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Mom Tries To Bully Obese Woman Out Of Her Second Plane Seat, Gets Humbled In Return
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Mom Tries To Bully Obese Woman Out Of Her Second Plane Seat, Gets Humbled In Return

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Traveling is almost never comfortable, especially by plane. You’re squeezed into a tiny seat next to strangers who might be snoring or snacking while all you want to do is try to sleep while sitting in the most uncomfortable position imaginable.

So in an attempt to make her flying experience slightly more bearable, one woman recently decided to purchase an extra seat for herself. But after a mother demanded that seat go to her son, the passenger was left wondering if she did something wrong. Below, you’ll find the full story, as well as some of the replies from readers.

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    This woman decided to purchase an extra seat on her flight to ensure that she would have enough space

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    But after encountering a demanding mother, she’s wondering if she did the right thing

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    Later, the woman replied to a few readers and provided more information on her situation

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    Over 40% of adults in the United States are obese

    Sitting on an airplane isn’t comfortable for anyone, unless perhaps you pay thousands of dollars for first class seats, but it can be especially challenging for those of us in larger bodies. The seats are often tiny, the seatbelts might not be large enough to stretch over everyone’s stomachs, and it can be awkward trying to squeeze past and over fellow passengers. 

    But considering that 42.4% of adults in the United States have obesity, according to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases, it would make sense if airlines could be more accommodating towards larger bodies. Unfortunately, it’s often on the passengers themselves to ensure that their flying experience will be okay.

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    Robin Raven wrote a piece for CN Traveler detailing how she manages to fly frequently as a fat person, and she recommends that passengers take advantage of TSA PreCheck, boarding early whenever possible and asking for seat belt extenders.

    Yet it’s still a challenge for people in larger bodies to fly

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    It also never hurts to ask for extra space if the flight isn’t full, Raven writes. She explains how fellow flyers often give her glares and irritated looks in reference to her size, so she typically feels the need to stay out of the way of other passengers as much as she can. She’ll request aisle seats when she can, and she notes that having a full row to herself is always the dream scenario. 

    Of course, purchasing an extra seat can be wise for larger passengers as well, but that can make trips much more expensive and less accessible for larger individuals. So if you’re looking for the best airlines to fly if you’re overweight, The Present Perspective has broken them all down.   

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    Delta seems to be a great option for larger travelers, as the airline itself is known for friendly service, and their planes actually offer some of the largest and widest seats available in the industry. Their seat selection policy also allows customers to pick where they’re sitting, which can help them avoid the dreaded middle seats.  

    Some airlines have implemented policies to ensure plus-sized passengers have enough space, but there’s still a long way to go

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    Southwest Airline’s seating policy is often liked by passengers as well, as they don’t assign seats prior to boarding. As long as you ensure that you board early, you’ll be able to choose any seat you like on the plane. Southwest has also offered to reimburse plus-sized passengers for extra seats that they purchase to ensure that they have enough space on their flights.

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    It’s well known that fatphobia runs rampant through many aspects of our society, from shaming overweight people for their size to doctors blaming all of a plus-sized patients health issues on their weight. So unfortunately, this toxic culture is alive and well while traveling too. But everyone deserves the opportunity to travel, have new experiences and exist in their body without receiving judgment from others.

    We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. Do you think this woman was right to stand up for herself and defend her seat? Feel free to share, and then if you’re interested in reading another Bored Panda article discussing what it’s like to travel as a plus-size person, look no further than right here

    Readers assured the traveler that she did nothing wrong and called out the mother for feeling entitled to her seat

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    Adelaide Ross

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    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about two years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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    Adelaide Ross

    Adelaide Ross

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    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about two years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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    I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. I kickstart my day with a mug of coffee bigger than my head, ready to tackle Photoshop. I navigate through the digital jungle with finesse, fueled by bamboo breaks and caffeine kicks. When the workday winds down, you might catch me devouring bamboo snacks while binging on the latest TV show, gaming or I could be out in nature, soaking up the tranquility and communing with my inner panda.

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    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. I kickstart my day with a mug of coffee bigger than my head, ready to tackle Photoshop. I navigate through the digital jungle with finesse, fueled by bamboo breaks and caffeine kicks. When the workday winds down, you might catch me devouring bamboo snacks while binging on the latest TV show, gaming or I could be out in nature, soaking up the tranquility and communing with my inner panda.

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    arthbach
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The obvious answer, is "Yes, of course. I'm more than happy to move over, as long as you compensate me for the inconvenience. It cost me X amount of money to buy two seats. The monetary value of my inconvenience is the price of one of the seats, plus 10%."

    Inclusion2020
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just wanted to say good on you for taking accountability for your size and purchasing that extra seat so that others could be comfortable on the flight. That Mom can shove it.

    Bernd Herbert
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently some people don't understand the very strange thing of paying for something and be entitled to it. Some people just need to be told to fúck off!!

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    arthbach
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The obvious answer, is "Yes, of course. I'm more than happy to move over, as long as you compensate me for the inconvenience. It cost me X amount of money to buy two seats. The monetary value of my inconvenience is the price of one of the seats, plus 10%."

    Inclusion2020
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just wanted to say good on you for taking accountability for your size and purchasing that extra seat so that others could be comfortable on the flight. That Mom can shove it.

    Bernd Herbert
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently some people don't understand the very strange thing of paying for something and be entitled to it. Some people just need to be told to fúck off!!

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