
Woman Repeatedly Takes Pre-Paid Parking Spot, Faces Trouble When Owner Gets Her Car Towed
Any driver knows that parking can be a huge pain in the neck. That’s why many of them pay to have an assigned parking spot, so they don’t have to go looking for an empty one at the end of a long day.
This redditor, too, paid for the parking spot next to her house; however, someone would repeatedly leave their vehicle there. To make matters worse, the person continued doing so even after multiple conversations with—and notes left by—the OP. Unsurprisingly, the latter eventually ran out of patience.
Scroll down to find the full story below, where you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with Teresa Di Felice, Assistant Vice President of Government & Community Relations at CAA South Central Ontario, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions regarding respecting traffic rules and fellow drivers.
People parking in places where they shouldn’t is far more common than most drivers would want it to be
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This woman had to deal with someone repeatedly using her parking spot
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Many people report having troubles involving neighbors and parking
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Neighbors can be both a blessing and a curse; if they’re respectful, helpful, or simply nice people to have around, it can be great for numerous reasons, from throwing BBQ parties together to being able to trust them with your spare key. However, troublesome or rude neighbors often become the bane of the existence of those living nearby.
Even though it is clear without academic research, studies emphasize that neighboring is not an unproblematic social practice, due to the tensions and conflicts that arise in the context of physical proximity. Neighbor annoyances often relate to noise, pets, fences, trees, and, of course, parking, all of which can “undermine one’s sense of home as a place of enjoyment, privacy, and autonomy.”
A poll carried out in the UK for Churchill Motor Insurance found that quite a few people have encountered parking-related troubles caused by their neighbors. Close to half of the respondents—48% of them—said that they have had to deal with the latter blocking access to their driveway, garage, or an allocated parking space. Roughly one-in-six respondents said they have had to argue with their neighbors over parking, which is unlikely to make anyone’s sense of neighborliness any stronger, either.
Parking illegally is likely to result in your car being towed
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Discussing why people tend not to care about certain traffic rules or pay no attention to whose spot it is that they’re taking away, Teresa Di Felice, Assistant Vice President of Government & Community Relations at CAA South Central Ontario, pointed out that people often think that their short-term gain is more significant than everyone else’s long-term pain; but that is just not the case.
“There’s a potential ripple effect that’s much bigger than the convenience somebody thinks they’re getting by putting their vehicle where it shouldn’t be for just a few minutes,” she said. “On residential streets, people might think it won’t have as big of an impact as on a major road, but everyone’s rights to property and access should be respected. We all have a role to play in keeping our roads safe.”
In a recent interview with Bored Panda, the expert noted that getting your car towed can be a stressful experience, but that should be all the more reason not to park it where you’re not allowed to. “From the cost to the inconvenience of having to find out where your car was impounded, getting your car towed after illegally parking somewhere is a hard lesson to learn. If you have ever known anyone or asked someone who has had their car impounded, it’s not an experience that you want to go through again. It is better not to have to go through it all, and you won’t if you obey the signs that tell you where you can and cannot leave your car.”
The woman in the OP’s story didn’t seem to fear the idea of being towed much, as even after several warnings, she continued to occupy the redditor’s parking spot. Eventually, that led to her having to learn the lesson the hard way, but in the eyes of fellow redditors, that didn’t make the OP a jerk; they shared their thoughts in the comments.
Netizens wanted to know if it was always the same car in the parking space assigned to the OP
Redditors shared their reactions in the comments, they didn’t think the OP was a jerk in the situation
Poll Question
How would you have handled the situation if someone repeatedly took your parking spot?
Immediate towing
Leave more notes and warnings
Speak to the person directly each time
Ignore it
NTA. The 'guest' was (consistently) the AH. Not in the USA, but when I bought my last house (with own drive and wall/garden on either side, my next door neighbour parked on it on my first night there (my car went in the garage). I had to go round and knock on his door. He was VERY annoyed when I told him to remove his car. He was verbally aggressive when defending his action, declaring that he had permission as his previous neighbours had said he could always park there as he, his kids and wife had cars and he had no room for his work van. They had turned their garden into paving for parking (the front gardens of the houses are very large, but the drives could only take one car, due to the garage extending fully from the side of the house). I reminded him that the neighbour had SOLD the house to ME (Freehold property, btw), and he was trespassing. He moved, and has ignored me for the last 4 yrs now, lol.
I call that a win-win situation lol. He doesn't use your drive anymore and the icing on the cake is he doesn't talk to you either.
Load More Replies...If you can't afford to get your car out of the impound, don't park it illegally so it gets towed. Seems a pretty easy solution to me.
You choose the action, you choose the consequences. When you try to act as the exception to any rules, policies, procedures, and laws, you tend to find out the hard way that you're anything but the exception. NTA.
I lived in a town near a nuclear power plant. The workers were bused in from out of town so we had a lot of cars parked in our parking bays. I had two and one was being used four days "on" three days "off" by someone. I rang the plant who sent out someone that left warnings on cars about taking residents spaces. Next day over half the cars were gone!
The OP was way nicer than me. If someone parks in my spot, that I pay rent for, then they don't get a warning, they get towed. I mean, if it was a house, would you park in the driveway without permission? Would you walk into a stranger's living room and start watching their TV?
If you can’t afford to retrieve your car, why wouldn’t you be more careful about where you park it? Entirely her fault and her problem.
We fought for years to get a handicap parking space in front of our house. Blind imbeciles apparently can't read the big signs warning that if you park there you get towed and get a $500 fine. We've had to use that twice now.
A bunch of us used to often hang at J’s place. J’s complex had limited visitor parking so most of us parked 5 minutes walk away. Except M. M was the Bible college student, always telling us about the impact God had in his life, debating morals with us, inviting us to sermons and asking us for money towards his ministry. But M, despite requests from residents, notes left, signs posted, just kept right on parking in residents parking spots. I remember watching him walk to his car, once (not even in a residents spot but in a “diy” spot half occluding a driveway) take a note off his windscreen, throw it on the ground and drive off. I think that was the beginning of the end of my Christian faith. We don’t talk to M anymore.
Clear case of FAFO. She purposely ignored the rules. Her actions have consequences.
If she couldn't afford a tow fee she should have thought before deciding to park in a paid parking spot, not her own. I think she knew it was coming. You are all adults a conversations were had but time and effort changed nothing. She may not like it but she would have had your car towed if the tables were turned. Feel guilt free it was a consequence of her own entitled attitude.
You don't need to ask. You did the right thing, it's her problem now, stop feeling bad about it.
Wish we could do that. We've sent letters out to people parking on the driveway/common property and they ignore the letter which says it's a $1500 fine. Our managers don't do anything because it has to go to Tribunal first (Australia). Well, one of the offenders told a new owner whose garage they were blocking that they were allowed to park there. We noticed they suddenly stopped. Think they told their wife who informed them that they didn't have permission.
Rents are already high and when you have to pay for a spot to park, it should be yours to park in, not some entitled idiot that ignores the rules. You gave them plenty of warnings and they decided to ignore them. Sucks that they cannot pay to get their car out, not your problem. I'd have done it the 2nd time she parked there. I don't mess around. I warn you once and then the consequences of your actions are all on you!
Well, I’m going to put in a good word for home-owners’ associations. I agree that sometimes some of the rules are petty and unnecessary, but unfortunately some people need to be controlled. We had one guy running an auto-repair business out of his garage and the driveway was constantly blocked by disabled cars and tow trucks. Had it not been for the HOA rules, we would have had no recourse to stop him. And that’s just one of the sleazy things owners and their renters have tried — don’t get me started!
Call them 'thief' in every sentence. Oh Hello Thief. Have you came to apologies for again stealing my storage space, thief? Your car was towed thief. I left you a note asking you to stop all that stealing but you couldn't help yourself could you... being a thief and all. If you had asked i'd have told you that use of my space by non-thieves was possible for $1000 a day. But as an entitled thief you probably wouldn't have understood that. Was there something else you wanted to discuss thief or did you just come here to case my home?
I'd have it towed and then give her the phone number for a different towing co. Plenty of warnings. Time to take it to the next level.
Oh I forgot to say, hope that it was towed to my bfs former tow yard so those charges grow daily. That's what you get for not heeding the warnings. Lol
NTA. Consequences of their own creation. They were wrong because they refused to listen numerous times when told not to park in your spot. But they were right about one thing if they live in my state. My bf used to tow cars until he got into an accident last year. She sure won't see her car any time soon. For every day she doesn't pick up the car where he worked, they added more money to the release cost. Better have an Uber or Lyft app. As I said, better learn to park legally or be prepared to pay through the nose. Lol
NTA. She was asked nicely on numerous occasions and still parked in the homeowners space that she paid for. I'd have towed he ssa too. The absolute best of FAandFO. Now you have to pay to get your car from impound because of your sense of entitlement. I love this for her! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He called a tow truck. I might have called the people with the crushing machine to pick it up.
AITA for doing the objectively correct thing? No, but you need some therapy to dig into why you still feel bad about it.
Many years ago I had the same problem. Left several notes. Called apartment management, who said they would not handle but I could have towed. Called tow company, told I would have to pay an initial fee that I couldn't afford. So when I came home from work that day to find their car in my spot again, I blocked the car in and went in. Never heard a peep. In the morning when I was leaving for work, my car was in its spot. My car is small, so I assume they got some friends together and "moved it" to free their own vehicle. But I never had the problem again :-)
NTA. The 'guest' was (consistently) the AH. Not in the USA, but when I bought my last house (with own drive and wall/garden on either side, my next door neighbour parked on it on my first night there (my car went in the garage). I had to go round and knock on his door. He was VERY annoyed when I told him to remove his car. He was verbally aggressive when defending his action, declaring that he had permission as his previous neighbours had said he could always park there as he, his kids and wife had cars and he had no room for his work van. They had turned their garden into paving for parking (the front gardens of the houses are very large, but the drives could only take one car, due to the garage extending fully from the side of the house). I reminded him that the neighbour had SOLD the house to ME (Freehold property, btw), and he was trespassing. He moved, and has ignored me for the last 4 yrs now, lol.
I call that a win-win situation lol. He doesn't use your drive anymore and the icing on the cake is he doesn't talk to you either.
Load More Replies...If you can't afford to get your car out of the impound, don't park it illegally so it gets towed. Seems a pretty easy solution to me.
You choose the action, you choose the consequences. When you try to act as the exception to any rules, policies, procedures, and laws, you tend to find out the hard way that you're anything but the exception. NTA.
I lived in a town near a nuclear power plant. The workers were bused in from out of town so we had a lot of cars parked in our parking bays. I had two and one was being used four days "on" three days "off" by someone. I rang the plant who sent out someone that left warnings on cars about taking residents spaces. Next day over half the cars were gone!
The OP was way nicer than me. If someone parks in my spot, that I pay rent for, then they don't get a warning, they get towed. I mean, if it was a house, would you park in the driveway without permission? Would you walk into a stranger's living room and start watching their TV?
If you can’t afford to retrieve your car, why wouldn’t you be more careful about where you park it? Entirely her fault and her problem.
We fought for years to get a handicap parking space in front of our house. Blind imbeciles apparently can't read the big signs warning that if you park there you get towed and get a $500 fine. We've had to use that twice now.
A bunch of us used to often hang at J’s place. J’s complex had limited visitor parking so most of us parked 5 minutes walk away. Except M. M was the Bible college student, always telling us about the impact God had in his life, debating morals with us, inviting us to sermons and asking us for money towards his ministry. But M, despite requests from residents, notes left, signs posted, just kept right on parking in residents parking spots. I remember watching him walk to his car, once (not even in a residents spot but in a “diy” spot half occluding a driveway) take a note off his windscreen, throw it on the ground and drive off. I think that was the beginning of the end of my Christian faith. We don’t talk to M anymore.
Clear case of FAFO. She purposely ignored the rules. Her actions have consequences.
If she couldn't afford a tow fee she should have thought before deciding to park in a paid parking spot, not her own. I think she knew it was coming. You are all adults a conversations were had but time and effort changed nothing. She may not like it but she would have had your car towed if the tables were turned. Feel guilt free it was a consequence of her own entitled attitude.
You don't need to ask. You did the right thing, it's her problem now, stop feeling bad about it.
Wish we could do that. We've sent letters out to people parking on the driveway/common property and they ignore the letter which says it's a $1500 fine. Our managers don't do anything because it has to go to Tribunal first (Australia). Well, one of the offenders told a new owner whose garage they were blocking that they were allowed to park there. We noticed they suddenly stopped. Think they told their wife who informed them that they didn't have permission.
Rents are already high and when you have to pay for a spot to park, it should be yours to park in, not some entitled idiot that ignores the rules. You gave them plenty of warnings and they decided to ignore them. Sucks that they cannot pay to get their car out, not your problem. I'd have done it the 2nd time she parked there. I don't mess around. I warn you once and then the consequences of your actions are all on you!
Well, I’m going to put in a good word for home-owners’ associations. I agree that sometimes some of the rules are petty and unnecessary, but unfortunately some people need to be controlled. We had one guy running an auto-repair business out of his garage and the driveway was constantly blocked by disabled cars and tow trucks. Had it not been for the HOA rules, we would have had no recourse to stop him. And that’s just one of the sleazy things owners and their renters have tried — don’t get me started!
Call them 'thief' in every sentence. Oh Hello Thief. Have you came to apologies for again stealing my storage space, thief? Your car was towed thief. I left you a note asking you to stop all that stealing but you couldn't help yourself could you... being a thief and all. If you had asked i'd have told you that use of my space by non-thieves was possible for $1000 a day. But as an entitled thief you probably wouldn't have understood that. Was there something else you wanted to discuss thief or did you just come here to case my home?
I'd have it towed and then give her the phone number for a different towing co. Plenty of warnings. Time to take it to the next level.
Oh I forgot to say, hope that it was towed to my bfs former tow yard so those charges grow daily. That's what you get for not heeding the warnings. Lol
NTA. Consequences of their own creation. They were wrong because they refused to listen numerous times when told not to park in your spot. But they were right about one thing if they live in my state. My bf used to tow cars until he got into an accident last year. She sure won't see her car any time soon. For every day she doesn't pick up the car where he worked, they added more money to the release cost. Better have an Uber or Lyft app. As I said, better learn to park legally or be prepared to pay through the nose. Lol
NTA. She was asked nicely on numerous occasions and still parked in the homeowners space that she paid for. I'd have towed he ssa too. The absolute best of FAandFO. Now you have to pay to get your car from impound because of your sense of entitlement. I love this for her! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He called a tow truck. I might have called the people with the crushing machine to pick it up.
AITA for doing the objectively correct thing? No, but you need some therapy to dig into why you still feel bad about it.
Many years ago I had the same problem. Left several notes. Called apartment management, who said they would not handle but I could have towed. Called tow company, told I would have to pay an initial fee that I couldn't afford. So when I came home from work that day to find their car in my spot again, I blocked the car in and went in. Never heard a peep. In the morning when I was leaving for work, my car was in its spot. My car is small, so I assume they got some friends together and "moved it" to free their own vehicle. But I never had the problem again :-)
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