for 3/4 of my career. I got my first computer (desktop) with a massive 64k RAM in the early 80s. I was the corporate beta tester. I was an early adopter. So early I don't have a number after my name in my ( what for it) Prodigy.net email address.
My parents are in their early 70's. Although neither ever had to work with computers, or had anything to do with IT, they are completely tec savvy. I am dyslexic, and my father was convinced computing was the way to go. In the same way he insisted I ought to have a decent idea of how a car works to be a driver, he sat with me for hours while we both learnt how computers do what they do. He retired as Tec was really taking off, as I was at that time focused on my career, he had time to keep up with all the changes. As he and my mother aged, so eyesight issues and struggles with short term memory, he has used technology to ease life. When my husband asks for DIY advice, my dad sends him YouTube links, then says zoom me while you do it. He is the streets go to IT guy. I'm just irritated he still finds it amusing to come to our house and turn his phone in to a remote for our TV because he can. Grrrrr. His grandchildren come to him for help.
Load More Replies...I've said this a few days ago and I'll say it again; if you have someone like this in your family VISIT THEM and warn them about scammers. These fücking Pajeets have no shame or soul. I've heard recordings of them trying to take the last 500$ from someone (pretending to be a victim) which he said was for medicine. These people are horrible. WARN THEM. Lots of YouTube channels are actively taking them down too, just looking for those through Google would convince the algorithm to give them more views, but who ever has the opportunity to support those channels please do so. They're doing important work
I am an older senior (F75). One of the huge issues for older people is eyesight. Yes technology is hard. But many people do not / cannot wear the proper glasses. Lots of times I’’m with somewhat younger people (50s or 60s) and I’m the only one who can read the small print. Like on a label. Why!?! Because I’m wearing old lady bifocals.
There is some print I'm convinced absolutely nobody could read, like ingredients on small packets. Some text is so small it's clearly just there to satisfy the law, not to actually assist buyers. I also have to take a picture and zoom in and I wear bifocals
Load More Replies...EN-US in brackets. I had a gran who text messaged (SMS) me to my landline instead of my mobile (cell). The service would then call me and a bad -then- text to speech service would read out the message. It took a while and several topics..It took years to get her to send them to the correct number.
I took my landline number out of my dad's mobile phone for this reason but I wrote it down and taped it inside a kitchen cupboard door in case he ever actually needed it
Load More Replies...When mobile phones first had voice mail, you would talk into the phone and would receive a text with the message. When texting became popular, my dad - god bless him - would speak his message and press reply. So many blank texts!
I am equally relieved and disappointed that none of my grandparents and neither of my parents lived long enough to see a lot of today's technology. Enjoy 'em while you have, 'em Pandas.
Now I'm laughing, but 30 years from now, this will be me 😆 I just hope I will do no serious harm
I am always amused when younger folks (aka folx) assume I am a Luddite in regards to technology. I am 74, IT reported to me for 3/4 of my career. I got my first computer (desktop) with a massive 64k RAM in the early 80s. I was the corporate beta tester. I was an early adopter. So early I don't have a number after my name in my ( what for it) Prodigy.net email address.
My parents are in their early 70's. Although neither ever had to work with computers, or had anything to do with IT, they are completely tec savvy. I am dyslexic, and my father was convinced computing was the way to go. In the same way he insisted I ought to have a decent idea of how a car works to be a driver, he sat with me for hours while we both learnt how computers do what they do. He retired as Tec was really taking off, as I was at that time focused on my career, he had time to keep up with all the changes. As he and my mother aged, so eyesight issues and struggles with short term memory, he has used technology to ease life. When my husband asks for DIY advice, my dad sends him YouTube links, then says zoom me while you do it. He is the streets go to IT guy. I'm just irritated he still finds it amusing to come to our house and turn his phone in to a remote for our TV because he can. Grrrrr. His grandchildren come to him for help.
Load More Replies...I've said this a few days ago and I'll say it again; if you have someone like this in your family VISIT THEM and warn them about scammers. These fücking Pajeets have no shame or soul. I've heard recordings of them trying to take the last 500$ from someone (pretending to be a victim) which he said was for medicine. These people are horrible. WARN THEM. Lots of YouTube channels are actively taking them down too, just looking for those through Google would convince the algorithm to give them more views, but who ever has the opportunity to support those channels please do so. They're doing important work
I am an older senior (F75). One of the huge issues for older people is eyesight. Yes technology is hard. But many people do not / cannot wear the proper glasses. Lots of times I’’m with somewhat younger people (50s or 60s) and I’m the only one who can read the small print. Like on a label. Why!?! Because I’m wearing old lady bifocals.
There is some print I'm convinced absolutely nobody could read, like ingredients on small packets. Some text is so small it's clearly just there to satisfy the law, not to actually assist buyers. I also have to take a picture and zoom in and I wear bifocals
Load More Replies...EN-US in brackets. I had a gran who text messaged (SMS) me to my landline instead of my mobile (cell). The service would then call me and a bad -then- text to speech service would read out the message. It took a while and several topics..It took years to get her to send them to the correct number.
I took my landline number out of my dad's mobile phone for this reason but I wrote it down and taped it inside a kitchen cupboard door in case he ever actually needed it
Load More Replies...When mobile phones first had voice mail, you would talk into the phone and would receive a text with the message. When texting became popular, my dad - god bless him - would speak his message and press reply. So many blank texts!
I am equally relieved and disappointed that none of my grandparents and neither of my parents lived long enough to see a lot of today's technology. Enjoy 'em while you have, 'em Pandas.
Now I'm laughing, but 30 years from now, this will be me 😆 I just hope I will do no serious harm