How dark it is at night. You see how many stars there are, how bright and gorgeous , how busy the night sky truly is.

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In the city, people ignore sirens and pay attention to gunshot sounds. In the country, people ignore the sound of gunfire and pay attention to the sound of sirens.

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You need to carefully plan out your shopping needs because that trip to Walmart or Home Depot might be a two hour round trip.

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Sometimes you need a gun or rifle to ensure the safety of your animals and that doesn't make you a gun nut.

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People waving when two cars pass from opposite directions.

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No sidewalk? Walk AGAINST traffic.

We learned this as kids - we live in the suburbs now, but my husband also grew up in the same rural area where this was drilled into our heads. It blows my mind to see adults walk with traffic in the suburbs (where there are no sidewalks). And I always want to scream at them: 'AGAINST the traffic, so YOU can see! It's for YOUR OWN GOOD!'

For those not in the know: walking against the traffic puts you in better position to see/avoid hazardous vehicles. Walking with your back to traffic coming behind you? Not a great vantage point. Especially in 2024 when most pedestrians have ear buds in.

ETA: I also find myself doing it in parking lots and even if there IS a sidewalk - at this point in my life (53F), it's ingrained.

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If I call 911, nobody will be here for AT LEAST 30 minutes for EMS, 45 for fire, and an hour for police.
And that's assuming they have nothing else to do and respond immediately.

If the house is on fire, you call the neighbors. In less than 10 there will be half dozen tractors with water tanks and hoses.

Lop your foot off? Call the neighbors. They'll drive you to the ER.

Somebody means to do you harm? Shoot back or die waiting for the Sheriff. Your choice.

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Full-grown pigs are massive, and terrifying. And they can and will eat someone if ever they get the opportunity.

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Dogs. Dang it! People just driving out and dropping off unwanted dogs. Once some coward dumped their mother dog and her 6 puppies near my front lawn. I hope there is a special place in hell for those people.

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I own a house that sits smack in the middle of three cattle farms.

The other night, I took my dog out to pee well after dark.

There was a weird noise, and a pair of glowing eyes at the end of my driveway. It was, of course, a cow.

I called my neighbor to the North. He drove his UTV down, inspected the cow, didn't recognize it, and called my neighbor to the south.

He sent his teenage son over in a car with no catalytic converter/muffler. He also didn't recognize the cow.

Finally, my neighbor from the West was summoned on his ATV. It was his cow.

The rest of us stood there drinking beer and watching the Western neighbor drive his cow home with an ATV.

Good times.

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Standing on my back porch in winter and there is absolute dead silence.

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Legitimately being late for school or appointments due to being stuck behind a tractor.

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Leaving your car windows closed at church in the summer so you don't come back out to a car full of Zucchini.

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Weather changes your life. I've sat on the porch with my parents watching hail destroy our wheat crop days before it was due for harvest. There's nothing you can do. You just watch. I've also stood in a circle with my parents and older brother in the yard while we prayed for rain. For farmers, weather is destiny.

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You or someone you know has a personal vendetta against a wild animal in the area.

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1. You’re gonna see a “lost” or “abandoned” baby rabbit, bird fledgling, or fawn at some point and it’s 98% likely that they don’t “need your help” and the best thing you can do is to walk away.

2. You can free range your chickens or other fowl, but you’re gonna lose some to predators. No, you are not allowed to shoot the hawks. If you don’t like it, keep your birds in a large run.

3. The deer, bear, foxes, and other fluffy animals are not your friends. They are wild. They can and often will hurt you if you get too familiar.

4. You still need to fence your dog or keep it on a leash or a lead. If your dog attacks someone’s livestock, pets, neighbours or their children, or otherwise acts aggressive, your dog will be likely be shot and the law will be on your neighbour’s side. It doesn’t matter if that aggression was actually an attempt to play.

5. No, you are not allowed to jump someone’s fence in order to pet their cows, horses, other animals. Also, those animals may kill or wound you because you’re a stranger.

6. Just because you can’t see anyone actively living in an area doesn’t mean you can dump your trash there, hunt there, or otherwise act like you own the property.

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The sound of spring peepers can be deafening. Also, I miss it with all my heart. .

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A lot of fake country folk overhype the woods. Any time someone mentions a skin walker that's your red flag. I live in the woods. Yes the woods can be scary but it's far from paranormal. The woods are a fine place to explore and gain an appreciation for real tangible nature. Don't let the boogeyman scare you away from the biodiversity native to your area. Buy a field guide so you can get out and learn something.

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That cute lil’ foxes ?sound like screaming banshees at night.

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The little wave you give when passing a vehicle going the opposite direction on a country road. Bonus points if you're cool enough to just raise your first two fingers off the steering wheel.

Also, saying hello to a stranger on a hiking trail, or at least giving a little nod and smile. I can always tell someone isn't from here when I say "hello" on a hike and they look at me like I'm an alien.

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I'm reminded of my time at the University of Iowa. A fellow I knew, grad student age, but he wasn't actively attending, walked with a cane because of a gimpy leg. He'd broke it when he was a child, but he'd tell anyone who asked that he was mauled by a sow.

He said the city people would just laugh it off as a joke. The country people would look at him in horror and say, "And you're *still alive?!?!"*.

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As a lifetime NYC'er, I just wanna say to any rural folks here on this thread that most of us city folk do not stick our noses up at people that live in your area, despite what you might hear. And speaking for myself, I respect your livelihoods and sometimes envy living in your open spaces. I honestly want us all as Americans to simply appreciate our differences and just get along. Live and let live. And I would love to go to a country hootenanny! thanks.

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You're probably on well water, which means that if the power goes out, you no longer have water. That also means that you get one, maybe two flushes of the toilet, and I bet you're not top priority for the electric company.

Choose wisely.

Or get a generator.

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There is no animal control out where I live, and no shelters within 100 miles that will take strays. If you dump your cat or dog, they will be eaten by a predator, starve to death, or be shot.

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If you don’t make dinner you don’t eat. No uber eats or grub hub, no delivery pizza or takeout, unless you want gas station food. 

Most places nearby close by 5:00PM on weekdays and have extremely limited hours or are closed entirely on weekends. 

It can be pretty damn peaceful. .

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Rural australia liver here:

bore water. the sky is inexplicably Bigger. don’t drive at night if you can help it because you WILL hit a kangaroo. stars like nothing you’ve ever seen. leave town and you have no reception. what’s a traffic light? cook your own dinner or you aren’t eating. everyone and their mother owns a beatshit ute. the nearest hospital is four hours away and the local airport is a literal shed in the bush.

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You can’t buy up a rural property on the cheap and then have big city expectations about the state of your neighbours properties or their behaviour. Welcome to redneckville, sometimes old washers live in the front yard and people park their 18 wheeler rigs in front of their house (and noisily warm them up every morning at 4am).

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I know, I’m buried…

You can never fully explain what it’s like on quiet nights when there’s no insects chirping, like in winter. I live on the outskirts of a small town, a mile from the railroad tracks. Even though there was snow on the ground and in the trees, plus dozens of houses between me and the tracks, it sounded like I was standing next to the train at 3am. Loud, loud, loud.

Alternatively, you also never prepare someone for how soothing it feels on a summer night, sitting on the porch, hearing the wind move softly through the trees, insects harmonizing their sweet tones, lightning bugs flittering about, blinking in a chaotic fashion. You just close your eyes, sip your drink, and experience almost total relaxation.

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Just how safe it is.

For 13 years I didn't lock my car up. Hell, half the time I left the keys in the ignition.

Plenty of spring and autumn nights I went to sleep with my front and back doors open. Windows were open 24/7 during those times, even if I were gone.

Also, how easy it is to accrue pets. At one point I had 12 cats, just because strays would show up and never leave.

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The difference of saying that you're "going to town" vs "going to the city".

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Stores not being convenient. The importance of keeping a *good* amount of gas in your vehicles. Lack of street lights. Waiting 45+ mins for an ambulance. No public transport, no cabs, no Uber or Lyft. No food delivery.

Quiet, except for the critters outside. Space. Cleaner air. Neighbours are far. Ticks everywhere! Wood roaches and spiders the size of your hand. Snakes. So. Many. Trees. Catching yourself baby talking possums and raccoons.

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I leave my doors unlocked when I'm away so the neighbors can get in if they need something.

I have a sleeping porch and I use it often.

We walk through each other's property without rebuke.

Nobody can hear me if I scream.

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Driving home in a storm. A tree fell across the road in front of us (Mom and daughter). The truck behind us got their chainsaws out of their toolbox and moved that tree withing 15 minutes. Also there is not cell service everywhere. Only one service works consistently from my house.

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What real quiet is like and what real dark is like. I've spent time in the city and time in the middle of nowhere, and felt the mental health improve and stress level drop. Ain't nothing like laying in a hammock in a cool breeze when the nearest human to you is at least a quarter mile away.

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You can just leave things out in the world and there's no risk of them not being there when you come back another time.

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Peace and quiet. An aunt from the city stayed and couldn't sleep as it was too quiet.

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Country life is slower than your lifespan.

City, you can go year after year seeing new buildings pop up, business, events, etc.

Country life...same county fair every year, maybe a new building every 10 years, new business 5 years.

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When you live in a small town and you get into trouble outside of town, then the news gets back to town before you do!

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“Town pants”.

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That us and intercity people have much more in common than different. Food deserts, poverty, being ignored and our parents juggling jobs to support us. We need to be united and find commonality.

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The nearest fire department is you, and your neighbor ten miles away, with a couple flatbed trucks and 500 gallon tanks of water on them.

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Not flushing the toilet because the power's out.

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