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My Classmate Sexually Harasses Me, School Doesn’t Do Anything
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My Classmate Sexually Harasses Me, School Doesn’t Do Anything

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    This one guy showed up in my school and he seemed like a nice person when I first met him. But soon he started saying inappropriate things that escalated to touching my chest or poking my thigh. He was sexually harassing me, and I felt gross.

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    Gintarė Kozakaitė

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    Gintare is a project manager at Bored Panda. Here, she coordinates the project based on true teenagers' stories called Dear Diary. She graduated with a BA in Information And Communication and MA in New Media And Digital Culture. Before joining Bored Panda, she was creating social documentaries and working as a journalist. Her greatest inspiration is people who dare to be different. And well, she truly believes that some great stories actually start with a salad. By the way, she laughs more than she talks. True story.

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    Gintarė Kozakaitė

    Gintarė Kozakaitė

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    Gintare is a project manager at Bored Panda. Here, she coordinates the project based on true teenagers' stories called Dear Diary. She graduated with a BA in Information And Communication and MA in New Media And Digital Culture. Before joining Bored Panda, she was creating social documentaries and working as a journalist. Her greatest inspiration is people who dare to be different. And well, she truly believes that some great stories actually start with a salad. By the way, she laughs more than she talks. True story.

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    Anime nerd
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    5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Recently I told my “ best friend” that I might be non-binary and she goes oh u want to be bi. Like how did u get that idea. So she goes and tells everyone and I’m pissed u know. So news travels fast and some boy starts faking being sick around me and saying that he’s ilergic ( I cant spell) to bis. So fast forward to a week later 2 more boys are doing it worse of all my so called best friend treats me like dirt and sides with the kid. My mom went full mama bear when I told her. Fast forward 1 week the kid expelled and the other suspended. Now me and my so called best friend aren’t together or talking anymore I’m glad to be away from someone toxic like her

    Laugh Fan
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ignorant people like that are pathetic and not worth knowing - it's sad to lose what you thought was a friend but ultimately you will be better off without her. I hope you soon meet others who are far more understanding.

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    Puddin
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This story really got me in the feels. I'm so sorry for that young lady. It is not her fault at all.

    Cassie
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sort of thing happened to me and I didn't realize I had legal remedies I could have followed. I hope this young lady and the other girls who experienced this know they have the right to file a police report, to request a restraining order, and to even charge him criminally in court. It's a shame the school failed to act. I dare say these girls could even sue the school for not protecting them while in their care. These girls were not only assaulted, but failed by those who were supposed to be caring for them. This happens a lot and it pisses me off.

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    Robert Tackett
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very simple. For women - be loud, be vocal and be adamant. Stand your ground and exclaim loudly, in class or wherever, for all to hear. Scream it loud and proud. Don’t touch me. Get away from me. I’m not sitting next to this guy keep him away from me. There is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. How does being victimized cause guilt? I can’t understand that. Ruin his life. Shame him into obscurity. How dare he think it’s ok or that he should be able to get away with it. I have daughters. I’ll be damned if I let them think they should be silent about anything. F**k that and f**k anyone who thinks otherwise.

    Linouchka 99
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell yes ! Don't get scared and silent, get ANGRY AND LOUD !! "HOW DARE YOU ? WHO DO YOU THINK I AM ??? "

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    Anime nerd
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    5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Recently I told my “ best friend” that I might be non-binary and she goes oh u want to be bi. Like how did u get that idea. So she goes and tells everyone and I’m pissed u know. So news travels fast and some boy starts faking being sick around me and saying that he’s ilergic ( I cant spell) to bis. So fast forward to a week later 2 more boys are doing it worse of all my so called best friend treats me like dirt and sides with the kid. My mom went full mama bear when I told her. Fast forward 1 week the kid expelled and the other suspended. Now me and my so called best friend aren’t together or talking anymore I’m glad to be away from someone toxic like her

    Laugh Fan
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ignorant people like that are pathetic and not worth knowing - it's sad to lose what you thought was a friend but ultimately you will be better off without her. I hope you soon meet others who are far more understanding.

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    Puddin
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This story really got me in the feels. I'm so sorry for that young lady. It is not her fault at all.

    Cassie
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sort of thing happened to me and I didn't realize I had legal remedies I could have followed. I hope this young lady and the other girls who experienced this know they have the right to file a police report, to request a restraining order, and to even charge him criminally in court. It's a shame the school failed to act. I dare say these girls could even sue the school for not protecting them while in their care. These girls were not only assaulted, but failed by those who were supposed to be caring for them. This happens a lot and it pisses me off.

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    Robert Tackett
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very simple. For women - be loud, be vocal and be adamant. Stand your ground and exclaim loudly, in class or wherever, for all to hear. Scream it loud and proud. Don’t touch me. Get away from me. I’m not sitting next to this guy keep him away from me. There is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. How does being victimized cause guilt? I can’t understand that. Ruin his life. Shame him into obscurity. How dare he think it’s ok or that he should be able to get away with it. I have daughters. I’ll be damned if I let them think they should be silent about anything. F**k that and f**k anyone who thinks otherwise.

    Linouchka 99
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell yes ! Don't get scared and silent, get ANGRY AND LOUD !! "HOW DARE YOU ? WHO DO YOU THINK I AM ??? "

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