
“It’s Ridiculous”: Mom Stands Firm On Baby’s Name Despite In-Laws’ Dramatic Reaction
It can be hard to name your baby when you think about how they’ll have to live with it for the rest of their lives. In fact, for some parents, regret may set in, as 21% of parents told BabyCentral that they started to second-guess the name they’d given to their babies just one month in.
A similar thing happened to this dad, who, influenced by his parents’ religious beliefs, started disliking his daughter’s name. Saying that in their religion it symbolized bad luck, he begged his wife to reconsider. Unfortunately, she refused to budge.
A couple got into a fight after the husband’s family got upset about the name they gave to their baby
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According to them, it symbolized misfortune, instability, and bad luck, but the mother refused to change the baby’s name
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The Bible does warn against worshipping celestial bodies: the sun, the moon, and the stars
Before the author clarified what her in-laws’ religion is, many commenters were quite confused. There aren’t any popular Christian denominations that put emphasis on the moon and how it represents bad luck.
However, the Redditor later explained that her husband’s family belonged to a very strict independent fundamentalist Baptist church. She then pointed to two passages from the Bible that explain why they’re so against the name ‘Luna’.
The first passage is from the book of Isaiah:
12 “Keep on, then, with your magic spells and with your many sorceries, which you have labored at since childhood. Perhaps you will succeed, perhaps you will cause terror.
13 All the counsel you have received has only worn you out! Let your astrologers come forward, those stargazers who make predictions month by month, let them save you from what is coming upon you.
14 Surely they are like stubble; the fire will burn them up. They cannot even save themselves from the power of the flame. These are not coals for warmth; this is not a fire to sit by.
While there is no direct mention of the moon, this passage is about warning believers not to put faith in astrology and other mythical practices if they wish to be saved from judgment. Baptists emphasize putting trust in God alone.
The second passage is from the Book of Deuteronomy:
9 And when you look up to the sky and see the sun, the moon and the stars—all the heavenly array—do not be enticed into bowing down to them and worshiping things the Lord your God has apportioned to all the nations under heaven.
This passage warns believers not to idolize any celestial bodies, as they are all creations of God. They aren’t objects for people to worship but created for everyone equally.
While these passages don’t explicitly refer to the moon as a moniker of bad luck, the family (especially the grandmother) have their personal interpretations. Expression of faith can differ from person to person, and for this family, the moon clearly has negative connotations.
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The name ‘Luna’ has roots in Roman mythology, representing light and clarity
A name can have several meanings. There’s the literal translation from other languages (in which case, Luna means ‘moon’ in Spanish and Italian). Then there are mythological meanings from different cultures: Luna was a goddess in Roman mythology, depicted as driving a white chariot drawn by horses or oxen. Romans associated their goddess Luna with light and clarity.
The name ‘Luna’ became quite popular in 2003. Some attribute it to when J.K. Rowling, the author of the Harry Potter series, introduced a character named Luna Lovegood. Still, until around 2010, there were less than 1,000 Lunas in the U.S.
As of 2022, Luna is the 10th most common name in America, with 8922 baby girls being named after the moon. Name experts speculate that its popularity won’t wane soon, as mythological names and nature-inspired names are very much on the rise at the moment.
Interestingly, Luna was a very popular name in the 1800s. Throughout the 1880s up until the 1950s, Luna was almost as popular a name as it is now. Its popularity seriously dipped during the second half of the 1900s, but it started getting its groove back at the end of the 1980s.
Celebrity parents also fell in love with the name Luna. In 2016, Chrissy Teigen and John Legend named their daughter Luna. In 2013, Penelope Cruz and Javier Bardem had a daughter and named her Luna as well.
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Many commenters didn’t see what the family’s issue with the name was: “Luna is a beautiful name”
Poll Question
How do you feel about the mother's decision to keep her baby's name as Luna despite her husband's family's discomfort?
I support the mother's decision to keep the name.
I think she should consider a compromise.
The family’s beliefs should take priority.
I’m indifferent to the family's opinions.
"Name experts speculate that its popularity won’t wane soon" ... Well played, BP LOL
Comparative religion is a hobby of mine, and I've never heard of any but the most overly, insanely zealous 'Christian' cults that would object to a name like Luna. And even those overly zealous cultists would be objecting because it's a 'pagan deity', not that it's some sort of evil omen of madness and ill luck. What sort of stupidity are these people believing in?
Exactly. IFB is against anything pagan, but this I've never heard of. And I grew up with that madness. My mom does have an issue with me calling Earth "Mother Earth". Never been able to figure that one out. She thinks it's something along the lines of pagan. But then again, they judge things solely on how they think something sounds.
Load More Replies...When you read the bible, the moon is viewed very positively. Even in those verses, Deut 4:19 it says not to worship the sun and moon, but same verse says assigned the sun, moon, and stars to the people, and in Isaiah is just says not to consult those who do astrology and sorcery through the stars. These people dont even know their bible!
Hold on a second: “Isaiah is just says not to consult those who do astrology”: The bible says astrology’s not cool? That’s true? You’re not talking about some pseudo-bible? This is the first time I can remember hearing about something mart in the bible. That part, at least, was written by someone with common sense? People were hell superstitious back then, and yet even they knew astrology was baloney? I’m impressed!
This is nothing to do with the moon or a couple of tangential Bible verses. The bit they're not saying is there's a character in Harry Potter called Luna, and there are definitely Christians who (stupidly) get all freaked out by a children's story.
It's really weird the husband didn't seem to expect this reaction from his family. Makes me think it's more about a DIL taking him away from their cult than anything else.
I want to tell OP: "Since they are such a nice sect, I am now a niche sect as well, and in my sect the Moon is a symbol of love and good blessing, as it resurrects, just like Jesus did. If we want to force niche sect beliefs on others, why should you follow theirs raather than mine"? FFS, Christians, could you keep your loonies in check, please? (I know, most of you are decent people and ashamed of them yourselves)
That family are nutjobs. Stick to your guns OP and probably best to cut them out of your life.
Completely ignoring the story: Luna isn't the name of a Roman Goddess, the Roman Goddess is called Diana, and her Greek counterpart is Artemis. There is another Greek moon Goddess too, but her name is Selene. (Also do they hide indoors whenever there's a moon or dress up in fully covering clothes to avoid moonlight? Like there's so many strange plot holes in this belief that I don't even know where to start. It's completely insane)
Bible warns people against celestial bodies. Last I checked, wasn't Jesus's birth marked by a celestial body? Religious people are wild.
There can’t be a religion that thinks the moon is evil . Maybe the parents are in a cult.
What's going on with asking "the Internet" for validation? Don't leave naming your child up to random people. AITA?- not an ahole, but definitely insecure.
For sure DON'T change her name, especially if you're in the US. Anyone now who goes through a legal name change or takes their husband's name upon marriage or changes the name of a child they've adopted runs the very high risk of that person losing their right to vote. They want to strip all voting rights away from everyone but cis, white able-bodied men, and attacking those who have changed their names is one way to shut down women's votes.
I read the passages. By ascribing symbolism and "omens" to celestial bodies, isn't the family practicing exactly the kind of astrology the passage warns against?
So, basically fundies that believe in astrology. As if they weren't already messed up.
"...should compromise for the sake of family peace." I agree. THEY should.
So...do they stay inside during a full moon? Do they make the sign of the cross when they dare glance at the crescent in the night sky? I guarantee not, so it's not nearly as huge of a deal as they're making it out to be.
LOL. my ex-inlaws, both now deceased, told me to change both of my sons' names while I was still in the hospital with them! One, because his name sounded too 'Jewish', the other because he'd be confused with his great uncle. (As she had named her 4 sons after 4 different relatives) I very politely told them No. Controlling people aren't going to control me.
The Moon or Luna used to symbolise psychotic illnesses. BUT that was during the 17th century, when people believed that the Moon brought out the Werewolf in people.
I liked the one who said they should offer to change her name to Lilith. Babtists wild love that.
Leave it to zaney religion to not celebrate something they think their god created. It isn't supposed to make sense though I guess.
That crazy family needs to read Genesis where it says that God created the moon. My cousin's son and his wife named their third daughter Luna... They belong to the Salvation army.
So hubby’s family want her to change her baby’s name for the sake of “their family peace”, even though HER family- OP, hubby, and baby- are perfectly at peace with the name (or at least were until they started brainwashing hubby.) Sounds like a “them” problem, not a “you” problem. If hubby is that easily swayed by his family, you may want to consider shrinking your family unit by one. Things will not get better from here.
I knew a Luna in high school. Your classic volleyball-playing popular high school b***h.
"Name experts speculate that its popularity won’t wane soon" ... Well played, BP LOL
Comparative religion is a hobby of mine, and I've never heard of any but the most overly, insanely zealous 'Christian' cults that would object to a name like Luna. And even those overly zealous cultists would be objecting because it's a 'pagan deity', not that it's some sort of evil omen of madness and ill luck. What sort of stupidity are these people believing in?
Exactly. IFB is against anything pagan, but this I've never heard of. And I grew up with that madness. My mom does have an issue with me calling Earth "Mother Earth". Never been able to figure that one out. She thinks it's something along the lines of pagan. But then again, they judge things solely on how they think something sounds.
Load More Replies...When you read the bible, the moon is viewed very positively. Even in those verses, Deut 4:19 it says not to worship the sun and moon, but same verse says assigned the sun, moon, and stars to the people, and in Isaiah is just says not to consult those who do astrology and sorcery through the stars. These people dont even know their bible!
Hold on a second: “Isaiah is just says not to consult those who do astrology”: The bible says astrology’s not cool? That’s true? You’re not talking about some pseudo-bible? This is the first time I can remember hearing about something mart in the bible. That part, at least, was written by someone with common sense? People were hell superstitious back then, and yet even they knew astrology was baloney? I’m impressed!
This is nothing to do with the moon or a couple of tangential Bible verses. The bit they're not saying is there's a character in Harry Potter called Luna, and there are definitely Christians who (stupidly) get all freaked out by a children's story.
It's really weird the husband didn't seem to expect this reaction from his family. Makes me think it's more about a DIL taking him away from their cult than anything else.
I want to tell OP: "Since they are such a nice sect, I am now a niche sect as well, and in my sect the Moon is a symbol of love and good blessing, as it resurrects, just like Jesus did. If we want to force niche sect beliefs on others, why should you follow theirs raather than mine"? FFS, Christians, could you keep your loonies in check, please? (I know, most of you are decent people and ashamed of them yourselves)
That family are nutjobs. Stick to your guns OP and probably best to cut them out of your life.
Completely ignoring the story: Luna isn't the name of a Roman Goddess, the Roman Goddess is called Diana, and her Greek counterpart is Artemis. There is another Greek moon Goddess too, but her name is Selene. (Also do they hide indoors whenever there's a moon or dress up in fully covering clothes to avoid moonlight? Like there's so many strange plot holes in this belief that I don't even know where to start. It's completely insane)
Bible warns people against celestial bodies. Last I checked, wasn't Jesus's birth marked by a celestial body? Religious people are wild.
There can’t be a religion that thinks the moon is evil . Maybe the parents are in a cult.
What's going on with asking "the Internet" for validation? Don't leave naming your child up to random people. AITA?- not an ahole, but definitely insecure.
For sure DON'T change her name, especially if you're in the US. Anyone now who goes through a legal name change or takes their husband's name upon marriage or changes the name of a child they've adopted runs the very high risk of that person losing their right to vote. They want to strip all voting rights away from everyone but cis, white able-bodied men, and attacking those who have changed their names is one way to shut down women's votes.
I read the passages. By ascribing symbolism and "omens" to celestial bodies, isn't the family practicing exactly the kind of astrology the passage warns against?
So, basically fundies that believe in astrology. As if they weren't already messed up.
"...should compromise for the sake of family peace." I agree. THEY should.
So...do they stay inside during a full moon? Do they make the sign of the cross when they dare glance at the crescent in the night sky? I guarantee not, so it's not nearly as huge of a deal as they're making it out to be.
LOL. my ex-inlaws, both now deceased, told me to change both of my sons' names while I was still in the hospital with them! One, because his name sounded too 'Jewish', the other because he'd be confused with his great uncle. (As she had named her 4 sons after 4 different relatives) I very politely told them No. Controlling people aren't going to control me.
The Moon or Luna used to symbolise psychotic illnesses. BUT that was during the 17th century, when people believed that the Moon brought out the Werewolf in people.
I liked the one who said they should offer to change her name to Lilith. Babtists wild love that.
Leave it to zaney religion to not celebrate something they think their god created. It isn't supposed to make sense though I guess.
That crazy family needs to read Genesis where it says that God created the moon. My cousin's son and his wife named their third daughter Luna... They belong to the Salvation army.
So hubby’s family want her to change her baby’s name for the sake of “their family peace”, even though HER family- OP, hubby, and baby- are perfectly at peace with the name (or at least were until they started brainwashing hubby.) Sounds like a “them” problem, not a “you” problem. If hubby is that easily swayed by his family, you may want to consider shrinking your family unit by one. Things will not get better from here.
I knew a Luna in high school. Your classic volleyball-playing popular high school b***h.
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