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Ultra-Sensitive Elderly Couple Go Berserk Every Time Their Upstairs Neighbor Makes A Noise, To The Point Of Calling Cops Over A Microwave
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Part of being good neighbors with someone means respecting their boundaries and being open and communicative when things (inevitably) go wrong. So long as folks are willing to hear each other out and come to some sort of compromise, there’s hope for peace in your building and neighborhood. However, older buildings can make tensions flare because the sound filters through the walls, ceilings, and floors.
Redditor u/lunamoth25 recently shared just how entitled her downstairs neighbors are and how they’ve been badgering her, non-stop, about the ‘noise’ she and her family cause going about their everyday life. Things came to a head one night when the couple called the police over the most minor sounds ever. Read on for the full story and check out how the internet reacted to it. Bored Panda reached out to the author of the post, redditor u/lunamoth25, and she walked us through how she reacted when the police arrived on her doorstep and shared her thoughts on why her neighbors are so bitter. Read on for our full interview with the OP!
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Getting along with others in your apartment building means tolerating the noise from daily life
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However, some neighbors have absolutely no chill. One woman shared how the couple living downstairs harassed her over the tiniest peeps
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“They harassed the tenant prior to me and they harassed the tenant across the hall from them, too”
We were very interested to find out what went through the OP’s mind when she realized her downstairs neighbors had called the police. “When I saw the police lights in my bedroom window, my first thought was, ‘Are you serious right now?’ I was completely taken by surprise that they would actually do that,” u/lunamoth25 told Bored Panda.
“I don’t know what happened in their lives previously that made them as intolerant and bitter and angry as they are, but they harassed the tenant prior to me and they harassed the tenant across the hall from them, too,” the author of the post explained that she’s far from the only victim in the building.
“They have even asked the little kids across the street to stop being so loud while playing in their own backyard. I don’t see how any compromise can be come to, they have unreasonable expectations for the noise level around them,” the OP said.
Meanwhile, Bored Panda wanted to know what advice the redditor would give someone whose neighbors constantly harass them with noise complaints. “I have been keeping a list of what triggers them to bang on the floor or yell or whatever. I suggest that for anyone who has someone like this harassing them. Keep a list and be ready to provide the list to the landlord,” the redditor said.
“The police can’t do much, but you can report them for unnecessary use of police resources and if it escalates more, you can report them for harassment. When I provide my landlord with my written 30-day notice, I’m also including my list so that he can see exactly what it was that they were complaining about. Also, I am not engaging them in any conversation at all, and I have not changed how I go about my day.”
Redditor u/lunamoth25 told us that she knew that other internet users would be able to relate to her family’s situation in the building. Unfortunately, many folks have very similar stories of their own. Far from everyone is lucky enough to have great neighbors.
“When you live this close to other people, you have to have some measure of grace for your neighbors. You have to be tolerant of how their life intersects with yours, and respectful of the fact that the opposite is true, that your life intersects with them. We are all going to get on each other’s nerves at one point or another. It’s all in how you choose to deal with that!”
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The authorities were less than amused that they were called out over the sounds of a cat running
The redditor’s story on r/EntitledPeople is a prime example of how quickly the situation can deteriorate when one side (in this case, the elderly couple living downstairs from the OP) is completely unwilling to have a normal discussion or look for some sort of middle ground that would work for everyone. From the OP’s story, it seems that the seniors are absolutely set on ignoring anyone else’s opinion or admitting that, hey, they might be in the wrong.
When the police arrived at the OP’s home, they quickly realized that they’d been called over an extremely minor issue. Specifically, redditor u/lunamoth25’s cat running around and one of her kids using the microwave. Basically, everyday stuff. This prompted the cops to say, “Jesus Christ, what a waste of time,” which sums up the entire situation incredibly well.
You’d think that was that and that the elderly couple living on the first floor would at least feel embarrassed over having called the authorities over a non-existent issue. However, the very next day, one of the OP’s downstairs neighbors screamed at her that they’re entitled to silence whenever they want it. She also threatened to get the OP kicked out of her apartment.
The thing is, the redditor is moving out in less than two months, meaning that she won’t have to deal with the constant harassment anymore. Though we kind of feel bad for whoever has to live above the belligerent couple next!
Both sides need to be willing to hear each other out if there’s any hope for a compromise
Clearly, the seniors need to either move somewhere where there’s proper insulation (and possibly no neighbors) or they have to shell out to make improvements to their own apartment so that they can live in silence like they want to. Or, there’s always the possibility that they enjoy causing drama and grumbling about everything just for the heck of it. The situation would be entirely different if they actually did have upstairs neighbors who played music at night, partied every night, and caused a massive ruckus throughout the day.
When you find yourself in an argument—with anyone!—it really helps if you take a deep breath, take a step back, and consider your options. What’s your end goal here? Even if you’re totally in the right, it’s probably best to try and defuse some of the tension. Hear the other side out and actively consider their perspective (even if you think it might be bogus at first).
The more you know what kind of person you’re dealing with, the better you can get along with them. You might find out that you should never mention certain topics around your neighbor, for instance. Meanwhile, you may figure out that your neighbor is very susceptible to flattery or they’ll be friendlier if you take the time to ask them how they’re doing. At times, the problem they’re complaining about might not be the actual issue at the root of their unhappiness. They might simply need a friendly neighbor who listens to them.
At least some level of noise is inevitable. Nobody should expect their neighbors to know how to levitate above the floor
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The OP’s story is far from the only case where neighbors complain over completely normal levels of noise. Dr. Mike Talbot, the CEO of UK Mediation told The Guardian that some cases involving neighbor quarrels end up going to court.
“There was a case that went to mediation: a posh flat downstairs complaining about neighbors upstairs moving around. Upstairs said they’d already put rugs down, they didn’t put the washing machine on after 9 pm and if children visited they only played in the carpeted room. It went to court,” he explained.
“It came out that it was the noise of walking around upstairs that was upsetting them. The judge applied the reasonableness test and said: ‘They can’t hover above the ground, so live with it.’”
According to Talbot, broaching problems with your neighbors should happen on ‘neutral ground’ and you should try to time the meeting right. You shouldn’t storm up to their door, angry, in the middle of the night, for instance. What’s more, you should avoid accusing your neighbor and try to find a diplomatic way of phrasing your complaint. “Talk about the future, don’t argue over the past: ‘Can I ask that in future you keep it down after 11 pm?’ And when things improve, acknowledge it,” the mediation specialist advises.
Taking someone to court is a measure of last resort. It can be expensive and, frankly, unless you’re dealing with absolute chronic chaos, it’s unnecessary. It’s best to avoid making mountains out of molehills, stay calm during your face-to-face talks with the neighbors… and renovate your apartment if the sound of a cat running upsets you enough to call the cops!
The author of the post revealed some more information in response to some of the comments
Here’s what other internet users suggested that the woman do before moving out
Some folks shared similar stories about dealing with less-than-friendly neighbors
What do you think ?
Tyke 1 year ago
My flatmate (we were all randomly put together, no friendship prior) would complain about the other 3 of us all the time in our first year at university. To the point we were warned we could get kicked out. She put in one mammoth complaint one weekend - all 4 of us were hauled to the office and 3 of us slightly berated. Until I asked the complainer when the noise happened and after she told us, I pointed out all 3 of us were in different cities to each other and to the flat at that time. She realised she was caught out, but rather than back down, she then complained the radiators were too loud! Some people just have way too much time on their hands.
TMoxraaar 1 year ago
When I was living above a cranky older woman in my 20s she started pulling stuff like this. I finally lost it on her when she called the landlord AGAIN for us walking around. I yelled "There is no expectation of or possibility for silence in an apartment. Stop it." It snapped the landlord out of his trance listening to her voice. "Yeah - that! Don't call me again or you're out when your lease is up". She started glaring at us out the window every time we went out. We started waving at her.
Brocken Blue 1 year ago
Waving when she glares is the pro move, for sure 😂 That and shaking your landlord out of his trance with some well deserved truth.
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Wysteria_Rose 1 year ago
Unfortunately, that is just apartment living. There is never a guarantee that you will have silence at any time. I keep ear plugs by my bed in case our neighbors have music playing while I'm trying to sleep. I've only ever had to call services on one neighbor and it was because he was screaming (top of his lungs, angry SCREAMING) for hours. He stopped after an in-person check, so it was certainly within his control to stop. However, sometimes it can't be helped depending on how well made the building is. If you don't like it, don't live in an apartment.
Lori T Wisconsin 1 year ago
Some people can not afford anything but an apartment. Not everyone can afford their own home. Even in you own house you must deal with noises from neighbors, kids and dogs nearby. No place is silent.
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Tyke 1 year ago
My flatmate (we were all randomly put together, no friendship prior) would complain about the other 3 of us all the time in our first year at university. To the point we were warned we could get kicked out. She put in one mammoth complaint one weekend - all 4 of us were hauled to the office and 3 of us slightly berated. Until I asked the complainer when the noise happened and after she told us, I pointed out all 3 of us were in different cities to each other and to the flat at that time. She realised she was caught out, but rather than back down, she then complained the radiators were too loud! Some people just have way too much time on their hands.
TMoxraaar 1 year ago
When I was living above a cranky older woman in my 20s she started pulling stuff like this. I finally lost it on her when she called the landlord AGAIN for us walking around. I yelled "There is no expectation of or possibility for silence in an apartment. Stop it." It snapped the landlord out of his trance listening to her voice. "Yeah - that! Don't call me again or you're out when your lease is up". She started glaring at us out the window every time we went out. We started waving at her.
Brocken Blue 1 year ago
Waving when she glares is the pro move, for sure 😂 That and shaking your landlord out of his trance with some well deserved truth.
Load More Replies... Wysteria_Rose 1 year ago
Unfortunately, that is just apartment living. There is never a guarantee that you will have silence at any time. I keep ear plugs by my bed in case our neighbors have music playing while I'm trying to sleep. I've only ever had to call services on one neighbor and it was because he was screaming (top of his lungs, angry SCREAMING) for hours. He stopped after an in-person check, so it was certainly within his control to stop. However, sometimes it can't be helped depending on how well made the building is. If you don't like it, don't live in an apartment.
Lori T Wisconsin 1 year ago
Some people can not afford anything but an apartment. Not everyone can afford their own home. Even in you own house you must deal with noises from neighbors, kids and dogs nearby. No place is silent.
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