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Society functions under the assumption that we’ve all accepted its rules. Money has value because we’ve been told that it does, and we abide by the law to avoid negative consequences. But that doesn’t mean we’re not allowed to question anything. In fact, the only way that progress ever occurs is through speaking up about the flaws in the system.

Reddit users have recently been discussing some of the societal standards they have a problem with, so we’ve gathered their thoughts down below. Enjoy reading through their responses, and be sure to upvote the things you don’t consider to be normal either.

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    #2

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) That we need to be tolerant of other cultures, religions, ideals, etc. always.

    No, there are some objectively terrible beliefs out there that only exist because people insist it’s their culture or any of the above mentioned.

    Slavery, child marriage, marriage rape, stoning homosexuals, hating a group of people because you’re supposed to, considering a sector of humanity lesser because they’re not the right color/ gender etc etc etc.

    Goopyteacher , James Lee Report

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    UndertaleLover (She/Her)
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "iT's jUSt mY opiNIoN!" No, it's not just an opinion...basic human rights aren't "opinions".

    arthbach
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will respect your opinions, and traditions, right up until the point they start impinging on the rights of others. Then, it doesn't matter what your opinion is, it doesn't count.

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    Orwell
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This goes along with agreeing to disagree, and making friends with everyone. No. If you're a racist, a misogynist, or support the election of someone who is, I can't respect your opinion, we can't be friends.

    Plenty Pineapples
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This includes not accepting rape, torture, burning, and abduction of inccoecnt civilians as "resistance" or freedom fighting. Even if it doesn't sit with your agenda.

    Ropre
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love when people ask my "Why do you hate trump supporters so much just because they have different political views?" Sorry but this has NOTHING to do with politics. You can't be a MAGA cult member without being racist, homophobic, misogynistic, xenophobic and so on. They can deny it all they like...you can't support trump without being all these things.

    Petra Schaap
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes you can. Im as left wing as they come and i HATE that orange turd of a clown. If you look just a bit further, you'll see that there are a lot of people who are NOT that (but still conservatives) but were totally desperate, poor, and hoped he would bring change. The months before he was elected, there were some nice stories and documentaries about this.

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    TotallyNOTAFox
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Quite the dilemma - We in Germany get told that we have to do more to make the country save for jews (due to our history), LGBQT groups and do more for equality between women and men. On the other hand we have to tolerate a culture that absolutely hates all of those groups and pointing it out gets people painted as Nazis.

    Bernd Herbert
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We in Germany luckily are not all like that and pity ourselves as the poor victims. I can’t stand that type of self-victimisation.

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    Michael Largey
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I have a right to an opinion!" "Yes, you have a right to an opinion. You also have a right to a bowel movement. But I don't want either of them in my ear, thank you."

    August
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m glad finally someone is saying this. Being a from a different culture doesn’t give you the right to abuse others.

    Mammie
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This really depends on where you are. Before the bashing begins let me make a point. If someone goes or moves somewhere that certain things are lawful and acceptable, they have to respect and abide by that that even if they don't agree with it. You can't go somewhere and make everyone play by your rules. If you don't like the culture stay in your own. If you join another culture, their culture becomes yours. Not the other way around.

    Amber The bear
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Christian, it hurts me to see people like this, it is so so so sad that people think that it’s okay. It’s painful to see something like that in a movie, tv show or something, it it’s just so depressing

    Freya the Wanderer
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tolerance within reason. You tolerate other belief systems and cultures, but only as long as they do not violate common sense laws, or advocate cruelty to animals, or encourage the maltreatment of women, non-binary people, etc.

    Virgil Blue
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Female genital mutilation. Heck also male genital mutilation. Stop cutting bits off kids privates, it's sickening and leads to unnecessary medical complications and spreading of diseases because the people who do it often don't bother to sterilise anything. And I don't care if its because of culture or religion or whatever.

    Mark Fuller
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I object to living in the UK, where there so often appears to be some sort of moral obligation to bend, flex and accommodate the lifestyles and cultures of others, over and above our own. I can say with absolute confidence that many other countries would simply demand we comply with their societal norms and values or face the unpalatable consequences. I believe in respect and equity, not diminishing our inherent Britishness in favour of others.

    PeepPeep the duck
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Coming from an ethnic and cultural background with the horrid s**t - all cultures and countries that deny or suppress women’s education are absolute shitholes for women/children and rights etc.

    DC
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... being excempt from laws set in place to spare animals that are to be eaten from, at least, the worst forms of torture. That, I never understood, especially since in germany, in 2001, the protection of animals was made a part of our constitution and, therefore, the state has an obligation to do that. But, no, an unfounded belief of humans that not only allows them to inflict suffering, but demands it from them, is not only considered a cultural achievement of some sort, but also weighed higher than sparing them from bleeding to death without any sort of narcotic or pain relief. Feelings above facts. In my book, there may be a right to believe anything and everything, but whenever innocent nonbelievers are the victim, this violence should be seen as just as unbearable as it truly is. Cutting a large blood vessel open in a conscious animal should send you to jail for years straight, right at the first offense of that sort ... torturing the helpless maybe faithfully executing the supposed will of some AH of a god, but no lamb ever has declared themselves a member of those cults revolving around supremacy, violence and disregard for reason and compassion.

    Becky Samuel
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are not "objectively terrible beliefs", all beliefs are subjective by definition. There is no such thing as a moral absolute. The current 'religion' of neoliberalism is just as restrictive and dangerous as any other religion. It is completely taboo to speak against it and severe penalties of social ostracism and horrible threats are used against people who refuse to comply.

    Jayjay
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always wondered how you can tolerate the intolerant.

    Be a better human
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about just be f*****g nice to people. Remember if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all...shut up about your personal views unless specifically asked. If I don't agree I say that's nice, it's not for me but good for you. ...

    Jason B
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your chosen pronouns are irrelevant. The world has real problems. Your gender dysphoria is not one of them. The entire subject is insane to even acknowledge.

    Michael None
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In philosophy they call this Cultural Relativism and it's a dangerous belief. It's the idea that we can't judge people in the past because the things they did were relative to the culture at the time.

    CatLady
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That can go too far easily, though. I constantly see non Muslims complaining about the hijab because it's a "symbol of oppression." After the NZ shooting, a lot of us wore hijabs in solidarity. I am friends with some Muslim ladies and I asked how they felt. They said it felt good to know people cared, so I wore it for the week of mourning and the vigils. And my atheist male friend went off on me several times that he felt it was inappropriate. Like his effing opinion was more important than the feelings of the women I was supporting. That being said, all the things listed in the post are abhorrent.

    Steve Dowell
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it annoying when people are told to respect one's cultural traditions, but then refuse to do the same themselves.

    Jan Owen
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My culture is just as important as those of immigrants. If I wanted to embrace another culture, I'd move there.

    pep Ito
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All this is originated by postmodernism and the critical theories that were born from it.

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    Shapleigh Howell
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be known. I think it says in the Bible that god told the Palestinians that they would always be hated.don’t remember the whole story,but you are welcome to do your own research.

    Russell Tilling
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes but what if a significant proportion of immigrants believe in that? Eg Hamas supporters in the UK?

    EJBWritesBooks
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can support not blowing people up to start with. The rest of the beliefs can come later

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    Boo-Urns
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religion is a scourge upon humanity. I do not, nor will I ever, respect it. It's literal lunacy.

    Donna Peluda
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No we should not, we need to stop teaching lies and making exceptions for people stupid beliefs. Stop making it disrespectful to question & criticize religion. We need to stop teaching lies, specially to innocent children. We need to stop indoctrinating people in legends and myths. All we need to do is de kind to other people. Be kind, not because of fear of being struck down by the wrath of your imaginary friend in the sky but because it the only way we can get on together.

    keyboardtek
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Difficult to get people to change those kinds of beliefs. That would cover almost half of Americans.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) tipping culture.
    You as a employer should pay your employee enough, balancing the cost of your service with his salary.

    dumyspeed , Dan Smedley Report

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Men can not be abused. Men can not feel emotion. Men are supposed to slap on some bootstraps or, however, it's called and take it "like a man." Its disgusting.

    AdrianValistar , Christian Erfurt Report

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    #5

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Healthcare being tied to employment. I don't want to be trapped to a job I hate just so I can get my prescriptions. I have enough savings and low cost of living so I could totally do a part time job but no.. 40 hours for insurance.

    TRIGMILLION , CDC Report

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    Dingooo
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The USA is never going to be great until we have Universal Health Care. Too bad the insurance companies own our politicians, especially Republicans.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) To expect to know things that are not taught to you growing up. Taxes, laws, basic medical care, even from what cleaning chemicals you can mix to how long food lasts in the fridge. Instead public education is geared towards making sure a students mindset is ready to be another cog in the economic machine.

    Dry-Illustrator76 , MChe Lee Report

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    ninjaTrashPandaBoom
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Education" today is too focused on passing standardized tests to secure funding for the school, rather than properly educating children and young adults about the world they are about to enter.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Honestly? For individuals to be their own community. That's why so many people are suffering. We're a social species, we're supposed to help each other, but instead we're all just struggling along because society says it's disgraceful to "be a burden upon others".

    Ridiculous. We need more empathy and less ego. More connection, less loneliness.

    Narcissista , Kylie Lugo Report

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    StrangeOne
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is nothing selfish about asking for help and needing to rely on others. Even the hermits and most solitary people benefit with a little interaction with people once in a while, no matter how much they show they hate it. People go absolutely mad when isolated. Doesn't matter how introverted you are.

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    #8

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) That it’s acceptable to let someone die if they don’t have the money to pay for care

    Right_Check_6353 , Dominik Lange Report

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    Lotekguy
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It should be allowable for people to choose death when they find it preferable to their medical options.

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    #9

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) that being a virgin anytime past like 16 is abnormal

    iwoulddieformydog1 , Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 Report

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    Angrykitten
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The concept of virginity and purity needs to stop. There is nothing wrong with not being a "virgin" as well as nothing wrong with being one. The whole concept is outdated

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    #10

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) As for society in America the expectation for the mother to return to work quickly and have her body "bounce back" ASAP.

    cookiesandchaos , Thought Catalog Report

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    3 Otters 🦦
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not giving men maternity leave with his new child so he he can bond and help care for it with the mother/other parent

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Lack of universal healthcare and also how stigmatized certain mental illnesses are, as if people choose to be sick 🙄

    Typical-Tomorrow-425 , Rex Pickar Report

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    Dingooo
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I reiterate, the USA will never be great until we have universal Healthcare.

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    #12

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) The quest for youthfulness. Growing older is a privilege and I don't understand the hate on wrinkles, grey hair etc. There used to be a saying "grow old gracefully" which implies accepting the changes and making the most out of it.

    moshennick , Philippe Leone Report

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    #13

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) The commodification of your hobbies. They're about how you spend your leisure time, not another revenue stream

    SlightlyFarcical , Vicky Hladynets Report

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    StrangeOne
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The pressure and scrutiny is real. Anytime I enjoy something and seem to do it well, a family member says I should sell it. Turn it into a business. Business is mainly about the administrative aspects, and you worry a lot more about finances and keeping up demand. But you have to get your start. Just because one or 2 people say they like your work and ask to make stuff for them, doesn't mean they actually want to pay you for it, nor does it mean many other people want your work. I think some people just say they want a piece of your work as a way to show they support your endeavours, but not in a genuine way.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Now with smartphones, assuming that people are available and obligated to respond to you. I sometimes wish we lived in the older times when you had to call someone’s home landline number and leave a message, then wait for them to respond back at their earliest convenience. Now it’s, “I texted you, you didn’t respond, are we still friends, are you mad at me”? Blah blah etc. like no, I simply just didn’t feel like responding. I’m a busy adult, and just because there’s a texting feature on my phone doesn’t mean I’m always willing to engage in conversation with you.

    pwa09 , Gilles Lambert Report

    #15

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) That athletes are paid so much than most people because they provide entertainment and branding.

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    #16

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Thai dowry system. In Thailand, a man is expected to give money to bride’s parents before he marry her. The amount can be a lot.

    This puts groom in financial pressure. He could use that money for future child education or taking care of his soon to be wife BUT he has to give them to her parents.

    This also treats bride like a commodity, a trade. It devalues women.

    Ok-Yard1630 , Karolina Grabowska Report

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    Oberyn Martell
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is called sin sod, often confused with a dowry. A dowry is the brides family giving the groom money, livestock etc.

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    #17

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Not going to the hospital because you have no health insurance and would rather die than bankrupt your entire family.

    wordsaladspecialist , Yassine Khalfalli Report

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    Belladonna.dreams
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And hope that you have a decent life insurance plan to make sure your family is okay after you die

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    #18

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) That a person's worth is tied to their job and economic activity rather than their character.

    Jumper_5455 , kevin laminto Report

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    StrangeOne
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are so many people of many different walks in life. People say you should work as a server to understand tipping culture, or work in retail to understand patience and empathy. But try working in a thrift store, or volunteer at a shelter or soup kitchen. You'll realize there's a whole aspect of life you didn't think was there, while meeting people you enjoy talking to but would likely move to another seat if they sat next to you on the bus.

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    #19

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Beauty standards (for men, women, etc)

    Human bodies should not be treated or seen as a trend imo

    LilacMages , Rosa Rafael Report

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    StrangeOne
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only time I see people caring about trends is in magazines and online. Sometimes in school. When I'm out and about, I see people with many different looks, wearing all sorts of clothes. No one cares anymore. Anything goes these days. I could wear Victorian era clothing on the bus. I may get some stares. Perhaps someone may strike up a conversation. But no one is going to shame me nor anyone else, because people are too busy on their phones to notice anything anymore.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Work full time, have a perfectly clean house, be fit because you exercise regularly and be the perfect mother and partner on top


    Edit to add: have a successful career 

    Awkward_Profession45 , CDC Report

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) That everyone should look like a social media filter.

    It feels like every app has filters on it now, some of them automatic, to smooth out your skin, even its color, make your eyes bigger, add makeup, make you look skinnier, make you whatever it is you aren't enough of already to be perfect. And I think it's making us expect people to be essentially CGI versions of people instead of actual people.

    sleepyhollow_101 , Ryoji Iwata Report

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    StrangeOne
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't use filters, and if I do it's for fun. Since I can't wear makeup much I like seeing what would like good on me. So far, I'm good with my natural looks. But not a lot of people are okay with that, so even on my personal FB account I keep my profile not of me. Jackasses sure like to assume I'm a huge, obese person because of my round, plump face I inherited from my dad. Or criticize my hair. Or just feel the need to randomly say I'm so ugly. I know they're just trolls, jerks and trying to get a rise out of me. Nonetheless, when it's all the time, every time you comment on anything, it gets exhausting and starts affecting you. I believe this is why a lot of people refuse to show their faces.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) 40 hour work week

    Northernlake , Campaign Creators Report

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    TheBlueBitterfly
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But once again this leaves out anyone who does shift work - the medical industry, service jobs, retail, food, etc. Not everyone works happy little office jobs on salary.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Women have to be strong, but not too much, have to have a job and intellectual background, but have to be ready to do the home chores on their own if their partner's job is more "important" than theirs. They have to care about their appearance, but not too much, or they will be considered as attention seekers. They have to be able to smile and talk in public, but not too much. Basically, if you are attractive, people will tend to think you are "only" attractive and not so smart, and even that you got the job because you are pretty, but if you are considered less attractive, you may be categorized as someone whose intelligence and sensibility are not enough...
    Double standards between men and women is a real thing

    AikaNemo , LinkedIn Sales Solutions Report

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    #24

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) That it's far more important to kill people than to educate them ie, Military spending v Education spending. Why we don't want everyone to be as smart as they can be is a crime against humanity

    TittyTwistahh , Kenny Eliason Report

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    PattyK
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The two most important services a government provides are education and health care, and they’re always the first to have their funding cut when it’s budget time.

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    How brutally sexist family court is against men. It doesn't matter what the mother did, she is almost always going to get the kids, the house, and turn the father into an at will atm. One of my Marine buddie's wife cheated on him while we were deployed. She got pregnant and my friend is on the hook for the kid, even though DNA proved it wasn't his. He was seen as a source of income for a piece of s**t mom by the court. For 18 years this dude has to pay for a kid that isn't even his. Family court is the most distilled form of our societies beliefs about men.

    Mick0331 Report

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    Headless Horseman
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The courts decision has no common sense anywhere in it. Edit: people i talking about THIS specific court 🤷🏽‍♀️

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    #26

    The idea that body hair isn’t ok on women.

    Typical-Tomorrow-425 Report

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    censorshipsucks
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate bodyhair on myself as a man, so... it depends on individuals. I think men with bodyhair look like a donut that fell on a barbershop floor. It grosses me out. Especially bears.

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    That you need a over priced college education to succeed

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    Earl Grey
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s pretty well recognized by now that higher ed is not the Golden Ticket that it was a quarter century ago.

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    #28

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) The work 9 to 5 for almost all your life.
    It's like you have been born to work, pay taxes and consume.

    Pandours , Simon Abrams Report

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    Midwest Mike
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would love the idea of ONLY 9am to 5pm FIVE Days a week. Instead of in an ever growing majority of jobs 24-7 365. Both are terrible. People are not machines. Billionaires are not normal. 1 Billion Seconds is 31 Years. There needs to be Govt Control in the United States FOR THE WORKERS. THE PEOPLE THAT PRODUCE ACTUAL HOLD ABLE ITEMS AND GOOD!!! CEOS DO NOTHING!!! EAT THE RICH!!!

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    That corporate profits _need_ to be in the pockets of few, to _safe_ the economy, but losses and crashing corporations are okay to be socialized on the shoulders of the tax payers...also to safe the economy

    yeti-biscuit Report

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    StrangeOne
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Corporate welfare is maddening, but society seems to not complain about how much of their tax money goes to those saving graces for rich companies, like they do with people on social assistance. https://www.fraserinstitute.org/article/governments-in-canada-spent-more-than-350-billion-on-corporate-welfare --- https://www.hoover.org/research/welfare-well-how-business-subsidies-fleece-taxpayers

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    #30

    It is okay to conscript men to go die in wars.

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    #31

    That student loans are ok. They are everything but ok.

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    Geoffrey Scott
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am less concerned by the loans than I am with the usurious interest charged. My kid pays 12.5% on hers. Stupid old Dad said," you do not need the extra $5K each semester (extra $15k+/yr) but, nooooo.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) The expectation of being constantly employed. If you're not producing something then you're worthless.

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    #33

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) That we are expected to move out of our parents' home the day we turn 18. With the current COL and entry-level wages, this just isn't possible for most people.

    EDIT: I'm referring to the US in this example.

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    #34

    That it is okay to be overweight/obese.

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    StrangeOne
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get what the movement was for, but then it became this entity of encouraging unhealthy weight and succumbing to the weight problem. However, I don't think bullying, shaming, body snarking those who are obese or anorexic is doing anyone any good. Just let people exist, deal with their issues in peace and mind your business.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Being a divorced woman over 35 means I hold absolutely no value and am essentially doomed to die alone.

    It doesn't matter I was a loving, devoted wife for 14 years or that he tried to kill me over his drinking and that's why we're divorced. I'm just old and used up...

    I couldn't possibly use my education, career and everything I've secured with those to treat the man who shows me kindness and makes me feel safe like a king...

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    Doug
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't have been divorced long if 35 and married for 14 years. And the "he tried to kill me..." Not to mention nowadays being over 35 and divorced seems kind of normal... about as normal as being remarried. This one's a "woe is me" sorry more than anything normalized I think.

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) I find icks really stupid and majority of "icks" are everyday things and are completely normal. I've seen videos of icks and it includes people wearing backpacks, people still have a childhood teddy bear, crying or being in love with something. I just think that the standard of icks are stupid

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    #37

    the standard to man having to be a "real man".

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    axle f
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...perhaps the definition of what really makes a man a decent adult male needs to be a little more widely broadcast in a more culturally pervasive way?

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    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) Oh, just a **tiny, unassuming question** to start the day! Well, alright. While the idea of "most" can be a bit subjective because, you know, one person's "f*cked up" can be another's "**Tuesday**," here are a few contenders in the grand pageant of societal standards that might just take the cake:

    1. **The Pursuit of Perfection**: Society has this *adorable* little habit of promoting impossible standards of beauty, success, and overall lifestyle. This might not raise any eyebrows until you consider the small, **inconsequential side effect** of causing widespread insecurity, anxiety, and a booming business for therapists and social media influencers. Who doesn't love a standard that creates a perpetual feeling of inadequacy?
    2. **The Stigmatization of Mental Health**: Nothing says "progressive society" like still treating mental health issues as a **taboo** or a sign of weakness. It's almost impressive how persistent this standard is, considering the leaps and bounds made in understanding the human brain. It's like society collectively decided that mental health can be swept under the rug with last century's dust.
    3. **Work-Life Imbalance**: Ah, the glorification of overworking. Society loves to peddle the narrative that working yourself to the **bone** is the only path to success and fulfillment. Because who needs hobbies, relaxation, or, dare I say, **sleep**, when you can have the joy of chronic stress and burnout?
    4. **The "Us vs. Them" Mentality**: Society has a knack for creating divisions among people: race, religion, nationality, sexual orientation, **pineapple on pizza**... you name it. It's as if humanity decided that life wasn't challenging enough and opted to add a level of difficulty by fostering unnecessary hatred and prejudice.
    5. **Financial Status as a Measure of Worth**: Nothing quite says "f*cked up" like equating a person's value with their bank account. This standard is great because it completely overlooks minor details like **character**, **integrity**, **kindness**, and whether or not someone is a good pet parent.

    Of course, there are many more, but then this would turn into a **novel** instead of a light, sarcastic banter. Remember, the beauty of society is that it's made up of individuals, and individuals have the power to challenge and change these standards. Or, at the very least, make snarky comments about them.

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    #39

    People Explain What Things We Need To Stop Normalizing Immediately (40 Posts) In the US, circumcision. 

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FWIW, I'm circumcised and I'm glad for it. I'm also a guy who shaves down there so I'm not normal I guess.

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    Western society at any rate, sets the decadence of eating well, eating good, eat often, eat in fancy places, eat ti show off, eat to indulge with fancy restaurants, eateries and expensive tastes....but then betrays people by saying gluttony is wrong, weight gain is wrong (it often isn't good), image is everything and we should look perfect and be in the gym looking like Instagram models...

    Sexualising teens. Advertising and normalising the overt sexualisation of kids barely past puberty as if they're fully responsible adults. Neurology has found the brain doesn't mature fully until around 25+ years old. But society scores teenage pregnancy, tells them they don't understand life's complexities and is now saying that if a boy approaches a girl he likes to flirt, it's tantamount to sexual assault...

    Basically, modern Western society is the congestive dissonance on a full blown scale...we don't want people to suffer, but we dgaf about homeless, drug addicts or those suffering. We want to appear virtuous and noble, but we're rotten and corrupt to the core...life is one big venetian masked ball of everyone pretending to be something they're not and social media, for good or bad, has amplified that to the nth degree because we can all live make-believe in public and then surrender to our deepest and most lustful desires behind closed doors

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    StrangeOne
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone else think the Garage clothing store ads are ... uncomfortably suggestive? Me and my daughter see it all the time in the malls.

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