Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared

“Should anyone present know of any reason that this couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold your peace…”

Not all wedding ceremonies include an opportunity for guests to object, but when they do, it's usually because the couple is confident that everyone present supports the union. Occasionally, however, all hell breaks loose when the officiant utters this phrase…

One curious Reddit user recently asked people to detail times guest objected to couples tying the knot, and readers flooded the replies with a variety of scandalous stories of weddings gone wrong. Enjoy reading these wild tales, as well as conversations we had with Jack Burns, Editor at Bespoke Bride, and Kathy and Danielle, Editors at The Wedding Playbook, and be sure to upvote the stories that you would have paid money to witness!

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I wanted to pay a local actor to burst in into my wedding, shout "I object! I love the bride!" and then we each pull swords and sword fight up and down the aisle. In the end I would win and the ceremony would wrap up as planned.

My wife did not think this idea was awesome so we just had a regular wedding instead.

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Ripley 1 year ago

That sounds like a whole world of missed opportunity there!

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I had a friend who was a minister, and the subject came up if he asked the question during ceremonies he officiated. He laughed and said no way. He basically tells the couple not to include it because it only invites a moment of anxiety at best, misery at worst.

His best story (and one of the reasons he stopped including the question) was a couple where the lead up to the wedding the couple was obviously in love. The bride to be was very smiley and happy. Day of the wedding she’s stone faced. He knows something is up because he’s never seen her like this and he asks if she is ok. “I’m fine.”

Right before the service he asks again. “I’m fine.”

He gets to the question, “Does anyone object to this union?”

The bride reaches over, grabs the maid of honor, shoves her into the bride’s spot and says, “You’re screwing him, you marry him.” And then stormed out of the church.

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Loverboy 1 year ago

I can't imagine being so low down, so disgusting, so f*****g terrible to f**k someone that is very likely very close to the bride/groom. Vice versa for whoever they're f*****g.

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To gain more insight on this scandalous topic, we reached out to the experts at Bespoke Bride, and lucky for us, Editor Jack Burns was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda. First, we wanted to know if anyone from the Bespoke Bride team had ever been in attendance when a wedding was halted due to an objection. “None of us have been to a scandalous wedding where this happened, but we have heard a few stories where it did,” Jack said.

“One story that we remember was about a city wedding in London, where just as the couple exchanged their heartfelt vows, a hushed murmur swept through the crowd. A figure, dressed in a flamboyant suit, burst through the entrance, drawing everyone's attention,” he continued. “It was a long-lost friend of the groom, known for his outrageous and unpredictable behavior. The friend's voice boomed through the room, as he declared something like, ‘Stop this wedding! You can't marry her!’”

Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared Not quite the question as asked, but too funny to not share:

Priest: "Any objections?"

Father of the bride: _lets out the hardest, loudest, most complex-sounding sneeze I've ever heard in my life, completely with involuntarily saying "ACHOOOOOO"_

Mother of the bride, hammered on champagne: "For f**k's sake, Jerry!"

It took a good five minutes for everyone to regain their composure.

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Take me to dinner first 1 year ago

Lol that's exactly what a dad is supposed to do

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My cat was my best man and when our friend who ordained our wedding asked if there were any objections he let out a long a*s meow

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Labellesouris 1 year ago

Hmmmmm....animals are fantastic judges of character. I might have actually listened to this one!!

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“He continued to tell how he loved the bride and how they shared some secret moments in the past,” Jack went on to explain. “The room erupted into a flurry of whispers and murmurs, as guests turned to one another, shocked by the drama. The bride, tears streaming down her face, stood frozen. But then the groom stepped forward and said something like, ‘This is not the time nor the place for such declarations. You had your chance, and you let it slip away.’ The officiant, trying to restore order, intervened and asked the rude friend to leave. Reluctantly, he complied. The ceremony resumed, but the shadow of the objection lingered over the celebration.”

Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I was not at the wedding, but know of a case where there was an objection, and the circumstances were quite exceptional.

When I was a detective with the Child Protection and Sexual Offences Unit, we dealt with a case involving a 14-year-old girl who had been raped by a known adult male. The first disclosure of the rape was made by her AT HIS WEDDING CEREMONY, which she attended uninvited. When the pastor asked if there were objections, she rose and said yes, she had an objection; the groom had raped her a week before. The pastor stopped proceedings and took the child to an adjacent office, where she repeated the allegation and gave more information.

Shockingly, the bride was still willing to go through with the ceremony, which was concluded while the girl waited in the office. Afterwards, the pastor took her to the local police station (Bellville South in Cape Town, South Africa), where a case was opened and the matter assigned to my unit for investigation.

We carried out the arrest at the V & A Waterfront, Cape Town the next evening (Sunday), where the groom and his friends were partying it up. The bride, of course, was left home alone, one day after the wedding.

I was blown away by the courage it took for the girl to attend the wedding ceremony alone, surrounded by the friends and family of the perpetrator, and to make the disclosure to his face in the way she did.

For those wondering how she knew so much about him and when he would be getting married; he lived in close proximity to the girl's family in Bellville South and the two families knew each other. He had siblings who attended school with her.

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Libstak 1 year ago (edited)

Please tell me they are divorced. The bride being left home one day later says gaslighting narcissist that took advantage of a very naive wife to me at the very least.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I went to a Catholic wedding where, when the priest asked this question, one of the groomsmen did a VERY loud, long, throat clearing, which got everyone laughing. Everyone except for the bride's elderly Italian Grandmother who marched out of her seat and angrily hit the groomsman with her handbag and shouted at him in Italian!

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SheDeM 1 year ago

Never mess with an Italian grandmother

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Thankfully, most couples don’t need to worry about any objections today, as Jack says this tradition has largely become symbolic over time, rather than a genuine question for the guests. “In fact, many couples choose to omit this part of the ceremony altogether,” the editor noted. “Mainly because the objection portion of the ceremony was once a legal requirement to ensure there were no legal impediments to the marriage. However, in most jurisdictions, the legalities are taken care of before the wedding day, making the objection part unnecessary.”

“Secondly, weddings today tend to focus more on celebrating the love and commitment between the couple, rather than entertaining the possibility of awkward objections,” Jack continued. “Lastly, objections raised during weddings are exceptionally rare. In modern days, if someone has a legitimate objection to a marriage, they typically address it privately with the couple before the wedding day. We at Bespoke Bride would recommend omitting it to maintain a more seamless and joyful ceremony.”

Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared One of my cousins is married to literally one of the kindest and coolest dudes I have ever met. Before the wedding, her little sister was saying how “she’s marrying my best friend.” At the wedding, when the priest dude asks if anyone objects, the room is dead quiet and all you hear is a little girlish whisper “I do.” It was honestly really adorable and we all laughed, and my cousin’s husband and her little sister are still best friends.

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Loverboy 1 year ago

Aww this is so sweet, that relationship must be so amazing.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared Not a wedding, but at a funeral someone objected the death.

At my uncle’s funeral, his ex wife and a local church [cult] leader tried to raise him from the dead. We were all sitting there like normal people at a normal funeral and she walks up to the casket and starts yelling, “James Lester, raise up!” I didn’t know she was there or I would’ve prepared myself for shenanigans. Also I didn’t know my uncle’s middle name was Lester, so please imagine the confusion. So she and the cult leader are literally yelling at my uncle’s body. Not surprisingly, my uncle refused to resurrect himself. They were escorted out.

I’ve actually never told this story because it makes my family look insane.

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Libstak 1 year ago

Omg, if it wasn't a real tragedy this would be hilarious to witness. Preferably on a fictional day time soap opera but still.

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Jack went on to note that most couples do not anticipate any sort of dramatic interruptions during their wedding ceremonies today, because they are proceeding based on “a strong foundation of love, trust, and commitment, with the expectation that their day will be filled with joy and celebration.”

But if anyone out there is considering disrupting a friend or family member’s wedding, the wedding expert says that it should be approached with extreme caution and should only be considered in truly exceptional circumstances. “Ensure that you have legitimate and valid concerns, like evidence of fraud or coercion, or any other significant issue that would genuinely affect the couple's well-being.”

Well, sort of. It was staged, pre arranged, and the minister was warned ahead of time.

The couple said they wanted to make the ceremony more interesting. So they had a friend object, declaring his love for the bride in an over the top dramatic speech.

The best man (my husband) stabbed the guy with a stage dagger, he played dead, and two of the other groomsmen dragged his limp body away. The wedding proceeded.

I have to say, it was pretty awesome. The bride and groom are still happily married 30+ years later.

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D. Pitbull 1 year ago

Augh... i SOOO wanted to do something like this... but.... the spouse-to-be refused to swing down from up high, and land in the spot beside me announcing 'I DO!'... (Pirate themed wedding... I told him his other option was Ninja... said no to that too. sigh)

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared This was in America, and the wedding was in a Buddhist temple. Parents of the groom stood up and objected because they didn’t believe the bride was of the same class. They spoke in another language so most of the English speaking guests didn’t know they were objecting.

My husband was the best man and those closest to the couple knew this might happen. The Buddhist priest said he would handle it if the parents tried anything.

After the parents spoke for a while the priest said to the groom, “You’ve heard what your parents had to say, what do you want to do?” The groom replied, “I want to marry my bride.” So the priest asked the parents to leave. At this point the rest of the guests are clueing in that this was not a nice part of the ceremony, and that the parents were actually objecting, so, as the parents walked out, some of the guests were berating them saying things like, “You should be ashamed of yourself” and “How could you do that?” And even though the groom was not happy with his parents, that was very hard for him to hear.

That was 30 years ago. The couple is still married. They have two beautiful, successful children. After the groom’s mom passed away, the groom’s father came around and was involved in their lives until he died.

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Loverboy 1 year ago

I think this has a mostly happy ending. happily married and the father got to be involved with his grandchildren in a meaningful way.

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“We also recommend addressing your concerns privately with the couple before the wedding day,” Jack told Bored Panda. “If you still believe there are serious grounds for objection on the wedding day itself, it is crucial to approach the matter with sensitivity and discretion. Speak privately with the officiant or a trusted wedding organizer who can guide you on the appropriate course of action. Disrupting the ceremony should be an absolute last resort.”

“Think about the consequences, as any disruption or objection during a wedding ceremony can have significant emotional and social consequences,” the editor added. “It can cause distress and embarrassment to the couple, their families, and their guests. Be prepared for potential backlash or strained relationships resulting from your actions.”

If you’d like to learn more about wedding planning, wedding etiquette or gain some inspiration for your own big day, be sure to check out Bespoke Bride right here to hear more from the experts!

#11

Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I objected. I took giving my sister away literally. I wasn't the brightest 3 year old.

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Libstak 1 year ago

Awww

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared A woman, in her 20s at the time, objected to her mom marrying my uncle. So she started yelling, “Mom don’t marry him!” during the ceremony. The ceremony proceeded and some family on the mom’s side lead the daughter away to quit interrupting. I don’t blame her-my uncle was a lying, lazy bastard. The marriage didn’t last.

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Take me to dinner first 1 year ago

That makes me really sad, the daughter must have felt so desperate and lonely

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We were also lucky enough to get in touch with two more wedding experts, Kathy and Danielle, Editors at The Wedding Playbook, to hear their thoughts on the topic. Kathy and Danielle shared that, fortunately, they've never been in attendance at a wedding that was halted in a scandalous way. "It’s more common for us to hear about people who object to a marriage opting not to attend the wedding, which is a quieter but no less heart-wrenching form of protest," they told Bored Panda.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared A friend of mine has a band that plays lots of weddings and other parties. They were hired for a birthday party that turned out to be a surprise wedding. The guy surprised his gf with a proposal and wanted to have a wedding ceremony then and there. She said no and left

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Libstak 1 year ago

Don't blame her, she was left with no say about her wedding day, dress etc. You want to be so so sure about your partners feelings about a day like that to pull a stunt like this. He clearly railroaded her and expected her to just fall in line.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I used to make wedding videos. Did one at an outdoor wedding spot high on one side of a valley. It had rained earlier in the day but the storms had cleared and the wedding could continue.

During the vows I don't touch the camera, just step back and let it run. So I'm spaced out waiting for the vows to finish and notice a radio tower far across the valley. Suddenly lightning hits the radio tower. I had enough time to think "Boy when the thunder gets here it'll probably loud."

I also had enough time to clue in that the minister was saying "If anyone objects to this union let him speak now or forever..." KEBLAMMMMMMMM!

Total silence in the venue. Preacher takes a second to look around and make sure everybody is alright, on one has been smote. "Well that's never happened before."

AFAIK they're still married, that was 10 years or more ago...

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juice 1 year ago

sounds like Zeus wanted the bride to himself

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The wedding experts also shared that, "If it’s not a cultural or religious requirement, [asking for objections] is definitely one part of the wedding ceremony you can do without. It either leads to an awkward pause or a melodramatic made-for-TV moment, both of which detract from what is meant to be a happy occasion."

"Instead, the officiant can ask if the couple has the blessing of their loved ones for the marriage - but only if they know the answer will be a resounding yes!" Kathy and Danielle added.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I dunno if it's a UK thing or even just a one specific church thing but I was told by the priest in a rehearsal that if someone objects, even as a joke, the priest is required to pause the ceremony and talk to the objector alone to discuss their concerns and decide if they have a valid objection. Like it's not a fun jokey moment, it's a real legal part of the ceremony.

He also said it used to be custom that if you raised an invalid objection you then had to pay for the wedding.

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Timmy Pillinger 1 year ago

I know a minister whose response is to require a £50 cheque before listening to an objection.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared My husband's first marriage. The brother of the bride stood up and said to my husband "Say no, you can still be happy!"

They went through with the marriage, wound up divorcing with a messy break up.

Brother in law is still best friends with my husband (as far as he's concerned he gained a brother and lost a sister and is better off for it) and he never lets him forget the fact that he was right and he should have bailed lol.

Edited for clarification

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David Wambold 1 year ago

True story. I was getting married at a courthouse in Illinois. We decided to get married in the open area until the storm came in. So, we moved inside, and it started pouring outside. Though we'd dodged a bullet until the objection part. Immediately after person marrying us said it, the lights went out. Friends joked God was objecting. Had to file paperwork later because the computer weren't working. Married 15 years.

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"Naturally, couples want to be surrounded by love on their wedding day and hope that the people they’ve invited to witness their vows are supportive of the relationship," Kathy and Danielle noted.

But they added that not everyone needs approval to go through with tying the knot. "Most would continue with their wedding plans even if there’s a chance of an objection because it’s important to them to publicly declare their commitment to one another. It’s symbolic of their decision to face all of life’s ups and downs together."

There are even ways around objections if your friends and family aren't on board. "Those who are especially worried that friends or family might disagree with their marriage often plan an elopement to ensure only positive memories of the day," Kathy and Danielle told us.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared Groom found out that bride was cheating two days before the wedding day. He spilled the beans while exchanging the vows.

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Loverboy 1 year ago

Fully deserved. Cheaters deserve public humiliation.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I was at one where the Groom thanked the Bride's Ex for dying as his loss was my gain.

Didn't help the sons of his bride and ex were in attendance

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Beth Sheerin 1 year ago

It feels inherently wrong to upvote this but yikes

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And if you want to object to a friend's wedding, Kathy and Danielle say that there's likely a better way to go about it. "There’s no more hurtful way to say you don’t support your friend or family member’s life choices than with an announcement on their wedding day," they told Bored Panda. "Even if you have a valid reason, we recommend addressing it in private before the event to spare the couple any embarrassment worthy of a soap opera season finale. Unless there’s a legal, moral or wellbeing concern, it might be a case of putting aside your own feelings and being happy that they’re happy in order to preserve your relationship."

If you'd like to gain even more wedding tips from the experts, as well as ideas for planning your own special day, we recommend visiting The Wedding Playbook's website right here!

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My best friend (males) and I drew somewhat apart during college, then grew closer after college. He fell into a group of friends who were a little wilder than me. I don't blame him. College is supposed to be fun. I missed out. That's my fault because I did a five year program that got me my BA and MBA in short order.

After school ended, he was asked by a new friend to be his best man. I knew the guy and his fiance secondhand. He was a bit of an ogre and she was cute, a bit mousy. I wasn't at the wedding, but the big day comes and we all go about our lives.

It was the 90s and I worked that Saturday (yes, "Office Space" culture was real then). I go out to our watering hole that night and there was my best friend, drinking a double whiskey in a disheveled tux.

"Good wedding? How was the reception grub?", I asked.

"No wedding. No reception. I ate dinner at Applebee's by myself.", he said.

The bride told the limo driver to take her for a few big laps. She eventually showed, gathered her family around her, and told the groom it was not happening today or ever. The physical and mental abuse was too much and she was too far into a drug habit he pushed on her and was going to seek help.

Now understand, only a few at the wedding knew any of the abuse or drug abuse was going on. The ogre went into a rage, tried to attack her, and got repelled by the better men and women in the crowd.

She got her help and self-confidence back and married a great guy a few years later. Three kids, almost 30 years together. Her would-be husband kept up his bad habits and ended up killing his girlfriend and himself in a drug-fueled murder/suicide in our 30s.

Still shocks me to this day. My best friend has been pretty much straight and narrow since. It sobered him up in many ways.

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glowworm2 1 year ago

Jesus Christ on how it ended for the intended abusive, drug addicted groom though!

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared Kind of.

My uncle was getting married. Small, just a handful of family and a minister. I was videotaping.

My grandmother was not into it at all. With each line spoken by the minister, she had a cutting, sarcastic response. I could not believe it. It was so unlike her,

When that part came up, she said “I object. But does it really matter? They are going to to do it anyway.”

The minister just ignored her and proceeded, business as usual.

They were divorced within a year.

Wish I had a copy.

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Loverboy 1 year ago

Grandmother was sick of their bs and knew what was coming

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared My mother passed away about 15 years ago. 5 years later my dad married my now step-mother. It was an outdoor wedding on a beautiful sunny day, and during the spot where they usually ask if anyone objects, a big gust of wind came out of nowhere and knocked over some tables. Afterward, multiple people came to tell me that wind gust was my mother objecting, which I like to believe was true.

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MiriPanda 1 year ago

Ok, so one isn't allowed to find happiness again years after the original partner died. Noted. *sarcasm*

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared My grandmother objected at my sister's wedding. My sister was a Florida based Italian Catholic and somewhat conservative individual who fell in love with a progressive New York Jew.

My Nonna said it wouldnt work and it would change one of them and she was worried about it changing her grand daughter. My parents managed to get her away from the wedding and it continued. My sister is now neither Catholic or conservative, so my Nonna was absolutely right.

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Libstak 1 year ago

She was already changing or she would have had concerns of her own. Love beats dogma every time.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared I went to a wedding where the best man was replaced a week before because he banged the bride. But the wedding still went ahead just with a different best man. They are divorced now.

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Libstak 1 year ago

I'm shocked I tells ya

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I was at a small ceremony indoors, maybe 30 people tops listening. When the minister asked for any objections, a picture of the bride’s dead grandmother that was hanging on the wall fell to the ground with a loud thump. We looked at each other but the minister finished anyway. Divorced within a year.

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Labellesouris 1 year ago

Gramma always knows!

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared Oldie but a goodie, this happened back in the 70s, this was shared to le by the guy who married my parents. It went something like this :

"does anyone object to this union?"

" I do! That's my husband!"

So they paused the wedding, the bride, groom and the woman objecting went into a small room. The woman who objected provided documentation showing the groom was still legally her husband. Apparently the couple had started divorce proceedings some time earlier but never finished. The wedding was cancelled and everyone sent home.

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Robin DJW 1 year ago

Traumatic, yes, but far less so than if a bigamy was discovered later. The legal situation would have been horrendous, especially if there were children with the 2nd "union."

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared My aunties fiance was already married (lady stood up waving marriage cert) so wedding didn't go ahead. The reception was on a long boat so we still went to that. The fiance went back to home country to sort it out and never came back.

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Monday 1 year ago

This isn't something you spring on the person at the wedding though. If your auntie was the one doing it that's fine since she's the wounded party, but for another person to air that in public, potentially humiliating the wounded party even more, is just wrong. You take that marriage certificate to the auntie in private and have her decide what to do at the wedding.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared Went to a wedding where they skipped that part because the brides adult daughter was planning to object.

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Loverboy 1 year ago

Apparently the brides daughter told someone and that person told the bride and groom. Props to the person that told, s****y thing to do.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared A relative visited one ceremony where it was asked if anyone objects, and the groom decided it's a good time for a joke and said "I do". The lady who was going to marry the couple just turned and left. They had to go through all the paperwork again and change the date. Got married, divorced in like three years if I remember correctly.

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MiriPanda 1 year ago

There is a time and place for jokes, a wedding ceremony is no such place.

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared At his rehearsal dinner a co-workers mother toast included that his soon to be wife was a "damn dirty w***e who wasn't good enough" for her son. Folks not happy. (Video ended so didn't see the whole thing.)

At wedding which I attended his mom started to say something at the "speak now" part but was silenced by her daughter. Mom left and didn't see the rest of the ceremony.

Everything about that poor guy was drama.

nebelhund , cottonbro studio Report

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Swastik34 1 year ago

Damn 😔

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Objections At Weddings Actually Happen In Real Life, And Here Are 30 Stories That Folks In This Online Thread Shared My mum told me she was going to pay an old boyfriend to stand up and object at my wedding. She didn’t in the end but I did cast a quick look around in the church before walking down the aisle.

Iamclavicusvile , Nikhil Singh Report

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Dani M 1 year ago

That's the prettiest bridesmaid's dress I've ever seen

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Pieter LeGrande 1 year ago

Went to a Catholic wedding 40 years ago in Adelaide. At the critical point a guy calls "I do". He matches up the aisle with a grim look on his face behind the thickest glasses I have ever seen. Gets to the very confused couple, peers intently at the bride and then the groom, steps back and says " Damn, wrong church". He then marched back up the aisle and exits the church. We never found out what it was all about and didn't seem intended as a joke. Weird.

Leo Domitrix 1 year ago

All the weddings I've been to, and the worst we've ever heard was the couple's child wailing suddenly during the pause after "speak now or forever hold your peace". Prescient child, BTW. They didn't make it a year.

ChocolateCake 1 year ago

My parents got married with only a janitor and a secretary there. I was 1 at the time and the person said "Anyone object?" No one said no but right as they were about to move on I ran up the aisle loudly screaming "NO NO NO NO NO!" They are still happily married though. :)

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Pink Princess 1 year ago

Lol you need to hear me out and they said "speak now"

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Lene 1 year ago

Last year I went to a wedding as a friend of the groom. The groom is sorta "a grown man but with a 17-year old's idea of how life is supposed to be"-type. He f***s up a lot but he loves his gf and she loves him. I think they are actually really good for eachother. But, a their wedding she took her time to enter the church and at some point we heard a car pulling in just outside the church (the car that was gonna drive them to the reception after the ceremony). I hear two of her friends right behind me and my bf say: "oh, is she running off?" "Dunno, but I hope she does". And I was shocked! But didn't say anything. Turns out we were at the same table as those friends at the dinner. I wonder, if they feel so against the groom, why they didn't object. (And also, so super weird that the priest had a speech about the couple to be married that was a lot about sex... 😳 did not need to know about that. Especially from a priest!?!)

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Laura Mortensen 1 year ago

I have a story about two of my cousins. The younger one got married first and at the wedding my older cousin said "I can't believe my younger sister got married first." The next summer we were going to her wedding to a nice young Jewish guy (she's Catholic). The Groom's Mother didn't object out loud, but she and her daughter both wore black to the wedding. A few months later my cousing and her husband ended up getting the marriage ennuled.

Yoyo 1 year ago

Why even have this "option" at your wedding? Seriously.

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