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Annoying Woman Threatens To Sue Neighbor Over A Fence, Regrets It When He Tears It Down
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Annoying Woman Threatens To Sue Neighbor Over A Fence, Regrets It When He Tears It Down

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Having a troublesome neighbor can be a headache. It can be a longstanding issue you must deal with until one of you moves out, but you can also find ways to solve the problem. 

This was the situation for Reddit user Kid_Endmore. According to his account, a new neighbor demanded he remove his fence. He agreed after being threatened with legal action. 

However, the neighbor returned a week later, requesting to have the fence back. Read on for the full story.

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    Having a bad neighbor is never pleasant

    Image credits: Randy Fath / unsplash (not the actual photo)

    The original poster had his life disrupted when a new neighbor wanted him to remove his fence

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    Image credits: Vladislav Tsankov / pexels (not the actual photo)

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    The homeowner had the last laugh

    Image credits: Kid_Endmore

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    Many Americans have a problem with at least one of their neighbors, a survey says

    Image credits: Simon Maage / pexels (not the actual photo)

    It is apparently common in the United States to clash with the people who live next door. According to a 2022 survey by LendingTree, 73% of Americans reported disliking at least one of their neighbors, and 23% of people called the police. 

    If you’re faced with this problem, it pays to know what you’re dealing with. HGTV classified the types of neighbors we usually encounter into five categories. “The Home Devaluers” are the friendly faces who fail to maintain their homes. “The Richer-Than-You-Are Neighbor” is the opposite. They constantly remodel and make sure their lawn is in perfect condition. 

    “The Dangerous Neighbor” raises alarm bells because of their overall vibe and the yelling that goes on in their house in the wee hours of the morning. “The Clueless Neighbor” is the type who is unaware that they are stepping over boundaries because of their actions. 

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    Finally, we have “The Difficult Neighbor.” They are described as “anyone who makes your life more complicated than it needs to be.” And based on the original poster’s account, the woman he dealt with falls under this category. 

    A little friendliness is the best way to handle a difficult neighbor

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    Ignoring a problematic neighbor could be the best option. But as landscape designer Susan Nelson told HGTV, maintaining rapport can be very helpful.

    “I really feel that the small amount of physical contact goes a long way with neighbors. I notice who keeps to themselves and it comes off as being unfriendly. 

    “These days, there aren’t many chances of making impressions with your neighbors, so a simple wave or hello can represent you well.”

    For author Saralee Rosenberg, making yourself known by showing respect is the way to go.  

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    “If you explain your problem in a reasonable, nice way, suddenly you’re no longer anonymous.”

    The original poster went the opposite route when he dealt with his neighbor issue, and it seems like it worked out well for him. 

    Some commenters shared similar experiences

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    Laura Slade
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel sorry for the dog it clearly had anxiety /reactivity issues and was probably also bored being left along all day

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You’re right. GSD are intelligent dogs, and boredom is the worst thing for them. Additionally, purebred dogs often carry some bad genes, including mental/emotional issues, especially if their line has been too extensively inbred or too closely bred. I love GSD, but also have a huge soft spot for your typical Heinz 57 Mutt.

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    ZGutr
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always look at what it might cost you before you pick a fight. Being right should not be a goal by itself (and being right does not always make you the winner).

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those who pick fights like this are of absolutely not right, and it backfires on them. So don’t just look at the cost, do your homework first to see if you actually even have anything to dispute in the first place.

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    8Yorkies-and-33cats
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Greece, we say: "Ο γείτονας είναι Θεός", which translates: "Your neighbor is a God" and means they have so much power over your life.

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    Laura Slade
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel sorry for the dog it clearly had anxiety /reactivity issues and was probably also bored being left along all day

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You’re right. GSD are intelligent dogs, and boredom is the worst thing for them. Additionally, purebred dogs often carry some bad genes, including mental/emotional issues, especially if their line has been too extensively inbred or too closely bred. I love GSD, but also have a huge soft spot for your typical Heinz 57 Mutt.

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    ZGutr
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always look at what it might cost you before you pick a fight. Being right should not be a goal by itself (and being right does not always make you the winner).

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those who pick fights like this are of absolutely not right, and it backfires on them. So don’t just look at the cost, do your homework first to see if you actually even have anything to dispute in the first place.

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    8Yorkies-and-33cats
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Greece, we say: "Ο γείτονας είναι Θεός", which translates: "Your neighbor is a God" and means they have so much power over your life.

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