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Bored Panda reached out to professional movers in Toronto, Canada to find out a little bit more about the process and how they work. First, we asked about what people should know before hiring movers.

"The better you prep, the better. Put everything in boxes that you can easily move by yourself. Anyone will become exhausted if they carry around too many heavy boxes. You can take your own stuff apart, but if it has any intricate mechanisms, like a crib, you should be ready to put it back together yourself. It would take a bit of time to figure out how someone took something apart and then figure out how to get it together, all on the clock."

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community First time on your own you realize just how much your parents did for you. One thing that surprised me was just how much money it takes to buy normal things like toilet paper and dish soap. As someone else stated you have to have a budget but I never realized just how much of your money goes to just supporting yourself.

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jolie laide 2 years ago

Not just that, but how much c**p you actually need! I think a lot of people move out just taking the bare minimum with them but they forget to budget or factor in for surprises. For example, you forgot you need a can opener or the 4 towels you brought really aren't enough or you buy some nice work clothes but forget to check the tags and suddenly find out that they all say "dry clean only", etc.

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30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community The newest construction doesn’t mean the best. Sometimes finding an older apartment building will give you more space, a more sturdy foundation, and possibly less expensive rent.

Sergey Sechko Report

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120points

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jolie laide 2 years ago

Just wanted to add, do your homework on older buildings as best you can. If you're able, try and talk to people already living there, see what they have to say or what the rumors in the grapevine are. Older buildings can look okay from the outside but that doesn't mean much if you can't actually see the foundation (if they don't have basement access for extra storage or laundry facilities or they refuse you access). Same with the roof, how old the electrical system/wiring is when it comes to leaks or fires. 3 buildings in my area were just recently condemned for those kind of issues and the tenants were given 3 days to vacate while the city and the owners tried to figure out what to do next.

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"Ask what insurance covers, how much would be reimbursed for valuables like your TV or antiques, and how they bill, such as to the nearest hour, quarter hour, etc. because every moving company is different. When do the bills start to arrive? Or once they go from home base, where? Try searching for the business name on Yelp and the BBB. Anyone who declines to visit your home for a quote should be avoided. Many states (in the US) provide a brochure with instructions on how to get ready for a relocation and questions to ask potential movers. It's worthwhile to look into."

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Use the time you're living for free with your parents to make sure you have everything first. All your furniture, kitchen appliances, electronics, etc. Because once you're on your own and you start to pay for the rent, electricity, cable, internet, phone, food, etc, you won't have a cent left to buy those.

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Final score:

120points

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adrianne tucker 2 years ago

Remember 100 $5 things cost you $500!

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30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Your parents aren't being mean, we're trying to teach you life skills. Cooking dinner because Mom/Dad are tired that night? Life skill. Chores? Life skill. Paying Mom/Dad for that phone bill when you get your first job? Budgeting... life skill. Learn it and embrace it.

2. Pick your roommate(s) wisely. A friend of 20 years will still eff you over.

3. And this is the biggy.... remember the difference between WANT and NEED. You NEED a roof, you don't need 7 bedrooms. You NEED dishes, they can come from Goodwill. You NEED a bed, it doesn't have to be a sleep number right now. Get what you need not just what you WANT. WANTS can come slowly. Needs are right now. You don't NEED a TV. You don't NEED an Xbox / PS5. You don't NEED the loudest stereo system. You don't NEED matching everything and the best furniture right now.

Catt Liu Report

Final score:

117points

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Racheal Birdsong-Bradley 2 years ago

Just because your cousin is in need of a babysitter and offers you an amount per month (let's say $150 over your portion of rent) means they will actually pay you, but they will still expect you to pay your portion of rent. It ends badly, in my case, I couldn't pay my portion, she decided to attack me. Being a roommate isn't always ideal. My broken leg "healed" 20 years ago, but the titanium in it still hurts each winter.

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With all of that being said, believe it or not, the movers usually have a lot of interesting stories to share, as the spokesperson for the Toronto movers told us the weirdest story on the job.

"When I initially began years ago, I relocated an elderly woman whose daughter had hired us. I didn't notice the truck reeked of urine until approximately a quarter of the way through the move. The elderly woman was insane and had been urinating everywhere for years. Particularly the mattress was a soggy, foul mess. For the record, the experience with the rental truck taught me to refuse to take some things."

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Buy some liquid drain unclogger right now! Do NOT wait until needed. Drains are evil. They know when the stores close, and that's when they choose to clog.

Bibi Pace Report

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106points

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BadCat 2 years ago (edited)

Liquid drain uncloggers can be terrible on the pipes. It's corrosive stuff. Get a snake, some baking soda and vinegar, an old toothbrush or a bottle scrubber.

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WritingSatyr 2 years ago

I’m sorry, I might be missing something here, but a snake??

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Ivan Petrov 2 years ago

Of course it's corrosive - you need that to dissolve the blockage. And baking soda + vinegar make it worse, according to other people. But do you know what works, if the blockage is not complete (slow draining) - boiling water. My shower drain was clogged, I used unclogger, but it didn't do much. Then I poured ~2 litres of almost boiling water, and it unclogged. Works for other stuff, too, as long as it can be put in boiling water.

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John Allen 1 year ago

What good will a toothbrush do?

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Lydia Owen the Bi-tch 2 years ago

Stop mixing baking soda and vinegar, it's just creating expensive water. Acid+base= water.

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Truth Hear it 1 year ago

Plus hazardous to human life and nature.

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Leslie Cookietown 2 years ago

Couldn't agree more! It saves $$ too!!!

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Betsy Green 2 years ago

And a plunger!!!! You do NOT want to be without one when the water is rising!

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Honu 2 years ago

While the liquid drain unclogger is controversial, one thing that isn't: plungers. At the very least, have a toilet plunger. You do not want to have that thing stopping up and flooding your floor. It happens to all of us eventually.

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Becky Samuel 2 years ago

And learn the difference between a toilet plunger and a sink plunger.

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Robin Roper 2 years ago (edited)

How about, keep hair and food from going down the drains by buying a screen and using a hair catcher or drain strainer for the kitchen sink; never flush anything but a reasonable amount of toilet paper, this includes flushable wipes, they aren't, and if you have a big bathroom visit, flush midway thought; and, never, ever pour grease down the drain, wipe oil and fats out of pots and pans before you wash them or put them into the dishwasher - grease and fat clog drains.

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BadCat 2 years ago

A hair catcher doesn't keep all the hair out. There's always those strands that make it down the drain and eventually accumulate. I've always found it unrealistic to expect that not to happen, and I have a hair catcher.

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Weed in the Garden 2 years ago

The bathroom and shower drains are eventualy going to get clogged from soap, shampoo and conditioner, toothpaste, and make-up residue. Add shaving and scalp hair and well....you know. The baking soda, vinegar and hot water combo is like magic! For the other clogs, you probably just need a plunger.

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Becky Samuel 2 years ago

All of that is important, but unless you're moving into a new build you are at the mercy of whatever the previous occupants have left you with. The people we bought from put eggshells and all sorts of grease in the waste disposal, and it took nearly 10 years before we stopped seeing bits of eggshell when we had to clean the pipes out, which happened every few months.

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April Dancer 2 years ago

Flush midway through a 'big visit'.? I dread to think of the state of your neighbourhood drains if that is necessary.

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kate h 2 years ago (edited)

Very bad advice. Never pour chemicals down the drain. It ruins pipes, gets into the local water system, and is dangerous for the plumber who eventually comes to fix your drain.

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Thecoolbonnie 2 years ago (edited)

I've heard from every plumber I've ever talked to, that I should NEVER, EVER use that stuff... Like someone else said... A snake, baking soda, dawn, or just a regular plunger has been my go to

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No Name 2 years ago

Similarly, buy a plunger before you need a plunger. And make sure it's the right kind. The simple ones are for sinks. For toilets, you need a f****e or accordion plunger.

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No Name 2 years ago

Why the hell did BP censor f l a n g e?

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Kevin J. Henning 2 years ago

Look under your sink first. If it has something called a "J" bend, put a small bucket under it, remove the "J" bend, clean it out and reattach it. In many cases, the clog is located there, especially in a bathroom sink. Try that before drain cleaner. Also, be careful using a "snake" it can get caught and you can damage pipes if you don't know what you are doing.

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Rachel Smith 2 years ago (edited)

Dont use draino it's a good way to ruin your pipes, get a pipe snake

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Cassi Lyris 1 year ago

ABSOLUTE DO NOT DO THIS. THEY ARE CORROSIVE AND TERRIBLE FOR DRAINS. Get a snake and clean them out. Use a hair strainer and keep it clean.

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Becky Samuel 2 years ago

Not drain unclogger, which is awful. What does make a huge difference is biofilm remover.

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Dispatcherqueen 2 years ago

Poor half a cup of baking soda in clogged drain, poor vinegar on top until it starts foaming up, wait 30-45 min. Rinse, and all should be clear

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SGH 2 years ago

Why neutralise a base with an acid? All you're making is fizzy water!

1point

Tilly 2 years ago

Only time I have issues with drains is when my husband drains the hamburger meat grease down the drain and doesn't run hot water. So what are yall doing to your poor drains. Seriously?

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Tim Douglass 1 year ago

Grease of any sort should *never* go down the drain! The next time your husband does that take the pan and beat him over the head with it while yelling "NO GREASE DOWN THE DRAIN!!!!". Feel free to add any pejoratives that you find appropriate. But, this truth remains: NO GREASE DOWN THE DRAIN! EVER!

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The Captain 1 year ago

Liquid Drain cleaners will eat your pipes and cause more problems than they solve. It is better to spend time learning what you should not be putting down your drains and investing in a $3 drain catch to keep hair from going down and clogging the drain.

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Graham 1 year ago

No. Do not do this. Open up the trap and just clean it out.

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Cory Tollman 2 years ago

Definitely own a plunger.

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Angel Mist 2 years ago

For grease clogs Dawn dish soap does wonders. Just pour it right over the drain and more times , than not it will eat through the clog. Then flush further with very hot water.

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JE Cummings 2 years ago

Baking soda and vinegar are safer than the usual drain cleaner and work just as well.

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Troy Parr 2 years ago

From day one and frequently ever afterwards... Take a long cable tie/Zip tie and poke around with it down each plug hole. Then take a length of hose, or use the shower hose without the spray head, and simply blast water at full pressure straight down each plughole to shift any crud that lurks there. Cheap and effective. Don't wait till there's enough crud to clog the drain, just blast it through routinely so you never have a problem.

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Tricia Burcell 2 years ago

Clean your pipes out once a quarter by boiling a kettle of water, stopping the sink, put a Tbsp blue Dawn in there, pour in the water and then (carefully) unstop the drain. It will save you so much work in the long run, not to mention pulling nasty stuff out that makes you gag.

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30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Remember to visit and call your mother. This is a difficult phase for her. She deeply misses you.

Taylor Grote Report

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106points

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Robin913 2 years ago

Not only mother, also left behind siblings and father

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Although movers are professionals not everything goes according to a plan at times. "Believe it or not, one time a $4000 50" Plasma screen was damaged while we were trying to move it. A plasma display is different from a TV in that it is a part of a high-end entertainment system and does not include speakers. We were unable to separate it from the base and place it in one of our TV boxes for transit because the man we were moving stripped the screws on the base. It was disgusting. All of it was covered by insurance, which was so generous that his friends all hired me and joked that I could break their TVs."

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Do not expect to have all the things your parent's home has, it took them years to accumulate it. Sometimes people think they are supposed to instantly have it all and go into debt. Get the basics and the rest will come a bit at a time.

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106points

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MelFunction 2 years ago

When I was a teenager, my mom started buying me the odd house-hold item. A cutlery set here, a toaster there. Coffee mugs, wine glasses, serving plates etc. Once I moved out, I had a lot of the basics covered already. She really made it so much easier for me.

56points

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Don't buy moving boxes; go to the local liquor store and ask to take some collapsed boxes. Alcohol is heavy and those boxes hold the weight very well.

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103points

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Šimon Špaček 2 years ago

Or banana boxes from supermarket. Durable, easy to carry, easy to stack and about the right size for most things.

39points

Lastly, the owner of the mover's company told us about the craziest thing that happened while on the clock.

"In the city, we move uprights, but nothing bigger. Just recently, I lifted a 1400-pound crate that was 7.5 feet tall, 6 feet wide, and 3 feet deep. When the stairs were taken out of a basement for construction, we once had to press a piano up over our heads to exit. The most absurd thing that happened was probably when I had to move myself and my 12 snakes. One of my guys would not approach them in any way. It's always entertaining to try to enter and exit apartments with a dozen snakes and their housing."

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30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community The chores are never-ending. Dishes always need to be done. Laundry piles up. The bills keep on coming. If you get yourself into a schedule or a rhythm and do 2-3 chores a day, you'll be able to keep up.

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95points

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Aisling Raye 2 years ago

Yes it's never ending but kind of no on the rest. Everyone has their own way of doing things and that's a big part of living alone for the first time. Getting to know how you personally like your home to run. You can do laundry every few days in small loads, do it once every two or three weeks in large ones, or just do it when you run out of clean underwear and towels. You can do a chore a day or choose a day to do chores. You can skip things if you don't have time for them and catch up later (with the exception being bills of course.)

18points

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30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community That no matter how good that budget looks on paper, add a few hundred dollars to it because life will always cost more than you think.

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95points

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Chich 2 years ago

"Oh, that board on the step has some rot"..."HOW much a foot?!"

15points

#12

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Well, I was told many times but I didn't learn it until I was on my own--turn off the d*&! Lights!

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87points

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Leslie Cookietown 2 years ago

And unplugging seldom used appliances or lamps can save substantial amount of money!!

27points

#13

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Keep track of your security deposit. I lived in an apartment for 30 years. It changed property managers five times. The money was supposed to be collected interest in an escrow account. They can't find any record of it, and I don't have a copy of the original lease. I will never know who stole it, or when.

Romain Dancre Report

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85points

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Firefly 2 years ago

I would add: take pictures of EVERYTHING before moving in. Either have the land lord sign off on them or have them time stamped. On moving out, do the same. Also, save communications about any problems that come up.

3points

#14

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community If you're buying a house, the sticker shock is real! Need to hire movers? Be prepared to spend thousands. Need to have the home inspected? Another thousand at least. Homeowners insurance? How bout another thousand, easy. That's not including lending fees, mortgage insurance, taxes, and every other closing cost.

Markus Spiske Report

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81points

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Kel_how 2 years ago

My home inspection cost between $200 and $300; I think above $400 is too much, depending on the size of the house, of course.

16points

#15

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community If you need to get furniture wait till you can get exactly what you need. The first purchase should be a bed with a good mattress and a sofa. The rest once you see how it looks and the e space you have for the rest of the things. Learned this the hard way and spent too much.

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80points

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Laura Ketteridge 2 years ago (edited)

We were given hand-me down furniture, and bought second hand. Over time, we have replaced what we wanted to replace.

40points

#16

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Get home insurance even if you rent. Your landlord's insurance won't cover you in the event of a loss.

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79points

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Lyone Fein 2 years ago

There is something called renter's insurance.

24points

#17

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Do the dishes now, when you are done cooking/eating. Don't wait. Very, very few things truly need to "soak". Wash them as you make them, especially if you don't have a dishwasher, because there will only be more later.

Marek Studzinski Report

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73points

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April Dancer 2 years ago

Don't wash them if you do have a dishwasher. Scrape yes, wash, no. It interferes with the sensors so you don't get a proper wash from your machine. At which time there's no point in having one.

17points

#18

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Utility bills are not a suggestion. You can't throw them in a drawer and pay them in a few months. They will shut your dumbass power off.

Alexander Grey Report

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73points

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Lyone Fein 2 years ago

Also you will end up paying late fees for not paying by the due dates. These add up.

13points

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30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Be careful to who you give your address and have the confidence to state your boundaries. Be prepared for some people to try and invite themselves over, aka the "friends" who want somewhere to crash after a night out or fight with their s/o. Don't let anyone treat your home like a hotel.

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72points

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Aisling Raye 2 years ago

Or...do. It's an up to you thing. Your home, your rules. I've always had an "open door" policy with friends. I'm not going to let someone crash at my place long term without making proper arrangements but if you want to pop by I'm not stopping you (especially if you bring drinks and/or food.) Need a place to crash for a day or two because of a fight with your partner or just an unexpectedly over boozy night out? That's cool. Life kicked you in the gonads and you need a month to get yourself back on track? Let's have a chat about it. I don't expect anyone else to have the same rules. Everyone different. There's really not a right or wrong with guests. Now strangers...f no. Be safe!!!!

23points

#20

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Buy a set of basic tools (hammer, screwdriver, pliers, etc.) You may be moving into a place where repairs are handled by a maintenance crew, but even then, you often have to wait. Many home repairs are simple, and you can do them yourself. Just read up and take the necessary safety precautions. Some skills can save you serious cash once you become a homeowner (if that's something you aspire to.)

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72points

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howdylee 2 years ago

i had an inexpensive basic tool set when i lived in college dorms (women's only side) and a can of WD-40. It was quicker to ask me to help with something small rather than wait for maintenance. No other girl on the floor knew how to do anything with tools. Fast forward 20 years, I still have those tools, and regularly have to hunt them down because my husband has used them for odd jobs around the house - never uses his big professional tools, likes my dainty girly tools :)

28points

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30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Thieves. If you’re a college student, they are waiting for you like sharks in the water. Be suspicious and cautious of everyone in and around your place, hide your valuables, and don’t tell anyone where you keep your money.

Never allow anyone into your room that you don’t know and trust. Keep all valuables out of your car, even in the daytime. Never leave your moving truck unattended, and never leave your doors unlocked. I learned all of this the hard way. If possible, always lock your door if sharing a space. I wish when I moved out, I was warned of the predators around me.

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63points

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The Short Lady 2 years ago

If you are on a medication with a street value, hide it carefully.

24points

#22

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community You should practice basic household chores, like laundry, vacuuming, bathroom cleaning, and cooking especially. Make sure to have these things in the bag. When you do, make sure you have a decent amount of money in a savings account. Start looking for places to stay BEFORE you move out. Make sure to really assess the places you check out. Ask yourself “Would I really enjoy living here?”. If all of these things are in the bag, you are ready to move out. Make sure to organize your stuff into boxes before calling the U-HAUL or before putting them in your car. Make sure to remember your new house address or apartment number. Good luck!

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57points

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jolie laide 2 years ago

Another good tip is to double check in the lease before signing if subletting or having roommates is allowed. In some places, the only people legally allowed to be in the apartment are the people on the lease. Try to do as much homework as possible before signing anything official.

36points

#23

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Triple-tape the bottom of moving boxes. One down the middle and the other two in an X shape just to the outside edge of the first one. Then tape along the ends. I have moved many many times in my life and I have never had a single box give out on me.

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57points

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Laura Ketteridge 2 years ago

Tape coloured printer paper to the top and two sides of boxes. The colour should correspond to a room (eg red=kitchen, blue=bathroom, green = sitting room, yellow = bedroom). And write on the paper what is contained within each box. It makes unpacking so much easier.

25points

#24

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Never move in with your best friend, you will hate each other by the time you move out!

I moved in with my best friend of 5 years about 12 years ago for a one-year lease. Once the lease was over we went our separate ways and never spoke again, we absolutely loathed each other by the end of it.

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56points

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Brenda Spagnola-Wilson 2 years ago

I lived with my best friend for years. No problems

21points

#25

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Why my father chose my brother over me? I was living at home with my father. It was me, my husband, and my 1-year-old son at the time living there. My eldest brother had been living at my grandparent's house, but ended up in jail after he came home drunk one night, found out that my grandmother had accidentally opened an envelope addressed to him, and went off on her threatening her with physical violence....even going so far as to rip the phone out of the wall.

My father decided that my brother should move in with us so that he could keep an eye on him. My brother had been a raging alcoholic for most of his life...and very violent. I screamed at my father for putting me and my son in danger by letting him move in. "All he has to do is get drunk and hurt my son...I will never forgive you if that happens."

My father paid the cost of putting us into an apartment that we couldn't afford at that time. He tried helping us with rent...but we were also living in a neighborhood where gunshots outside weren't uncommon and someone was always getting beaten up in the parking lot every weekend.

My father finally realized it was an all-around bad situation and had my brother put into an alcohol rehab center while allowing us to move back in. Two years later and my husband and I secured jobs that allowed us to move out on our own without financial help.

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53points

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jolie laide 2 years ago

Just up voted to remove the negative down vote. I agree with Reyna, I don't know why people are down voting this. I'm glad you (Carol) and your family are doing much better now!

27points

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30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community LOL that your landlord is not like your parents. They aren't going to help you with anything and everything, and might not even do what they SHOULD do.

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52points

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jolie laide 2 years ago

And if they don't do what they should do, know what options for recourse you have. For example who to report issues to and what you might or might not be allowed to do to try and correct the problem yourself. Knowing your rights and your lease is SO important. You might still have to live with the problem/s for awhile but knowing your options at least allows you to try and do SOMETHING, get things documented, etc.

19points

#27

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Make a budget and stick to it. Include an emergency fund and retirement fund in your budget, and allocate money to them faithfully with every paycheck. Resolve not to raid either fund for beer runs, concert tickets, or a fancy night out on the town.

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48points

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Brenda 2 years ago

Pay yourself just like any other bill. I used to give my dad whatever I wanted to save

18points

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#28

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Moving out doesn't mean you have to be alone. Still call home for help, hang out with your parents, and spend the night in your old bedroom. It's one hell of a shift so give yourself time to adjust especially if you move out as soon as you are 18.

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48points

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Cathy Hurd 2 years ago

I couldn't get out of my parents house fast enough.

24points

#29

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Never move into a place without all the utilities ALREADY ON. Water, power, gas, etc. should all be working perfectly already or don't move in. I once lived with no water for 3 months because the new landlord told me he would fix it, never did. I moved out over it.

Doris Morgan Report

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48points

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roses are red 2 years ago

First night in my first rental was by candlelight and takeaway food, no one told me I had to get it all connected

10points

#30

30 Things People Wish They Knew Before Moving Out, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community Look at Google reviews of the apartment you are considering as well as the management company that owns it.

Hire movers. For long distance moves it can cost significantly less than moving yourself.

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38points

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Cassi Lyris 1 year ago

This is fairly useless because most rental companies pay for fake reviews.

2points

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Don't move into your first place with a significant other. Learn who you are on your own first. You can always make changes to your and your SO's living arrangements down the road.

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26points

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Lyone Fein 2 years ago

So few people realize how important this is.

4points

#32

1. Make a list of things that are important to you. Not just necessary things but little things that mean something. While you may not be able to afford everything, little things end up meaning a lot more than you think. So while most people don't care about having a long hot shower- I do. So it's important to have good water pressure and a good heat setting on the shower. Do you live in cold weather? You'll need a place with a garage or plowing services. I wouldn't want to have to go to a laundromat every week so having a washer/dryer hookup is important to me.

2. If you're overweight, disabled, or just aren't a skinny athlete, you'll want to live on the first floor unless there's an elevator. You might think going up and down 3 flights of stairs is no big deal once in a while, but you'll end up getting lazy about taking out your trash, and you'll constantly be thinking about how you're going to carry it up in one trip. It might also change your activity in a negative way. The idea of going up and down the stairs in 90-degree heat might make you stay home instead of going out and doing something. So you procrastinate or become less social. You also have to check the weight of everything you order online; if you can't carry it up then you shouldn't order it.

2. Look at the apartment before you move in. And by the look I mean, check the water pressure, check the windows (this is a big one), and notice any damages. If the apartment doesn't look like it's been taken care of, then chances are likely the landlord doesn't care and isn't going to fix things-- but it might not be something you necessarily care about if you're getting a good deal. Taking a long hot shower is important to me, so crappy water pressure is a big deal. If the windows aren't new or if there are gaps in the screens, expect to have higher heating and cooling bills ....and bugs.

3. Everyone says to pack a box with things you'll need right away, but I recommend more than that. Pack the things you'll use in the first week. Otherwise, you're going to force yourself to try and get it all done quickly and you'll be shocked at how tiring a move is.

4. Schedule a grocery delivery if you can for the day before or for the following day after the move (get delivery the first night. That's moving law, lol). Rather than going to the store, have groceries delivered so you can relax a little. Also, prep your fridge by putting in liners or organizers. You'll appreciate being able to not deal with groceries. Your body will be sore.

5. This one applies if you live in a house on the first floor currently and are moving to a higher floor. If there are any heavy items you want to buy, get them before you move so that the movers will be able to carry them up for you. This applies to furniture, and pantry items you can pack. So stock up on soups and heavy cans and bottled water. Also, does the place have central air? Is it hot in the summer? Then you'll need an air conditioner. Buy it before you move so the movers will carry it up and you'll be good to go for when summer comes. Otherwise, you'll have to go downstairs and lug them up yourself when they are delivered. Don't forget that deliveries in apts don't come to your door...they leave them in the mailing area or outside the front door. So any larger or heavy items you might need... get them before you move!

6. This one applies to me but I'm sure to others, too. I would highly recommend only renting if the landlord lives on-site. If there are crazy neighbors causing noise or fighting or damaging the property, the landlord won't put up with it. But he doesn't live there, they won't care. It's the single biggest complaint tenants have is noisy crackhead neighbors and you'll be miserable having to call the cops over and over while the landlord does nothing. If he's there, though, then he won't put up with it and they'll be evicted. People are also better behaved when they know the landlord lives there.

Final score:

24points

Kate Jones

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AliJanx 2 years ago

As an addendum to Point #3, make sure you take freshly washed, clean sheets & pillows (overall bedding items) and pack them last so that they are the first things removed when unpacking. When you get to the apartment, make your bed up the moment you set up your mattress/box spring - and set that up as soon as you possibly can. When you move, you're going to want to have a freshly made bed to fall into, but if you can't find your sheets, you're out of luck.

15points

#33

Washing clothes. It takes time to wash, hang & fold/iron stuff. You might start buying a whole new wardrobe based on this information once you live by yourself...

Final score:

24points

Bart

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Kel_how 2 years ago

I NEVER buy anything (except coats) that require dry cleaning

2points

#34

Your name is on the bills you create (rent, utilities, phone, cable, etc) so you are the one whose credit is affected by paying (or not paying) them. Good credit goes further than cash every time, and bad credit can sink you quicker than being broke.

Final score:

22points

Mrs.King0315

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Whitefox 2 years ago

Also, get a credit card and have it auto pay for something you would be paying for anyway such as your insurance. Have your Bank set to auto pay the credit card 2 days later. Now you are building good credit without having to think about it.

4points

#35

I've lived on my own since I was 17, and of course, I had to adjust. I'm not sure if this applies, but I do wish someone told me how much you have to compromise, all the adjustments you make when you move in with your significant other. I'm independent, so sharing my life with someone was something I had to work at I moved in with my boyfriend 10 years ago, and it was really difficult at first. Sleeping in a bed with someone was really hard for me. I barely slept the first few weeks.

Also, buying things. I'm not talking about big purchases like a car, or paying bills, just buy things I want. I'm pretty impulsive, and honestly not great with money, so if I was at a store and saw something I wanted, I would just buy it. But now, it's not just my money. I can't spend $200 on games, or clothes, because it's not just my money, it's our money. I figured it out, and we're still together, but we've both in the beginning had to learn how to live together.

Final score:

21points

Bonesko

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2x4b523p 2 years ago

I lived alone for a while and I still sometimes miss it after 12 years with my husband and stepkids. Having bed to myself and all that is great but what I miss most is when I used to place “an item” somewhere, “the item” would still be there when I needed it. Now it’s just gone but nobody touched it or seen it or has any clue where “the item” is.

9points

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#36

Make sure that you have lights/lamps installed after you move in, otherwise, you'll be sitting in a dark apartment on your first evening.

Also, for me, putting my 1000 books in paper bags instead of one big, very heavy box made moving in much easier. I would use this generally: Do make sure that your boxes are not too heavy. It required more trips, but it's so much easier, healthier and also prevents you from "accidents" where your boxes floor opens because they're too heavy...

If you move in with someone then make sure that you're on the same page concerning general cleanliness, cooking, and lifestyle (e.g. bedtime, being able to be quiet when the other's sleeping,...)

Final score:

20points

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SparkleFarts 2 years ago

OMG yes!!! I've had to essentially start from scratch a few times, and it's the lamps that always get me!!

3points

#37

I wish someone taught me how to mop. I still feel I’m doing it wrong and I’m 39.

Final score:

20points

Dr. Carlos Dangercat

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Danniee Gyrl 2 years ago

Get a Swifter. It is easier than a traditional mop.

6points

#38

**Thrifting:
Garage Sales, Yard Sales, Thrift Stores, Goodwill, Salvation Army,
Next Door App, FB Market Place (be safe and take someone with you when you go to these places-such as a persons home)

These places will save you so much money on appliances, clothing, shoes, art work, home decorations, etc etc etc

**PLEASE get RENTAL INSURANCE.

**Stock up on your cases of water, Toilet Paper, Paper Towels, Dishwashing Liquid, Detergent, sponges, body wash, soap, hand soap, cleaning supplies, toothpaste, toothbrush, mouthwash, lotion, paper plates etc on each pay day...NOT when you are low on these things or low on money...
--buy them at least 2 at a time until your stock pile is at your satisfaction.

***Have an EMERGENCY KIT in your place:
Candles/Flashlight
a lot of batteries (every size)
Battery operated Radio
Perishable Food
(emergency stash) Pet food

**Have a GOOD Relationship with your Leasing Office Agents/Landlords, Maintenance Crew/Grounds Keepers, Security Officers, and Neighbors

Final score:

20points

Danniee Gyrl

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Susan Smith 2 years ago

Need to note that an emergency kit should have NON-perishable food in it!

3points

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#39

Put things away after you use them. This will keep your house fairly tidy and a tidy house is better for your mental health.

Final score:

19points

Julie Smoak

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#40

That there are people who rent out illegally (their flat belongs to the city and by law, only them or their immediate family can inhabit it), and the contracts you sign are just between you and them, with zero validity in the eyes of law. I was dumb as hell and it was cheap, also the family renting out seemed nice and decent. Lasted a year, then me and my roommate were kicked out with zero notice. We learn by our mistakes, I guess.

Final score:

18points

Dutchman Callypso

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Racheal Birdsong-Bradley 2 years ago

Know your rights as a tenant, lawfully there or not, some governments require prior notice of 2 to 4 weeks.

5points

#41

That I'd finally be free.

Final score:

17points

Ru Bee

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Shelley DuVal 2 years ago

I am with you on that. I would live in a tent to have been free from a narcistic and abusive mother.

18points

#42

Caretakers are not landlords and not authorities to evict you. They can't just hand you an eviction notice because you don't have rent available yet on the morning of the 1st and always get a receipt or some proof of payment when you hand in the rent.

Never accept an illegal eviction notice.

You will get discriminated against for your age when you're searching for a place and after you move in.

Changes to how you pay utilities (included to not included with rent) are not normal, and the utility company will find it suspicious you're setting up an account for a place you've already been living at for some time.

Utility accounts can be stolen from you by someone else posing as you, live somewhere in your name, rack up debt on the account and you'll be on the hook to pay the debt when you move and do need to set up an account for the new place.
To prevent this, keep your old lease even after you moved. Keep any documents, such as taxes or anything that proves where you've lived during those years, and when you moved.
If a landlord does make a strange change to the rent agreement, get it in writing, call the tenant board, and contact the utility board to confirm of the changes are valid.

Keep all documents regarding leases, lease renewals, and damage inspection reports before you moved in and just before you move out. Take pictures. Speak up about even the smallest things, such as chipped, peeling paint, and stains.

Look for signs of infestations. Ask about infestations. Sometimes a landlord will spray for bugs before you move in and then later, when the insecticide wears off the bugs come back because they weren't properly exterminated. (Happened to some friends.)

Go to the local library archives department and do some sleuthing on the property. Sometimes you'll uncover untimely deaths on or around the property that have been forgotten.

Get tenant insurance!

Final score:

17points

BadCat

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Debra McGeorge 2 years ago

Renter’s insurance is a must! Many landlords don’t do the best job of taking care of things, and you need to be safe.

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#43

Sit down with someone who has a household set up and make a list of things you need. I'm talking about the things you take for granted: dishes, silverware, cups, dish soap, wash clothes, broom & dust pan, TOILET PAPER!!, body wash/shampoo, toothbrush, shower curtain, etc. You just don't realize you're going to need those things. Also, thrift stores are a great resource when it comes to getting a lot of first-time essentials like dishes, cookware, furniture, and lamps. Buy it used and upgrade to new if needed when you have the money.

Final score:

17points

SparkleFarts

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Cathy Hurd 2 years ago

Toothpicks! Everyone forgets toothpicks.

5points

#44

Whether you just met or you’ve been friends for years, roommates share a place to save money, for companionship, to feel secure, and to enjoy a stable home life.

Planning to share a house or apartment? Before you unpack the boxes, you and your new roommate(s) should agree on how the household will operate. Simple rules help everyone know what to expect, eliminate conflict, and make a house or apartment into a home.

The owner or primary lease-holder (“owner”) decides whether to hire a house cleaning service, and how costs will be divided. If no service is hired, then cleaning expectations for common areas should be part of the rental lease or addendum.

10 Roommate Rules:

1. The living room is neutral territory, setting the tone for your home. If only one room is always tidy, this is it. Each person must remove their things before going to bed each day. No one should ever worry about what the room will look like if they bring friends or colleagues over unexpectedly. Don’t feel
embarrassed by a mess or (worse) nag each other.

2. Bedrooms & desks are private territories. NEVER enter their room or touch their desk. Never comment on any chaos in their room. It is their space.

3. Each person buys their own food. Divide the fridge into mine, yours, and house sections. Try not to borrow food, but if you do, replace it (with the same brand) the next day. Reserve some pantry shelves for
“house” items such as cleaning supplies.

4. Pooling food and/or chipping in to prepare a simple meal together can be fun, and a chance to discuss house issues – and should be at least once a month.

5. Each person must wash their own dishes/load the dishwasher/tidy kitchen after each use. Don’t leave it for later or the other person.

6. If you own the property, assets that “belong to the house” appliances, dishes, furniture, artwork, lawn mower, and satellite dish] are your responsibility. These are items that remain if the other person moves out. Don’t expect roomies to “chip in” for assets. Ditto for water, sewer, taxes & other basic expenses.

7. Common utilities like electricity, internet, TV cable, and gas are divided evenly. If phone use may be an issue, get separate landlines or cell phones.

8. Buy your own, don’t borrow, and never mooch personal items like toiletries, pet food, magazines, stamps, printer paper, clothes, and booze.

9. Don’t run out of the basics. Make a list of official “house items” such as cooking oil, toilet paper, cleaning supplies, charcoal, etc. used by everyone.

Tape a list on the fridge with a column for each person. When anyone notices a house item is running low (or spots a good sale), just buy it. Each person records any purchases and prices on the list. At the end of each month, total the columns.

If “A” spent $17 on supplies, and “B” spent $27, the difference is $10. “A” then gives “B” $5. This way you are always “even”. No one feels they are always the one who pays. And you’ll never run out of toilet paper.

10. Don’t expect every roommate to be your greatest friend, share their intimate secrets, listen to your problems, loan you money, or invite you to join them on their next vacation. Such a relationship could very well develop, and that’s a great bonus if it does...but don’t expect or demand it.

Final score:

17points

Vasha

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Nicky 2 years ago

Great roommates are not necessarily great friends. Great roommates pay rent on time, clean the toilet, put stamps on bills, and live unobtrusively. Great friends may be soul mates, but may not be good housemates.

7points

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#45

Get a budget account in the bank, so you know what to pay each month.

Final score:

16points

Sanne

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jolie laide 2 years ago

This is so important. Always have as much money as possible in your account BEFORE you move out. I'm from the US, so all of my comments are coming from that perspective, but when it comes to money in the bank I think this is pretty universal. Also I hope people remember that there's a big difference between living on your own, and joining an apartment/house as an additional roommate. Where I live, if you're joining an already established living situation, unless your name is going on the lease too, your roommates will rely heavily on oral agreements for rent, utilities, etc. between all of them. This can get really dicey VERY quickly. Maybe it's just me, but I insist on everything being in writing.

12points

#46

If you're going to be renting, look up tenants' rights in your area. Lots of landlords try to take advantage of young renters, assuming you won't realize what your rights are. Depending on where you live, your government or your university may have a tenants' hotline where you can get free legal advice.

Final score:

16points

wowbagger

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#47

Move out when you can still move back in.

Final score:

15points

s246

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Jennifer Hofman 2 years ago

Yes, keep your options open.

3points

#48

if moving in with a roommate, something that is ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL to talk about is how much noise and activity you like at home. if you're the type of person who needs to come home from a long day at work and exist quietly in your room alone, try not to live with someone who needs to come home from work and blast music. even if it's good music.

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Final score:

15points

Kieran N

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#49

"Don't go, you're too young, your father's banned from this house!"
Also, realistically, "Don't forget to take an all-purpose soap". My first apartment was a rhododendron thicket. Since it was that or Rageacholic Dad with tendencies to strangle... I must say, I had worse apartments in *buildings* than that thicket.

Final score:

13points

Leo Domitrix

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Jennifer Hofman 2 years ago

This is sad. I hope you're doing good now.

3points

#50

Quality over quantity. Buy cheap, buy twice. Invest as you go in good quality household items and furniture - it’s worth it. Henry Hoover for example over a cheap alternative.
Try and have two month’s rent in savings if you’re renting to fall back on.
Save little and often - there are banking/ finance apps which round up your change, or take small amounts as often as you like.
Also, boil potatoes before trying to mash them!

Final score:

13points

elsieairhead

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#51

With your new found freedom comes many responsibilities whether you want them or not.

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Final score:

12points

HByersRN

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#52

That living all by yourself can be really lonely and that doesn't mean you can't hack it away from Mommy and Daddy. It means you are a human being who enjoys social contact. That's a good thing.

Final score:

11points

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#53

Beware of credit cards! My "learning curve" when I moved out was tossing around the plastic too much while I was settling in. Too many unwise purchases later, I was stuck in debt to the point where I had to weigh which bills to pay, and how little food I could get away with eating.

You need things that are cheap but not going to disintegrate in a week. Shop second-hand stores and yard sales. Shop dollar stores for things like dish soap, etc. And learn how to eat on the cheap! If you don't know how to cook, now is the time to go on YouTube and learn!

Don't buy disposable stuff like cleaning wipes, paper towels and mop heads. Use old towels or old ripped up t-shirts, a sponge mop and a spray bottle with some distilled water for basic cleaning. You can find other resources for cleaning on the cheap online.

Cleaning house isn't optional. Your landlord can tag you hard for being a slob, especially if causes damage, and your guests will ~absolutely~ judge you if they see a dump, so keep it tidy and make sure you don't do any damage to your apartment. If you see something wrong, report it in writing to your landlord immediately.

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Final score:

11points

Susan Stead

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#54

However much you think it's going to cost to live on your own, it's going to be more. Budget accordingly.

Final score:

8points

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#55

Buy a bottle opener.

Final score:

7points

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Debra McGeorge 2 years ago

And have a cold beer in hand for all the guys helping. Just one’s all they need, and it’ll be greatly appreciated.

2points

#56

Budget...Budget...Budget...

Final score:

7points

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#57

Own less stuff. You're likely to be moving a few times before you settle in to somewhere for a long time, and moving suuuuuucks. The less stuff you own the better. I'm talking everything. A mattress on the floor is just as good as a frame and a box spring if you're relocating ever semester. And as soon as you start paying for storage, you're losing money. The human animal is surprisingly self-sufficient. Don't believe the consumer culture hype that you need more "things." A pocket full of cash is easier to transport than all the worthless stuff it can buy.

Final score:

7points

Wintermute

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#58

Ask for help. I had to leave an abusive home at seventeen. I worked and lived with a roommate but had no idea how to live on my own. I made so many mistakes that I could have prevented if I knew some basic rules.

Final score:

7points

Robyn Rob

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#59

Keep copies of everything! Lease agreement, utilities agreement, any correspondence having to do with your apartment, utilities, car, insurance etc. Check bills every month to make sure you aren't being charged wrong amounts. Get everything in writing, from your landlord to your bosses to whatever. If it is in writing you can prove it. Never assume someone won't take advantage

Final score:

7points

Brenda Spagnola-Wilson

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Sonja 2 years ago

I can't understand how this is so low down. This is so important! And get a folder or even better: get a box to put everything in and put it someplace you can easily reach but that's not too obvious. If something happens, a fire, a water damage, anything else that might force you to leave your home, grab that box and take it with you.

0points

#60

Pay an extra $10-$20 a week in rent so when it comes to Christmas 🎄 or your go on holidays your rent is covered for a period of time :)

Final score:

6points

Shelly Hardy

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BadCat 2 years ago

Depends if the landlord or mgmt allows for that. When I overpay I actually get a letter in a tone similar to if I were owing, telling me to only pay the amount I owe and not more than that. The other mgmt I was with just allowed it to accumulate, which was helpful during those times when work is light.

10points

#61

You can always come home. Any time, for any reason.

Final score:

6points

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#62

I love you.
I don't remember ever hearing that growing up and that's one reason I moved out at such an early age.

Final score:

6points

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Mark Walsh 2 years ago

Snap. Was never used when I grew up. As soon as I was old enough I was gone. Now I tell my daughter I love her every minute of every day.

2points

#63

Pack a bag with a set of sheets, a towel, soap, toothbrush, shower curtain and your jammies and keep it with you.

We spent hours looking for something to sleep on/in after my now husband and I first moved in together. Plus you'll have everything you need to clean up after what will inevitably be a long and dirty day.

Final score:

4points

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sturmwesen 2 years ago

How about "It's always more expensive then you think and each year it will be more expensive."...

18points

ADHD McChick 2 years ago

Yeah. I'm wondering in what world these posters think 17-19 year olds can hire movers, put aside "extra" money for emergency funds, etc. At least in the US. I've been on my own for almost 15 YEARS now, and I still can't do that! And the way things are going here, it's only going to get worse...

22points

Karen Doggett 2 years ago

If you are an adult reading this and you have a chance, help a young adult that is starting out, teach them, share with them and mostly listen to them

11points

Kar Red Roses 2 years ago

Take ALL your stuff with you when you go, or arrange to have things picked up/donated. Don’t assume your parents will keep your room as a shrine to you, or that they’re keeping your baby/childhood stuff in the attic for future grandchildren.

10points

Ginger Grumpybunny 2 years ago

Communication is the key here. Nobody should assume, if it's never been discussed, that their parents are happy to store their belongings indefinitely, but more importantly, nobody should ever dispose of their children's (or anyone else's) belongings without consulting them.

5points

Aisling Raye 2 years ago

One thing I wish I could add to the list is what my dad told me when I started living alone. He phrased it as a "single woman living alone thing" but it applies to everyone. He told me to never open a door to someone you don't know unless you are expecting them (like if you ordered food, scheduled delivery for a package, have an appointment for a service call with cable or plumber or handyman, or you specifically called the police or fire department to come to your house) It doesn't matter if they're wearing a police uniform or look in anyway "official," you don't open the door to an unexpected stranger until you can confirm who they are. Most people are awesome but the harsh, awful, disgusting truth is that you have to be cautious if you want to keep yourself safe from the ones who aren't.

2points

Joss 2 years ago (edited)

And lock your damn door

2points

Elaine Elder 2 years ago

I was taught by my Granny how to do so many things before I was 18 that I never really thought about where I learned them. I have knives that get washed immediately after I i use them. I had never let them get dull. I got sick for several months and was unable to take care of things. My knives went through the dishwasher. My husband was doing his best. When my health began to improve, I showed him how to cut up an apple and he was annoyed with how dull the knives were. Ready to toss them out and buy new. I pulled whet stones out of drawer and taught him how my Granny taught me. I have 40 years of knives I've collected throughout my life. For our 30th anniversary we are purchasing a set of Damascus 72 layer German forged steel full tang dalbergia wood handles, that both of us will know how to take care of, sharp and value. So my advice. Spend $28 on a stainless steel set of 3 knives. $7 on a whet stone and find some YouTube videos on knife sharpening. It's the first step in learning to cook excellent meals on a budget. Tomatoes and basil grow in a pot of dirt in sunny windows. Someone on YouTube will show you how.

2points

GFSTaylor 2 years ago

Don't forget to arrange to have your mail forwarded from your old address, preferably for at least six months after you move.

1point

RockSteady 2 years ago

As a parent, start your kids young in how to maintain a house, a budget, teach them about rent vs. mortgage, insurance, etc. My kids are 9 and 12-they do their own laundry, cook, clean and my 12 year old handles the house expenses in our budget. My 9 year old matches our bank statements with our expenses. They are amazing at all of it. The other day, my oldest asked me when the last time we changed our HVAC filters...because he thinks his dad did it around this time last month. They listen, watch and learn. Do it early!

1point

Vivian Ashe 2 years ago

There is a point in your life when you should no longer expect friends to help you move. When you're just starting out and/or are broke it's fine. But if you have a decent job and are moving up into a much nicer place - or even a house - it's time to hire people. Your besties can come over and help you unpack some dishes and nicknacks, but don't expect them to be hauling boxes and furniture in and out of a truck for you.

1point

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dab 2 years ago

and your parents get a little peeved when you don't thank them for the roof over your head

0points

Chich 2 years ago

Get one of those accordian file boxes and use it to file leases, inspections, utility info, phone#s, realtor info, mortgage info etc. Everything in one place. Saved my sanity during a move several times.

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Aisling Raye 2 years ago

Reading these made me realize how great I had it growing up. It's heart breaking to see how many people have had to learn every little thing on their own ... my parents taught me so SO much and now I feel like a spoiled brat. On the happier side. I'm so glad that the internet exists and there are people that post these lessons online and people to reach out to. When I left my parents house, the extent of easily obtainable information online was absolutely c**p compared to what it is now. (I started college in the 90s)

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Lorrie Rothstein 2 years ago (edited)

Save money for the laundromat. Know landlord and maintenance phone numbers know the bus and subway routes.compare supermarket prices. Look into food stamps public assistance and health insurance Utility companies will work with you on payment plans. Have a bank account and keep track of the amount in it.

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Lyone Fein 2 years ago

In almost every community there are free cultural activities available that you can participate in. I live in a *tiny* village in Ohio (less than 4000 people) but some of what goes on around here is: monthly art gallery opening, daily free lunch home delivery service, monthly book club, free internet access at the public library, free DVD loans at the library, all kinds of talks and presentations weekly at the library, fitness course in a city park, twice weekly farmers market in the summer. And this is just the free social stuff that I know of. If you live somewhere with a college then there is even more free stuff available for you including scientific speakers, poets, films, etc. What I am trying to get at is that your entertainment budget can be almost zero if you get creative and are open to some new experiences.

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A.D 2 years ago

Don't marry someone who was in the psych ward, even if it was supposed to be for med adjustment

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Trisec Tebeakesse 2 years ago

That you will never see "home" again. I moved out at age 22, and within the year my father sold our childhood home and moved away. (my parents divorced when I was 14). I never set foot in that house again.

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BannedFromABoatShow 2 years ago

Get the smallest place you can find. You think you want lots of space but if you’re not good with money you’ll start buying things to fill it. Once I realized my 500 square foot apartment wouldn’t hold anything else I had to stop.

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JoyzieGurl 2 years ago

That the whole rent gig was expected Every month!!

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sturmwesen 2 years ago

How about "It's always more expensive then you think and each year it will be more expensive."...

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ADHD McChick 2 years ago

22points