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Redditor u/decisivevinyl was very open with Bored Panda about what had inspired them to start the online thread in the first place.

"Honestly, when I'm super bored on Reddit, I sometimes just try and come up with potentially interesting questions to ask on r/AskReddit," they told Bored Panda that it's a great way to pass the time and interact with the community. "Nothing really more to it than that."

We were very curious to get the thread author's opinion as to why some people do such incredibly messed up things, and how best to respond to them.

"Personally, I just think there are some [awful] people out there. And [awful] people will always do [awful] things," they explained their stance.

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends A guy I worked with was about to take his wife on a trip back to their mutual hometown in another state. They had a pair of delightful kittens and they asked me if I would watch them while they were gone. I had little experience with cats but these 2 were just wonderfully playful. I gave him a call when he got back to arrange returning the kittens but he said they had picked up a non-cat friendly dog on the journey and he would just drop off the kittens in the woods. Needless to say, I kept them and they were wonderful furry friends for me and eventually to my wife and kids. I still think what would have happened to them if I had not been in the right place at the right time.

PoloGrounder , Lara Baeriswyl Report

Final score:

378points

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SheHulk 1 year ago

Monster.

215points

EllieSouthworthEwing , Tim Rüßmann Report

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Three years ago I made the decision to stop drinking. After about 11 months of sobriety, my “best friend” shows up at my door, several bottles of vodka with her. “I’m tired of you being sober, Stop being a little b***h and get drunk with me today.”

After a moment of shock I uttered “Uh, no, that’s not happening, and we’re never speaking again.” *door closes*

She tried to reconnect several times, immediately following. “I’m sorry, I was only kidding” and “I’ll [off] myself if you really dont talk to me ever again.” To which I replied “I will not feel guilty for any choices you choose to make in your life.” Stopped her manipulation pretty good.

Eventually a relative of hers calls me asking what happened as the friend stated that I cut them out “for no reason”. As soon as I told the relative “well, I got sober and they didn’t like that and wanted me to drink with them again” the relative interjected “say no more, I respect you for what you did. She really needs to get some help, thanks for taking my call and explaining.”

In retrospect, I waited way too long to cut that “friend” out.

Final score:

324points

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Paul Neff 1 year ago

They weren't your friend, they just saw you as a fair weather companion when bored.

96points

Just-Seaworthiness39 Report

"The best way to respond to that behavior, in my opinion, is to not let it eat you up and just go about your life as best as you can. Because like I stated earlier, [awful] people will always be [awful]," the OP said.

Bored Panda was also interested to hear the redditor's thoughts on friendship red flags, and whether it's possible to figure out whether someone is an awful person before becoming fast friends with them.

"There can definitely be red flags in the traits of a person, but some people are better at hiding them than others," the OP told us.

"There might be some cases where you just honestly don't realize until it's too late and then there might just be a completely off vibe you pick up on before you get too deep into friendship," they shared their thoughts.

He had me help model for one of his photoshoots that was set on top of a very tall building. When he asked me to move to the edge, he kept talking about how cool it would be to capture someone’s death from a building in-real-time. At this point, I was getting somewhat nervous.

Then he gave me a little shove. I backed away and then almost slipped. His response, “See, that could have been so cool. You have mental health issues anyways, why don’t you just do it and you’ll be posthumously famous which will give your life meaning.” Now keep in mind, this is paraphrased, since it’s been a long time ago, but that was the gist of it…and I’ve never forgotten how it made me feel.

After that, I started to gradually cut this person from my life out of fear that he would try to hurt me for the sake of “his art”. F**k that guy.

Final score:

315points

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troufaki13 1 year ago

This person is dangerous

217points

Mundane_Tour_3215 , Lucas van Oort Report

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Throw McDonald’s fries and burger as hard as he could at a homeless lady asking for food… I called him a piece of s**t and never spoke to him again

Final score:

312points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

So he wasted food that the lady could've eaten for what? What did you accomplish besides making someone with an already hard life day worse? Good beatin that one needs

134points

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends A girl was falling down drunk, totally out of it - no drink spiked, she had been doing a crazy amount of shots without knowing they were double shots. This one friend of mine insisted on taking her home by himself. Me and three of other people in the group insisted more strongly to come along and help her home. The whole way back, he kept trying to assure us that he had things under control and didn't need our help, and it became clearer and clearer he was planning [to take advantage of] her.

We aggressively told him to knock it off, and got her home. First he tried to insist he should stay with her to "make sure she's ok" which we vetoed, then we caught him trying to get her keys out of her purse so he could come back inside. When that happened, we'd had enough and things got rough. We didn't beat him up, but we very forcefully got him out of her student residence building. She was in bad shape, so we found a friend of hers from down the hall who agreed to come over and look after her - we were worried she might throw up in her sleep or something.

Later on that night he got caught pounding on her dorm room door by the same friend after he managed to sneak back into the building by following someone else when they came in.

The whole friend group split up over staying friends with him, but f**k that guy. She was literally passed out on her feet and totally incoherent.

MenudoMenudo , iam_os Report

Final score:

300points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

I feel like this should be worthy of jail time for even attempting to do that

231points

FriendlyDifference72 , Samuel Ramos Report

The types of friendships that dominate your life can have a massive impact on its quality. If you have even just a handful of genuine, authentic friends, you’ll feel like someone’s always got your back. That kind of support can give you a lot more confidence, no matter what you do. Because you know that they’ll be there with a kind word, a witty joke, a hug, or an activity to take your mind off things.

They’ll be there, by your side, through thick and thin: reveling in your successes and feeling your deepest failures as if they were their own. However, it’d be naive to think that everyone has such pals in their lives. Or that everyone you call a friend is actually one…

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends We were working in an old ladies attic and he kicked the s**t out of a pipe on purpose then went and told her it needed to be replaced. I never worked with him again after that

Final score:

261points

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𝕀𝕣𝕖𝕟𝕖 1 year ago

he's such an a*****e

89points

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends If we’re talking ex-friends? He beat his child for touching my guitar, the one I brought over specifically to show the boy and let him play with. He was 3.

tucakeane , Simon Weisser Report

Final score:

248points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

There need to be mandatory tests to show if you're actually good to have a child. I'm a firm believe that anyone who beats children needs to be castrated so they can't have anymore.

26points

lightningandmadness , Brett Jordan Report

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Convinced his girlfriend she was suffering from gluten intolerance instead of schizophrenia, and got her to stop taking medication.

Final score:

230points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

That is incredibly dangerous for her and others. wtf man

118points

hmfiddlesworth , Priscilla Du Preez Report

The fact of the matter is that far from everyone you meet will end up being your BFF whom you can trust with even the weirdest secrets. Some of them will turn out to be work friends whom you hang out with during lunch (and during the odd company party) but generally keep things professional. Other pals might only spend time with you because you have a shared hobby, whether that’s rock climbing or playing Dungeons & Dragons every Sunday night.

And then you have fair weather and superficial friends who love to spend time with you when things are going well but disappear at the slightest sign of trouble… or if you ask them for a favor.

#10

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Best friend was excited for me to meet his new gf. The whole evening he bragged about how she was still married and he was going to be the reason she got divorced.
Haven't spoken to him since. Did hear she broke up with him and sorted out the issues with her husband

Final score:

196points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

I just feel bad for the husband. Both the wife and bsf are pieces of s**t.

67points

#11

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends I once saw an ex friend of mine kick her boyfriend so hard in his ribs that afterward he peed blood (he was lying on his back at the time).

His transgression? He asked her son not to eat all the chocolate pieces out of the communal trail mix they had.

He has since dumped her, now she's homeless, addicted to drugs, in and out of jail, and even her family won't have anything to do with her.

xAndyPandax , Towfiqu barbhuiya Report

Final score:

186points

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Jason 1 year ago

Hopefully her son ended up somewhere safe

178points

#12

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Brag about f*****g a mutual close friends very recent ex while his 8 month pregnant wife was at home by herself. Tried to show me photos... immediately removed from my wedding invite list. Don't respect your marriage, you won't be a part of mine.

Oldscool81 , freestocks Report

Final score:

184points

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Alyssa 1 year ago

The amount of men who cheat on their wives when they’re heavily pregnant is disgusting.

99points

Friendships are about mutual trust and respect. In short—they’re about a sense of balance. One red flag that you should definitely keep in mind is how often they ask you for help versus how often they end up helping you when you need a hand. You have to be honest about what someone else is offering you in the relationship.

Usually, proper friends offer emotional support, whether it involves gossiping over a slice of freshly-baked pie and a glass of cold milk or sitting in silence together as you fish for hours on end. Superficial friends, on the other hand, will be nowhere to be found if you’re in a dark place. They’re there just to have fun.

#13

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Catfish their widowed and lonely HS teacher to get back at her for failing him out of her class for plagiarism…

insecureslug , Dom Fou Report

Final score:

180points

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I DRIVE A DODGE STRATUS 1 year ago

Jesus H. People suck.

97points

#14

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Date a 15 year old boy. She was 23 at the time. I reported her to social services.

JellyBeanQueen95 , Nuno Silva Report

Final score:

178points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

Good on you for reporting her, ew

106points

Final_Objective_6204 , Josh Sorenson Report

#15

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Brought my friend to watch my boyfriend practice his drumming…she kept spreading her legs wide wearing a skirt with no underwear. She slept with him and he left me thinking he would be with her. Needless to say she didn’t date him because she already had a boyfriend.

Final score:

171points

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Alex Bailey 1 year ago

Hope that is ex-friend and ex-boyfriend.

94points

Some other signs that someone’s a false friend are that they talk about you behind your back and that they feel jealous when you’re successful. For instance, they might resent you when you get promoted or if you get engaged. They also won’t think twice to take advantage of your kindness. In these cases, it’s best to have a really good think about whether or not you should continue being friends.

Though if they do anything like in the stories in this list, the question should be very clear: cut all contact, move on with your life. There are so many wonderful people out there to befriend—you don’t have to stick with someone rotten.

#16

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends I was having a few drinks at a friend's place when out of nowhere he got up, grabbed a screwdriver and without saying anything stabbed the guy sitting next to me right in the thigh. I later found out it was over some money the guy owed him. Last I heard my "friend" is in prison for attacking 3 people with a hatchet.

TAOS086 , Markus Spiske Report

Final score:

171points

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🌵 Drazil 1 year ago

You're still friends with him???!!!?

21points

#17

Spike a classmate, who was strict Muslim so didn't drink alcohol etc (but was a chill live and let live guy), because he thought it'd be funny. He didn't tell anyone what he'd done until the guy was in a full blown panic thinking he was going to die.

Suffice to say, I failed to see anything remotely funny about it, and we never associated again.

That was unfortunately not the first or last drugging/spiking incident within that friend group. But it was one of the more egregious because of it being an innocent bystander targeted.

lil_red_irish Report

Final score:

163points

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CP 1 year ago

I think anyone that gets their drink spiked is an innocent bystander.

15points

#18

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Stalk my sister. He was my best man… we are no longer friends.

-pettyhatemachine- , Andrew Gook Report

Final score:

161points

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𝕀𝕣𝕖𝕟𝕖 1 year ago

if someone stalk my sister i'll beat the sh*t out of him

79points

#19

We had this event at our college and my friend made a script for it, he was doing stand up comedy. He goes to the stage and then proceeds to make fun of the way I look, the way I walk and the way I talk. Everyone was looking at me. I've never felt so embarrassed in my life. I told him multiple times that I wasn't comfortable with him talking about me but he didn't want to listen to me. I was just recently getting confident about the way I look
and now I'm terrified of going to uni because I don't want to be bullied or made fun of.

oe_wa Report

Final score:

161points

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𝕀𝕣𝕖𝕟𝕖 1 year ago

ur wonderful the way u look, dont listen to that a*****e

15points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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#20

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Lesbian best friend that got kicked out of her religious parents house, and I let her stay with me. She f****d my then girlfriend.

HooterEnthusiast , Cassidy Dickens Report

Final score:

140points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

The amount of s**t like this on this list is disgusting.

86points

#21

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends A friend of 15 years, Let him stay with me (for 6 weeks) after being kicked out, agreed to bring him on my lease since I live in a two bedroom alone. Asked him for rent, left to take my dog out to the park.. came back to an empty apartment and my number blocked

Meowiewowieex , Brandon Griggs Report

Final score:

140points

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Brazen 1 year ago

How did the friend manage to clear out the apartment in the time it took him to take his dog to the park? I feel like my place would take a day or two. lol

71points

#22

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends My best friend had just broken up with my brother—who had moved over a thousand miles and changed jobs to be with her—citing personal differences. My brother was devastated, but I tried to respect her decision and be a source of support for both of them, especially because they truly weren’t the best fit. But then she shared with me, because she knew that I loved her and would be happy for her so long as she was happy, that she’d been cheating on my brother for the past month and had found her soulmate.

The depth of my brother’s heartbreak, already immense, was further compounded by the infidelity. To my bewilderment, she truly couldn’t understand why I was ending the friendship, seemed so distraught that I would end a years long relationship over something so “small”. And I still can’t comprehend why she thought telling me would result in anything other than a complete door slam.

Hannah, you still suck. And I’m still angry.

Edit: ETA that I had also asked her to be the maid of “honor” in my upcoming wedding. Ironic.

bitetime , Gadiel Lazcano Report

Final score:

136points

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Monday 1 year ago

This stuff always makes me mad. You can't control who you fall in love with, but you can control what you bloody do. Falling in love with someone else while you're in a relationship isn't your fault, but you damn well better end that relationship BEFORE you do anything with the second person.

91points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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#23

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends I had reached out to her when I was doing pretty poor mentally, and she proceeded to tell me that I couldn't [off] myself until I payed her back for helping me with some school fees. Then I was free to [off] myself if I wanted.

kilobytess , Alexander Grey Report

Final score:

136points

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Marco Richter 1 year ago

how nice of her...

43points

#24

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Probably not as bad as some of these answers, but my friend had this super thick callous on his heels. He was picking at it, and I watched him peel a big long strip off from the back of his heel, it looked like a trimming off of a horse's hoof. Then HE JUST F*****G ATE IT. Like it was a piece of jerky. I was aghast.

Neohexane , Lucas Sankey Report

Final score:

134points

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Satan 1 year ago

Mmmm... Forbidden crisps...

97points

#25

Headbutt his ex girlfriend outside the club. The sound was absolutely disgusting. He then beat up two of her friends quickly.

I grabbed him and restrained him in a doorway. Not even a big or tough guy but he completely lost it.

BruiserBrodyGOAT Report

Final score:

132points

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Dee 1 year ago

And he did it in front of people. Think what he did behind closed doors. 😩

5points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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#26

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Deliberately get knocked down by a car, in order to prove that when drunk (and we were very drunk), his bones were flexible. Fortunately, the car had been slowing to turn. There followed a couple of minutes trying to reassure the driver he was ok, whilst calling him an idiot. Meanwhile, he was laying flat on his back, maintaining he'd proved his point.

anothercynicaloldgit , Evgeny Tchebotarev Report

Final score:

127points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

Yeah, he's the idiot...

52points

#27

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends On a night out, friend was sick, and decided the best place was into his pint glass. After the deed was done, he proceeded to say "waste not want not", downed the pint sick, lumps and all. Still makes me queasy to think about it. Animal

reddit.com , Richard Bell Report

Final score:

120points

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Bonesko 1 year ago

Just... Dude, why?! 🤮

61points

#28

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends So, I had this roommate in college. He wasn’t the most popular among my friends, but he honestly wasn’t a bad guy at all. Maybe a little smug, but, honestly, that’s not at all unusual for people that age (I certainly wasn’t any better!), and he grew out of it later. ~~But he just kept getting pinkeye~~. And neither he nor I knew why. So anyway, we were hanging out in the dorm room with two of our friends from high school, when he (my roommate) stepped out to go to class. As soon as he was out the door, Friend 1 jumped up, dropped his pants and underwear, and f*****g crop dusted my roommate’s pillow. Apparently he’d been sneaking in and doing this regularly for *weeks*, but, this time, decided to let me and Friend 2 in on the secret, and, additionally, just sharted all over the pillow. Visible flecks of s**t all over it and the bed. Friend 2 and I did not think it was nearly as entertaining as Friend 1 did, and immediately informed my roommate. Apparently Friend 1 had also been pissing in people’s soda bottles. We, uh, we dropped him from the group pretty thoroughly after all that.

Edit: I’ve been told that’s not how pinkeye works, so maybe that’s just something me and my friends convinced ourselves happened during subsequent retellings.

Nerevarine91 , the blowup Report

Final score:

117points

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Ms. M. 1 year ago

Feces can be the cause of Pink Eye. There're so many different bacterias that are the cause for conjunctivitis and amongst them is e.coli. So it is probably "sh.t" from your "sh.tty friend" that gave your friend Pink Eye... (Why are some people SO disgusting...EW!)

106points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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#29

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Get with a woman, borrow a bunch on money off her, then dump her, claiming she's a weirdo.

Wish I'd only seen it once :(

ablativeyoyo , Alexander Mils Report

Final score:

109points

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Some Indonesian kid (he/him) 1 year ago

The last sentence makes me think the op should report him to the police or smth

52points

#30

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Had a female friend who “set me up with a friend of hers” we texted for a month or so with said friend, only to find out it was my friend or who I thought was my friend catfishing me. Why she did this was beyond me I didn’t think it was funny obviously but it f****d with my head a great deal and when me and my other friends called her out on it with more then enough evidence to prove she did it she still denied it. I couldn’t talk or wanted to talk to woman for about a year or so I was so f****d ip from it.

Mission-Wash2796 , Jonas Leupe Report

Final score:

102points

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LuckyL 1 year ago

empty as in "he's gone" oder as in "everything stolen"

12points

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#31

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends 1. they were arguing and he made fun of the friend for being an orphan
2. tried to Stab the other friend cuz his ex was crushing on him

Final score:

36points

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Loverboy 1 year ago

Hope he got in serious trouble from that. Attempted murder, sheesh

6points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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#32

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Catch and eat a live moth, mid-conversation. Like grab it out the air, throw it in his mouth and swallow.

TheThingsWeMake , Max Kleinen Report

Final score:

34points

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𝕀𝕣𝕖𝕟𝕖 1 year ago

poor moth😢

13points

#33

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Brag about a—then—boyfriend not leaving her despite constant cheating. Then cry when he left her. I don’t know either.

Snapesnape716 , Luke Porter Report

Final score:

28points

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Elchinero 1 year ago

???? Subject?

0points

#34

30 Of The Most Horrendous Things People Did That Made Them Lose Their Closest Friends Bite the head off of a fish he just caught

Casperkimber , Jakub Kapusnak Report

Final score:

25points

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Boris Long-Johnson 1 year ago

Weird though it is this is probably not that bad - if it was one bite it’s be pretty quick and painless death for the fish. Better than being left to asphyxiation in the bottom of a boat flopping about - always carry a priest when fishing.

16points

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Nay Wilson 1 year ago

I’m just going to leave this one comment down here because every single one of these stories feature truly awful people and I don’t have time to write out ‘why are some people such rotten bas***ds?’ 34 times

30points

Some Cool Guy 1 year ago

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Alyssa 1 year ago

I wish I hadn’t opened this BP article. 😢

11points

Marco Richter 1 year ago

I think it is a good thing that we all can agree those people are giant arseholes

10points

Ruth Harper 1 year ago

This list is just horrifying. Forget people. I just want to spend time with cats and dogs.

5points

TotallyNOTaFox 1 year ago (edited)

And I get constantly asked why I have no interest in meeting other people....

4points

Xenon 1 year ago

Well, that post was anger inducing, disgusting and depressing all at once. I can only hope that the kind and decent humans will always outnumber the truly horrible excuses for humans in the world.

3points

Melissa 1 year ago

I'm sure they exist. If they're anything like me, they're hiding from all the scumbags of the world by staying home.

0points

Michael Largey 1 year ago

A friend and I were in a pinball gallery. He was doing quite well and had earned seven free games. We had to leave suddenly. Instead of leaving those free games for someone else to enjoy, he went through and tilted them all. Not the complete end of the relationship, but a running head start at it.

3points

Sonja 1 year ago

I can't imagine that a person who rather destroys something that cost them nothing than let others have it can ever be a good friend. Good friendship is based on generosity from both sides. If someone is not naturally generous, I doubt they'll be truly friendly and generous to their friends. It's them much more likely they keep those people around just in case they need them sometimes.

1point

Nikki Sevven 1 year ago

I don't know why I read these articles. They're real life horror movies.

2points

Lana Lana Banana 1 year ago

To all the commenters on this page (at least so far): Where are all of you decent people here when I need you the most??

2points

Julia H 1 year ago

Right here. I'd love to be there for you ♥️

2points

Lana Lana Banana 1 year ago (edited)

@censorshipsucks: Genuinely appreciate your concern and your providing me resources, but no. My situation is not at all that bad. I am half Armenian - my profile pic is the Armenian flag. I live in the US, but the area I'm in is very right-wing...like QAnon status....and I am gay and moderately liberal. I'm not abused; I have a small, but loving family, and have been with my partner (who is Palestinian - Americans typically back Israel, and don't respond well to Arabs as a whole, so that comes with its own set of struggles) for about 7 years now. I could definitely use more friends where I live, as most of mine are in Seattle, Washington. Overall, I do have a lot to be grateful for.....but I do struggle w/ coexisting with the people that live around here. A good lot of them are gun-toting conspiracy theorist Trumpers...it has certainly been a challenge. Also: Based on your comments elsewhere on BP I see that you live in South Africa, but that you seem to have at least a basic understanding of how flawed our government can be, and how embarrassingly terrible our gun control is, so I expect you to understand on a deeper level where I'm coming from when I say that I'd love to be surrounded by genuinely decent people.

2points

censorshipsucks 1 year ago

Well this is internet, so people aren't "here" in person. For example, I am assuming you're from Romania, based on your flag. So I'm about 14000km away. You need to get a better social circle, and try socialise with, and meet, better people. Based on your comments, you are suffering from abuse and trauma. https://shewillsurvive.com/get-help-europe/romania/

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Amy Burke 1 year ago

Some psychos here for sure

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MinDHertz 1 year ago

It's so odd that a handful of these are people eating live creatures

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Jessica SpeLangm 1 year ago

This article is titled wrong. It should read...34 Incredibly Disturbing Things People Saw Their Friends Do, As Shared In This Viral Thread

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Powerful Katrinka 1 year ago

I read just the first one. I regret that.

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Julia H 1 year ago

I was 19. I needed a surgery and had been setting aside money for it. I had saved about $200. Back in 1984, it was a lot of money. Someone I'd known for years stole the money along with jewelry and a special keepsake from my dad. 5 years later we reconnect. She told her boyfriend that I was an easy lay. When he asked me to coffee, apparently he thought he was going to get some. Fortunately, we never met up and both were ghosted.

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Sarah E Cofer 1 year ago

The guy I was dating told me he had a fantasy about watching me get raped while he was tied up and I told him that was sadistic and sick and disturbing and something you should never say to any woman who has ever been raped before.....and 3 weeks later a guy slipped ghb into a tequila bottle and offered me a shot and then after I was unconscious he stripped me naked, removed my tampon and sexually assaulted me - how I dont even know because I was unconscious. People dont get that they can manifest things into reality by speaking them into life. And for a cheater, abuser & sexual predators to collaborate on my sexual assault is a type of gang stalking harassment/abuse thst no woman should ever be subjected to. And bigots, misogynists, narcissists, chauvinist pigs & rapists should never taste freedom again if they orchestrate nightmares like that. But Ill continue to know that nasty people will never knock me down a peg or two but they will draw attention to thenselves from

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Julia H 1 year ago

What a bastard. I'm sorry that happened to you. Hugs

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Wendy Me 1 year ago

My heaven these are some f***** up people!!

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Rens 1 year ago

Technically these aren't friends, I would never want to have friends like these: when my (now ex)-in-laws emigrated, before leaving their country they were unable to take their excess baggage. So instead of giving away their excess clothes to the beggars at the airport, they just destroyed everything, cutting it into tiny pieces so that nobody could benefit from what they were going to discard anyway. I stupidly invited these monstrous people to live in my home for 14 months and it felt like 14 years of torture. Luckily, when my husband and I got divorced, I was able to divorce them too.

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The Doom Song 1 year ago

My God some people suck.

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Raven 1 year ago

Found my 2yo in bed with my best friends SO - both with no clothes on. Asked WTF and he said they were just playing video games. A) He's 2 B) WHY with no clothes on. I called my best friend who brushed it off with a laugh. I soon found CD cases full of unsafe child photos, then his computer full of images. I called the cops. My friend was majorly POd yelling it could cost her her job... I don't give a flip. The cops said there was so much CP they didn't have the manpower to go through all of it looking for images of my children but they suggested taking both to counselling "just in case"... We are no longer friends.

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Dan St John 1 year ago

There are bad people in the world and also just idiots. Sometimes it is hard to tell them apart.

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Jared Robinson 1 year ago

a******s and morons in spades.

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Jeanine Baunsgard 1 year ago

In high school 35 years ago my bf asked me, while we were drinking for the first time, to do weed. Said no, sobered up and never looked back.

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Boatswain Bill 1 year ago

30 people need to carefully keep an eye on their glass houses...

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Nay Wilson 1 year ago

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Some Cool Guy 1 year ago

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Alyssa 1 year ago

I wish I hadn’t opened this BP article. 😢

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Marco Richter 1 year ago

I think it is a good thing that we all can agree those people are giant arseholes

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Ruth Harper 1 year ago

This list is just horrifying. Forget people. I just want to spend time with cats and dogs.

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TotallyNOTaFox 1 year ago (edited)

And I get constantly asked why I have no interest in meeting other people....

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Xenon 1 year ago

Well, that post was anger inducing, disgusting and depressing all at once. I can only hope that the kind and decent humans will always outnumber the truly horrible excuses for humans in the world.

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Melissa 1 year ago

I'm sure they exist. If they're anything like me, they're hiding from all the scumbags of the world by staying home.

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Michael Largey 1 year ago

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Sonja 1 year ago

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Nikki Sevven 1 year ago

I don't know why I read these articles. They're real life horror movies.

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Lana Lana Banana 1 year ago

To all the commenters on this page (at least so far): Where are all of you decent people here when I need you the most??

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Julia H 1 year ago

Right here. I'd love to be there for you ♥️

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Lana Lana Banana 1 year ago (edited)

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

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Amy Burke 1 year ago

Some psychos here for sure

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MinDHertz 1 year ago

It's so odd that a handful of these are people eating live creatures

2points

Jessica SpeLangm 1 year ago

This article is titled wrong. It should read...34 Incredibly Disturbing Things People Saw Their Friends Do, As Shared In This Viral Thread

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Powerful Katrinka 1 year ago

I read just the first one. I regret that.

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Julia H 1 year ago

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Sarah E Cofer 1 year ago

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Julia H 1 year ago

What a bastard. I'm sorry that happened to you. Hugs

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