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Apparently, some men think if a woman wears an ankle bracelet, she is either a lesbian or a prostitute. And don't even ask them about ladies who carry around their stuff in a backpack instead of a purse!
These things sound unbelievable, but just take a look at the subreddit r/NotHowGirlsWork and you'll discover that some guys have such wild misconceptions about females, it's like they're talking about an alien race.
I honestly don't know how they come up with such... theories. Maybe their ego couldn't handle a breakup, so they invented an explanation on why it was their partner's fault. Or maybe they're just following the wrong people on social media.
Either way, continue scrolling to check out the latest posts from r/NotHowGirlsWork and if you want more after you're done, fire up Bored Panda's earlier piece on the subreddit. Enjoy.
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#1
Don’t Know If This Is A Repost. Got Sent This By My Mom Lmao
#2
Adele’s Weight Loss Under The Spotlight Again
To learn more about women's role in today's society, we contacted Dr. Stephen Burrell, who is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Sociology at Durham University, and a Deputy Director of Durham's Centre for Research into Violence and Abuse (CRiVA).
Dr. Burrell also undertook an Economic and Social Research Council Postdoctoral Fellowship on the role of the business sector and workplaces in preventing violence against women and promoting gender equality, and how to engage more men in such efforts.
"Women face many of the same problems that men do, such as economic inequalities which mean that so many people in our society are struggling to get by, whilst others have huge amounts of wealth," he told Bored Panda. "But on top of that, they face numerous additional obstacles because gender inequality remains so deeply rooted."
#3
In Simpler Terms: “I Straight Up Can Not Please A Woman”
#4
I Uhm- Don’t Think That’s Right Chief
#5
Girls Don't Have Ankles
Dr. Burrell believes our narrow expectations about who we allow and expect women to be holds them back from contributing freely and fully to society. "It can have detrimental impacts on their health and wellbeing, with violence against women and girls continuing to be a commonplace experience for so many throughout their lives – and also because healthcare services often fail to take account of women’s needs and experiences."
"It can hold them back in education and the workplace, where everyday experiences of sexism and gender stereotypes mean women and girls may not be encouraged and enabled to succeed and flourish in whatever path they want to pursue," he explained.
"They are often expected to juggle this whilst still doing the bulk of care work at home, with little support from wider society in terms of things like affordable childcare services, which holds back women’s positions in the labor market, and means those economic inequalities hit them harder too. Meanwhile, women are still significantly under-represented in decision-making positions across society, which means a lot of these issues aren’t understood or addressed by people in power."
#6
He Got Called Out On His “Women Don’t Like Sex” Bulls**t. Welp, I Think They Just Don’t Want To Have It With You
#7
Her Uncle Does Not Understand How Sexism Works...
#8
The Girl Hive
Dr. Burrell also believes that men directly contribute to a lot of the problems women face. "For example, if we’re talking about violence against women and girls, and the widespread sexism and misogyny which feeds into it, it’s important to recognize that this doesn’t come from nowhere – it is predominantly being perpetrated by men," he said. "So we need to start talking more about men’s role in these problems, even if that is at times uncomfortable."
"But that also helps us to think about the positive part men can play in the solution. We can be agents of change, working together with women as allies in building a society that is more equal and fair for everyone – in our relationships, at home, at work, in politics, everywhere."
#9
Uh. No
Melissa 2 years ago
Well he didn't mention Black or Latina women so it could have gotten even worse. I shudder to think *barfs*
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NsG 2 years ago
Dude has a type. A type that (along with every other type) won't touch him with a 25' pole, but he has a type.
$cagsy 2 years ago
Is he thinking of one particular Asian girl's a*s or is it a whole continent deal? Has he inspected all 2.28 billion Asian female asses? Has he also inspected 2.28 billion asses from other predominantly white continents with which to draw comparison? I suspect not. I suspect that the science which this character employs is shoddy and ill-conceived. I cannot trust its findings. In scientific terms, this person is a moron.
Vorknkx 2 years ago
"Freshly packed from a factory" - objectifying women? Nooo, who told you that??? /s
Auntriarch 2 years ago
I would imagine his girlfriend did come from a factory
Load More Replies... Stoopham McFernybabes 2 years ago
Well, you can tell what kind of porn this guy’s been watching, can’t you?
Glitterati 2 years ago
“Has he gone get?” says every girl on earth as they smear themselves in dirt and toilet bowl water.
Inclusion2020 2 years ago
Is this man a serial killer? If Jeffrey dahmer killed and ate female butts, pretty sure this is exactly how he’d talk about it.
Mrs. Jan Glass 2 years ago
I worked with a dude like this in the early 90s. Full on Asian woman fetish, talked all the time about how "ruined" "Western" women were by comparison, how Asian women are so quiet and loving, and he was saving to travel to the Philippines to find his perfect docile Asian bride. I thought he was just a gross, weird dude, and then I found out that there are millions and millions of guys like this who combine misogyny and racism in this particular way.
James G. Currie 2 years ago
Racism is a cancer of the soul...and this guy seems to have reached stage 4 in his cancer.
Kathryn Baylis 2 years ago (edited)
And I bet if you looked at him, you’d find ACTUAL rot, inside and out—-and don’t even get me started about the cleanliness, or rather lack of cleanliness, of HIS a*s.
Angela Jester 2 years ago
This is one of the most disturbing things I've ever read in my life 😳
Goth mouse (they/them) 2 years ago
Is he…eating people instead of dating them?? 😳 what the hell did i just read
teddy bear 2 years ago
this person should be committed. the fact that they literally had the audacity to ask if anyone else noticed it. it was written as if the writer was writing an amazon review.
Alma Muminovic 2 years ago
Is this person eating people? Im getting cannibal vibes from the entire post..
lakitha tolbert 2 years ago
Why were my eyeballs subjected to those thoughts? No one's eyeballs deserved that!
Luna Lovegood for Justice 2 years ago
I love at the bottom it says "your delusional and mentally ill."
Dina Anastasakos 2 years ago
What a nasty jerk. Bet he's been reject more than once by a white woman!
Eiryn Elliott 2 years ago
JFC. What a disgusting way to see someone. "Their meat rots easier".
Suzanne Tilson 2 years ago
I wanna know what factory is making men like this so I can try out my bomb scene for a movie
urlocalmtndewaddict 2 years ago
Idk why people are downvoting you, what he said is racist + fetishization.
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8 months ago
I notice that you're a creep and an a**hole who probably s*xually abuses people for fun
Shelby Minchew 2 years ago
I only notice that you are delusional and should about biology. We ALL, men and women, all races, all ethnicities. My conclusion: YOU are the dirty a*s here.
Cpt. Robert Christian 2 years ago
WTSMFH is this psycho talking about?!?! If he was taking illicit drugs while writing this, then he needs pharmacological therapy stat. A vasectomy would also be a good idea.
Jessica Martin 2 years ago
Super creepy vibes on this post. Not regular creepy, like Jeffrey Dahmer-level creepy 😳
urlocalmtndewaddict 2 years ago
This is just fetishization. Quit fetishizing people based on race, sexuality, etc. Jesus christ. Equally as creepy as dudes who say theyre into lesbians.
Benjamin Brogan 2 years ago
Really? Seriously? Lemme tell y'something...when the lights go out, skin becomes colorless.
Moxie Mallahan 2 years ago
And what makes him think he himself is clean? I bet he hasn't bathed in weeks.
New Prometheus 2 years ago
Please don't spread this s**t further. There is way too much dataspace in the world...
Veronica Thomas Hickie 2 years ago
Wow , I have read some things before that were soo disgusting, but this takes the cake.
Legoinsinööri 2 years ago
This is just some random imageboard anon banter and propably just trolling.
Dixon Hannon 2 years ago
Just some food for thought. If a white man posted this about a black woman, everyone would be up in arms. Just saying.
Candace Barrett 2 years ago
Seems to me that everyone on this thread IS up in arms.
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urlocalmtndewaddict 2 years ago
Thats not the issue. The issue is this guy fetishizing Asian girls. Its racist and objectifying.
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What?
#11
I've Seen This Expression Alot Whilst Browsing This Sub, So I Thought I'd Share This Meme
In Dr. Burrell's opinion, this is particularly important when we remember that men continue to hold most positions of power. And this doesn't concern just individuals, it touches the way we organize society, too.
"We all learn rigid and restrictive stereotypes about gender from an early age, and have all probably played a part in reinforcing them at some point," Dr. Burrell, one of the co-hosts of the podcast 'Now and Men: Current conversations about men's lives', said.
"These hold everyone back – so we all benefit from breaking down gender norms, being free to be whoever we want to be, and creating a society in which everyone is equally valued and free from violence."
#12
What’s The Secret Formula To Get In Bed With As Many Women As Possible!? Smh
#13
Hmmm Yes, Pants Are Only For Men
No wonder so many men can hardly relate to women and their issues. Despite the genders' psychological overlap, studies on men have suggested they have trouble "mind-reading" and guessing what women are thinking and feeling.
For example, one study found that men do, in fact, interpret friendliness from women as sexual come-ons. Research also discovered that women prize men who try to understand them.
To see whether guys really do have trouble understanding ladies, Boris Schiffer, a researcher at the LWL-University Hospital in Bochum, Germany and his colleagues put 22 men between the ages of 21 and 52 (with an average age of 36) in a functional magnetic resonance imaging scanner, which uses blood flow as a measure to measure their brain activity.
#14
Breast Milk Is Now Pee
#15
This Guy Has A Weird Opinion
Mrs. Jan Glass 2 years ago
If someone else is eating something, they are not taunting you with something you can't have. If someone else travels somewhere you haven't been, they are not taunting you with something you can't have. If someone else has a hundred dollar bill and you don't, they are not taunting you with something you can't have. YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO SEX, LOVE, ATTENTION, NOR INTIMACY, DUDES.
#16
This Pee Pee Maestro
The scientists then asked the men to look at images of 36 pairs of eyes, half from men and half from women, and guess the emotion those people felt.
The men then had to choose which of two words, such as distrustful or terrified, best described the eyes' emotion. The eye photographs depicted positive, neutral, and negative emotions.
Men took longer and had more trouble correctly identifying emotion in women's eyes.
#17
Who Made This…
#18
Logic Not Found
#19
Some People Really Don't Like Seeing A Room Full Of Women...
#20
Hide Your Ankles, Lest You Be Found Out!
Additionally, their brains showed different activation when looking at men's versus women's eyes. Men's amygdala — a region in the brain linked to emotions, empathy, and fear — activated more strongly in response to men's eyes.
Also, other brain areas tied to emotion and behavior didn't activate as much when the men looked at women's eyes.
The results indicate that men are worse at reading women's emotions. This "theory of mind" is one of the foundations for empathy, so the researchers suggest this could mean that men can have less empathy for women relative to men.
#21
Legend Says That To This Day No One Responded
#22
I Think This Belongs Here..
#23
The Way Ppl Assumed Her Grandpa Is Her Sugar Daddy
#24
Wtf I Just Read?
But the cause that leads to this is still unknown. While men could be culturally conditioned to pay less attention to women's emotional cues, there's also the possibility that their differential response is hard-wired by humans' evolutionary past.
"As men were more involved in hunting and territory fights, it would have been important for them to be able to predict and foresee the intentions and actions of their male rivals," the researchers explained in the paper.
#25
Single Moms = Leftovers
#26
Found Under A Thread Asking "What Would Female The Equivalent Of No Nut November Be?"
#27
Not Sure What's Worse, The Joke Itself Or The Fact So Many People Like This Kind Of Humor
When it comes to simple biology, the picture is just as bad. A YouGov study conducted in the UK in 2019 asked British men to label a diagram of female genitalia, and the results were actually abysmal. Well, over half of surveyed men could not label the vagina or labia, and the majority could not point out where it is that urine comes out.
#28
Very Confident For A Man With No Grasp Of Grammar Or Science
Donkey boi 2 years ago
I'm convinced that this mindset comes from having no confidence in the bedroom department. It's basically, 'I want a woman who's not experienced, so she doesn't know how bad I am at it'. Personally I'd rather have someone with experience so that we can both increase our pleasure.
#29
Yikes
#30
Period Assumption Is My (Least) Favourite
#31
Who Does He Think He Is?
#32
Incels: We're Just Lonely Virgins! Also Incels:
#33
Is He Looking For A Mother?
#34
He Wants His Wife To R-Xxx With Him
#35
Just Confusing...
#36
Breast Size Is A Direct Result Of One’s Health
#37
Nicole Kidman Is A Man. Obviously
#38
Found On A Forum
#39
“Itself”
#40
" Women = Hen" - Peta
#41
One Giant Leap For Mankind, One Small Step (Backwards) For Chad
#42
This Was Under A Post Of A Girl Saying She's Scared Of Pain During The Intercourse....
#43
Bruh...
Artsy Bookworm 2 years ago
I burn instant noodles in the microwave??? What's that got to do with anything???
#44
First Of All Women Don't Decide Their Hobbies And Careers Based On Whether People Find Them Attractive
#45
You Gave It To Chad, So Give It To Me
#46
Youtuber Asking The Real Hard Hitting Questions
#47
In Response To Men Ignoring Their Partners For Gaming
#48
Pea Shooter vs. An Atom Bomb
#49
I Wish This Was Satire
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What do you think ?
Anna Nowak 2 years ago
The title is misleading. Most of men on those posts aren't ignorant about how women work. They simply hate women.
Disgruntled Panda 2 years ago
Wow this was hard to read, didn't even make it halfway through. Mostly makes me sad that there's so much hatred out there
Random Panda 2 years ago
Me too, I don't think this belongs here. BP has become a very negative space with all the ragebait content copied from reddit, twitter, etc
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Random Panda 2 years ago
Why are we giving trash like this even more attention they don't deserve?
Peta Hurley-Hill 2 years ago (edited)
Because it's important for women to know that this c**p is everywhere and important for decent men to know what women are up against on a daily basis. Know your enemy...
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Katie Lutesinger 2 years ago
Once again we are reminded as to why so many girls and women end up being murdered by some creep who couldn't cope with his inability to control her or accept being told no.
Serendipity911 2 years ago (edited)
Honestly and sadly this entire thread makes me want to advise every girl in my life to stay away from men. I've heard a man once say if girls could hear how men talk about them behind their back, they would never go near them.
censorshipsucks 2 years ago (edited)
as a man I support this. We should have to interview and provide CVs. And if you aren't selected you must go onto HRT to calm the f**k down (active shooters seem to be incels).
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wowbagger 2 years ago
Question for BP: would you post a list of 130 examples of dehumanizing racism toward black people, or dehumanizing homophobia toward gay/lesbian people? At what point have we crossed the line from valuable education about the hatred that's out there to exploitation of oppressed people's pain for rage-baiting/click-baiting purposes? Is that line different for different groups of oppressed people? If so, why?
Tamra 2 years ago
That is a DAMN good question, and one I'd like an answer to. What about it BP??
Load More Replies... Boris Long-Johnson 2 years ago
The individuals posting these clearly have some abhorrent beliefs. The question is where did they come from, I would love to know how many of these men have had little to no sex Ed in schools and them “learnt” their “facts” from the wrong place on the Internet. There’s 8billon people in the world and you’re always going to get nutters what I can’t work out is if the Internet is making it more obvious, worse or both. I have a horrible feeling it’s both. It feels like we’ve had a “golden age “ of enlightenment and are quickly slipping backwards - even if you’re not in the USA which appears as an outsider to have its issues but in Europe too.
Lytse Draak 2 years ago
A lot comes from their culture and upbringing. Values past down from father to son. Most abrahamic religions favour men, and a lot of cultures are based on this. I don't know if Hinduism is mysoginist, but culturally there's a lot of that in India as well. It's hard to break the cycle of misogynistic upbringing, but I hope more men will. And there are plenty of decent men out there as well, the comment section showed that
Load More Replies... Veronica Thomas Hickie 2 years ago (edited)
I had to stop reading this, I know there are people out there that are horrible. But reading this just ruined my day, there is soo much bad stuff going on, this is the last thing I wanted to read. I have come here every day to read light, happy, and funny stories, but not this.
Nadine Debard 2 years ago
Me too, I was about to throw up. This is highly unsettling.
Load More Replies... Tamra 2 years ago
Nah, don't do that. We need the good ones more than ever.
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Mary Moreck 2 years ago
Hate to break it to you folks, but there are a TON of men out there like this. They aren't living in the "back woods," nor are they uneducated. I've had the displeasure of dating some of them. And yes, they do say and think these things. And yes, they think everyone feels the same way. Scary and warped, but true.
Unslaadahsil 2 years ago
I think the USA recently had a president who believed this stuff... can't remember his name right now...
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Army Mom 2 years ago (edited)
This list pretty much sums up why I've never remarried. It's been 20+ years of being joyously single, doing as I want with my time and money, showing my male children that women can be strong, successful and loving and basically being happy. While I've dated long term a couple of times, what I learned was being alone and being lonely are two different things. Every one of those losers posted above can go jump off a cliff. Alone and lonely. As they deserve to be.
Izzy Curer 2 years ago
As a hardcore dweeb, I just want to know what it is in our society that makes some people turn out like this
censorshipsucks 2 years ago
sadly no. I know males who speak like this. Precisely two in fact. Pathetic.
Load More Replies... Lytse Draak 2 years ago
Read through it all. End result: I appreciate my husband even more, because he's nothing like these 50 idiots.
Bi-Polar Express 2 years ago
I can't believe I read the whole thing. Please tell me that the FBI has a department that just goes and watches these guys. They will be the ones buying larger guns than any eon could ever need.
Outson Fredrick 2 years ago
I just…I mean…I don’t know what to say. Is there hope for humanity? Be careful out there.
Marilyn Russell 2 years ago
I couldn’t even read most of these horrifying posts. This is a very scary world and these people live amongst you and I.
Marie Dahme 2 years ago
I can’t imagine these men have decent relationship with their mothers. If they do, where do they get these ideas from?
Suzanne Tilson 2 years ago
I finished this clearly understanding how people can be unattracted to men
JitkaBlitka 2 years ago
Couldn't get past #85. Feeling disgusted and depressed. But silver lining - I've never met such a "man" in my life, so they aren't hopefully many of them
Indosidius 2 years ago
This is a great example of a few bad samples that gives the rest a bad reputation. And sometimes I wonder what happened to these bad samples to turn them that way? Or is it just plain stupidity and ignorance?
similarly 2 years ago
How can there be so many people like this? smh. This is worse than sad. It's tragic. Here's my advice to these people: 1. Take a basic health class. 2. Make some female friends. 3. Learn to listen, be open-minded and open-hearted and have empathy for people. This is just bilge-muck (or for the land-bound: sewer muck?).
Jonahs Mrs 2 years ago
I'm doing my very best to raise 2 boys to be good men, like their dad is, the fact that they can come across poison like this just being on the Internet terrifies me. I have control with the youngest as I have parental control on his device and have it locked to age appropriate content but my eldest is now legally an adult. We talk about consent about what is healthy in a relationship and what isn't and his dad is an amazing role model, but this stuff, just being out there for him to stumble over terrifies me x
Haley Futch 2 years ago
Can we please start arresting men who post about femoids or identifying as incel?
Joshua Moore 2 years ago
I find it extremely difficult to believe all of these are true. I know us guys are thick headed, can't find things right in front of our face, etc. But these are just terribly painful and horrible. If any man actually believes this garbage, then a full frontal lobotomy is definitely in order.
Ka Se 2 years ago
I sometimes wonder if these postings are really meant seriously or if someone just wants to generate attention. I fear that some of these comments are indeed serious and from people with little education. That's why proper sex education is important for everyone in more than one grade. I don't mind parents insisting on teaching boys and girls separately, but no one should be allowed to withhold this knowledge from their offspring. In addition, free therapy should be made available to the unfortunate people with such feelings of hatred, as shown in some postings.
myspiritanimalisadumpsterfire 2 years ago (edited)
Couldn't finish this. I fully understand most men are not like this, but the fact that enough of them are out there and feel the need to go out of their way to post such hateful diatribe is beyond disturbing
Rick Swanson 2 years ago
You see the problem with this article is that that none of these are men. So it's inherently wrong from the get go. I think we can all agree that we need to make a new classification of human being that is non gender specific. We could call them. The dums..... cause that's all they are. Uselessly ignorant bags of flesh. The humans mentioned in this article in now way represent our gender and I am very offended at the insulation that they do.
Lytse Draak 2 years ago
While the examples were men talking about women, these examples don't represent men in general. I think we can agree on that Most men are good human beings and not as ignorant as was shown here.
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Brandie Litchfield 2 years ago
"So many men (incels), so many reasons to sleep alone" I learned long ago to not let self-righteous di**heads bait me to react to their game, I find that just pointing and laughing at them does such wonderful damage to their ego-- and not just to incels, to any arrogant, misogynistic, entitled " alpha" man that really really wants to put me in my place (as if), just point and laugh ladies, it confuses them.... The bigger the tree, the harder it falls. This was entertaining, like watching the incel Olympics would be!!!
Steven Bennett 2 years ago
I think it's good for all concerned that none of these men will ever procreate. Now please excuse me while I go find a brick wall to bang my head against.
Lytse Draak 2 years ago
Don't let these bad examples discourage you, there are good men out there as well. What you see on social media doesn't reflect the entirity of the male population.
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Benita Valdez 2 years ago
This was a train wreck I couldn't keep from reading. I prefer to have seen a literal train wreck with massive casualties than reading this knowing these guys are serious
Jill Bussey 2 years ago
I believe there is a lot of male ignorance about female bodies and feminism. Are boys not educated on human biology? It should be compulsory to everyone before the age of 12.
Rose the Cook 2 years ago
How old are these men? I thought they had sex education classes in schools.
Boris Long-Johnson 2 years ago (edited)
From what I’ve gathered sex Ed in schools - especially in the USA is rather lacking. There’s a YouTuber called MamaDrJones that has some very interesting comments on this subject. Sadly I think this is far more about subjugation of women than misunderstandings- at least from the actual people starting it rather than the mouthpieces.
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Lytse Draak 2 years ago
Just like some men apply their experience to the majority of women. It happens both ways. And these posts aren't just jokes and memes, but reflect a sad truth that people should be aware of.
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censorshipsucks 2 years ago
So you need to (a) sign up for biology class and (b) exit your mom's basement and go out into the sunshine a bit and find a married man, preferably one with a degree, to explain to you why women are people and are worth engaging as human beings, not merely as fleshlights. (c) grow the f**k up. (d) you are probably 14.
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Anna Nowak 2 years ago
The title is misleading. Most of men on those posts aren't ignorant about how women work. They simply hate women.
Disgruntled Panda 2 years ago
Wow this was hard to read, didn't even make it halfway through. Mostly makes me sad that there's so much hatred out there
Random Panda 2 years ago
Me too, I don't think this belongs here. BP has become a very negative space with all the ragebait content copied from reddit, twitter, etc
Load More Replies... Random Panda 2 years ago
Why are we giving trash like this even more attention they don't deserve?
Peta Hurley-Hill 2 years ago (edited)
Because it's important for women to know that this c**p is everywhere and important for decent men to know what women are up against on a daily basis. Know your enemy...
Load More Replies... Katie Lutesinger 2 years ago
Once again we are reminded as to why so many girls and women end up being murdered by some creep who couldn't cope with his inability to control her or accept being told no.
Serendipity911 2 years ago (edited)
Honestly and sadly this entire thread makes me want to advise every girl in my life to stay away from men. I've heard a man once say if girls could hear how men talk about them behind their back, they would never go near them.
censorshipsucks 2 years ago (edited)
as a man I support this. We should have to interview and provide CVs. And if you aren't selected you must go onto HRT to calm the f**k down (active shooters seem to be incels).
Load More Replies... wowbagger 2 years ago
Question for BP: would you post a list of 130 examples of dehumanizing racism toward black people, or dehumanizing homophobia toward gay/lesbian people? At what point have we crossed the line from valuable education about the hatred that's out there to exploitation of oppressed people's pain for rage-baiting/click-baiting purposes? Is that line different for different groups of oppressed people? If so, why?
Tamra 2 years ago
That is a DAMN good question, and one I'd like an answer to. What about it BP??
Load More Replies... Boris Long-Johnson 2 years ago
The individuals posting these clearly have some abhorrent beliefs. The question is where did they come from, I would love to know how many of these men have had little to no sex Ed in schools and them “learnt” their “facts” from the wrong place on the Internet. There’s 8billon people in the world and you’re always going to get nutters what I can’t work out is if the Internet is making it more obvious, worse or both. I have a horrible feeling it’s both. It feels like we’ve had a “golden age “ of enlightenment and are quickly slipping backwards - even if you’re not in the USA which appears as an outsider to have its issues but in Europe too.
Lytse Draak 2 years ago
A lot comes from their culture and upbringing. Values past down from father to son. Most abrahamic religions favour men, and a lot of cultures are based on this. I don't know if Hinduism is mysoginist, but culturally there's a lot of that in India as well. It's hard to break the cycle of misogynistic upbringing, but I hope more men will. And there are plenty of decent men out there as well, the comment section showed that
Load More Replies... Veronica Thomas Hickie 2 years ago (edited)
I had to stop reading this, I know there are people out there that are horrible. But reading this just ruined my day, there is soo much bad stuff going on, this is the last thing I wanted to read. I have come here every day to read light, happy, and funny stories, but not this.
Nadine Debard 2 years ago
Me too, I was about to throw up. This is highly unsettling.
Load More Replies... Tamra 2 years ago
Nah, don't do that. We need the good ones more than ever.
Load More Replies... Mary Moreck 2 years ago
Hate to break it to you folks, but there are a TON of men out there like this. They aren't living in the "back woods," nor are they uneducated. I've had the displeasure of dating some of them. And yes, they do say and think these things. And yes, they think everyone feels the same way. Scary and warped, but true.
Unslaadahsil 2 years ago
I think the USA recently had a president who believed this stuff... can't remember his name right now...
Load More Replies... Army Mom 2 years ago (edited)
This list pretty much sums up why I've never remarried. It's been 20+ years of being joyously single, doing as I want with my time and money, showing my male children that women can be strong, successful and loving and basically being happy. While I've dated long term a couple of times, what I learned was being alone and being lonely are two different things. Every one of those losers posted above can go jump off a cliff. Alone and lonely. As they deserve to be.
Izzy Curer 2 years ago
As a hardcore dweeb, I just want to know what it is in our society that makes some people turn out like this
censorshipsucks 2 years ago
sadly no. I know males who speak like this. Precisely two in fact. Pathetic.
Load More Replies... Lytse Draak 2 years ago
Read through it all. End result: I appreciate my husband even more, because he's nothing like these 50 idiots.
Bi-Polar Express 2 years ago
I can't believe I read the whole thing. Please tell me that the FBI has a department that just goes and watches these guys. They will be the ones buying larger guns than any eon could ever need.
Outson Fredrick 2 years ago
I just…I mean…I don’t know what to say. Is there hope for humanity? Be careful out there.
Marilyn Russell 2 years ago
I couldn’t even read most of these horrifying posts. This is a very scary world and these people live amongst you and I.
Marie Dahme 2 years ago
I can’t imagine these men have decent relationship with their mothers. If they do, where do they get these ideas from?
Suzanne Tilson 2 years ago
I finished this clearly understanding how people can be unattracted to men
JitkaBlitka 2 years ago
Couldn't get past #85. Feeling disgusted and depressed. But silver lining - I've never met such a "man" in my life, so they aren't hopefully many of them
Indosidius 2 years ago
This is a great example of a few bad samples that gives the rest a bad reputation. And sometimes I wonder what happened to these bad samples to turn them that way? Or is it just plain stupidity and ignorance?
similarly 2 years ago
How can there be so many people like this? smh. This is worse than sad. It's tragic. Here's my advice to these people: 1. Take a basic health class. 2. Make some female friends. 3. Learn to listen, be open-minded and open-hearted and have empathy for people. This is just bilge-muck (or for the land-bound: sewer muck?).
Jonahs Mrs 2 years ago
I'm doing my very best to raise 2 boys to be good men, like their dad is, the fact that they can come across poison like this just being on the Internet terrifies me. I have control with the youngest as I have parental control on his device and have it locked to age appropriate content but my eldest is now legally an adult. We talk about consent about what is healthy in a relationship and what isn't and his dad is an amazing role model, but this stuff, just being out there for him to stumble over terrifies me x
Haley Futch 2 years ago
Can we please start arresting men who post about femoids or identifying as incel?
Joshua Moore 2 years ago
I find it extremely difficult to believe all of these are true. I know us guys are thick headed, can't find things right in front of our face, etc. But these are just terribly painful and horrible. If any man actually believes this garbage, then a full frontal lobotomy is definitely in order.
Ka Se 2 years ago
I sometimes wonder if these postings are really meant seriously or if someone just wants to generate attention. I fear that some of these comments are indeed serious and from people with little education. That's why proper sex education is important for everyone in more than one grade. I don't mind parents insisting on teaching boys and girls separately, but no one should be allowed to withhold this knowledge from their offspring. In addition, free therapy should be made available to the unfortunate people with such feelings of hatred, as shown in some postings.
myspiritanimalisadumpsterfire 2 years ago (edited)
Couldn't finish this. I fully understand most men are not like this, but the fact that enough of them are out there and feel the need to go out of their way to post such hateful diatribe is beyond disturbing
Rick Swanson 2 years ago
You see the problem with this article is that that none of these are men. So it's inherently wrong from the get go. I think we can all agree that we need to make a new classification of human being that is non gender specific. We could call them. The dums..... cause that's all they are. Uselessly ignorant bags of flesh. The humans mentioned in this article in now way represent our gender and I am very offended at the insulation that they do.
Lytse Draak 2 years ago
While the examples were men talking about women, these examples don't represent men in general. I think we can agree on that Most men are good human beings and not as ignorant as was shown here.
Load More Replies... Brandie Litchfield 2 years ago
"So many men (incels), so many reasons to sleep alone" I learned long ago to not let self-righteous di**heads bait me to react to their game, I find that just pointing and laughing at them does such wonderful damage to their ego-- and not just to incels, to any arrogant, misogynistic, entitled " alpha" man that really really wants to put me in my place (as if), just point and laugh ladies, it confuses them.... The bigger the tree, the harder it falls. This was entertaining, like watching the incel Olympics would be!!!
Steven Bennett 2 years ago
I think it's good for all concerned that none of these men will ever procreate. Now please excuse me while I go find a brick wall to bang my head against.
Lytse Draak 2 years ago
Don't let these bad examples discourage you, there are good men out there as well. What you see on social media doesn't reflect the entirity of the male population.
Load More Replies... Benita Valdez 2 years ago
This was a train wreck I couldn't keep from reading. I prefer to have seen a literal train wreck with massive casualties than reading this knowing these guys are serious
Jill Bussey 2 years ago
I believe there is a lot of male ignorance about female bodies and feminism. Are boys not educated on human biology? It should be compulsory to everyone before the age of 12.
Rose the Cook 2 years ago
How old are these men? I thought they had sex education classes in schools.
Boris Long-Johnson 2 years ago (edited)
From what I’ve gathered sex Ed in schools - especially in the USA is rather lacking. There’s a YouTuber called MamaDrJones that has some very interesting comments on this subject. Sadly I think this is far more about subjugation of women than misunderstandings- at least from the actual people starting it rather than the mouthpieces.
Load More Replies... Lytse Draak 2 years ago
Just like some men apply their experience to the majority of women. It happens both ways. And these posts aren't just jokes and memes, but reflect a sad truth that people should be aware of.
Load More Replies... censorshipsucks 2 years ago
So you need to (a) sign up for biology class and (b) exit your mom's basement and go out into the sunshine a bit and find a married man, preferably one with a degree, to explain to you why women are people and are worth engaging as human beings, not merely as fleshlights. (c) grow the f**k up. (d) you are probably 14.
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