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In order to feel good, taking care of your physical health is not enough; mental health is equally as—if not more—important. That’s why it’s crucial to take time to tend to yourself or say an encouraging word or two every once in a while.

Such positive ‘Notes For Self’ can be found on an Instagram page titled exactly that. Boasting more than 4.7 million followers, it shares amusing mental health memes, as well as positive messages, hearing which could likely benefit any of us. Scroll down to find some of them on the list below and take a moment for self-appreciation and a mental health check-in.

Below you will also find some thoughts shared with Bored Panda by the founder of the Instagram page, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions.

“I started this account when I began studying psychology. I wanted to share the advice I had learned from great psychologists with other people,” the founder of the Instagram page ‘Note For Self’ told Bored Panda in a recent interview.

In their opinion, people can benefit from it due to the fact that Instagram is brimming with entertainment and fakeness, but with the help of this account, they can provide entertainment with a message, which is an important combination to have on social media.

“People always have trouble in their life, and they always will. So when they open their phone and scroll through the page, it can provide some relief or a quick perspective change, or show that they’re not alone, as there are other people agreeing with the quote,” the founder pointed out.

They told Bored Panda that providing support of such sorts is what they love most about handling the account. “I enjoy getting messages from people that say that I’ve helped them overcome something or that it’s something positive for their mental health. Over the years I’ve received countless direct messages like these.”

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes to this! The sense of peace that comes with this way of dealing with disrespect is amazing.

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It goes without saying that taking care of your mental health is a crucial part of looking after yourself; now arguably more than ever. According to Our World In Data, hundreds of millions of people nowadays suffer from detrimental conditions stemming from poor mental health, such as depression, schizophrenia, and bipolar disorder, just to name a few.

Though, many individuals seemingly understand the importance of taking care of their mental well-being, as according to a global survey from 2020, the vast majority believe that mental health is either as important or more important than physical health (with 46% of respondents believing each of the two statements).

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very true. I love being me since I relaxed and allow myself to be the me I am happy with.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's funny how when enforcing normal boundaries, it makes the people who treat you worst have the hardest time accepting them.

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Data from 2023 shows that even more people now consider mental health to be as important as physical; according to the Ipsos World Mental Health Day survey, roughly 78% respondents across 31 countries believe so. Yet unfortunately, only 34% say that mental and physical health are treated equally by the healthcare systems in their countries.

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The Ipsos survey has also found that one of the main factors that negatively influences our mental health is the seemingly ever-present stress. A third of respondents admitted it has affected their lives multiple times throughout the previous year and more than one-in-four admitted feeling so stressed on multiple occasions that it was difficult to cope with it; 39% shared that they have even taken time off work due to stress.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OH MY GOD THIS ALL OVER EVERYWHERE. Not agreeing, not liking someone's whateverthefuck you object to, is not a reason, excuse or obligation to react to them violently

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I smile at people, speak to people, make eye contact. I'm in a motorised wheelchair zipping around town with a smile on m face trying hard to project love. I probably look like an idiot - but I don't care.

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People focusing on the fact that both mental and physical health are important is not the only connection there is between the two. Center For Disease Control And Prevention emphasized that one can directly influence the other; for example, such mental health conditions as depression can increase the risk of such conditions like diabetes and heart disease, while similarly, chronic conditions can lead to deteriorating mental health.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

....and please never say "why can't you just smile or be happy? -it works for me" to a depressed person. I know you say it in the best of meaning, but if you have never been there yourself, you basically do not know what it takes to fight your way back. It is about as effective as telling people to cheer up a funeral of one of their loved ones. Depression often means that you are being exhausted all the time, like if you have been up from 6 AM and now it is 3AM, and you know that you still have miles to go before you reach a bed. It makes it hard to stop being grumpy and be happy under that conditions. All you achieve with that kind of comment is that you expose your lack of knowledge, as if that person hasn't already asked him/herself that question a 1000 times, and concluded that it does not work that way.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When a friend's parents got married, the dad said to his mom: "Do you want a crazy big wedding or would you rather us get a boat?" and they went with the boat & got married at the courthouse

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Treating others - complete strangers too - well and kindly also hits differently. It's amazing how much of how we are treated is mirroring - reactions to who/how you are

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The significance of mental health in regards to our overall well-being should be a great motivating force to focus on it every day. In a recent TEDx Talk, a licensed therapist and a co-host of the Take Two podcast, Lindsay Fleming, pointed out that investing in her mental health daily resulted in not only her feeling better internally, but achieving more externally as well.

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One of the main points she suggested focusing on while tending to your mental health is self-awareness. “Building self-awareness daily helps us avoid [certain situations], and when unavoidable, manage emotional distress,” she pointed out.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Amazing what people will say when they don't know you are listening. Yes, I keep it to myself.

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Fleming continued her talk by discussing the method she calls Take Two, aimed at helping people take care of their well-being with daily two-minute mental health check-ins.

The therapist explained that the Take Two approach consists of four main elements: time, awareness, knowledge, and engagement, with the first one being rather straightforward—dedicating two minutes of your time anytime during the day.

The second one, awareness, is based on what it is that you’re doing during those two minutes and asking yourself such questions like “How am I feeling?” or “What do my thoughts sound like?”. The third aspect suggests asking yourself if there’s anything that you need and coming up with a plan in case you do, and the fourth one—engaging in said plan.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It always seems to be the person who has boundaries that is labeled as the problem.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so important. I had a big friend group in my teens and early twenties, after a breakdown and having to look at some harsh truths this was cut down to 2 people and i couldn't have felt better.

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While daily mental health check-ins are likely to be more effective, reading a motivational quote—such as the ones shared on ‘Note For Self’—or giving yourself a pep talk every once in a while is unlikely to do any harm, either.

PsychCentral emphasized that words do have power in regards to both positive and negative experiences, which is why it’s important to choose your words carefully when talking to others. That’s also why it’s nice to be on the receiving end of something nice, whether told eye-to-eye or through an inspirational Instagram post.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am continually surprised that society does work. I don't know how it possibly can, but it does.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But only the lucky few get it all. The secret is to be content, or even better happy, with what we have and don't let envy for the rest ruin it for you.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But what if I'm part of their delusion and keep coming for me. Like I can be hated simply for my race, religion, origin, whatnot by somebody without they know me personally.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, and just imagine what you'll have to look forward to. At least one global financial crisis and a global pandemic which will kill millions. What's not to like?

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ll never forget the impact that my GP had in telling me that he was proud of me for making a huge change to improve my health. I now often say to patients that I’m proud of them for the positive changes they have made.

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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This feels wrong. We need to be empathetic and we need to be kinder to others. Let it be normal to feel for others and not attack them (edit: spelling)

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you don't leave your coffee for long enough, you get badly burnt. Iced coffee is better than a hospital visit.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the only fake love I have time for is the song by Raum, that's it

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then June passes and you're like "Well, darn. Next June for sure." Then that one passes too.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not always true, unfortunately, and empty words don't help.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"The commander is responsible for the decisions they missed to make" - any Military Code of Conduct in the world.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Loved ones always know which button to press - in the main they sewed them on.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was my North, my south, my east and west, my working week and my Sunday rest, my noon, my midnight, my talk, my song... W. H. Auden

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I also class my boss as a friend, however saying I love you (without thinking) at the end of a call was not my finest moment!

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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Communication is never hard for someone who is totally relaxed. Someone who actually wants you is not totally relaxed. So if someone is tongue tied, don't drop them because of that.

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