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Speech Pathologist Sits Next To Autistic Boy For 8 Hours During Flight, Is Able To Make Incredible Progress On Communication
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Speech Pathologist Sits Next To Autistic Boy For 8 Hours During Flight, Is Able To Make Incredible Progress On Communication

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Life works in mysterious ways. But sometimes everything just falls into place. When speech-language pathologist (SLP) Rachel Romeo was returning from a conference on a long international flight, there was a father and son sitting next to her. Little did everyone know, Rachel and the little kid couldn’t have had a better passenger to travel with.

The father explained that his 10-year-old boy had autism and was nonverbal. He then apologized to Romeo because the 8-hour flight was likely to be difficult for his child and those around him. But challenging behaviors began even before take-off. The boy was “screaming, hitting me, and grabbing for my things. The father repeatedly apologized, but did little else,” Romeo wrote. However, the situation began to change when Romeo started using principals of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC), a series of ways to communicate without speaking out loud, to help the boy tell her and his dad his needs.

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According to a study by Boston University, nearly a third of people diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder “never learn to speak more than a few words.” Nonverbal autism is somewhat poorly researched, and we know quite little about the thought processes of these people. Nevertheless, new research is being carried out, and new technologies are being developed to better understand them.

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VeryWell Health wrote that the term “nonverbal autism” isn’t an official one. “There is no such diagnosis as ‘nonverbal autism.’ In part, that’s because there is no clear line between verbal and nonverbal individuals with autism.”

No one really knows for sure why some people with autism can’t, or don’t, use spoken language. It puzzles scientists a lot since quite a few nonverbal people on the spectrum can and do choose to communicate using American Sign Language, picture cards, and a range of digital tools.

“True, some people with autism also have childhood apraxia of speech, a neurological disorder that makes spoken language extremely difficult. But most nonverbal individuals on the autism spectrum don’t have apraxia; they just don’t speak. Clearly, there are differences in brain function that inhibit spoken language, but at this point, there is no agreement on just what those differences are or how they impact any given individual.”

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N G
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It would be nice to hear the father's thoughts and experiences of the flight and if there has been an improvement since

Martha Meyer
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There clearly was one during the flight already, judging from his reaction.

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Katie Hayes
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have 8 year old twins with autism.. they didn't speak until 1 was 4 and his twin almost 6 ... But we had them in school since 3 due to the diagnosis. We pushed for every single help option for them . They have had therapist help from ages 1 on... We did this so they could catch up what the lady did here is amazing.. it means so much when someone anyone cares about that kid enough to make this ... Huge difference in their life .. it changed ours and our childrens lives , education... Probably our sanity because you are helpless when you can't communicate I love this story 😍.

Daria B
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a nice and heartwarming story. I hope the keed kept getting the help he needed afterwards. And the protagonist of the story is a wonderful woman, best wishes to all of them!

Shoshannah Cohen
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is such a great story! Although I don’t think I have any form of autism, I have always had a hard time communicating and connecting with other people. Even though I’m probably just a combination of an introvert and a person with pretty bad social anxiety, I feel as though I am constantly written off as rude for not participating or not really talking to others. In truth I am the exact opposite. If someone simply takes the time to be patient with me and let me come out of my shell at my own pace, you’d be surprised how talkative and friendly I can be. Please take the time to let people leave behind their shy exteriors at their own pace. If you show them love and patience, amazing friendships can be built.

Leo H
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great story but this type of 1 on 1 therapy isnt cheap...

Lucas
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Which is why this was so lovely - she was able to provide much needed help free.

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Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really beautiful and moving story. The universe works in strange and wondrous ways and I am so happy that these three came together. As a linguistics major I’m kind of said that I was never introduced to speech pathology as a possible career path. It sounds like such an amazing and rewarding job!

JID RN
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a WONDERFUL story and reaffirms my belief in humanity. I read this on Twitter earlier this week. I was pleased to see it on Bored Panda and I shared it on Facebook.

pusheen buttercup
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was behind in speaking, for a while. :) I honestly like typing much better- it's hard to form verbal words sometimes. I have no clear way to describe "why" it's difficult. Sometimes people who can't speak are still intelligent- perhaps even more advanced than given credit for- they just need someone to believe in them.

Gemma Lees
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My son has autism, we knew something was different from about 9 months but nobody took us seriously until his nursery teacher flagged it up at age 3. Cue 3 years of CDC, educational psychologists, social workers etc. and finally a diagnosis. His development in many areas was delayed and we never got an apology for the accusations that were levelled against us about his delays in potty training, speech and writing, plus his meltdowns. He now gets 1to1 support at school, social services support and money which we spend on sensory equipment and after school club twice a week to help with his socialisation. He is high functioning but when he's upset his hands clamp on his ears and he won't talk to or look at anyone. I worked with him to create a small set of hand gestures which really help. With a condition as varied as autism, custom communication solutions are often required. This amazing woman has probably saved this young boy's life and future.

Surya Amriza
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I were the father, I would not just thanked her but I'd probably have asked the nice Lady if he can hire her as his kid's teacher or at least making an appointment to consult with her.

giovanna
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's just sad that no one had ever mentioned AAC to an autistic child's parents before he turned 10.

joi
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5 years ago

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"By the mid-1990s, the scientific community had proved over and over again that it was the facilitator—not the disabled communication partner—who was typing the messages. Every time. Full stop." Sorry to harsh your buzz. It must have felt nice to be a savior for a few hours, but it wasn't about you. what will that https://www.forbes.com/sites/stevensalzberg/2018/06/18/facilitated-communication-may-be-an-abuse-of-human-rights-why-is-a-university-teaching-it/#60f69fad29f3

2WheelTravlr
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What this speech therapist was doing is not facilitated communication. Your link and post have absolutely nothing to do with this story.

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Sanchez Vasile
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5 years ago

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And meantime in Afghanistan...everything OK? And this b******t space force was abandoned, no space force, right? And the presidents of Uzbekistan and Turkmenistan,,,still assasinated? I agree - 50% of the world is good: ME! The other 50%, anyone else, not so much!

Viviane Katz
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sanchez Vasile, I'm so sorry that this story upset you, and that helping a little boy and educating others only reminds you of bigger problems. I don't see immediate acts of kindness and trying to help globally as mutually exclusive. I think one can do both. However, if you choose to only act globally, that's okay. Not everyone is comfortable in social situations. If you want to write about your own good deeds, that could be very positive and serve as an example for others to follow. Take care and may your struggle to improve the world bear fruit soon.

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N G
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It would be nice to hear the father's thoughts and experiences of the flight and if there has been an improvement since

Martha Meyer
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There clearly was one during the flight already, judging from his reaction.

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Katie Hayes
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have 8 year old twins with autism.. they didn't speak until 1 was 4 and his twin almost 6 ... But we had them in school since 3 due to the diagnosis. We pushed for every single help option for them . They have had therapist help from ages 1 on... We did this so they could catch up what the lady did here is amazing.. it means so much when someone anyone cares about that kid enough to make this ... Huge difference in their life .. it changed ours and our childrens lives , education... Probably our sanity because you are helpless when you can't communicate I love this story 😍.

Daria B
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a nice and heartwarming story. I hope the keed kept getting the help he needed afterwards. And the protagonist of the story is a wonderful woman, best wishes to all of them!

Shoshannah Cohen
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is such a great story! Although I don’t think I have any form of autism, I have always had a hard time communicating and connecting with other people. Even though I’m probably just a combination of an introvert and a person with pretty bad social anxiety, I feel as though I am constantly written off as rude for not participating or not really talking to others. In truth I am the exact opposite. If someone simply takes the time to be patient with me and let me come out of my shell at my own pace, you’d be surprised how talkative and friendly I can be. Please take the time to let people leave behind their shy exteriors at their own pace. If you show them love and patience, amazing friendships can be built.

Leo H
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great story but this type of 1 on 1 therapy isnt cheap...

Lucas
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Which is why this was so lovely - she was able to provide much needed help free.

Load More Replies...
Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really beautiful and moving story. The universe works in strange and wondrous ways and I am so happy that these three came together. As a linguistics major I’m kind of said that I was never introduced to speech pathology as a possible career path. It sounds like such an amazing and rewarding job!

JID RN
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a WONDERFUL story and reaffirms my belief in humanity. I read this on Twitter earlier this week. I was pleased to see it on Bored Panda and I shared it on Facebook.

pusheen buttercup
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was behind in speaking, for a while. :) I honestly like typing much better- it's hard to form verbal words sometimes. I have no clear way to describe "why" it's difficult. Sometimes people who can't speak are still intelligent- perhaps even more advanced than given credit for- they just need someone to believe in them.

Gemma Lees
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My son has autism, we knew something was different from about 9 months but nobody took us seriously until his nursery teacher flagged it up at age 3. Cue 3 years of CDC, educational psychologists, social workers etc. and finally a diagnosis. His development in many areas was delayed and we never got an apology for the accusations that were levelled against us about his delays in potty training, speech and writing, plus his meltdowns. He now gets 1to1 support at school, social services support and money which we spend on sensory equipment and after school club twice a week to help with his socialisation. He is high functioning but when he's upset his hands clamp on his ears and he won't talk to or look at anyone. I worked with him to create a small set of hand gestures which really help. With a condition as varied as autism, custom communication solutions are often required. This amazing woman has probably saved this young boy's life and future.

Surya Amriza
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I were the father, I would not just thanked her but I'd probably have asked the nice Lady if he can hire her as his kid's teacher or at least making an appointment to consult with her.

giovanna
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's just sad that no one had ever mentioned AAC to an autistic child's parents before he turned 10.

joi
Community Member
5 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

"By the mid-1990s, the scientific community had proved over and over again that it was the facilitator—not the disabled communication partner—who was typing the messages. Every time. Full stop." Sorry to harsh your buzz. It must have felt nice to be a savior for a few hours, but it wasn't about you. what will that https://www.forbes.com/sites/stevensalzberg/2018/06/18/facilitated-communication-may-be-an-abuse-of-human-rights-why-is-a-university-teaching-it/#60f69fad29f3

2WheelTravlr
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What this speech therapist was doing is not facilitated communication. Your link and post have absolutely nothing to do with this story.

Load More Replies...
Sanchez Vasile
Community Member
5 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

And meantime in Afghanistan...everything OK? And this b******t space force was abandoned, no space force, right? And the presidents of Uzbekistan and Turkmenistan,,,still assasinated? I agree - 50% of the world is good: ME! The other 50%, anyone else, not so much!

Viviane Katz
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sanchez Vasile, I'm so sorry that this story upset you, and that helping a little boy and educating others only reminds you of bigger problems. I don't see immediate acts of kindness and trying to help globally as mutually exclusive. I think one can do both. However, if you choose to only act globally, that's okay. Not everyone is comfortable in social situations. If you want to write about your own good deeds, that could be very positive and serve as an example for others to follow. Take care and may your struggle to improve the world bear fruit soon.

Load More Replies...
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