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30 Delulu Women Who Think They Deserve The World But Actually Need A Reality Check (New Pics)
Many men fall victim to toxic masculinity, an undesirable trait, to say the least. Women also have their fair share of unhinged moments, which you will see on today’s list.
We’ve compiled a list of screenshots from the Nice Girls subreddit. Don’t let the name fool you. These show the ugly side of being a female, which, for some men, is the stuff of nightmares and trauma.
You’re about to read posts featuring toxic text exchanges, ‘entitled woman’ tendencies, and unhealthy attachment behaviors. Consider these the glaring red flags you must avoid at all costs.
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Wlw: My Charming Ex Girlfriend Gets Scary
One Date And Hardly Spoke
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Definitely recommend a cat. They aren't as snobby and obnoxious as people believe. Mine have all been loving, caring, supportive and give as good as they get. Slightly biased, I have a spare human, a cat whisper in training, and 5 cats.
I also recommend a cat (or two! or more!) XD I had two dogs and two cats - and recently (finally) escaped the abusive relationship I was in for 23 years. I've adopted 3 kittens since moving back home! I allowed my ex to keep my precious tuxedo boy - *I* was the one who adopted Preacher, and while Mr. Peepee does love me, he loves my ex WAY more. And ex is an excellent cat dad (but a horribly abusive partner.) It broke my heart to leave Preacher with my ex, but it was the best thing for Preacher. He is happier with my ex than he would be with me - he'd miss my ex terribly. But - I wouldn't have made that decision if my ex wasn't also in love with Preacher. He hated my other pets, and Peps was his favorite. But now I have four cats and am happily free <3
Load More Replies...how do you prevent this as parents??! It boggles my mind that this young girl's parents/family taught her it's ok to think or act this way?!???
Many of the screenshots you’ll see on this list feature what experts refer to as an anxious attachment style. The Cleveland Clinic defines it as an insecure attachment that begins in childhood, where a primary caregiver fails to provide ample care and attention.
In adult relationships, it may manifest through clingy and needy behavior. It may also come in the form of its polar opposite, where the person is untrusting. In both cases, the fear of abandonment is the common denominator.
Gave My Number To A Lady At Church That I Was Told Was In Charge Of Coordinating Ministry Programs And Events. I Later Found Out That Was A Lie And She Was Not Involved In Any Of That
Alcohol Or Unhinged
Had Me In The First Half Ngl (Not Mine)
Recent research has shown that women are more prone to developing an anxious attachment style. Men, on the other hand, develop an avoidant attachment style where they tend to distance themselves from romance-related anxieties.
According to brain science innovator Dr. Srini Pillay, it’s how humans are naturally wired, and both sexes deal with adverse reactions differently.
“Because the brain is geared to focus on negative things (presumably to protect us), we all tend to see the negative things under a magnifying glass,” Dr. Pillay wrote in an article for HuffPost.
I Used To Be A Nice Girl
Speaking For Less Than 1 Day After Matching On Hinge, Have 1 Facetime Call. Asks For Money
What In The Actual F#*% Lmao
Dr. Pillay says the differing attachment styles between men and women typically push couples to bail from the relationship instead of trying to get to the root of the problem.
“Women may become resentful that men are ‘clueless’ or not feeling the anxiety that they are feeling,” he wrote, adding that a man’s usual reaction would be to resent their female partners for being too “high-strung” about “simple issues.”
What A Nice Girl, Right?
Matched, Immediately Went To Snap. This Was About 10 Minutes Into Talking
Finally Blocked Her.. (I Feel Like Im Being Trolled Now)
Told myself i’d block her when it stopped being funny. Spoiler, it’s stopped being funny. I don’t know if i’m being trolled but the way she is so angry from not responding for two hours is very concerning. I feel like she may have some mental health issues because this isn’t normal behavior.
To avoid unnecessary arguments from happening, Dr. Pillay advises understanding these default behavior patterns. And instead of throwing criticisms, recognize each one’s need for commitment.
“The more we are aware of how we respond in romance, the better we will understand both ourselves and the partners with whom we have chosen to explore this life,” he wrote.
Girl Blew Up After I Told Her We Were Done
Met This Girl The Night My Grandma Died She Was Aware Of Both Dates
If "Nice Girls" Was A Couple Shirt. This Makes Me Cringe So Hard
Now, we’d like to ask our readers. Gentlemen, have you encountered these unhinged reactions from women you’ve dated? Ladies, what do you think brings about these behaviors? Let’s start a discussion in the comments!
Went To A Family Event And Didn’t Text For About 3 Hours
Memories Of My Bpd Ex
This Reaction To Not Giving Her Money For Nudes
The Whole 3 Hours We Were At The Restaurant, She Was Kinda Laying On Her Seat, Constantly Texting
My Ex’s Character Is On Full Display After We Broke Up Almost 3 Months Ago
Four-Is Years Ago I Was Seeing This Girl Who Decided To Go Hookup With Some Guy Cause I Left Her On Open Cause I Was Busy
I Went On 2 Dates With This Girl And The Chemistry Was Atrocious
Dealing With Old Ex
Flirting Is Lovebombing?
My Buddy Dodged A Nuke
Found This Gem From 4 Years Ago. We Lived Together. I Went For A Haircut
Did she have a stroke partway, or is this another "alcohol is a hell of a d**g" post?
Ex-Friend’s Last Rant And Hoover Attempt A Few Months Later It
Idk If This Belongs Here But It’s Funny
One Of My Favourites From When I Was With My Ex
I Love Being Single
Poll Question
How do you feel about labeling certain behaviors as 'delulu'?
It's appropriate
Feels judgmental
Undefined term for me
Mixed feelings
We aren't single. We are in a relationship with fun and freedom.
Load More Replies...Bored Panda, just post the link to Reddit if you're going to remove all context by scraping/pasting only one shot of multi-screenshot Reddit posts.
Miguel, you're better than this. Leave the human trainwreck stories for Beverly.
We don't need an AI app for art. I want the one that deciphers these messages... Sort of how the Senior Officer does in this skit. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGp4DvFEgh8&t=17s
This whole thing IS a bit disconcerting, for *various* reasons. The worrisome *lack* of spelling/grammar skills is but one issue on full display (& a sign that we def *need* to *keep* our DoED *intact* & better-staffed). The high % of apparently UNtreated mental health concerns is mega-worrisome, as well. This article (?) *also* seems to be pandering to the MAGA crowd. Yeah, these gals *are* toxic & *quite* deluded. Their need for medical treatment is obvious. But they're surely a *very small* % of the female gender, as a whole. We can't afford to overlook some *facts* ... 1) It's not women who put dudes in the ground on a regular basis, just for saying "no, thanks". Or, for having the audacity to walk home alone w/o "packing heat". 2) Nor is it ladies who gleefully erase any men's rights they can quash. 3) We need equal rights for our own *protection.* Stop pandering & play FAIR, BP. Or, *share* the historical judgements this sad era will *surely* elicit, in the future. Just saying.
I am appalled at the spelling and sentence structure of most of these messages. Our education system is letting the country down. Pay teachers more and get better teachers who have research and facts.
Every so often when I look back wistfully on my youth and relive it I realize I'm grateful I survived it the FIRST time...
We aren't single. We are in a relationship with fun and freedom.
Load More Replies...Bored Panda, just post the link to Reddit if you're going to remove all context by scraping/pasting only one shot of multi-screenshot Reddit posts.
Miguel, you're better than this. Leave the human trainwreck stories for Beverly.
We don't need an AI app for art. I want the one that deciphers these messages... Sort of how the Senior Officer does in this skit. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGp4DvFEgh8&t=17s
This whole thing IS a bit disconcerting, for *various* reasons. The worrisome *lack* of spelling/grammar skills is but one issue on full display (& a sign that we def *need* to *keep* our DoED *intact* & better-staffed). The high % of apparently UNtreated mental health concerns is mega-worrisome, as well. This article (?) *also* seems to be pandering to the MAGA crowd. Yeah, these gals *are* toxic & *quite* deluded. Their need for medical treatment is obvious. But they're surely a *very small* % of the female gender, as a whole. We can't afford to overlook some *facts* ... 1) It's not women who put dudes in the ground on a regular basis, just for saying "no, thanks". Or, for having the audacity to walk home alone w/o "packing heat". 2) Nor is it ladies who gleefully erase any men's rights they can quash. 3) We need equal rights for our own *protection.* Stop pandering & play FAIR, BP. Or, *share* the historical judgements this sad era will *surely* elicit, in the future. Just saying.
I am appalled at the spelling and sentence structure of most of these messages. Our education system is letting the country down. Pay teachers more and get better teachers who have research and facts.
Every so often when I look back wistfully on my youth and relive it I realize I'm grateful I survived it the FIRST time...