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We often read of things that are totally normal in America but look super crazy to the rest of the world. Like free refills, medical debts, the sheer portion sizes, you name it. But hey, the place and time is everything when it comes to which things we view as typical and which ones raise our brows.

So this time, we are setting our eyes on Europe and the weird customs, things, and manners people in its 44 countries have that look totally crazy to Americans. “What's considered normal in Europe but horrific in America?” someone asked on AskReddit, and 12.7k comments followed.

We picked some of the most telling and thought-provoking responses that prove European countries are also home to a bunch of weirdos!

#1

People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Old things. Houses especially. "Someone died in this house" yeah no s**t Sherlock, this house has been here more than your country

flawed_yet_fun , Mike Report

#2

People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America The metric system

rmbl88 , pxfuel Report

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Sam Yobado
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Favorite metric system quote is by Josh Bazell. “In metric, one milliliter of water occupies one cubic centimeter, weighs one gram, and requires one calorie of energy to heat up by one degree centigrade—which is 1 percent of the difference between its freezing point and its boiling point. ... Whereas in the American system, the answer to ‘How much energy does it take to boil a room-temperature gallon of water?’ is ‘Go f**k yourself,’ because you can’t directly relate any of those quantities.”

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Taking the bus. There is so much stigma around public transport in the US, especially busses, and in Europe it's just a totally normal way to get around because nobody wants to deal with driving and parking in a big city.

Also from an employer's perspective: 25+ vacation days minimum for all employees and unlimited sick days. The absolute horror.

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October
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This! When I was a nanny in the US, the family I worked for was always nagging me for using public transport. I never unederstood what the big deal was.

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Songs with swear words being broadcasted on the radio, or swear words not being covered with a beep tone on tv. It’s always felt weird to me that Americans are all about being free and freedom of speech but then again they are scared of some stupid words.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Pro union laws. Pro worker labour laws. Mandatory paid vacation days (including fines for companies if the workers don't take their vacation days or get them payed out. They NEED to actually leave work legally for around 25 days per year).

AgarwaenCran , Alex Kotliarskyi Report

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LH
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rested and healthy employees = higher productivity. Who'd have thought?

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Letting kids go to school or walk around the neighborhood by themselves without supervision.

A Dutch family moved to the USA and their kids went to school on their bikes like they always do, after a while the police showed up on their doorstep and child protective services letting them know they’re being irresponsible and to not do that again.

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Kathryn Baylis
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

FFS, I’m 60, and when I was a child, we had the run of the neighborhood. In summer, we’d leave the house after breakfast, get in our bikes and be who knows where all day, except for dropping by home for a quick lunch. And we didn’t have cellphones back in the day. There were enough stay at home moms and retirees in the neighborhood to keep an eye out for anything out of the ordinary—-without meddling and calling CPS (unless there was something harmful and/or illegal going on—-and even then they made damn sure they had proof!). In fact, there was enough of a network that, if my friends and I crossed a street we shouldn’t have crossed, our mothers already knew about it before we got home. Unless you’re living in a crime-riddled neighborhood, your kids will be just fine being “free range”. They’re not stupid, and if you make sure to educate them about appropriate adult behavior and ways to avoid getting into trouble, you’ll be raising a future smart, independent, and resourceful adult.

Jason Green
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The world has changed drastically since you were a child. It would be nice if it weren’t so, but that’s irrelevant.

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Danieletc
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very much depends on the neighborhood. I live in the heart of LA and see twelve year olds biking around, 10YO girls on the sidewalk alone on occasion.

Pernille Dyre
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And danish woman who got prosecuted because she left the baby in the baby carriage outside the restaurant.... Its so normal in the nordic countries that we have parking spots for baby carriage some places....

Annamagelic
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly it doesn't. Super safe, near 0 crime, suburban neighborhoods or small towns are the places where you will be judged the harshest for allowing children out of your sight.

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Brian Bennett
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Glad I'm not a kid any more. We used to have a heck of a lot of fun walking to and from school. I must be awful to have a child who lives in so much fear the parents do come off much better. Progress is so sad!

Robert Buxwin
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As with everywhere else, the extent to which kids go unsupervised has very much to do with crime rates and risks in general such as traffic.

Heliocracy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Incorrect. Crime rates have gone down, and there's no more traffic in the neighborhood I grew up in now than then, yet no one lets their kids roam like we did. You seem to think there's a rational explanation for the change, there is not. There's just more paranoia than there used to be.

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Burs
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that this really depends on where you live in Europe. Where I lived (big city with a lot of traffic) it was not normal to let your kids walk to the school at least until they were 14 or older.

Jessica Alyea
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in Berlin, huge city, tons of traffic. Most kids go to school on their own starting in elementary school, even longer distance with public transportation. It's normal here

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Terilee Bruyere
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really? That happens all the time here (the riding bikes to school, not the CPS part).

Cip IESAN
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Went alone to school or shopping center (by the school) since I was 9. Half of a mile through the park.

Shel D
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Apparently people don't steal your children as often in the countries most of you posters live in who think this is crazy. I know when I was a child in the 80's U.S. i was almost abducted one one occasion and back then it was totally normal for kids to be out and about in groups or playing even walking alone to a friend's or to school was normal. Half the parents were not even home when we got home from school. These days however people will kidnap and traffic your kids right off the sidewalk if your not watching them every minute. That's what makes most American parents too scared to let them just walk the neighborhood without supervision. Of course it also depends on what state and what city in said state you live in.

Pamela Blue
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can believe it. Helicopter parents and the "Karens" of this world have made life unbearable anymore. I used to send my 3 children to school on their own, and it was a long walk, too! Today's poor children have no idea how to socialize with other kids because they are constantly supervised by adults, who jump in and prevent any issues. The kids have no idea how to problem-solve, because they've never had to solve a problem!

I’m A Black Cat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to walk to school from the first grade on. Had to cross a road and everything. All my classmates did. No problems

Dave In MD
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I call BS. I walked myself to kindergarten and I see kids today walking to school all the time.

lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is something that only started with, believe it or not, the internet, where people who don't have a freaking clue decide to tell others how to live their lives and if you do not "submit" they're gonna tell on you. Too many people in America are only "playing" at being adults. They have NEVER been an adult, so they are playing just like they did when their physical age was six. Their mental age has never changed.

Dave P
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This depends what regions in the US, places like Maryland or Mass are this way, places like Wisconsin are not. This is regional.

Leah Reid
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's just odd. My brother and I walked to school.. must be because of the state like wilvanderheijden said.

Susan Bosse
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't believe this one. Kids ride their bikes and walk to school every day in this country.

Philip Krall
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our school district in Pennsylvania forbids students regardless of age to ride bicycles to school.

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Elizabeth Treece
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It has to do with threat perception. The danger of kidnapping is low but the fear of it is high. Due to the high fear of children being taken and injuried or killed it has been considered neglectful to leave children unsupervised. Neighbors would report you for allowing children to walk to the store or park alone. Some places are now beginning to pass laws saying this is not neglectful. On top of that some places have a problem with teen gangs so teens are not allowed in some malls or shopping centers unless they are alone or with a parent. No groups of teens allowed.

PR
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So not true. Most cities in America kids walk/ bike to school.

Linda Moffitt
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad there's not Kidnappers, Pedophiles, Traffickers, Murderers, Drunk Drivers, etc... in The Netherlands or Wherever they moved from

Joe Edwards
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, the US is a scary shitshow and I wouldn't want my children alone on those streets

Leah Dickerson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that's a load of BS, I live in the US and I've lived in the city and now in the country and haven't ever seen or heard of anything like that. That's some crazy propaganda crap.

Little Phoenix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the meantime; in Scandinavian countries Babies Nap Outside In Cold while parents are shopping for groceries.

deathrose
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in an old neighborhood next to the high school and just down the street from elementary school. Kids here walk/bike to school all the time.

Mike Loux
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Neighbors need to mind their own business (they probably called the police). I'm glad I don't have any children, because I'd be letting them go out alone on bikes as well. I was a latchkey kid in the 70's and 80's and loved my freedom. Out on a bike from after school til sunset. Good times.

Claire
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish people offline in general would mind their own damn business.

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Ely Tanaka
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to walk to school alone, but it's illegal now (Italy)

Agnes Jekyll
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay--what? I moved to Paris and was shocked that the children were never alone for a second. Everyone had nannies or au pairs or wives to pick up the children and take them to classes while in Canada, children routinely walk home or to piano lessons on their own. I was also shocked that the children ate at 5 with their au pair while the parents ate at 7 or 8.

Jace
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Children are entirely disenfranchised in the USA until age 18, and then they still can’t buy alcohol, but CAN join the military or be drafted to die in unnecessary wars.

Sum Guy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is something I don't get with countries that don't let their kids go alone... IN Johannesburg, you'll find 10 year olds and even younger navigating the city with no problem at all. They wake up and go to school by themselves using one of the most hostile transport systems in the world

Miley miller
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, in my neighborhood school age children are not allowed to walk alone without an older accomplice of at least high school age. My siblings aren’t allowed out without me with them.

GoddessOdd
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was a kid, many years ago, we were completely free range... walked or rode our bikes to school from the very beginning, allowed to run around all over and play until the street lights came on. Then the world became a much more dangerous place. We have a lot of international visitors, and the police tell them they can't just park the baby carriage outside the restaurant or shop and leave it. My niece, who is half my age, couldn't even play in her front yard unsupervised... a guy jumped out of a van and tried to snatch her... but her dog stopped the abduction.

Alondra Johnson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on where you are in the U.S. You can get away with it where I live because my neighborhood is safe, but in other places your kid might get snatched.

Winna Libert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Although, twice now I've been shocked by occurrences that have happened in areas I would have never thought it would. First time, in the middle of country mountains in PA, someone attempted to approach my 9yr old son at his bus stop (end of our lane) and fled when the bus popped over the hill. Another time, also in pa but this time it was a small little town, some guy went into a home and abducted a 4yr old right out of her room after seeing her playing in her yard. Luckily she was found by his mother tied up in a trunk in his room! I can't help but be on guard, people seem to be more unstable these days and I've witnessed far too many things.

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LivingTheDream
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure where that is. I'm in CA and my kids walked/rode to school all the time. Helicopter parenting is it's own form of abuse. If you don't let them live life and make decisions on their own, they will fail as adults.

Chloe *Leah* Pheonix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kids in my neighborhood walk to their bus stop / school by themselves no problem! Heck, i walk to my bus stop by myself no problem. That's just a weird neighborhood.

Solidhog
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I walked to school and home with friends in the UK from the age of 8.

Nathan Pogorzala
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah but where? South Central, understood. Any suburb? that is normal behavior.

Mushroomlover
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s weird because we actually have a lot of kids who ride their bikes to school (there are bike racks at the schools for them to park) and even more kids who walk to school. These are assigned. If you live within a certain distance you are a walker for school. Most live too far to walk and are assigned a bus number.

BatPhace
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My kids used to bike to school all the time and i NEVER had cps up in my biz hub

Derek May
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly here in America it's different than when I grew up as we have to worry about people snatching kids while in Europe much safer. I live 4 miles down gravel road then down a private Rd which I feel safer but still can't let guard down as too many crazies running around.

Shabbir Yamani
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yea, it's not simple to kidnap kids in EU? BODY SHOPPERS ARE THR SAME GLOBALLY...

Patricia Fonda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I greift up in the states until I was 13(1976). I never lived near enough to walk or bike my way to school. Then in germany I could, 10 min. to walk! That was the only good Thing here!

Veronica Rabbit
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank God my parents let me bike/walk/run wherever I wanted as a younger kid! (I live in America.)

Notta Karen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was little (1980s) kids past the baby stage were allowed to roam and spend time unsupervised. I live in a relatively small town but if you leave your kids unsupervised or even step out of the car for a moment and stand 10 ft away, and some nosy individual gets the idea you've taken your eyes off your child for even a moment, you're very likely to get the cops called on you for child abandonment while onlookers boo and hiss and tell you what a horrible parent you are.. It's gotten excessive. But on the other side of the coin, most parents here worry about letting their children play unsupervised in a public place. The same kids that got to roam around largely unsupervised are now that worried parent. And a lot of the worry is that someone will see and report you.. The other half is knowing how societies moral compass has utterly degraded.. believe me, it would be nice if it could be the way it was in the 80s but it's definitely not that world anymore.. Too many creeps and druggi

Iris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry what? At least where I live in the USA this is completely normal and the police will not show up at your door with your children

brandon meyer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where was this at?because when I was in school kids rode bikes by themselves everyday in grade school and this literally never happened

Cathy Hurd
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess I was an irresponsible parent then and my mother was downright neglectful. When's the last time you saw a kid in a tree? You couldn't keep me out of them.

Krissy Hah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I call bs. I've lived in many states and many many cities and there are kids that ride their bikes to school in all of them. And I've never in my life heard of a police officer going to someone's house because they let their kids ride a bike.

Krissy Hah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I call bullsh*t. I've lived in many states and cities throughout this country of mine and every single one of them had kids who rode bikes to school.

Sarah Brown
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well with the number of children who have been abducted and murdered you really can't blame them.

Eliza Osenbaugh-Stewart
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Walking or riding bikes to school is fine in the US. We live too far but some of my kids friends do it daily.

help I can’t whistle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It kinda depends where you are, roads in America are super unsafe especially giant intersections

Logan Duffy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ay so i aint allowed to walk to school if i so pleased?then again i go to millswood middle.it is a fair avereage every other wendsday in PE.aka running a mile.

Cathy Hurd
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's very sad that kids don't actually run the neighborhood anymore

Bobbie Meyers
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And not letting your kids be "free range" is why this country is now full of a bunch of lazy p u s s i e s

Wendy Schkade
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does not say much for the safety of the USA. Very common practice for school children bikes or walk. And yes even in the snow.

Pauline Evans
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t understand this. I live in the UK and my parcels are almost always left in my porch.

Emily Taylor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depending on the city/state, the safety of this is highly variable. Also depending on the children's ages. Also, learn the laws of your area as a parent. In most states, it is completely legal during certain times of day. Exercise your rights in a safe and responsible manner.

axolotl
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait, what? In my town back in the US lots of kids went to school alone. heck, whats the problem with letting your kids walk ten blocks?!

Vito Veccia
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was normal behavior in the US as well. But once the 90's rolled in, abductions and rapes increased. And these days, everyone on a bicycle, driving a car, or even being a pedestrian, is so glued to cell phones and texting, that it is unsafe for kids to go unsupervised. Growing up in the 90's with no cell phones, we had to use our brains, a hagstrom, and human Interaction to navigate. The kids these days can't do that, because of all the electronic crap that we throw at them. I feel bad for kids these days. And we where the ones that did it to them.

AAPnonraeba
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read in Poland legally you can allow 14 and older kid go by train alone. Seriously.

China Nolan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They don't steal children in the Netherlands like they do in America.

Tracy Danis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really? I live in Canada and used to walk to school on my own.

Tracy Danis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really? It’s normal to walk to school in Canada. I used to walk to school. Maybe it’s because of all the guns?

Jayna Balistrire
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The kids in my neighborhood do the same thing but cps never does anything

Dee Shipman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad when the school bus drives 300 feet to drop a child at the very next corner

JinxBox
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah that is some crazy american s**t really, not being able or safe enough to walk and play outdoors in your own town. In Helsinki I had a bus ticket and right to go wherever I wanted at the age of 13. Walked to school and had right to run around the neighbourhood since 7 years old. This is also why Americans are obese, getting a ride everywhere instead of any walking or biking 🙈

Teresa Stabler
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not normal in the US. A lot of kids walk to school with friends. Some also ride their bikes. I don't know how this could have happened. Maybe a neighbor dispute turned ugly and the other family called in a false report. That does happen sadly. Some child protection agencies are overzealous and seem like they're looking to give parents a hard time or remove the kids from the home. It's crazy.

Lynn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I grew up doing this, no parental supervision in the US. But now, I can't do this with my kids because people are stupid and will call police despite my kids not being a problem to anyone.

Amy Tennant
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Grandson's kid encourages this and he's 9. I was doing this when I was that age

M Whee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on where you are. My state passed a law a few years ago that allows parents to let their kids "free range" or leave them in a car to run in a store (within reason). Trying to end these types of calls where police are called for silly situations where the child is in no danger.

Greg Grambor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

About the Dutch family: the US is probably a more dangerous place than those nice Euro countries like Holland. There are predators around, likely because of our loose judiciary, and it is not safe to let kids walk or bike to school alone in most places. The warning they received was fair. Unless you live in a gated community with an armed patrol, watch your kids like a momma hawk!

ThePanInPanda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was walking myself to school by choice since I was like eight, I think either what happened to the dutch family was a fluke or I am.

Bruce Ferrier
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I almost always walked to school alone when I could and didn't have any issues

Res Earch
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It depends on where you live. In a city that would be incredibly dangerous. Someone could hurt or take your child.

ZAPanda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hmm I think it has to do with child shootings (let's call them what they really are) and the pedo scare.

3li3liSNAKE
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Americans can be babies sometimes, children need to learn to be independent and need to learn that their parents won't be there for everything

LaGitanaTriste
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lmao tell that to every inner city public school kid who rides the public transit alone at age 6. Please stop talking about my country like you know. You obviously don’t.

Nola B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't believe this comment. Plenty of bikes at elementary schools!

Krista Leslie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's because we have a horrify amount of children being kidnapped and killed by pedophiles.

Ariel Rhinehart
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I walked, rode my bike, even roller bladed to and from school most of my school career. I only got a ride if the weather was horrible.

Lauren Bowers
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah and these will be the first ones on the news hysterical and bawling when there kid turns up dead by all the crazies out there 🙄.

Jonathan West
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What? What city? I walked to school in the U.S. from the time I was 10

Marlene Riethmüller
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Back in the late 70's in Germany, my sister (10) and I (8) walked to the train station for 25 minutes, took the train for 17 minutes, then a bus for 5 minutes or so, to get to school... ON OUR OWN, just like all other kids.

Lady of the Mountains
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i always walked or biked to school. they must've moved to a rough neighborhooed

Huzzir Zakaria
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Meanwhile in europe, an asian father was jailed for 2 (or may be 3, cant remember the specific) for whooping his childs for (also cant remember for) wht they did! Which is norm as how asian families raises n discipline their kids but can mean jail time over there! It became huge in my country that even involves the govt mediation.

Blefony Rose rice
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not like this everywhere i walk to and from school almost every day and my parents don't get told it was irresponsible don't just assume this is happening everywhere.

Shelle Davidson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to walk to school when I was 10 or 11 by myself, cause we lived too close. It was a mile roughly...

Enea
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same happened to my boss when she moved from Berlin to Washington. The police showed up to inform them that it is illegal to let their slightly pre-teenaged kids ride their bikes unsupervised. Fortunately, that's totally unthinkable in Germany. Children need a bit of freedom to develop confidence and independence. Then again, Berlin is really quite a safe city.

Marci Rommal
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good grief! We got ourselves ready for school, got our breakfast, and got ourselves off to school (we walked to school) in the 1970s. Before that, and right up until we grew up and moved away, we would come home from school, change our clothes, do our homework, and go hang out with friends until it was time for the parents to get home. Saturdays, more of the same. Up and breakfast, then out the door to hang with friends. We had to be home for dinner though.

Frannie Kaplan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Netherlands is not like other countries in western Europe. Not a good example. There are many parts jn Europe where you wouldn't let anyone cycle alone

Catastrophe555
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weird. My kids do that all the time, and play all around our neighborhood with everyone else's kids, and I live in the US.

Swastik34
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My father in India used to walk 2 KM to get to school. That too when he was merely 8 years old.

Dani S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of the reasons Dutch children are the "happiest children in the world" because they have freedom and parents trust them. And then you move to the US and you have to take that away from them.

Don't Look
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some places in the states are like this. I lived in a neighborhood for about a year (last year) that was effectively a closed circle. That neighborhood had children running around all over unsupervised. And there are a few other places like that. Mostly specific suburbs.

Pat Shelby
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At 82 yo, I was a joyously free range kid. Until I was about 12, when my mother inexplicably decided I was too old to run around on my own. I think partly because she thought my little brother was then able to navigate without death ensuing and she could better use me at home. But it was a DIFFERENT WORLD in someways. Only the well off had TVs and only mansions were air conditioned. When tvs appeared, there were fewer eyes surveiling the neighborhood. And doubled down when ac became common and doors which were previously screen were shut along with the windows to keep the heat out in summer sa well as in in winter. It cut connections with neighbors, at least the free and easy flow of everyone heard and saw each other's lives. And when we were running loose we had a dog with us. We did not, to the best of my knowledge, have dog restraint laws until after my dog died when I was twenty. As soon as the dog restraint laws came into effect, crime exploded, comparatively.

Bra A
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Have you ever heard of child trafficking? IF NOT PLEASE LOOK IN TO IT! Because some kids no longer can do anything....! DONT BE BLIND! It happens all the time every where! STRANGER DANGER!!!

BookCrazyTeen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This must just be dependent on the area, where I live kids run around all the time and bike/walk/skateboard to school and nobody gives a f**k.

Terri Martin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The children's ages aren't noted but I don't buy that. Children ride bikes and walk to school all over the USA, myself as a child and then my children once they were mature enough. Idk what city these people moved too but unless we are talking first graders, cps isn't coming to tell you you are irresponsible for letting your children walk to school.

Wolfy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

? I live in USA and me and my bff walked to school before? This never happened?

Jeff Diamond
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I lived in Japan, people would send their kids to a school they had to take 45 minutes to commute to. A 7 year old.

Anita Pickle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like something is missing. Was the school possible right off a highway were it is not safe to ride/walk? Because if it is just normal roads, there is no reason for this, other than maybe no helmets...?

Mark Kelly
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

pfft here in Canada I rode around as a kid all the time and cops weren't called.

Corey Beth Greaves
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF? I've lived in the US my entire 39 years of life & I have never heard of some stupid s**t like that! We rode our bikes all over town when I was a child & now my children & children of friends walk\ride to school on their own every day the weather permits. I am really curious where in the US the above story occurred? How old were the kids & how far away was the school? I just can't wrap my head around it.

Joseph
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've lived in the US my whole life and most of it I got to school without my parents

Frances Blades
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ya same thing here in Canada now🙄. Growing up if I was inside I was sick. Otherwise you didn't see me. Mama rarely knew where I was and would tell my name to get me home. Curfew was the street lights coming on. Now I get called on because my kids are on the other side of the block with no helicopter parent and get told to forget my house chores and be with my kids at all times. Thankfully this was a few years ago and they're grown enough that I don't have to have a constant eye on them anymore.

Ceili Ann Tibbitts
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That happened in Oregon, but now I moved to Idaho and things are a lot more relaxed. The police are everyone’s friends, and will just wave even if I am not wearing a helmet.

Jennifer Potter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We all need to fact check this for our individual areas, Pandas. There is 1 US citizen here citing agreeing policies in her NE East Coast town, and a TON of US people saying they have not witnessed this. I myself have not witnessed this anywhere where I've lived in the US, and see this particular story with this particular photo pop up again and again and again, with no factual data to back its claims up. Smells like emotional baiting, so it looks like its time to dig for the truth in our individual spheres, folks

Winna Libert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Obviously if at least one person is stating it's like that in their area then it's very possible that it happened somewhere.

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Jessica N
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thats how i got to school, and how all my kids do. Not leaving work to drive kids 10 blocks to school lmao! One of my old coworkers drove hers to school every day through high school, like 3 blocks away. Absolutely ridiculous

Raccoon_doesn’t eat trash
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m an American I agree this is dumb! We’re don’t need to be helicoptered 24/7 because what happens when we become adults?

Miguel Dumortier
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is a case of americans not being trustworthy and that your kids are never safe there while here in western europe, in most areas, your kids will be completely fine as long as they know not to walk into incoming traffic XD

SuePrew
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This must be something pretty new. I went to school by myself, and so did my kids.

LeilaOdinis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We did that all the time when we went to school here in Canada.

Brent O'Dell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have to be that guy, but I'm very skeptical that this ever actually happened.

Janet C
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We've seen kids in huge forested parks, playing alone and having a good time. Kids take the metro systems by themselves. None of that is a big deal.

Rosemary Moreland
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lots of kids walk to school or the shops in Australia, unsupervised. It depends on how far it is from home. Kids catch the bus to school too.

Brooklyn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is true... I'm an American but my parents let me do these things... my mom just recommends I bring my phone. My dad doesnt care

Barbara Kayton
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's weird that we don't do this anymore in the US. I grew up riding my bike to school.

Gabriele Alfredo Pini
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thankfully in Italy recently was made law that parents can let their kids going home alone from the first grade.

Bob Belcher
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I call BS on this or there's information missing. My daughters school is within our neighborhood and everyday she walks the 2/5 of a mile there and back home and she's in 4th grade. She has friends on the street she meets up with and walks with them too.

Leila Orozco Francis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s something that’s happened in the last 20 years or so. When I was a kid we walked to school without an adult or if we lived too far away from the school, we walked and waited at the bus stop without adult supervision. Nowadays, there are all sorts of crazies out there that wanna snatch your kids.

Claire
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So I guess everyone w/ a mental disorder does. That's a little offensive.

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Sue_Doe
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I miss the good old days when this was expected and encouraged.

Domo Salfaro
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I call bullshit on this one. Kids literally walk past my house on their way to school EVERYDAY.

WorldNeedsReboot
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Amerika is a penal colony, where criminals get to do what they want, and law-abiding citizens are punished by either not being able to protect themselves, or penalized when they do

Rens
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived in the Netherlands for 12 years; sending your kids to school on their bikes/rollerblades/waveboard was perfectly normal; there were cycle paths everywhere. In the summer it only gets dark 9 to 10pm, all the kids are out playing in the neighborhood. And there are lots of canals so all kids are taught to swim very young.

Dave Webb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That must be some coastal suburbanite thing. growing up in Lawrence and Leavenworth Kansas and even now where I am...kids walked/biked to and from school, to the store etc and still do. That's heckin weird to me

Dave Webb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Must be some suburbanite thing, since here where i grew up in the midwest (Lawrence Ks, and Leavenworth) that was perfectly normal, kids walking to and from school etc.

Sarah Grape
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah im in the us and thats not a thing where i live.....maybe its more of an eastern/californis thing where there's more dangerous streets?

Roman Hans
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not to mention a grown man talking to a child. He’d be seen as a friendly guy in Europe but a possible kidnapper or predator in America.

An Co
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cops and social workers were wrong. Unless this is a high crime neighborhood, this is not irresponisble, as ruled by multiple judges in the United States.

SBW71
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is false. Most states if not all have kids walking and riding their bikes to and from school. Unfortunately because of all the freaks out there now a days most parents sit in the car with their kids at the bus stop until the bus comes or drives them to school.

Annamagelic
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in the US in a tiny, very low crime, city in the North East. students at my childrens K-5 school ( approximately ages 5-11) are not allowed to walk or bike on their own. As in the school will not let them leave. They can get on their assigned schoolbus which will drop them off in front of their home, or a parent can pick them up at the school.

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Agata Fronia
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

good they were not Japanese family I saw a documentary about kindergarden kids walking to school alone, taking train/subway.

Nixxy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn’t normal? In Adelaide it’s totally fine (then again, there is many murderers or kidnap persons here)

Tarryn Louise
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k they would hate Australia.... Easily 80% of all Aussie kids take themselves to school. But then of course the risk that they will be shot on the way to school by a psychopath with a gun is like 99.9999998% less likely than in America so I kinda understand the concern.

Damo Lee Park
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you blame the parents instead of cleaning your streets of paedophiles, there's something wrong with your government

Shadowfall The Explorer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not where I live. The kids run around by themselves all the time. Must be a NY or CA thing.

Calypso poet
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I call bullshit on this one. The problem with inner cities is that kids have to walk or ride bikes to school. That's why they get hit by cars. There are also plenty of kids riding bikes and walking in our cities.

K Witmer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't say where they lived. I live in a state park in a very rural no crime town but kids are not allowed alone in the park wo adult supervision until they're 14.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Mailman doesnt leave packages unattended on your porch. He eather gives you it on the doorstep or you go get it at the post office. Much less infureating than getting it stolen or thrown accros your yard by a mailman...

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Taking of your shoes when getting home.

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James016
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd rather not have muddy footprints/ dirt from outside around the house.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America I don't know if this would horrify Americans as I've never heard it discussed, but where I live in Europe (Luxembourg), voting is mandatory and you can get fined for not voting in an election. You can still spoil your ballot, so you don't have to decide between lesser evils if you don't want to, but you have to make the effort to go to the polling station or submit a postal vote. It guarantees a high voter turnout and by extension more representative elections, coupled with a proportional voting system so we're not locked into a two-party mess like the UK or the US - not that it's without its issues of course, but I think it's an improvement.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Being expected to know another language other than English.

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MiriPanda
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think they meant: While it is normal for Europeans to speak at least one language other than their mother tongue, Americans are not expected to speak any other language than English.

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At least in Germany, nudity. No one cares if you're naked, no one thinks you're a sex offender, no one thinks it's even sexual to be naked unless you're actively having sex, and no one makes it weird.

You can be naked in public parks to soak up sun, on beaches, swim naked in lakes. Saunas are all naked, mixed sex areas in spas and saunas are naked with no issues and in general, it's just not an issue.

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Tassenküchlein168
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least where I live in Germany it’s NOT usual to be naked in parks or bathing naked in crowded places, except they’re designated as nude areas. Topless is tolerated in most urban parks, if you don’t Walk around. Otherwise it’s a "Public nuisance", which is an administrative offense and is punished by a penalty fee.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America From what I’ve heard, allowing retail workers to sit. I’ve heard it’s regular for people to be sitting in Europe as cashiers, but in the us it is seen as lazy. Only store I know of that allows it is Aldi and that’s because it helps their cashiering metrics.

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Natalie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seen as lazy, huh? So the management only have standing desks?

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#13

You don't have to answer your phone on vacation.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America The number of rooms in the description of apartments. 1 room in the US usually means 1 bedroom, a living room ,and separate kitchen. Was shocked when I realized it means everything inside one room in most European countries

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Robert T
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the UK we normally describe properties as 1 bed, 2 bed etc. and give a separate count of other rooms. Studio is normally used to describe rooms of mixed use. So a 1 bed studio apartment will normally be a combined kitchen, living and sleeping space with a separate bath- or shower-room.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Open borders.

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Robert T
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember one work trip where I was in Germany, just over the border from France. All the staff were French and commuted across the border daily. Hell, we even went back across the border for lunch each day!

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Not being super patriotic.

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Got Myself 4 Dwarves
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love being Scottish, I love living here, the people (mostly), the accepting and open culture, the sarcastic swearing humour, that we can take the piss out of ourselves - but I don't feel the need to fly a flag on my doorstep or cover myself in Scottish symbols and scream about my freedom and rights and chant some verse every morning - im sure there are plenty of Americans who also think that the stereotypical over the top patriotic American is as odd as outsiders do - but they do tend to be the loudest

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Long paid parental leaves and month long holidays (vacations).

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fun fact: These are all things that Unions achieved and next the government made them law. Some Americans would go bat shyte crazy over that. "The government has no right to force 25 mandatory vacation days on me!!!!"

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Oh man... europe has so many different countries. Something that is completely normal where I live could be frowned upon as soon as I cross the next border. But in general we tip for good service, not bc we have to. A rude waitress won't get tipped by me. Also we usually remove our shoes before we enter a home. And yep, "free" healthcare.

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Roxy Eastland
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely, what's acceptable in Spain wouldn't fly in Denmark and vice versa. All countries have their own cultures. The first time, years before the internet through reading American magazines, I came across 'Europe' being referred to as a homogeneous whole I was extremely confused. I was also highly entertained by all the adverts stating 'Everyone in Europe is using this product' for something I'd never seen in my life.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Not giving your debit/credit card to your server but doing it yourself

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Jon Steensen
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It prevents them from copying you card information and using them to commit fraud by buying stuff online with your creditcard information. In fact I think we ought to memorise the control numbers on the back of the card and then remove them for the card. Having them there is like writing the pin code on the card with a marker, it is just making abuse way too easy.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Sitting a foot away from a complete stranger and then completely ignoring them.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Americans get so bend out of shape over naked children running around the beach.

On every beach in Bulgaria I've been, naked children is the norm, women sunbathing in monokini is considered absolutely normal, while naked men are okay only in the nude sections of the beaches. And every beach has a nude section.

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Not enrolling your kid in extracurricular activities. In Europe, some kids are enrolled in a sport or club and the older ones are mostly responsible for getting there and figuring out their schedule. In America, some parents are so obsessed with kids sports that the whole family's existence revolves around it, or they get judgemental when they hear that a kid isn't involved in any sports or clubs.

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lenka
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am in the Netherlands and almost every kid I know does some kind of extracurricular sport. There are also special subsidies to make sure every kids even from low income families can participate. But we dont tend to get obsessive parents here.

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#25

Putting mayonnaise on french fries instead of ketchup.

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#26

People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Almost every car having a manual transmission. when i visited ukraine, i only saw rich people with automatic cars

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Moodles
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personally, I dislike automatics. It makes me feel like I'm driving a go kart. If you're going to drive a car...well...drive it!

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Charging for water at a restaurant.

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brukernavn340
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Norway you'll get tap water when you ask for water, and that's free.

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#28

Bidets? I was born and raised in the US and I think they're efficient and far more hygienic than TP, but apparently most other dudes in this country think it's gay to clean up after your business is done lol

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Ole Peder Amrud Hagen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only really gay thing I know is falling in love with someone of the same gender as yourself. If cleaning your ass after you've been to the toilet is 'gay' to you, you have some real issues.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America In Germany, looking for a apartment doesn't automatically mean it will come 100% with a kitchen. 90% they don't have them in and you have to buy them yourself.

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Lila Launehase
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's one of the most stupid things in Germany. The kitchen should belong to the apartment.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Underage drinking seems more of a crime in the US - in most cases of a kid is caught with alcohol in the UK it's just confiscated and poured away. Strictly speaking the age you can drink alcohol is really low as well, so long as you're home with a parent I think it's like 5/6. When you're in a restaurant you're also allowed low percentage alcohol like cider with a meal so long as you're with an adult.

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Francis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

in germany you're allowed to drink beer/wine with 14 when you're parents are around, at 16 without them and everything else at 18

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#31

People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Doesn't apply to every european country, but prison sentences are a lot shorter. Life in prison without parole is extremely rare and many countries do not have such sentences. For example the maximum sentence here in Finland is called "Life in prison" but the avarage time spent in prison before release is 13-14 years for them.

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Burs
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I disagree with this as well. For small crimes (like dealing weed) their prison sentences should be short and focus on rehabilitation. But for major crimes they should be extremely long. Not “I gang raped a minor and got 13 years of prison and I will do 8”. You destroy a life, you should pay more than that.

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Having an electric kettle.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one comes up a lot on these lists. I use an electric kettle at home and at work. They are readily available at home goods stores in the US. I think they are not as foreign as it is imagined, they just aren’t a household staple, mostly because more people prefer coffee than tea in the US. I am an avid tea drinker myself, so I equipped my house accordingly.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Not tipping your server in a restaurant.

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#34

People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Paying for bathrooms.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am happy to pay for a bathroom if it is clean. The free toilets on the highway are mostly more than disgusting.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Being completely naked in a sauna (mixed men and women)

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#36

People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America As a Czech person, my American wife was blown away that we let kids in pubs or bars.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is common in The Netherlands to. At least during the day. And they wont serve the kids alcohol.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Men on scooters. Apparently here in the USA I get made fun of... What?!! Even Mexico and London dudes on scooters is normal

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#38

People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Kissing greetings.

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lenka
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not anymore. I wonder how much covid will permanantly change the cultural norm of kissing greetings? I think it may stay relevent for very close friends and family and fall away for most other relationships.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Leaving your baby to sleep in a stroller outside. Be it at home on the balcony/garden or outside a restaurant.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the Netherlands somepeople have a "Lutjepotje" - it is an outside sleeping cabin. At our daycare they had these for the kids, just dress them up approprately and they sleep fine.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Uh, where do I start? German here, living in the US. How about TV tax? I bet americans would go bonkers over it lol. I mean, so do Germans, but - wait for it, it's a classic - "what can you do?"

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got a letter from the German government asking me to pay the TV tax. I was at the time sharing the smallest of apartments (bedrooms, tiny kitchen and tiny bathroom) with other four students and we didn’t even had a TV connection. F**k that.

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People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America Some countries in Europe have church taxes (the state collects money through the taxation system and hands a slice of it over to the national church) and/or state-paid clergy.

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#42

People Share 30 Things That They Think Are Normal In Europe But Horrific In America The amount of people who still smoke. Especially smoking in restaurants restaurants. Nothing like sitting in a beautiful cafe and having someone at the table next to you light up just as your food arrives.

Also putting tobacco in weed.

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