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“What Is Something Considered To Be ‘Normal’ By Society That You Refuse To Do?” (40 Answers)
We tend to go through life accepting a lot from society. We use these pieces of paper to buy things? Got it. I must work somewhere to earn more paper to ensure I can eat and have shelter? Yes sir. We must abide by rules the government decided on even if we disagree with them? Okay, sure. If we questioned everything that society considers normal, we’d go crazy. But recently, Reddit users have been discussing some socially acceptable things that upon further reflection, they decided they’ll never do.
2 months ago, Reddit user fuzziblanket asked, “What is something considered to be ‘normal’ by society that you refuse to do?” We’ve gone through the responses and curated this list of some of the most interesting topics that you may have never even questioned before. Whether you commonly do these activities or not, enjoy reading through them and determining if you still consider them normal. Be sure to upvote the answers you’d like other pandas to see, and let us know in the comments what “normal” things you’d never be caught doing.
Then if you’re looking for another Bored Panda piece pointing out odd yet socially acceptable things, look no further than right here.
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#1
recording yourself doing an act of charity or a good deed in general. completely devalues it the second you hit post
What’s considered “normal” is determined by society, but there are many societies around the globe that have their own quirks. In the United States, for example, it’s totally normal to drive your car anywhere you go, even if it’s just a mile away because there might not be decent sidewalks or crosswalks to get to your destination. In many other countries where roads are built to better accommodate pedestrians, this would be considered bizarre. It’s also normal in many European countries for kids to walk or bike to school by themselves, especially when they’re about 8-years-old or older. This would be very rare in the US. Even when in their own neighborhood, American kids are usually expected to have adult supervision at all times. When paying at a restaurant in the US, patrons typically hand the server their card, the server takes it to their computer, and then they return with the receipt. If a server in a European country tried to walk off with someone’s credit card, the customer might assume they were being robbed. Societal norms vary greatly based on where you are, so there's nothing wrong with questioning them. They might be more arbitrary than you think!
#2
Forbidding my (straight male) partner to spend time with female friends. He's a grown-a*s man; he should know how to hold healthy boundaries. It shouldn't be on me to keep him from cheating. If he's really gonna fall into the pants of the first girl I leave him alone with, she can have him.
Similarly, blaming someone else for my partner's failings, and/or trying to "win back" someone who doesn't want me. He's a big boy who can make his own choices (even bad ones), and I want a partner who wants to be with me, not someone I had to talk into staying.
(For the record, my dudeman of 20 years is awesome.)
Sarah Spencer 2 years ago
Anyone that enters into a relationship and starts setting the terms and conditions of their new partners interactions is definitely not a healthy person to be with!
#3
I don't know if it's been mentioned already, but I'll throw in my 5 cents.
The need to be available 24/7, i.e. always having your phone on you.
I like going for long walks and leaving my phone at home. I don't feel guilty for missing texts or calls, it's just stressful being expected to be available all hours of the day.
LagoonaBlueColleen 2 years ago
It's sad times when people are apologizing for not responding within a minute to a text. I have to tell friends to chill out. A text is not going to disappear. We all have other priorities and no one should expect anyone to stop their lives all of a sudden to engage in a conversation out of the blue.
One of the socially acceptable activities mentioned on this list is drinking alcohol. While alcohol has been around for centuries, it’s also the most commonly abused substance. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having a couple drinks, especially in social settings. Alcohol is linked with many cultures, as sharing a bottle of wine with a loved one or enjoying some beers with your best friends can be great ways to bond. Holidays tend to be filled with booze in many places as well.
But regardless of how socially acceptable drinking is, it’s completely fair to question it too. People who have experience with alcoholics in their families or personal lives may decide that drinking will never be for them. Others decide to refrain from drinking for religious or health reasons. Drinking heavily can lead to developing heart, liver, or kidney issues and can even increase an individual's likelihood of developing cancer. It's completely up to individuals whether or not they decide to drink; no one should ever feel pressured to order a drink because its expected by society.
#4
give a s**t about celebs. Sometimes they're fun to talk about for like 5 minutes but other than that? Aren't they just people? I don't get it.
#5
Work myself to death.
Edit: I commented this, passed out, and now it blew up. Thank you for the awards.
Also please use your vacation days. Your sick days. Take your dog out. Hang out with the family. Even if you're alone like me - Go do something you like.
#6
Talk to toxic family members
Sarah Spencer 2 years ago
This!!! Being related to someone does not grant them permanent space in your life. If they are not good people, you DON'T owe them your time, your forgiveness or your love.
Smoking is another habit that’s considered socially acceptable in some places but more taboo in others. We’re all well aware of cigarettes being carcinogens, and most of us have seen terrifying examples of what smoking can do to the body our entire lives. Yet for some reason, smoking is still incredibly common and accepted in many countries. In Greece, for example, about 38% of the population smokes, including 47% of men. According to cardiologist and tobacco control researcher Konstantinos Farsalinos, “Greeks aren’t highly motivated to quit. There is plenty of education, and we have smoking cessation centers, but they are not popular. There is not a lot of social pressure to quit smoking. Although there are laws prohibiting indoor smoking, those laws are not obeyed. So that reduces the social pressure. So, the smoker tends to forget the reasons why smoking is bad for you. Most Greek smokers only quit when they develop disease.” While the culture around smoking is different everywhere, it’s definitely worth questioning if it’s accepted wherever you live.
#7
Push for the removal of homeless. They need help, not further persecution.
Jiminy 2 years ago (edited)
Honestly, it depends. We have organized beggar clans, which get driven into the country in spring and back home in autumn. They refuse any and all help, they even refuse to use the toilets specifically installed for them only they have a key for, and instead s**t on sidewalks and p**s in parks and bike parking spaces instead. I get persecution.
#8
Wear makeup. If I can deal with my face, so can everyone else
Bloodstone_Phoenix 2 years ago (edited)
Good thing, since you can’t live in anyone else’s. Feel like that might be a bit illegal.
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Phillip Hart 2 years ago
If you want to makeup that's on you, but don't be shaming people for not. I personally think makeup is too much work but sometimes my wife thinks it appropriate for an event or some such
Anxiety Artist 2 years ago
Same thing if you don’t want to use makeup, don’t shame people for wanting to use makeup.
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LagoonaBlueColleen 2 years ago
Hate the feeling of makeup on my face. Some people are like "You must not be wearing good makeup". No, I just don't like feeling like I got all this powder and s**t all over my face and getting makeup all over my clothes and phone. It irritates my eyes, smudges, wears off within a few hours. Idgaf what the product claims are about lasting 24 hours or is waterproof. It still flakes away and dries tf out of your skin. Then the people who wear makeup everyday have to buy all these extra cleansers to wash it off, and all sorts of creams to bring the moisture back into their skin.
Stephaniep 2 years ago
It irritates my eyes, then I rub my eyes, then it's all ruined anyway.
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EnglishSetter011 2 years ago (edited)
A lot of people think that people use makeup to cover their insecurities and sure some do but a lot of people also use it because it is fun and unique. Idk if assuming that people wear makeup because they don’t like who they are is fair.
Markus It/Its 2 years ago
I feel makeup should always be for the wearer, never those who see it. It should be about boosting your own self-confidence and happiness, not about pleasing other people
Lauren Lessard 2 years ago
Agreed, and on a side note I love the it/it's. I have often wondered if I fall into that category also!
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Mateo Buysse 2 years ago
I do it for me. I like to often pass as female even though i am biologically a guy
M Whee 2 years ago
Nobody here cares if anyone wears it, go ahead and have fun. We ust prefer not to ourselves and don't like the pressure to confirm to what is considered "normal". I'll put some on for family photos so I m not shiny, but can't be bothered otherwise.
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Nikhita Clement 2 years ago
I'm very confident in my own skin and I like my face the way it is, I also like wearing makeup, it's a form of art and there's nothing wrong with it if you aren't using it as a way to hide from yourself
Abby 2 years ago (edited)
tbh the only time I wore makeup, was during my teen emo phase. I couldn't care abr wasting time and money on that junk. make ups expensive anyway, I could use that cash for better things, like video games.
Zedrapazia 2 years ago
Same here. I don't want to spend 60 bucks on a makeup kit if i could spend them on a cool new game instead
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nora bloom 2 years ago
everyone should feel confident no matter what is on their skin, shaming people for wearing makeup or not wearing makeup is just not right
LynzCatastrophe 2 years ago
I still wear makeup but at this point I'm mostly a collector of it. I work 12 hours a day that starts at 7am. I'm not waking up earlier than I have to just for something unnecessary. Deal with my face.
SillySparklyGirl 2 years ago
As a makeup artist, it's my passion. It's the one time of day where I can spoil myself, listen to music, and relax. I do charity work at women's shelters and seeing those women GLOW after being abused emotionally, mentally, and physically gives me goosebumps. No it's not for everyone, but for some of us it's art. For some of us it's giving back. For some of us, it's self care. For me, it's all of the above and more. ❤️
Katya McAdams 2 years ago
I agree with this; however, if you are interested in wearing makeup (like I am), then that is good too! (Happy Pride month btw!)
Channo Sagara 2 years ago (edited)
Sorry imma skip on this. If people should be allowed to NOT wear make-up, then they should be allowed to do so as well. My late mother was a make-up artist, she was a single mother who raised me and my sister alone. She was really good at her job, and she saw that going through the trouble of wearing make-up is a way to honor the people you're going to meet. Just like wearing uncomfortable suit or tie to work. When people stop giving a s**t, we'll all look like cavemen -messy hair, and sweatshirts, at workplaces.
Tysabri Rytasa 2 years ago
Honest question as this is what I’m taking away from your comment: so if I choose to not wear makeup, I’m not honoring the people I meet? And a bit of snark: I can choose to not wear makeup and that doesn’t automatically make me look like a “caveman”. I can still give a s**t about how I look - but I don’t have to wear makeup just because it’s “expected of me” as a female/person who identifies as female.
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Monic Krugell 2 years ago
and then when I feel the need to put on some make-up my skin under it is not ruined and I don't have to put on multiple layers!
cloudninejen 2 years ago
The face you were born with is way more beautiful than any face you can paint onto it.
Chicken Tacos R Better 2 years ago
LOL if you ever saw me you'd change your perspective immediately.
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Alex Boomhower 2 years ago
I used to wear makeup everyday because I felt ugly without it, now I only wear it when I feel like it because it feels like painting and I enjoy it.
Scourge McCloud 2 years ago
I don't understand why some people are taking this as a personal attack. When someone says they're not into makeup or don't want to wear it, they're talking about themselves and their preferences not other people.
Cynthia 2 years ago
Yup. The ideas that I feel are right for me to live my life are just that. Period. Don't wanna push my stuff on Anybody.
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Tiffany Schmidt 2 years ago
I love wearing makeup and do it for myself. To me its an art and something that I actually enjoy doing. I would never shame anyone else for not wearing though. Its up to you and no one else should care if you wear or don't wear makeup
Elena Sakman 2 years ago
I would wear make up if I wouldn't be too lazy. I like how it looks though
Alana Voeks 2 years ago
Getting the wrong kind of makeup can make your skin worse in the long run anyways
Rafa Takami 2 years ago
Exactly! I rarely wear make up, but when I do, it's just some very neutral lipstick and maybe some eyeliner very slightly. Nothing that is very noticeable and that will change how I look like. I like being naturally how I am
Emma Nalén 2 years ago
I just think its fun, it ties a great end to my routine. Listen to music take a shower, skin Care and Then some tv show while i do my makeup. You have to put limits tho, who do you do it for, do you enjoy it? And not shaming people for choosing not to
Andre Blue 2 years ago
Makeup should be for fun and for everyone when anyone feels like wearing it, not some weird gendered obligation.
DanieGirl 2 years ago
I like living in my own skin, but I also really like cosmetics! I’m naturally a blonde which some people think is really great. I think that it is great and like my hair, but my issue with being blonde is the fact that my eyebrows & eyelashes are even blonder. The reason why this is something that irks is because my eyelashes/eyebrows are so light that they are pretty much transparent. As such I chose to tint my eyebrows and sometimes wear mascara because it is something that makes me feel good about how I look for myself. Prior to doing this in order to add a bit of definition to my face I felt like I looked like the “Stay Puff Marshmallow Man” from the original Ghostbusters of the’80’s. If you haven’t seen it. You really should, lol because it’s pretty great! Oh another reason why I like utilizing some cosmetics has a bit to do with the fact that my skin Does Not Tan. Same with my sister’s so the best we can hope for going au natural is a bit of a glow or a sunburn…
ThePlantMoss 2 years ago
I wear makeup, but only ever eyeshadow and eyeliner! I love the pretty colours and styles. But I don't wear concealer or anything like that, don't see the point
Peter Ledoux 2 years ago
Too much makeup is funny. Looks like they used their face for a coloring book.
Susan Kiser 2 years ago
This I don’t get. I was so excited to wear make up. My mom allowed lip gloss and mascara my 1st year of wearing make up. I don’t always wear it, but I do when we go to dinner or something.
Andrea Cochran 2 years ago
I think it's an individual thing, there are days I'll go full glam others the most I can be bothered to do is put on lip balm and that's only because I have chapped lips.
Vortex Lazer 2 years ago
I can't do makeup because I will definitely break out, so yeah, I prefer to do natural.
Leigh Kalmus 2 years ago
I am self conscious of my horrible acne scarring and frequent breakouts but makeup makes it worse. So yeah everyone can deal with it!
Passivepagan 2 years ago
I rarely ever wear makeup unless it's for a special occasion and even then, it's thee bare minimum. I hate how it feels on my face.
Caitlin Scull 2 years ago
I'm too lazy to put effort into how I look. I am comfortable with the way I look. I think everyone is beautiful the way they are😊
Aldana Páez 2 years ago (edited)
I used to just apply lip gloss and I felt good with just that. Now with the face mask, that seems pointless
Saara-Elina Kaukiainen 2 years ago
I wear makeup occasionally when I go to a party or such. But it's like brows, eyes, lips. I don't get contouring or heavy stage like makeup. On the other hand, if someone likes to wear makeup it's ok. It's not my face. 🙂
Liam Lowenthal 2 years ago
Makeup looks horrid on me. I don't wear it because I dont want to give children nightmares.
Bryan With A Why 2 years ago
The only one that pressures women to wear makeup are themselves and other women. Any real man doesn't want you to cake paint on your face to look fake attractive.
Julia McElroy 2 years ago
We seriously need to get past the idea that makeup on women is normal and healthy
Athena Bloom 2 years ago
I only wear makeup when I want an extremely exaggerated look, and I only do that when I want to feel like an artist with my face being the canvas.
Janis Rodman 2 years ago
Yuuup...right there with you...waste of time and money... also I would not be caught dead in high heels or nylons...who is the moron who invented those?
Gabby Sommerville 2 years ago
For me it just takes to much time to do in the mornings. One of the first things I like to do when I wake up is eat😋
Laurie Philie 2 years ago
This, exactly. I'm sick of people telling me I'd look so much younger if I wore makeup.
Tigerpacingthecage 2 years ago
I used to have a good skin care routine and make up routine. It was a form of self care. I still do it... occasionally.... (as I started over having small kids and it's just not the same if you have to rush it - takes away the calming effect). I do think it's definitely affected by social standards/gender stereotypes for me though (wanting to wear make up and the feeling of being "put together") but I don't really have any issues with showing up without it (people definitely treat you differently though and you hear "you look tired" a lot).
Deborah Barron Brown 2 years ago
I Stopped wearing makeup during covid. Covid got me to finally make changes in my life.
somnomania 2 years ago
the infrequent times i wear makeup, it's just a little eyeshadow, and it's for me, no one else. i really don't understand how some people do the full face, foundation, bronzer, highlighting, contouring, whatever else is involved. life is too short for that s**t.
Anita Jesena 2 years ago
Ppl have to get used to it. Especially now with my disability. My goodness, I'm not in sales or an account manager. Let's see, execs are cool with me bc they know I'm all about cybersec and have the enough experience under my belt to scare others at conferences--like a pop quiz.
B Jean the Jelly Bean 2 years ago
Now that I'm older yes. But when I was younger makeup was a must!
SydneyGirl 2 years ago
After 2 yrs of Covid and hardly ever needing to wear it, I'm over it. I'll wear it now on special occasions but I agree, if I can deal with my face, so can others!
Chrissa Todd 2 years ago
True I don't wear it really either I wear lup stuff sometimes but that's it
Midoribird Aoi 2 years ago
Don't wear makeup, but do take care of your skin for the sake of health. Keeping it hydrated so it is not always cracking and peeling, or worse, sunburned, will keep you from having wounds left open to infection. A little proper lotion or sunscreen goes a long way.
MarWol 2 years ago
I usually never wear makeup, but did currently on my wedding day. About 5 minutes into the party I forgot about the makeup and accidentally gave my husband's collar a new shade of beige. I did look good, though ^^ only my skin didn't thank me and gave me pimples as a wedding present
Carrie Priegel 2 years ago
Unless you're naturally attractive without it like Halle Berry, Penelope Cruz or Cindy Crawford, we mortals benefit with at least some that makes us more presentable. Remember this, too: no person is an island, "the rest of us have to look at you" so please don't make us suffer in the process.🙏
Similarly to smoking, people around the world have very different views on recreational drugs as well. Marijuana is particularly controversial, as it has been legalized for recreational use in 6 countries, 19 states in the US, and parts of Australia. In places where it is legal, like the state of Oregon for example, it usually is considered socially acceptable. Sure, it’s not for everyone, but it’s legal and harmless, so people tend to mind their own business. However, in other places where it is heavily enforced, like the Philippines where it is considered a "dangerous drug", people are a lot less likely to openly discuss their marijuana use. How socially acceptable recreational drugs are depends greatly on individual cultures, but even in places where marijuana is common, there will always be those who simply have no interest in getting high.
#10
My dad just scolded me because I was unwilling to put in 60+ hrs/week at a new salaried job by saying 'I've worked 70/hr since I was out of college!'
Yeah dad, that's probably why you missed every important life event and smoke a juul at age 57
#11
I don’t drink or do illicit drugs. Alcohol messes with my medication, and pot gives me anxiety. I am a sober person and people often give me s**t about it and call me boring.
Mary Rose Kent 2 years ago
I’m sorry to break this to you, but you’re hanging out with the wrong people. Unless everyone is drunk, being with drunk people is really boring!
#12
Hang out in a social setting where the music is so gawdam loud that you have to scream at the person next to you to communicate.
Another thing mentioned on this list that some people swear they’ll never experience is dating apps. Online dating originally began in 1995 when Match.com launched, but as our culture has become increasingly obsessed with the internet since then, finding love online has only become more and more common. In 2020, the Pew Research Center found that 30% of Americans had ever used a dating site or app, including 48% of people between the ages of 18-29. These numbers have likely only gone up since the onset of the pandemic, though, and online dating is even more common among members of the LGBT+ community. Pew found that 55% of LGBT respondents had experience on a dating site or app, with 21% of them saying they had even been in a serious relationship with someone they met online.
#13
Two months ago, my dad died. He had cancer and had had it for like a year.
I told my work over and over again that he was really sick. I work in an office and am on a computer all day. I have a company-supplied laptop. I have the ability to work from home, but I was not allowed to do so because I was an hourly employee.
I told them that his condition was worsening. I live five hours from my parents. They refused to accommodate me, even when I offered to work every day from my parents house, just so I could be with him.
They said 'well maybe when the situation gets more dire.'
I tried to apply for FMLA (I think that’s the right acronym) and I wasn’t eligible because I was hourly and hadn’t been there for a year yet, despite the circumstances. A week before he died I told my boss that it was almost time and I might have to take off work.
They were not concerned and told me as long as I got my work done and didn’t miss deadlines. I took the day he died off work—I just had a bad feeling, and was packing to go see him when he passed.
I told my work and they don’t have bereavement leave. So I offered to work remotely during this period and again they refused. Again, I have a 'good job' working at a huge corporation, in an office; my job requires a degree.
I was forced to use all of my sick time and some of my PTO so I could attend his funeral and help my mother with arrangements.
And I'm stuck here because I can't afford to quit without something else lined up. I've been looking. They obviously don't see us as humans.
You don’t owe your company anything. I would give anything to go back and time and quit, just to spend the last few weeks with my dad.
Whatever company you work for doesn’t care about you, only about how much you make them. Don’t worry about screwing them over or anything because at the end of the day, you could die and they would consider it a small inconvenience.
LagoonaBlueColleen 2 years ago
This. Companies think they're the most important s**t on the planet over humans. Idc if it's business or what. They're run by humans who've forgotten where they came from and the meaning of what's important. We're not slaves to corporations. We're brainwashed into believing we need them.
#14
Have kids.
I'm a 38 year old woman with lots of experience with kids - I like kids! - but people think that is a reason to birth them.
Mary Rose Kent 2 years ago
Being able to opt in or opt out of hanging out with munchkins is great! I love being Aunt Mary Rose and not Mommy!
#15
Ironing. Life is too short. I don't even own an iron and my clothes are just fine.
Jar of Pickles 2 years ago
I may be weird, but I love ironing. The best part is when you watch the transformation of a shirt, from a wrinkled to a smooth one. I love it!
When it comes to apps specifically, they did begin as a way for same-sex couples to meet. Grindr, a location-based app geared towards gay and bisexual men, launched in 2009 and started somewhat of a sexual revolution in the gay community. Since then, dating apps have become the norm for everyone regardless of sexual orientation. Tinder launched in 2012, and now has over 50,000,000 users. But just because dating apps are now socially acceptable doesn’t mean everyone has to use them. In fact, about half of Americans say that online dating has had neither a positive or negative effect on their love lives. If you prefer to meet people the old fashion way, there’s no reason to feel pressured into using the internet.
#16
Don't follow sports
John Smith 2 years ago
I get really annoyed when people don't understand "I don't care it is boring to me" as an excuse to explain it to me in minute detail, as I just don't understand it. My usual response is to start explaining software development to them. Strangely they aren't interested and don't want to talk about it.. and yet don't get the link.
#17
Yes. People are flabbergasted when I’m not informed on the latest celebrity news and honestly I just don’t see a reason to keep up with it
#18
Smoking. I can't stand cigarette smell.
Nikki Sevven 2 years ago
I'm a smoker (down from 30/day to 10/day and on my way to quitting completely), and I always ensure I'm well away from everyone when I light up. No one wants to breathe my smoke or even get it on their clothes. It absolutely is a disgusting habit, and I wish my parents hadn't smoked, because I probably would never have started.
Social media is another thing that has become socially acceptable, but still doesn’t appeal to everyone. Since social media began in the early 2000s, it has dominated the internet. In 2004, MySpace was the first site of its kind to reach over 1 million monthly active users, but today, Facebook has 2.89 billion active users. Facebook has been the most popular social media site globally for over a decade now, but Youtube is quickly catching up, with 2.29 billion active users. Among the other most successful sites are Instagram, which currently has 2 billion active users, and TikTok, which has only been around since 2016 and already has 1 billion active monthly users.
#19
Walk in the house with shoes.
Why people want to track all the junk from the outside and smear it over the floors , bed, and couch?! No thanks
Legendteller 2 years ago
Here in Finland that's considered VERY rude and it makes sense to take the shoes off.
#20
Call my coffee something other than small, medium & large.
#21
Bore other people with photos of everyday stuff they see all the time anyway. For example, the meal I am going to eat, the shoes I bought, the place I am at.
LagoonaBlueColleen 2 years ago
If it's on social media people have the choice to just scroll past it.
Despite how popular social media sites are, it’s understandable why some people would want to avoid them. One of the biggest reasons people cite for staying off these apps is because they can be a huge waste of time. The average global user spends about 2 hours and 27 minutes on social media per day, with average users in Nigeria and the Philippines spending over 4 hours per day. It’s easy to rack up hours on these sites though, as they are typically designed to be addictive. With features like “likes” and feeds designed to constantly show users new content, these websites are aimed at getting users hooked.
#22
Do “lives” on social media. Since when did vanity and narcissism become so acceptable?
No one cares about your dining experience or “get ready with me” moments.
#23
Text while hanging with friends, or out to dinner, or driving, or in a movie theater.
Firstname Lastname 2 years ago
I'll text my man to update him on if I plan on being home soon, as a courtesy, but otherwise my phone is out of sight. Texting around others is rude.
#24
One Night Stands
Sex doesn't mean anything to me if I can't build a connection first
Social media is also notorious for causing users to compare themselves to others, which can negatively impact their self esteem. One study from the University of Pennsylvania even found that reducing social media use to only 30 minutes a day resulted in a reduction in anxiety levels, depression, loneliness, sleep problems and FOMO (fear of missing out). Like everything else, there’s nothing wrong with using social media in moderation. But just because it’s considered “normal” to spend hours a day on these sites does not mean you need to create an account today. If your life is perfectly fine without social media, I’m sure it won’t be any better with it.
#25
Going in debt $30k-$70k for a vehicle.
Powerful Katrinka 2 years ago
Which begins to depreciate the minute you drive it out of the lot. I've always bought used cars, and I've never regretted it.
#26
Shave/wax my pubes. I actually really like having pubic hair. It doesn't bother me or my partner, and I find waxing and/or shaving extremely uncomfortable and not at all worth it.
#27
Buy fast fashion (or pretty much any fashion whose supply chain is questionable). I used to. Then I found out not only how and where those clothes begin their lives, but also how and where those clothes end their lives.
It was so horrific, I decided I was done. I now buy secondhand, or I save and buy pieces from independent tailors from sites like Etsy. And I research the tailor too.
I also took some of the money I saved from clothes shopping and got a sewing machine. I am learning to sew and make my own summer dresses (I'm not good enough yet to take on complex clothing, but I'm learning)
Mary Rose Kent 2 years ago
My grandmother made most of my clothes for me when I was a child, and she had an old treadle machine that she eventually replaced with something more in keeping with the times. After my poor grandfather died after living on without my grandmother for 11 years, my aunt had all of the grandchildren—who were all adults—had each of us walk through my grandparents’ home of 60+ year (a home my grandfather built) and put a Post-It with our name on anything we wanted to take home with us. I chose a small number of things, all of which were made by one or the other of my grandparents, and I took home everything I asked for.
I think this list has taught us that just because something is considered "normal" does not mean we have to go along with it. We all have the right to make our own choices, and what's socially acceptable totally depends on where we end up living. Enjoy the rest of this list, and remember to upvote the answers you most agree with. Then let us know in the comments if you think of any other "normal" activities you would never do that didn't make it onto this list.
#28
My wife and I had a very small wedding on a beach with only our parents there. Then, we drove to a mountain and hiked to the top with our photographer for our first dance.
It was incredible and people keep telling us they wish they could’ve done something that simple but social pressures made them spend more.
Now, we’ve just had to spend more than the entire cost of our wedding just to buy the plane tickets to attend my sister’s big wedding.
TheReader19 2 years ago
Treat it as a nice holiday, but seriously; I wouldn't go into debt to go to my own wedding much less anyone else. If I couldn't afford it I wouldn't go sister or no sister
#30
Have tons of social media accounts where I'm constantly posting pictures of what I'm doing every day. Remember, if it's not photographed and posted online, it didn't happen.
#31
Didn’t see it here so figured I’d share. Live in a city. I was born in a large city, lived there until I was 11. Then moved to the woods. I’ve lived in the woods since then and although I have visited cities since, I could never live there. Too many people, too much noise and I just don’t feel comfortable. I feel more comfortable taking walks at night in the woods than I would in a city.
Mary Rose Kent 2 years ago
I lived in San Francisco for most of my adult life (40 of my now 66 years), and my last apartment there was the best one I’d ever had, and I wanted to spend the rest of my life there. Alas, once I was no longer working, I had to move, and after a year (minus two days) of living with my favorite brother and his wife on their farm in rural Oregon, I ended up with a job in a small town on the Mendocino coast of Northern California. I have come to love small-town life in a way I would never have anticipated. I just wish I weren’t so far from my dearest friends, who all live in the Bay Area.
#32
Have never and will never use a dating app.
Slytherin_4_LYF 2 years ago
Sometimes that is the only way people can get to know new people. Haven't used one in a while, but i def would again if i needed to.
#33
Small talk.
#34
This might be oddly specific, it's wearing flip flops.
I grew up in a tourist beach town, I have never owned a pair of flip flops in my life. I find them wildly uncomfortable and people in my hometown look at me like a crazy person when I tell them I don't own a pair.
#36
brushing before breakfast:
doing that is basically wiping before you s**t and i refuse to do that
#37
Buy copious amounts of dishes, Why the f**k do you need 27 plates for the two people in your household. Im looking at you mom.
Random Panda 2 years ago (edited)
Do you never have guests over? I also have a dumber reason for it - so I can use my dishwasher. I wouldn't run it for just two or three plates (it's wasting water and energy) and I hate washing dishes, so I have enough to use until the dishwasher is full.
#38
The Hustle Culture. Although I like the idea of bettering your life but always thinking of doing something or the other will leave you with burnout. Taking a break regularly is nessecary
Edit: It's good if you are in a bad place. But it's not always about working your a*s off. What's important is taking a break and keep it from becoming toxic
Yeah, you heard 2 years ago
What does this even mean? To me, hustling means coercing or tricking people into doing something or buying something. I don't think that's generally accepted though is it?
#40
Play wordle
What do you think ?
Cactuar Jon 2 years ago
Businesses bending to please customers no matter what. This whole 'the customer is always right' mentality. It is soul destroying for the workers that have to deal with these kinds of customers and it's about time businesses start standing up for themselves against entitled baby adults who act like it's the end of the world when they have to cover their own return postage costs. Humans should not be treat so badly by other humans while trying to provide them with a service!
Lisa Swager 2 years ago
Agreed. Be the customer who gets awesome service because you are polite, respectful, and worth helping to have a good outcome.
Load More Replies... Bill Evs 2 years ago
Smart phone obsession. I know people who seemingly can't put their phone down for more than a few minutes at a time.
Monday 2 years ago
My mother is like that. I have the tendency to forget about the existence of my phone for days at a time though, which isn't really great for communication either.
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Debbie 2 years ago
Didn't read the entire list, but to me it seems many were just "getting older and more relaxed and less caring about what other thinks" things. Could also be titled "Things you stop worrying about when you are growing older".
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
Some of them were definitely like that, others were just pretentious (like the ones that refuse to say "grande" or "venti")
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John Baker 2 years ago
Use Alexa. Not only are there privacy issues, I do not talk to inanimate objects.
Tamra 2 years ago
I'd like to say I'm the same, although I did cuss a tree limb when I tripped over it yesterday. Falling, at my age, is not funny. F*****g tree limb.
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magpookie1133 2 years ago
Why is wearing tall heels not on this list? I refuse to wear things that causes pain in my feet and cause disfigurement in toes over time. I just don't get it.
Jennifer Lee 2 years ago
I can't believe that wearing high heels is still a thing. They feel horrible and they deform your toes. I haven't worn heels in years and my toes are all perfectly straight and smooth.
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Elissa H 2 years ago
Thinking my way is the only way... I'm so tired of people thinking that what is right to them/for them is right for everyone. Especially now that the government is making decisions for everyone based on their own private/religious beliefs.
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
I'm of two minds on this. I can see your point of view, for sure, but humans wouldn't have succeeded as a species without cooperation, and without thinking of the group as a whole. We're social animals because alone, we're not that great. We're fragile, we're weak (compared to other animals that are similarly sized), we're slow...if a human and a chimp had a fight, the chimp would eat the human's face off. If 50 humans fought the chimp, they would win. If 49 humans sat back and did nothing while one fought it, then the chimp would win and move on to the next person. And the next. And the next. Now imagine that chimp is covid and you can see why vaccines and masking and social distancing are so important
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SoloDadof3 2 years ago
People downvoting your comments when they are on subject, then getting a ban because BP refuses to even have a person check first!
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
Yeah, getting your comments hidden because it's an unpopular opinion is a bummer
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Karen Barker 2 years ago
The obsession with hero worshipping the military. It's overdone and ridiculous.
Ruby 2 years ago
Always having your phone out during concerts. Live in the moment people, why do you need to record a whole darn song and block the view for others?! The amount of phones in the air filming nowadays when the band gets on stage, it's crazy.
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
That one seems weird to me too - like, you aren't doing a better job of recording the concert than the professional videographers are doing (probably at that same concert), all you'll hear on the phone is the screaming of the people around you (because phone microphones work different than human ears), and all you'll see is a distant blur of lights because the camera can't pick out what the human eye focuses on...it's really just a waste of time
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Phil Vaive 2 years ago
For me, it's watching gory movies. Like the Saw franchise, or Final Destination, or any other movies where they viscerally show people getting killed. There's something really wrong with a culture that has movie theatres full of people watching human bodies being torn apart, but showing people having sex is still considered to be pretty taboo.
Ein Steinbeck 2 years ago
Fvck late-stage capitalism and all of its fans. I refuse to put corporations over humans.
I've been watching you since 2 years ago
Acting like the customer is always right. Not true AT ALL. The saying is just a way for rude people to manipulate employees and get what they want most times.
Noel Benavente 2 years ago
Celebrating my birthday or congratulate people on theirs... i absolutelly see no reason.
Charlie Glass 2 years ago
I don't understand why there are paragraphs on not drinking and not smoking and about dating apps between the numbered points. This website is hard to read.
PixelatedPeach 2 years ago
I never had any interest in downloading TikTok, but my mom always likes sending me TikToks she likes, so I finally downloaded the app just so I can watch what my mom sends me but I just don’t bother with it otherwise 🤷🏼♀️
Linda Tisue 2 years ago
Taking a cruise ferry. More over taking a car in the ferry so one can drive around. I live in Sweden.for all the ecofriendly people, somehow Swedes think it is their birthright to take those polluting cruises.
Sabrina Bowen 2 years ago
Having friends. I don't have friends, I don't want friends. I have my husband a d that's often more social interaction than I can handle or want.
Amo Mazzuchelli 2 years ago
This is a "just do you" post, I like it people shouldn't feel pressured to do thing they just don't want to do
Lorie Shewbridge 2 years ago (edited)
This may not be totally the norm, but using the insanely hard-to-read cApItAl AnD sMaLl letter typing. I HATE it. Please stop it, people!!! I know, I did it there, just for effect so you could see what I meant. 🤬
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
I get the reasoning for it though - it's meant to denote mockery and sarcasm, which is inherently VERY tricky to get across with the written word. It's meant to be read the way a kid would repeat back something you said to make fun of you: "I said to go clean your room!" "I sAid tO go cLeAn YoUr rOoooOmM"
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Iga Błażejewska 2 years ago
I will never drink coffee. I find it equal to alcohol and cigarettes and pot, it's addictive and it irks me that caffeine addiction is so normalized.
RaroaRaroa 2 years ago
I gave up by #7. Nothing on that list is stuff I consider people are "normally" doing anyway. Except the posting their good deeds, which is fine by me. It does no harm, and if it's the only reason someone does a good deed, who cares. The recipient of the deed still receives.
Bryan With A Why 2 years ago
It's the only reason I read this article because it's 100% on the dot. Nobody cares about your pride or your mental illnesses. Just fix yourself and work on building a better family and stop caring what the world thinks.
Load More Replies... Alana Voeks 2 years ago
The idea that you NEED to respect your parents. They brought you into this world, but you can take yourself out. Not only that, but don't you think the ones WITH EXPERIENCE should be working for the respect, not the other way around? Doing the bare minimum is not earning respect. That's doing your due diligence for bringing a life into this world.
Lisa Swager 2 years ago
I hate the media-centric displays of who is gay today. I dont care who you do, you do you! I just dont need it taking my news feed. Not my business.
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
Down voted for SURE. This is SUCH a hetero-centric point of view. Nobody asked for your input. But you know who does care about celebrities coming out? Gay people. People who are still in the closet. People who still have to fear for their LIVES when they consider coming out. People who worry about being attacked, having their lives on the line, for walking or talking "too gay". When gay is normalized, people like me won't have to worry as much. When people like Lil Nas X, Elliott Page, and Kristen Stewart come out, and talk about it, and share it, they are making life immeasurably better for people like them. But sure, they should STFU because it annoys your breeder a*s.
Load More Replies... Stefan 2 years ago
Having a pet. For me, it doesn't make any sense. Why would you breed and slave an animal, remove all their wild instinct for absolute no use other than serve humans' lack of affection.
ThePlantMoss 2 years ago
Dogs have been domesticated for thousands and thousands of years, humans love companionship - and animals are nonjudgemental and loyal
Load More Replies... Phil Vaive 2 years ago
Out of all the topics that are glamourized in pop culture and music, you chose to make polygamy your example? Not like, rape, child molestation, murder? Polygamy is your hill to die on? Weird.
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Cactuar Jon 2 years ago
Businesses bending to please customers no matter what. This whole 'the customer is always right' mentality. It is soul destroying for the workers that have to deal with these kinds of customers and it's about time businesses start standing up for themselves against entitled baby adults who act like it's the end of the world when they have to cover their own return postage costs. Humans should not be treat so badly by other humans while trying to provide them with a service!
Lisa Swager 2 years ago
Agreed. Be the customer who gets awesome service because you are polite, respectful, and worth helping to have a good outcome.
Load More Replies... Bill Evs 2 years ago
Smart phone obsession. I know people who seemingly can't put their phone down for more than a few minutes at a time.
Monday 2 years ago
My mother is like that. I have the tendency to forget about the existence of my phone for days at a time though, which isn't really great for communication either.
Load More Replies... Debbie 2 years ago
Didn't read the entire list, but to me it seems many were just "getting older and more relaxed and less caring about what other thinks" things. Could also be titled "Things you stop worrying about when you are growing older".
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
Some of them were definitely like that, others were just pretentious (like the ones that refuse to say "grande" or "venti")
Load More Replies... John Baker 2 years ago
Use Alexa. Not only are there privacy issues, I do not talk to inanimate objects.
Tamra 2 years ago
I'd like to say I'm the same, although I did cuss a tree limb when I tripped over it yesterday. Falling, at my age, is not funny. F*****g tree limb.
Load More Replies... magpookie1133 2 years ago
Why is wearing tall heels not on this list? I refuse to wear things that causes pain in my feet and cause disfigurement in toes over time. I just don't get it.
Jennifer Lee 2 years ago
I can't believe that wearing high heels is still a thing. They feel horrible and they deform your toes. I haven't worn heels in years and my toes are all perfectly straight and smooth.
Load More Replies... Elissa H 2 years ago
Thinking my way is the only way... I'm so tired of people thinking that what is right to them/for them is right for everyone. Especially now that the government is making decisions for everyone based on their own private/religious beliefs.
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
I'm of two minds on this. I can see your point of view, for sure, but humans wouldn't have succeeded as a species without cooperation, and without thinking of the group as a whole. We're social animals because alone, we're not that great. We're fragile, we're weak (compared to other animals that are similarly sized), we're slow...if a human and a chimp had a fight, the chimp would eat the human's face off. If 50 humans fought the chimp, they would win. If 49 humans sat back and did nothing while one fought it, then the chimp would win and move on to the next person. And the next. And the next. Now imagine that chimp is covid and you can see why vaccines and masking and social distancing are so important
Load More Replies... SoloDadof3 2 years ago
People downvoting your comments when they are on subject, then getting a ban because BP refuses to even have a person check first!
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
Yeah, getting your comments hidden because it's an unpopular opinion is a bummer
Load More Replies... Karen Barker 2 years ago
The obsession with hero worshipping the military. It's overdone and ridiculous.
Ruby 2 years ago
Always having your phone out during concerts. Live in the moment people, why do you need to record a whole darn song and block the view for others?! The amount of phones in the air filming nowadays when the band gets on stage, it's crazy.
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
That one seems weird to me too - like, you aren't doing a better job of recording the concert than the professional videographers are doing (probably at that same concert), all you'll hear on the phone is the screaming of the people around you (because phone microphones work different than human ears), and all you'll see is a distant blur of lights because the camera can't pick out what the human eye focuses on...it's really just a waste of time
Load More Replies... Phil Vaive 2 years ago
For me, it's watching gory movies. Like the Saw franchise, or Final Destination, or any other movies where they viscerally show people getting killed. There's something really wrong with a culture that has movie theatres full of people watching human bodies being torn apart, but showing people having sex is still considered to be pretty taboo.
Ein Steinbeck 2 years ago
Fvck late-stage capitalism and all of its fans. I refuse to put corporations over humans.
I've been watching you since 2 years ago
Acting like the customer is always right. Not true AT ALL. The saying is just a way for rude people to manipulate employees and get what they want most times.
Noel Benavente 2 years ago
Celebrating my birthday or congratulate people on theirs... i absolutelly see no reason.
Charlie Glass 2 years ago
I don't understand why there are paragraphs on not drinking and not smoking and about dating apps between the numbered points. This website is hard to read.
PixelatedPeach 2 years ago
I never had any interest in downloading TikTok, but my mom always likes sending me TikToks she likes, so I finally downloaded the app just so I can watch what my mom sends me but I just don’t bother with it otherwise 🤷🏼♀️
Linda Tisue 2 years ago
Taking a cruise ferry. More over taking a car in the ferry so one can drive around. I live in Sweden.for all the ecofriendly people, somehow Swedes think it is their birthright to take those polluting cruises.
Sabrina Bowen 2 years ago
Having friends. I don't have friends, I don't want friends. I have my husband a d that's often more social interaction than I can handle or want.
Amo Mazzuchelli 2 years ago
This is a "just do you" post, I like it people shouldn't feel pressured to do thing they just don't want to do
Lorie Shewbridge 2 years ago (edited)
This may not be totally the norm, but using the insanely hard-to-read cApItAl AnD sMaLl letter typing. I HATE it. Please stop it, people!!! I know, I did it there, just for effect so you could see what I meant. 🤬
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
I get the reasoning for it though - it's meant to denote mockery and sarcasm, which is inherently VERY tricky to get across with the written word. It's meant to be read the way a kid would repeat back something you said to make fun of you: "I said to go clean your room!" "I sAid tO go cLeAn YoUr rOoooOmM"
Load More Replies... Iga Błażejewska 2 years ago
I will never drink coffee. I find it equal to alcohol and cigarettes and pot, it's addictive and it irks me that caffeine addiction is so normalized.
RaroaRaroa 2 years ago
I gave up by #7. Nothing on that list is stuff I consider people are "normally" doing anyway. Except the posting their good deeds, which is fine by me. It does no harm, and if it's the only reason someone does a good deed, who cares. The recipient of the deed still receives.
Bryan With A Why 2 years ago
It's the only reason I read this article because it's 100% on the dot. Nobody cares about your pride or your mental illnesses. Just fix yourself and work on building a better family and stop caring what the world thinks.
Load More Replies... Alana Voeks 2 years ago
The idea that you NEED to respect your parents. They brought you into this world, but you can take yourself out. Not only that, but don't you think the ones WITH EXPERIENCE should be working for the respect, not the other way around? Doing the bare minimum is not earning respect. That's doing your due diligence for bringing a life into this world.
Lisa Swager 2 years ago
I hate the media-centric displays of who is gay today. I dont care who you do, you do you! I just dont need it taking my news feed. Not my business.
Phil Vaive 2 years ago
Down voted for SURE. This is SUCH a hetero-centric point of view. Nobody asked for your input. But you know who does care about celebrities coming out? Gay people. People who are still in the closet. People who still have to fear for their LIVES when they consider coming out. People who worry about being attacked, having their lives on the line, for walking or talking "too gay". When gay is normalized, people like me won't have to worry as much. When people like Lil Nas X, Elliott Page, and Kristen Stewart come out, and talk about it, and share it, they are making life immeasurably better for people like them. But sure, they should STFU because it annoys your breeder a*s.
Load More Replies... Stefan 2 years ago
Having a pet. For me, it doesn't make any sense. Why would you breed and slave an animal, remove all their wild instinct for absolute no use other than serve humans' lack of affection.
ThePlantMoss 2 years ago
Dogs have been domesticated for thousands and thousands of years, humans love companionship - and animals are nonjudgemental and loyal
Load More Replies... Phil Vaive 2 years ago
Out of all the topics that are glamourized in pop culture and music, you chose to make polygamy your example? Not like, rape, child molestation, murder? Polygamy is your hill to die on? Weird.
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